This star is a bit cold

Jiang Cheng was once a fear of marriage, which is actually not uncommon in this era.

After all, in the Internet age, people can learn all kinds of information, and since some people like children, it is inevitable that some people will hate children. No matter which side it is, they can come up with a lot of messy reasons.

Maybe either side has a point, but people still love to argue because, despite the fact that people are diverse—and that's an obvious fact—people still love to teach their own experience and then deny the experience of others.

Everyone thinks that what they see is the real world, but in fact, what we see is the same world.

The world is a beautiful but annoying kaleidoscope, no matter who looks at it, they can see some different colors, but the problem is that you have to see, not with big eyes and big hands made of other people's opinions Cover your beautiful eyes tightly, and then the only thing you can see is darkness.

This is the truth that Jiang Cheng only understood later.

As a person whose original family is not very happy, Jiang Cheng certainly has reasons to reject marriage. With the continuous development of the times, the pressure on ordinary people like him is also increasing. time and energy.
All of these are like mountains lying on the road of Jiang Cheng's life, which makes him completely lack the confidence and courage to walk on this road, or in other words, he doesn't want to go on it either.

Is there anything wrong with living alone?

And the current pension system is so safe, even if you are old, you don't have to worry about being displaced by someone else, so why waste your life on others?
It’s a bit funny to say, for quite a long time, when Jiang Cheng started to be urged to marry, the relevant software in his mobile phone would push him something like “Ten Disadvantages of Marriage” and “Marriage Bondage” as soon as he opened it. "The more you watch videos like "The Heavy Pressure You Shouldn't Be Bearing", the more you become afraid, and the more you become afraid, the more you watch.

Humans are, in some ways, the strangest creatures.

In addition, Jiang Cheng's family background is not very good, and his studies and even his career are not going very well. How can a mediocre ordinary person like him bear the heavy pressure of marriage and the responsibilities that come with it?

And what's the point of bringing a child into this world if he can't have at least a decent future?

These were originally Jiang Cheng's concerns, but it was just a very ordinary encounter, and everything changed.

Many things seem to be like this. When it happens, you think it is insignificant, but in fact, the god of fate has packed his gift in a very ordinary small box. It may not be surprising when you open it for the first time. As the years get older and I start to recall, this kind of belated surprise becomes more and more intense.

Today is the second day of the rare long vacation. Jiang Cheng, who had a good rest yesterday, officially started his career as a baby daddy today.

In fact, raising a child is really as troublesome as what Jiang Cheng has seen before, especially in the first two years after birth, the test for parents is no less than a tsunami. Every day, don't expect to sleep peacefully at night, waking up repeatedly is the norm.

Fortunately, relying on their own efforts and the help of the elders in the family, the young couple passed this period safely. Now, the child is five years old. Although he still needs to watch a little bit, he has the ability to take care of himself in most things , so this baby daddy Jiang Cheng is quite easy now.

As for her daughter-in-law, she went out with a few younger sisters who had made an appointment early in the morning. According to their plan, there is a high probability that they will travel for three days, so Jiang Cheng will be responsible for these three days. Dad's duties.

Of course Jiang Cheng was extremely happy about this.

Within an appropriate range, both husband and wife must have their own lives. This is the truth that Jiang Cheng only realized after getting married.

After all, no matter how close they are, they may not be able to stay together all day long, and everyone has their own interests. If family and responsibilities are used to suppress this interest, problems will inevitably arise sooner or later.

But it’s different if two people have their own certain life. It won’t make you worry too much about what the other person is doing outside, and it can also leave you a little time for you to do something you like, such as playing games. , Another example is reading novels and the like.

A good marriage is wings, not shackles.

Putting aside these gossips, although it is a long vacation, Jiang Cheng just wants to have a good rest at home, and doesn't want to squeeze back and forth in the crowds. A quiet environment is his best place to rest, but his wife can't sit still. , Already planned where to go shopping.

Make an appointment with the little sisters and give the child to Jiang Cheng to take care of. It must be a happy journey.

And Jiang Cheng's childhood is not bad, the child is quite well-behaved, does not disturb others, looks at him, tells him not to do some dangerous things, and occasionally plays with him for a while, even if most of the day has passed.

After dinner earlier, Jiang Cheng hugged his girl and prepared to go out to get some fresh air. By the way, he bought a book or two of fairy tales. The ones we had at home have basically been finished. It's time to change them for the children. Some new stories up.

Telling children a bedtime story, Jiang Cheng actually likes this part, although many parents now give their children a mobile phone or tablet to let them play by themselves, and go to bed when it is almost time, but Jiang Cheng It can be said that this kind of education method is definitely problematic.

After all, you can't expect your children to come into contact with excellent works by themselves and cultivate their own aesthetic taste and personal cultivation, right?

To put it bluntly, it is a bit lazy, and the consequence of doing so is often to make children addicted to games or other things. In the end, they will be given the name of Internet addiction and then one size fits all. Thinking about it carefully, this approach is quite adult.

Not long after leaving with his girl in his arms, Jiang Cheng came to a bookstore near his home. Jiang Cheng had already thought about what book to buy. Of course, it was the latest work of Qiu Lao, a master in the field of children's literature.

Qiu Lao’s fairy tales have been with his daughter for a long time, and Jiang Cheng also found the content very interesting when he read it. It may be a bit childish for adults, but it is lively and beneficial to children. Build a rich imagination.

This kind of work is perfect for children's enlightenment reading.

Of course, at the same time that Mr. Qiu was about to release a new work, Jiang Cheng also heard that a young writer who had become very famous recently seemed to be about to release a fairy tale.

Jiang Cheng didn't know much about this young man's works, and he had no interest in reading them.

Artists, many fans, and many people are raving about it. The combination of these factors makes Jiang Cheng not really want to read it.

From the perspective of an old-fashioned high school teacher like him, it is more important to encourage students to read some classics, rather than being dazzled by some contemporary works that may be popular because of marketing.

In Jiang Cheng's eyes, this young writer who was recently fired was almost the type who was fired.

After all, how can a good author not go through a lot of hard work?
This young writer seems to be publishing books pretty fast.
In fact, it is normal to say that it is not easy for any writer to build his own literary edifice overnight, and readers' acceptance of it is also a process that needs to be built slowly. For some young readers, Ye Che's name may It is already relatively familiar, but for older people, Ye Che's name may not be able to reach their ears.

Of course, Jiang Cheng is not a very good reader either. Since having a child, Jiang Cheng has been busy with various things every day, and only occasionally can he calm down to read. Nervous adults don't have much time to waste on not-so-good work.

Facts have proved that there are not a few people who have the same idea as Jiang Cheng.

It may be because there are two well-known writers releasing new books today, the bookstore has a lot more people than usual, and most of the people who come here to buy children's literature are mostly for their own children, so Jiang Cheng noticed that , Most middle-aged men and women basically buy old books when they buy books, and few people will pick up the works of that young writer.

It was those young people who should have passed the age of reading fairy tales long ago who actually picked up the fairy tales written by that young writer. Jiang Cheng couldn't help shaking his head at such a strange scene.

For a good fairy tale, the audience is of course children, so what if a bunch of young people buy it?

Follow the trend?
Jiang Cheng just thought about it for a while, and when he came back to his senses, all of Qiu Lao's works had already been snatched up by a group of parents. After asking the clerk and knowing that there was no stock, Jiang Cheng was helpless and wanted to see if there were any other works. At that time, his little daughter had already walked towards him with a book.

"Dad, I want this!" The little girl, who seemed to be worried that he would not be able to see it, could tell that she was well taken care of, raised the book in her hand high, and then opened the book with a slightly milky voice. The voice said: "The cover is very cute!"

"Let me take a look." Smiling, Jiang Cheng took it over, and Jiang Cheng found that this book was the new work of the young writer whom he had just complained about just now. Apart from anything else, the cover design was quite exquisite.

The lonely little boy is outlined in soft tones. When looking up at the starry sky, the plane flies across the sky, and the planet is revolving in the sky brilliantly. And an ordinary-looking rose seems to be looking at the lonely little boy far away. On the petals painted in ordinary colors, there seems to be a faint taste of sadness.

Splendor and sadness coexist, but a cute orange fox not far from the lonely little boy adds a touch of warmth to the scene.

Jiang Cheng has to admit that although he doesn't know the content yet, he has indeed been conquered by the cover of this book. The illustrator who can design such a cover must be a genius, right?

Jiang Cheng couldn't help thinking this way.

In fact, although he didn't write it himself, the design of the cover was indeed proposed by Ye Che himself, and the final effect did meet Ye Che's requirements very well.

By the way, many of the illustrations in this book were drawn by Ye Che himself. Although he is not very good at drawing, the illustrations in this book may not require very advanced skills. Sincerity and a pure heart like a child.

Seeing that his child liked it, Jiang Cheng didn't think too much about it, and went to check out with this book and another well-known fairy tale.

There were too many people, and Jiang Cheng didn't have much time to take a closer look. After roughly confirming that there was no bad orientation, he bought it directly.

After returning home, Jiang Cheng temporarily put these books aside, but concentrated on playing with his daughter.

He and his wife are very ordinary people, not to mention rich and powerful, but at least they have enough food and clothing. Maybe they really can't let their daughter live a good life, but there is only one thing, the two of them Still reached a consensus.

Let your children grow up in love.

The word love is so rich, it contains a warm and soft side, but at the same time it can also be severe criticism and punishment.

A simple word, but it contains many complex emotions of human beings.

Being parents for the first time, Jiang Cheng and his wife are still learning this word seriously.

After playing for a while, it soon came to the storytelling session that his daughter was always looking forward to. After his daughter got into the small bed and lay down obediently, Jiang Cheng smiled slightly, hesitated and picked up the young writer's new book work.

"The Little Prince." After reading the title of the book with his daughter, Jiang Cheng began to tell the story in a reciting tone after looking for emotions.

"When I was six years old, in a book called "True Stories" about the virgin forest, I saw a wonderful illustration of a boa constrictor devouring a beast. I still draw it on top"

The general idea above is to talk about "my" experience, and write that when I was young, I aspired to become a great painter, but when I showed my works to adults, none of them could see that what I painted was What, instead persuade me to focus more on geography, history, arithmetic and grammar.

Accompanied by this text, accompanied by a few very childish illustrations, Jiang Cheng laughed a little while handing it to his daughter.

If you paint like this, wouldn't you starve to death as a painter?
When Jiang Cheng was smiling, what happened next made his face freeze slightly.

"I've had a lot of company with serious people in my life. I've lived a long time among grown-ups. I've watched them carefully. The impression isn't much better.

If I meet a person who seems to be a little clearer, I will take out the work No. 1 that I have been keeping and let him try it.

I wonder if he can really understand it.

But people always answer me: "This is a hat." At this time, I don't say anything about pythons, primeval forests, and stars.I'll just say things he can understand.I talk to him about work, football, politics, and clothes.So the grown-ups felt very happy to have met such a reasonable person.

I lived alone, with no one I could really talk to, until six years ago, when my plane crashed and landed in the Sahara desert. "

"Father, why don't adults like his works?" When Jiang Cheng was in a daze, his daughter asked a little puzzled: "I think this painting is very cute! It's also very vivid, why do adults seem to admit mistakes, and Don't like these paintings yet?"

"Adults pay attention to different things." Jiang Cheng, who thought for a while, reluctantly gave an answer.

"Isn't 'I' an adult?"

"It's not easy to say." Jiang Cheng, who has never used his brains on children's literature, talked for a while before his daughter nodded half-understood, wiped off her cold sweat quietly, and was about to read on. Jiang Cheng felt that he might not be so casual anymore.

Otherwise, what should I do if my daughter asks a question and I really can't answer it.
The following content seems to gradually become more lively and interesting, the sheep in the box, the mysterious little prince, a planet the size of a house, and the little prince lives there, but when Jiang Cheng began to slowly relax his vigilance At that moment, such a piece of content appeared in front of his eyes.

The general idea is that the first person to discover this planet was a Turkish astronomer, but because he was wearing Turkish clothes, no one believed his words.

But, "Fortunately, there was a Turkish dictator who ordered that all the people in the country should wear European clothes, and those who disobeyed the order would be put to death. This way, the reputation of the asteroid B612 was finally preserved. The astronomer re-reported in 1920, wearing a A very decent suit. Everyone agrees with him this time."

Just when Jiang Cheng fell into small thoughts again, his girl asked again:
"Dad, why does no one believe him when he wears Turkish clothes, but everyone agrees with him when he changes into a suit?"

Based on Jiang Cheng's understanding of foreign history, this paragraph should be saying that the West has dominated the discourse in their continent for a while, which leads to the fact that only those who agree with them are those who wear their "clothes" to get their approval.

Narrow nationalism?
And did this phenomenon really only exist in the West during that period?

Finally, is this really for kids?

Does this young writer have a little misunderstanding of fairy tales?
But I have to say that his style of writing seems to be full of childlike innocence and purity.

Regarding the information revealed in this text, Jiang Cheng felt that even if he explained it, the children might not be able to understand it, so after a little bit of confusion, Jiang Cheng continued to talk about it first, and the wonderful things revealed in the following story His own imagination, but his own girl likes it, Jiang Cheng found that he himself seems to be slowly immersed in this kind of gentle style of writing.

But in this tenderness, there seemed to be a hint of sadness.

"And on your little planet, you just move your chair a few steps" One day, I saw 43 sunsets! "

"You know . . . when a man is very sad, he likes to watch the sunset . . . "

"So, the day you watched it 43 times, you felt very sad?"

But the little prince made no answer. "

And slowly, more stories about the little prince gradually surfaced. The first thing that appeared was the flower that made the little prince both happy and painful.

The flower was so beautiful that the little prince gradually fell in love with her, but she seemed a little difficult to get along with.

But in the end, the little prince still spoke his mind to 'me'.

"He also said to me: 'I didn't understand anything at the time!When looking at her, you should look at what she does, not what she says.

She gave me fragrance and brilliance.

I shouldn't have run away!I should have guessed the tenderness behind her little trick.Flowers are always so duplicity!It's a pity that I was too young at the time to know how to love her. "

But this time, regarding his daughter's question again, "Why does Hua like to talk nonsense?", Jiang Cheng answered it much more easily.

Maybe only those who have really had a good relationship will understand this paragraph?

And through the shadow of this flower, Jiang Cheng seemed to see the shadow of his wife, and his heart softened all of a sudden.

When he saw that the little prince finally left his flower, and his flower was still showing off, Jiang Cheng's heart seemed to be shining with silent tears just like that flower.

Afterwards, the little prince started his travels on various planets, and Jiang Cheng seemed to find their counterparts in the real world for the people he met on each planet.

And like the little prince, what Jiang Cheng cared about most was the proud flower.

During the long journey, the little prince could never forget his flower, but when he came to a planet and saw thousands of flowers that were exactly the same as his, the little prince couldn't help crying .

His flower is just an ordinary flower, just like thousands of other flowers, he is just an ordinary little prince, with only one ordinary flower, nothing special.

Seeing this, Jiang Cheng was unexpectedly a little angry for some reason, and then the appearance of the orange fox helped the little prince understand some things, and made the little prince say something that Jiang Cheng didn't know how to say.

"You're all beautiful, but you're ostentatious. Because no one will die for you.

Of course, ordinary passers-by, when they see my rose, will think that she is as ordinary as you.

But that rose is mine.Her one rose is more important to me than your hundreds of thousands of roses.

Because I used to water her, used glass covers and screens to shield her from the wind and rain, and eradicated caterpillars for her; Be with her all the time - just because she is my rose. "

Each of us is actually so ordinary, we are ordinary little princes, and what we love is just an ordinary rose among thousands of roses, but why are we special?

But how can the ordinary rose we love be so unique?
When we are loved, when we are in love.

At the end of the reading, the ending may be called a bit sad, but Jiang Cheng has already smiled and looked at his ordinary daughter.

This child, like their two parents, looks ordinary, and most likely will be ordinary in the future.

But what does it matter?

"Sleep, my little rose."

"Okay! But why am I a little rose? What is mother? An old rose?"

"Shh! Don't let your mother know about this!"

"Oh"

A chapter of six thousand words.

"The Little Prince", I really like this work. In the past two days, because I have to write this, I read it twice again. Every time I read it, my heart seems to soften.

The content of this book itself has been streamlined as much as possible, and only the most important parts and outlines are mentioned. It is highly recommended to take a look.

This chapter may not be enough for web articles, but it must be mixed with some cool things that web articles should have. This chapter only mentions it, and the next chapter will be more clear.

Going back to the book of The Little Prince, perhaps people will inevitably get closer to reality, and their thinking will become more and more realistic, but fairy tales may still exist in a corner of our hearts, together with those touching emotions.

In short, I still recommend this book. I thought it was nothing to read before, and I really want to cry when I want to read it again (cover my face)
In addition, on the first day after May Day, let’s start a new life (paralyzed)