The noble lady who wears books has to fight monsters and upgrade

The head nurse's daughter found a job collecting money in a small and medium-sized hospital in the urban area.

Although the salary is not high and there is no "gray income" in this job, it only needs to commute to and from get off work on time, and there is no night shift and no effort. Therefore, it is still very suitable for young girls who have just entered the society.

However, when the head nurse's daughter settles accounts and collects money, she often cannot distinguish between "public and private".

For example, sometimes when some people come, because they don’t bring change, and out of good intentions, she finds change from her pocket to pay the other party, and then takes her own part out of the public funds later.

But over time, tossing alone again and again is very troublesome.She accumulated a certain amount, and then got back the change fees she paid to patients or family members from public funds.

But in this way, after a long time, it is inevitable that there will be situations of taking more or less.

At this time, her habit was seen by the people around her.

Some people around her are jealous of her good background: she grew up in the city, her parents both have jobs and have medical insurance.

Some people are jealous of her good family conditions: the only child, she found such a leisurely job after graduating from high school.

Some people were jealous of her good looks. At this time, the head nurse's daughter had grown into a slim girl with outstanding figure and appearance.

Either out of jealousy, or to claim credit, or to make room for others, someone reported her behavior of not distinguishing between public and private to the leader.

It just so happened that the leader came to check the accounts, and the head nurse's daughter couldn't reconcile the accounts of several hundred dollars.

Ordinarily, if the several hundred dollars were discovered early, it would not be a big deal to make up for them quietly.

But because her parents don't know anything about the rules of the property system, no one warned her or gave her advice after she joined the job.

Parents also did not instill in her a rigorous and meticulous concept of money, especially when it comes to work involving money, she does not have much risk awareness.

The head nurse's daughter has always been careless, thinking that if there is a difference of a few hundred yuan or a few thousand yuan, it will be made up. It is nothing to find out, and it is not a matter of tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands.

She didn't know that the financial system was very strict and no mistakes were allowed.

She didn't know that her behavior would mean "no distinction between public and private" in a big way.

Even that she "embezzled public funds" was irrefutable.

She didn't even know that people's hearts are sinister, there is nothing wrong with it, and she still has to pick a bone, not to mention such an obvious and low-level loophole!

The head nurse's daughter was expelled from the unit because of this.

After the first beating by the society, the head nurse's daughter was beaten many times:
"Friends" borrow money and don't pay it back;

Relatives far or near tricked her into spending a lot of money to buy a lot of products that may never be used;

Trick her into investing, trick her into buying shares...

The end of all these is that the money in the hands disappears like a wind and a cloud without a trace.

Then, those who cheated her money laughed at her for being "uneducated"!
Laugh at her for not understanding economics, having no "brains" and not knowing how to "finance money"!
Laugh at her for having no "vision", no "pattern", and no "mind"!
The head nurse's daughter hates the primary and secondary school teachers deeply at this moment. It is their blow to her. Their cynicism makes her always worried. She starts to fear going to school and seeing the teachers at school, and finally loses interest in learning!I also lost the opportunity to learn, lost the opportunity to improve myself with knowledge, and change my destiny!
And her classmate told her at this moment that why the teacher treats you badly is because you didn't give the teacher a gift, and there are no "powerful" people such as the principal, district head, mayor, etc. to stand up for you.

Only then did the head nurse's daughter realize that the teacher was kind to other students not because of how good the students were, but because of gifts from the family, or because someone in the family was a high-ranking official.

The head nurse's daughter went home in grief and indignation and asked the head nurse,

"Why do other mothers give gifts to teachers, but you don't give gifts to teachers?"

The head nurse felt very wronged and told her tearfully,

"I also gave you a gift, don't you think there are so many days, you come back and say that the teacher has been very good to you for a while, that's because of the gift from my mother!"

Hearing this, the head nurse's daughter was very shocked, she said in disbelief,
"But Mom, you didn't tell me that you went to give the teacher a gift! You kept saying that the teacher treated me badly because I didn't do well enough, because I didn't study well, but there are many children who are not good at study in our class. , the teachers didn’t treat them like they did to me. Sometimes the teacher’s attitude is good, and you say that the teacher changed because of my good performance during this period. If you told me at that time that it was because of the gift, I would not There will be so much pressure, I will not try so hard to please the teacher, I will watch the teacher every day, and I will try my best to do things I don't like!"

The head nurse was also full of grievances and became even more angry.
"I don't want you to know that I went to give gifts because I don't want you to see the dark side of this world. I hope you will always be sunny and happy forever! I gave a gift to the teacher. The teacher treats you well and doesn't bully you Now, what pressure do you still have? Why don’t you study hard while the teacher’s attitude improves? I know that, you are not good at studying! Don’t make excuses for yourself not studying hard!”

The head nurse's daughter smiled sadly,
"Mom, I am the person involved, and my experience is the most direct and profound! I feel that the teacher's attitude change is short-lived and not lasting! It always gives me a feeling of being unable to grasp it! This time you gave a gift, just in time When I was a student on duty, I thought I did a good job on duty. The teacher liked it, so I worked hard to do my duty. I did my work and other people’s work. However, after a few days, the teacher wanted to do it again. Thank you, no matter how hard I work on duty, he is not satisfied with me, and I don’t know why! I live in fear every day! Especially the teacher sometimes doesn’t know if it’s intentional to make things difficult for me, or to distract me on purpose. When you ask me questions, I don’t know anything, so I hate learning even more, and I’m afraid of learning! Do you know how powerful your classmates are? The teacher’s attitude is good, and everyone smiles at you. When the teacher’s face changes, all the classmates ignore you How do you let a child face? How do you adapt? How do you accept? How do you let me be sunny? How happy? "

The head nurse cried and wiped away her tears, and asked Ji Jun with tears in her eyes,

"You are a graduate student, you have read a lot of books, and your parents are also senior intellectuals with knowledge and culture. You must understand a lot of truths. Can you tell me where I went wrong? Did I do it wrong?"

The head nurse asked again,
"Tell me, why is your life so good that you were able to meet teachers who treated you well since you were young, so that you didn't get tired of studying, so you were admitted to graduate school step by step?"

Ji Yun felt very speechless, the teacher she met was only weirder than this one, no less weird than this one.She also met a lot of snobby classmates.

Just as Ji Jun wanted to explain the matter to the head nurse, an older nurse beside him quietly shook his head at her, and Ji Jun stopped talking.

At this time, an old retired director of the department said mercilessly to the head nurse,

"You can't blame the child for this matter, you should blame yourself more! You have been protecting her like a bird in a cage. Then suddenly you lost this ability, no, you don't have this ability at all, and Yes, your so-called "protection" just happened to catch up with your child when he didn't need to face the wind and rain. You thought you "protected" her. Then, now that the child has to face everything by himself, you just let her know nothing. Going into the mountains and facing nature, she can't fly at this time, and she doesn't know how to compete with others for food, and she doesn't even know that there are many, many dangers in nature. Leopard bites. Do you think she has a second way out?"

The old director's words made the head nurse cry bitterly, and Ji Yun felt very sympathetic, but she didn't know how to comfort the head nurse, or complain about the head nurse, she felt that she had no position.

The old nurse pulled Ji Jun out of the office and said slowly,

"We have reminded her in the past, let her either not send it or send it with the child if she wants to, let the child see the mother humiliating in front of the teacher, see the mother's blood and sweat in exchange for the teacher's short smile, and more Her sneering words will touch and shock her heart, and only in this way will it be possible to arouse her inner unwillingness and work hard!"

The words of the old nurse moved Ji Yun deeply. The old nurse used to prepare a bouquet of flowers worth [-] yuan and a greeting card of [-] yuan for the child's teacher on Teacher's Day.

The father of the child at the same table is a rich man, and the father at the same table gave the teacher a necklace of about 5000 yuan.

Then she showed off to the child at the same table, the child was deeply stimulated, she came back and said to the old nurse,

"Mom, let's return the flowers and send a greeting card. Our little money is not in the eyes of the teacher at all. No matter how hard we try, we can't catch up with the wealth and wealth of my tablemate. Why bother!"

From then on, the old nurse's child was completely disappointed in the ungrateful teacher and had no illusions.

At the same time, the children also know that this society is so cruel that even the campus is full of cruel fights!
The old nurse continued,
"The head nurse didn't listen to a word we said. The reason why I didn't let you say it was because you have no weight. She didn't ask you to get an answer from you. She just said that she was expressing her dissatisfaction. But. She is just complaining, even if she is asking you, she doesn't need an answer, she already has the answer in her heart, and she still can't realize her mistakes. And once you express your opinion, she will be dissatisfied. But what the old director said is different, what is this called? This is called official position."

Ji Jun thought, this is what the ancients said, "If you have little strength, don't take a heavy load, don't persuade others when you speak lightly, don't join the crowd if you don't have money, and don't seek relatives when you are in trouble"!
People speak lightly, even if they are right, it is difficult to be accepted and recognized.