The days when I was an obstetrician and gynecologist in Chang'an

Chapter 341 Mother Good Friday?
As the New Year is approaching and it is snowy again, the four little ones' academy has already suspended classes.

On the contrary, Mrs. Qin's school in the Women's Helping Association did not stop, but the closer the year was, the busier the women of each family became.

For things like this, where is the fabric cheap?Where can I buy more corn and give it away?The dried vegetables that the cats at home eat in winter, and the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar that will be used for a long time in the coming year, all have to be taken care of by the housewife.

Especially at the beginning of the imperial medical department, the newly opened washing workshop and brewery were in need of people. Many people thought that earning a few dollars would be better than learning Chinese characters.

In this way, the school of Mrs. Qin's school is almost as good as stopping.

Mrs. Qin is flexible and knowledgeable, and gets along very well with Li's mother, Mrs. Li and the others.

No, I've heard that today is Lu Zhu'er's birthday, and when Lu Zhu'er had eaten breakfast at about 9:00, Mrs. Qin came to the door with a small box.

"Miss Qin, sit down quickly.

The school in the Women's Helping Association will not reopen until the first month of next year, but the women in the Wenpo School, Sanniang said, let Mrs. Qin stop this class now, next year It can be opened again. "

Mrs. Qin thanked Mrs. Li for the teacup, and smiled in response to Mother Li's words.

"Hey, listen to the third lady, I also left homework for them, so I think I won't forget all of them during the holiday.

Today, it's a gift for the little lady. "

After saying that, Mrs. Qin opened the box, and inside was a small silver lock.

"Don't dislike Li Wen, this is what my daughter-in-law wore when she was young, it's not a family heirloom, I bought it from a silver shop.

At that time, the craftsman who made this had a good skill and the pattern was exquisite, so he rushed to buy one and came back.

I also wore it when my daughter was a hundred days old, and then put it away.

When I came over to join in the fun that night for dinner, I heard the third lady mention that it was the third birthday of the little lady Luzhuer, and I thought of this object. "

As she said that, she greeted Luzhu'er who was beside Li's mother's lap. Luzhu'er had already recognized her, knowing that this was another grandma, so she walked up to Mrs. Qin step by step.

Mrs. Qin picked up the little silver lock and hung it around Luzhu'er's neck, "I wish our little lady a happy and healthy year."

Lu Zhu'er first glanced back at Li's mother, saw Li's mother nodding, then turned her head, bowed to Mrs. Qin and thanked her: "Zhu'er thanks grandma, Zhu'er likes it so much, it looks good, this one."

After listening to Luzhu'er's childish words, Mrs. Qin vaguely recalled how her own daughter was when she was such an old age.

"Ms. Qin has to come over to eat together at night. Sanniang said she will sing to Lu Zhuer at night, so you have to come and listen to her how she does the tricks."

After another busy day, Li Sanniang returned home with the cakes that the boss and Qiuxiang bought at the shop in Shengpingfang at noon.

Naturally, this pastry was just for Luzhu'er's sweet mouth. The real birthday gift was prepared by Li Sanniang half a month ago.

A pair of gold bracelets for children!
My Luzhuer must wear the best one!

In fact, this child's gold bracelet weighs only two cents (10 grams), with a thin circle, it fits perfectly on the child's wrist.

The whole family is waiting for Li Sanniang, who is a mother, to come back.

After cleaning her hands, she fed the pastries to Lu Zhuer. Li Sanniang held Lu Zhuer and took out the little gold bracelet from the box.

"Aniang bought it for Lu Zhu'er, does Lu Zhu'er like it?"

At such a young age, Luzhu'er already knew beauty and ugliness, and just now she showed off the little silver lock around her neck with Li Sanniang.

Lu Zhu'er dangled the gold bracelet in her hand, and happily raised her head and kissed Li Sanniang, "Pearl likes it, the yellow one is as valuable as Xiao Huang."

"Haha, haha, Luzhu'er is smart, yes, isn't this bright yellow one more valuable?"

These words made Father Li's mouth curl up.

Second Aunt Li was surprised to see that Li Sanniang actually bought a pair of gold bracelets for Luzhu'er as a present for her third birthday.

You must know that when Li Sanniang paid her salary last time, she bought a pair of silver bracelets for Luzhu'er.

Although the thin gold bracelet this kid is wearing today is a bit lighter, but no matter how light it is, it is still made of gold. It looks like it costs 20 taels of silver.

"Oh, San Niang is really willing.

Luzhu'er will have to be filial to your mother in the future, your birthday is your mother's day of suffering.

When you were born, your mother suffered a lot.

Look, how kind your mother was to you on your birthday, not to mention buying you pastries, and even wearing a gold bracelet for you. "

Second Aunt Li said with a bit of sourness, although Luzhu'er is still young, she already understood the good and bad of what she said. After hearing what Li Second Aunt said, she raised her head and looked at Li Sanniang: "Give birth to Zhu'er, mother, is it painful?"

Luzhu'er's question with two points of caution, three points of distress, and five points of puzzlement made Li Sanniang's heart soften, but she felt resentment and disgust in her heart for Li Ersao's words.

Luzhu'er is so small, why instill such thoughts in her?

Even if you want to teach this child to know the kindness of parents, you have to wait for her to be older, not to mention that what Li Ersao is talking about is education?

Isn't that just to threaten the child to be obedient with kindness so that he can control it?

Li Sanniang didn't even look at Li Ersao, she just hugged Luzhu'er and said softly: "After my mother was in pain, she gave birth to Zhu'er. Zhu'er is my mother's baby. When Zhu'er was born, my mother was very happy." .”

When Luzhuer heard Li Sanniang said that she was born, Li Sanniang was happy about this, so she was relieved.

After sighing like a little adult, he looked at Li Sanniang with admiration: "Zhu'er is good, be obedient, wait for Aunt at home with Xiao Huang."

When it comes to Xiao Huang, Zhu'er clamors to go to the ground and give Xiao Huang a bone to chew on.

Li Sanniang felt relieved when she saw Baoya in the yard following Lu Zhuer into the kitchen, but when she turned her face, her expression darkened.

Li Sanniang naturally wouldn't argue with Li Ersao that the girl's birthday here is the day of her biological mother's death. Li Sanniang thought of Li Erxiong, Li Sanlang, Xiao Silang and Xiao Wulang, so she relaxed her face, looked up at Li's mother and said with a smile: "A Niang , presumably A Niang also suffered when she gave birth to her son, after all, the son was born much later than the eldest and second brothers, A Niang worked hard.

After Lu Zhu'er was born, my son understood how good A Niang is to her.

Although the girls' birthdays are the days when their mothers gave birth to them, it is their own choice to be a parent and have children, and they should be responsible for their children.

After I gave birth to Lu Zhu'er, I wanted to give Lu Zhu'er the best, just like how A Niang and A Ye raised me. "

Second Aunt Li hugged Xiao Wulang tightly in her arms, her heart skipped a beat. Hearing what Li Sanniang meant, maybe she was dissatisfied with what she just said?
Mrs. Li shook her head inwardly, thinking that the second sister-in-law Li was still a bit petty, but a pair of 20 taels of silver could make her jealous of the thin gold bracelets worn by her children.

"Sharing joys and sorrows is divided into people. Some people can live together in hardship, but they can't do it when they become rich."

Mrs. Li remembered what her mother-in-law said to her before she got married. At that time, because Brother Li's relative, Aye, had saved Father Jiang's life. It's just a doctor with little reputation, but the Jiang family still decided to marry Mrs. Li to Brother Li.

However, the situation of the Li family at that time must have led to a hard life in the past, so the mother of Mrs. Li gave Mrs. Li some knowledge of the world before marriage.

In addition to kindness, of course the Jiang family was optimistic about Brother Li's future and thought that Brother Li's future would not be bad, so they married Sister Li.

Li Sanniang looked at Li's mother and continued, "I know that my mother only wants me to have a smooth life, and I will definitely not want me to remember the day when my mother suffered a crime just because I was born.

I also only hope that Luzhuer will have a safe and successful life. On her birthday, she will grow up to one year old. I only hope that she will be happy and happy. "

Li Sanniang turned her head to look at Mrs. Li at this moment: "I believe that as long as I teach Lu Zhuer well, she will think of me.

It's like the sister-in-law has taught Hutou well, and Hutou (Li Dalang) will treat his sister-in-law well. "

　how to say?

　　Everyone's birthday is indeed the time when their biological mother suffers, and some may even be the anniversary of the death of their biological mother.

　　But I think that every mother should only hope that the newborn child will live happily, instead of using this as a threat to control everything about the child.

　　Moreover, birth is chosen by parents, not by children.

　　It is the parents who need their children, not the children begging their parents to give birth to them.

　　In the process of nurturing, correct education will naturally make children have a heart to feed back.

　　In short, being a parent is physically easy, but being a good parent and raising and educating children is really a difficult problem of the century.

　　
　
(End of this chapter)