The days when I was an obstetrician and gynecologist in Chang'an

The third day of the first lunar month is a big day closely related to the girl herself.

It is the day when the married girl takes Lang Xu and the children back to her natal home.

When Li Sanniang came over from Fang Chengxian's side, the tables in the main hall of the Li family were covered with all kinds of boxes and other things.

Li's mother was standing, counting the pile of things attentively, gesturing back and forth with her hands.

Sister-in-law Li and Second-sister-in-law Li stood aside and listened to Mother Li's words: "This is a pastry, which I bought at Xiangguiji. This is a piece of fabric, which is for your natal brothers and daughter-in-law. Hutou and his martial arts practitioners have troubled them a lot."

Li's mother said to the second sister-in-law Li again: "This burden is the medicine that can be taken after contracting the cold. It's fine for other people, but you can't give medicine to others. If you give it to your brother, we are close relatives, then it's okay.

Don't take it back, Kogoro, it takes a long time to go back and forth on the road, if you let the child freeze, it will be more harm than good.

You leave Kogoro behind, and I will take him with me today. "

Looking back, Li's mother said to Wu Qiaolan and Baoya who were going back to the village with Li's second brother and Li's second sister-in-law this time: "Although you are the only two left in the family, those uncles and in-laws' families should still go to pay New Year's greetings.

You take the things." Li's mother saw that Wu Qiaolan was going to refuse, so she pretended to be angry and said, "What is the relationship between me and your mother? You only think of this as your own home, but it's just a few gifts for you. You Just accept it. "

To put it bluntly, I told them one by one, seeing that the four little ones were all dressed up, especially the disobedient Xiao Shiro, who put on his hat, and Mother Li let them go.

Li Sanniang led Luzhu'er and Li's mother to see off the two groups of people, seeing that they were all gone, and then went home.

The carriage was driven by Brother Li. After all, they had to go outside Chang'an City. It was far away and there were many people, so it was more convenient to drive.

And Mrs. Li's mother's family, Jiang's family, are all in the inner city, so they can go to the street to call a car, and the distance is also convenient.

Back in the main hall, counting Li's father, Li's mother and Xiao Wulang, Li Sanniang and Lu Zhu'er who were in their natal family, and Qiuxiang and Shijiu who were with Li Sanniang, a total of seven people sat around and ate. Small talk, gossip.

In Li Sanniang's hand is a handful of watermelon seeds, which were brought to the Li family a few days ago when someone gave them a New Year's gift.

This thing is actually just a taste, the thin little bit of meat inside is really nothing to eat.

But Li Sanniang still concentrated on peeling the melon seeds, and put the peeled melon seeds in small plates, while Luzhu'er sat aside obediently and waited.

Li's mother couldn't bear to look at it, so she turned her hand and pushed the plate of snacks towards Lu Zhu'er: "Zhu Er, eat this, wait until your mother picks out a plate for you, then you have to wait until it is dark."

"Oh, I feel bad when I think that my Luzhu'er will have to go to someone else's house in the future."

Li Sanniang took out a shallow dish and put it in front of Lu Zhu'er, letting her grab and eat.

After touching Luzhu'er's hair, Li Sanniang sighed.

You know, let alone the Tang Dynasty at this time, in modern society, most women have to live with the man after they get married, and some have to live with the man's parents.

Even if they are not together, this important traditional festival must go to the man's house first.

It's like this Chinese New Year, you don't always have to go to the man's house first, and then go back to your mother's house later.

Her natal home seems to mean that after a girl gets married, the place where her parents live is no longer her own home.

Li's mother is the only daughter like Li Sanniang, but Li Sanniang has returned home with Li after a few years of marriage, and she doesn't want to marry again. Basically, she will spend the rest of her life with Li's father and Li's mother.

This means not leaving home or parents at all.

Now, in the third day of junior high school, on the day of returning to her natal home, Mother Li is the mother-in-law of two daughter-in-laws. In order to show her importance to her daughter-in-law, she bought a lot of things early as gifts for them to take back to her natal home.

"You, you just don't get enough.

You are reconciled, like your sister-in-law and second sister-in-law, it is only during the festivals, they Aye and Auntie can only go home after their birthdays.

Your second sister-in-law's family is outside the city, far away, so it's not very cheap.

But even if your sister-in-law's natal family is in the city, can't you still have to count the days to go home?

In our family, the girl and the husband are the same, but how is it like this outside? "

Mother Li felt that Li Sanniang was dissatisfied. Didn't every girl come here like this?
Could it be that Lu Zhu'er was not allowed to marry?
"Aniang, tell me, how about I find a new husband for Luzhu'er?"

Li Sanniang thought of the current law, it is not acceptable to not get married or marry a daughter-in-law at this age, and you will have to pay more taxes.

Moreover, Li Sanniang is very conscious, and personal power is not an opponent of the general environment after all.

When Lu Zhu'er grows up in the future, she must marry someone. Even if Li Sanniang is willing to spend more money and pay more taxes, what will the outside rumors say about Lu Zhu'er?

Unless Luzhu'er and Sun Wenpo's granddaughter Chunlan (appeared in Chapter 276) are ill and unable to have children, only by reporting to the superior can they avoid the fate of being too old to marry and being forced to marry.

And, how could she know if Lu Zhu'er would meet a man she likes in the future, and would she want to get married?

"No, this won't work.

You look at Mrs. Yang's family in front of her. The youngest son of a family with too many brothers who can't eat enough in the countryside has recruited, but what happens next?

It's not that he was approached, asking for this and that.

How could such a shameless gentleman be willing to be his son-in-law? "

Luzhu'er's cheeks were bulging, and she happily ate the melon seeds that Li Sanniang had peeled for her. Her big eyes were shining brightly because of the delicious food.

Luzhu'er was only three years old, how could she understand what Li Sanniang was talking about now, she was still eating happily.

"I think when Luzhu'er gets older, I still have to be cruel and ask my elder brother to teach her martial arts.

As long as this girl is in good health, she will have to have children. After all, having a good physique is a good thing after all. "

Mother Li's expression turned embarrassed, she really didn't expect that Lu Zhu'er is only three years old now, and Li Sanniang has already thought about Lu Zhu'er getting married and having children in the future.

On the other hand, Father Li, who had never spoken at the side, nodded empathetically: "Sanniang is right, this girl's body should be stronger, no matter if she has a pregnancy in the future, or someone else, a good physique is a must after all." Good thing."

Li's father's approval gave Li Sanniang more confidence, but Li's mother gave Li's father a blank look, disgusted that Li's father said something here.

If it was as usual, Father Li would not dare to pierce his wings. After all, Mother Li is still the head of the Li family.

But today, Father Li did not remain silent, and still nodded, "What Sanniang said is not reasonable. I should have thought of this when I knew that Sanniang was born. It should have happened when Sanniang was a child." Let Da Lang teach her martial arts."

Li Sanniang was stunned, she didn't expect Li's father to agree with her because she thought of what happened when she was born.

I think of Engels' book "The Origin of the Family, Private Ownership and the State". If you are interested, you can read it. I personally find it very interesting.