The days when I was an obstetrician and gynecologist in Chang'an

Chapter 487 The key to the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is that man!

It has been half a month since Second Aunt Li was sent to her mother's home in the countryside.

In fact, as usual, Li Sanniang can meet Li Ersao when she is teaching the students of Wen Po School, besides the time for dinner every day.

From this point of view, Li Sanniang really didn't think there was anything strange about the Li family without Mrs. Li.

But no matter how nervous she was, after half a month, Li Sanniang felt that something was wrong before Mrs. Li returned home from her mother's house.

In this way, Li Sanniang, who was on duty today and brought the roast chicken home, called Li's mother and sister-in-law Li to the side hall after dinner, leaving the main hall to the men of the Li family.

Qiuxiang and Luzhu'er were sitting on the bed playing, while Li Sanniang, Li's mother, and Li's sister-in-law were sitting on the round table beside the bed.

"Aniang, sister-in-law, tell me the truth, what happened between the second sister-in-law and the second brother? It's been half a month, and the second brother doesn't take the second sister-in-law home?"

When Mrs. Li heard Li Sanniang's words, the hand that was pouring the jujube tea stopped for a moment.

Li Sanniang, who was glanced at by Mrs. Li, saw Mrs. Li looking at Mother Li.

"Hey," Li's mother took the hot jujube tea from Mrs. Li, patted Mrs. Li's hand and told her to sit down and have a rest.

At this time, Qiuxiang, who was playing with Luzhuer on the bed, also pricked up her ears.

On the way home today, it was after Qiuxiang first mentioned to Li Sanniang that Li Ersao hadn't returned home for half a month, and Li Sanniang realized in a daze that Li Ersister hadn't returned to Li's house for so long.

After Li Sanniang saw Mother Li sighing, she knew that there must be something behind this, but she didn't urge her anymore.

Sure enough, after a few breaths, Mother Li said in a low voice: "The day your second brother sent your second sister-in-law home, you went to work early and were not at home, so I don't know what happened at that time.

You are busy on duty every day, and when you come back from duty, you either need to correct your homework, or you are going to learn golden acupuncture from Dr. Liang, so I didn't bother you about it. "

Li Sanniang nodded, then raised her head and said to Mother Li and Sister-in-law Li: "I know that Auntie and Sister-in-law love me. Things at home are hard on Sister-in-law. When it's her birthday, I'll make a gold bracelet for Sister-in-law to wear."

Sister-in-law Li hadn't declined yet, she heard Li's mother nodding in response: "Indeed, this is thanks to your sister-in-law's management. Your sister-in-law has worked very hard. You should respect your sister-in-law well in the future. This is what you should do."

Mrs. Li didn't think there was anything wrong at first, but she suddenly received the affirmation and praise from Li Sanniang and Li's mother, and for some reason she felt her eyes a little sour.

Mother Li stretched out her hand and patted Mrs. Li's hand, and then continued to whisper to Li Sanniang: "That morning, your second brother's expression was obviously due to the quarrel between the husband and wife last night.

I thought that the cause of this problem might be because of the 200 taels of silver you brought home that day.

Afterwards, I asked your second brother alone, and it really did let me talk. "

Li Sanniang was dumbfounded, she really didn't know what was wrong with the 200 taels she took home.

"These 200 taels?
Is it the 200 taels I got when I went to see off the Jin family at the gate of the city that day? "

Seeing Mother Li nodding, Li Sanniang was even more confused.

"What's wrong with 200 taels?
But it was only 200 taels. Last year, I gave the money to the family twice, and once the family got thousands of taels.

A mere 200 taels of silver, what's the problem? "

Mother Li sighed again, "Oh, your child made me and you, Aye, care less about money. In addition to your childhood, I and you, Aye, will give you the best.

You are smart and smart since you were young, and you learned medicine from Aye, and now you are the first female doctor in Chang'an City, and you can earn money by your own ability.

In this way, in your eyes, silver is just something for living at home, and it is not as important as others.

Apart from our own family, the most important thing in your heart is that you want to be a good doctor and do something for this girl of Tang Dynasty.

But, San Niang, you have to understand that not everyone is like you and can be so careless about money. "

Li Sanniang is not stupid, how can Li Sanniang not understand Li's mother's explanation?
"So, it's because the second sister-in-law is jealous that I get money here?

Then what did you say to your second brother?
The second brother was angry, so he sent the second sister-in-law back to her natal home to reflect? "

The more she thought about it, the more Li Sanniang felt that this was the case. She glanced at the main hall outside the hall, lowered her head and whispered to Li's mother and Li's second sister-in-law: "But this time, I got the money by myself.

It has nothing to do with the family, so the money cannot be distributed to the family. "

"Aniang knows, and your second brother also knows, it's just that your second sister-in-law has shallow eyes.

Don't think about it, you can't control it.

As a mother, I just ask, I don't want or want to take care of your little family's affairs.

I have been married twice, and both times I have no mother-in-law.

I can't learn from other people's mothers-in-law. The daughter-in-law still holds Erlang when she enters the door, as if she is afraid that the daughter-in-law will snatch Erlang away.

You and I, Aye, are living a lifetime, and Erlang is going to live his own life after all.

On this point, you Aye and I can see clearly.

Hello, sister-in-law, although your second sister-in-law is a bit petty, but to be honest, she is just an ordinary girl.

It's normal for people to have shortcomings.

Not to mention that your second sister-in-law and your second brother gave birth to three sons, even because of Saburo Shiro and Kogoro, I wouldn't say anything more to your second sister-in-law.

If you ask today, I will tell you a few more words.

You are a girl who returns home with her daughter-in-law, and you did not take advantage of the family by bringing Luzhuer to eat at home, and it can even be said that the family took advantage of your ability.

But after all, according to the world situation, is the baby you gave birth to surnamed Li?

This home was your home when I was with you, Aye. If you and I go away after a few decades, where is your home? "

"Auntie!"

"Aunt, where is this?

Sanniang is the son-in-law's sister-in-law, how can there be no place for his sister-in-law in the family? "

Mother Li's eyes comforted Li Sanniang and Mrs. Li, "I know, I know.

It's just that the world is like this, and it can't be controlled at all.

When Sanniang just got married, I still wanted her to marry again, but now I can see that Sanniang is not willing to find another man and deal with her mother-in-law.

But, fortunately, Sanniang is capable, I see, whether you really recruit Luzhu'er in the future, or let your disciple take care of you until the end of your life, that's all good.

At least, it's better than going to another family and finding another man.

I don't worry about you anymore.

I'm telling you this, I want to say, about family affairs, you just take care of your own house, just take care of Luzhuer, if they don't talk about your brother's house, don't be greedy and.

I and you, Aye, don't care, it depends on what your second brother wants to do. "

　I am not married, but judging from the fact that my parents, as well as my female classmates, female friends, and female colleagues of the same age as me were married when I was young.

　　I personally feel that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family relationship under the Confucian cultural system in China is actually a naked exploitation of women.

　　The so-called conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is actually the inaction of the son (husband), the male treasure (vested interest).

　　The key to the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is Nanbao himself.

　　I even saw this kind of inaction from my 80+ grandpa, a means of vested interests.

　　(My grandpa was eccentric, causing conflicts between my uncles, and then he sat down to please my sons and my mother.)
　　
　
(End of this chapter)