The days when I was an obstetrician and gynecologist in Chang'an

Chapter 627 A Responsible Son-in-Law
Because of Tuva and Brother Li's astonishing words, the main hall of Li's family is really brightly lit now.

Mother Li rummaged through the wing room to find two candlesticks and lit them, making the already bright main hall extremely bright.

This is not the end, it is probably the first time I have encountered such a thing in decades of life, and for the first time in history, after eating dinner, Li's mother paid out money from a shop that was still open on the street. I bought sweet porridge inside and came home.

So, now, Li Sanniang is holding a bowl of red bean porridge in her hand, eating every bite.

Li Sanniang was dual-purpose, eating porridge while listening to Brother Li explaining his thoughts to Li's father and mother.

Brother Li has an upright and generous personality. He ate up the shallow bowl of red bean porridge in three or four mouthfuls. After putting down the spoon, he stretched out the back of his hand and wiped it on his mouth. He spoke solemnly to Li's father and Li's mother, who were sitting first, and Li Sanniang and Li's second brother, who were sitting opposite.

Oh, there is another person in the main hall of the Li family, and that is Tuva who is sitting next to Brother Li.

On the lower side of the hall lay the little Ganoderma lucidum that had been soothed and fell asleep, so Tuva sat in the main hall with peace of mind and talked to everyone while eating porridge and water.

There is another person in the main hall who can be said to have nothing to do with this matter, only Qiu Xiang sitting behind Li Sanniang.

However, it's hard to say that it's irrelevant. After all, Qiuxiang and Li Sanniang lived together for more than a year, and saved Li Sanniang's life several times. Li Sanniang has long regarded Qiuxiang as a family.

However, Qiuxiang wasn't so ungrateful. After hearing Brother Li's words at the beginning, she deliberately retreated outside the door, but Brother Li waved his hand at Qiuxiang and said, "It's okay, you and Just like Sanniang, she is also the daughter of the Li family in this house, so don't avoid her if she sits down."

In this way, Qiuxiang stayed.

However, Qiuxiang still upholds the principle of talking less and doing more, hiding herself behind Li Sanniang, basically not interrupting, just listening to everyone talking.

"Mei Niang and I didn't think much about having children, but after we had Dalang and Erlang, Meiniang and I felt pretty good.

Although it is good to have more children and more blessings, raising children is a lot of trouble. "

Brother Li looked at Li's father and Li's mother, and said with great emotion: "I have known since I was a child that I am not Aye's biological son. After all, I was almost two years old when Aniang brought me from the border to Chang'an.

Although I don't remember much, I still understand these things.

But after A Niang married Aye, Aye treated me no differently from his own son, but within a few months, I couldn't think of the hard days with A Niang at the border.

Only by raising a child can I know the kindness of my parents. After Mei Niang and I had Dalang, I realized how much Aye and Aniang had paid for me. "

Speaking of this, Brother Li, a six-foot-tall man, even had a choked voice. Li Sanniang looked at Li's father and Li's mother, and saw that Li's father, who rarely showed any emotions, had rosy eyes at this moment. .

"So, after having Erlang, I discussed with Mei Niang that only these two sons are enough.

So far, we have been avoiding the body, but it has always been good.

But who would have thought that there was an accident, and there was Xiao Liu.

When I found out that Mei Niang was pregnant again at the beginning, I was naturally happy. When Da Lang went to the border, Er Lang had already stood up, and suddenly another child came, so I was very happy.

But, who would have thought that this child almost killed Mei Niang. "

"Brother!"

Li Sanniang directly interrupted and called Brother Li, and Brother Li looked at Li Sanniang who suddenly called him in surprise.

"Brother, let Sanniang interject.

This Xiao Liulang is just a newborn baby, he never thought of harming his sister-in-law, everything was just an accident.

Everything about this woman's pregnancy was random. Before the child was born, it was a mass of flesh and blood in the uterus. How could it be the initiative to harm others?
Eldest brother don't want to say that, sister-in-law and Xiao Liulang don't want to be like this, no one wants to be like that. "

Brother Li was stunned for a moment, then smiled helplessly, and nodded in response to what Li Sanniang said.

"If I knew that this child could make Mei Niang suffer such a big difficulty, I should have beaten this child directly."

Brother Li saw that Mother Li and Li Sanniang showed disapproval on their faces, so he hurriedly added: "I know, I know, and I will never say this in front of Mei Niang and Xiao Liu from now on.

But Mei Niang's appearance this time scared me enough.

Meiniang and I are going to grow old, and I will be buried with Meiniang in the future, how can I bear to see her suffer like this?

So, Aye, prescribe me medicine, as long as I can't give birth, then Meiniang won't have to suffer anymore.

That's what I think, Meiniang and I already have three sons and that's enough.

Looking forward to seeing Dalang come back next year, we can see each other. In a few years, Meiniang and I will be grandma.

So good. "

Brother Li's words can be said to be heartbreaking.

Li Sanniang originally thought that Brother Li was a rare good man, but now Li Sanniang felt in her heart that Brother Li was an extra point above the full score. Such a man who is responsible, willing to give, and willing to take responsibility, let alone this time It's the Tang Dynasty, and it's rare even in modern society.

How many men are willing to voluntarily choose to be sterilized so that their wives will not suffer?

Yes, but it would be nice to have a few out of a hundred people.

"What do you think?

You have to know that Da Lang is like this because he has three sons, and you only have a little girl now, if you drink medicine like Da Lang, what will happen in the future?

If you regret it in the future, I can't help you make a woman pregnant again.

Have you really thought it through? "

Father Li looked at Tuva who was sitting next to Brother Li very seriously and asked, but after seeing Tuva stunned for a moment, he still firmly bowed his hands to Father Li.

"Please trouble Dr. Li, I have really figured it out.

Because of the war in my tribe, I am the only one left besides Di Li in the building.

Back then, I also had many half-brothers, but they all died, and only I survived.

I came to Chang'an with the circus troupe, and met Qiuniang again. I married Qiu Qiuniang, and I will live in Chang'an in the future.

As the elder brother of the Li family said, only Qiuniang is my closest person, and I will spend my whole life with Qiuniang in the future.

This time Qiuniang's appearance really scared me, I don't want her to leave me because of giving birth, and make me a lonely family again.

I also don't want to find another woman, I just want to live with Qiuniang.

I know that you Han people can find a way for your daughter to find a son-in-law to stay at home.

I thought, that's it, I just need to find a husband for my Ganoderma lucidum to marry into my family.

So, what's there to be afraid of?
Nvniang is more reassuring than Erlang. Even if Qiuniang and I get old, it would be great to have Ganoderma lucidum by our side. "

　Why advocate male sterilization?
　　Although female tubal ligation is a simple and beneficial birth control measure, compared with it, male vasectomy is simpler, more convenient, safer and more reliable.

　　Those who think that male sterilization will hurt the vitality and the family cannot live without the support of "manly" are wrong.

　　In our country, female sterilization is more common because of this kind of thinking, not because female sterilization is better than male sterilization.

　　Therefore, we must establish a scientific point of view and advocate male sterilization.

　　First of all, the vasectomy is simple, it is located under the skin of the scrotum, the position is superficial, easy to hook, and the possibility of mistaken ligation is small;

　　Furthermore, there are no important organs, blood vessels, or nerves next to the vas deferens, so it is not easy to accidentally injure.

　　In addition, the incision is small, does not enter the abdominal cavity, has no obvious pain and bleeding, and requires few or no stitches.

　　You can go home after an hour of rest after the operation, and you can go back to work the next day.

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　　According to the China Health Statistical Yearbook (Volume 2020), in 2019, the number of tubal ligations was 237489, and the number of vasectomy was only 4742, with a male to female ratio of about 2:100.

　　输精管结扎术是一项通过手术期望达到避孕的手段，在避孕上的失败率(0.15%)低于避孕套(女用21%、男用13%)、口服避孕药(7%)和输卵管结扎术(0.5%)等[2]，但仍不是零失败。

　　——The above is from the Internet

　　
　
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