Sports God

Chapter 168 The Courage to Be Disliked
After about half an hour.

Bai Xiaolu returned home.

I saw Chu Chao boxing with Chen Qiang on the octagonal platform in the gymnasium on the lower floor.

Both wear protective gear and gloves.

Therefore, the fist style is fierce and vicious.

It's like those official games where you fight desperately for honor and high prize money.

Do the math...

Chu Chao has been learning boxing for about four months now.

A day does not fall.

Chen Qiang took him to the beginning, taught him various styles of play, and practiced practical experience.

Already considered a qualified amateur boxer.

Of course, this is because he has never participated in any official competition.

Looking at the pleasing muscles and wild and ferocious movements, Bai Xiaolu's attention was attracted, and he stood beside him, watching very intently, feeling a kind of stimulation.

on the field at this time.

Although the two are not a heavyweight at all.

Chu Chao weighs only 74KG.

And Chen Qiang's weight was steadily breaking through a hundred.

However, Chu Chao hardly lost in the lightweight fight against the heavyweight, and now has an absolute advantage on the court.

Finally finding Chen Qiang's defensive mistake, Chu Chao punched straight down, and the fist hit the protective gear with a dull sound.

Even with the protection of the protective gear, Chen Qiang still took two steps back, sat down on his buttocks, panting heavily, and waved his hands with a wry smile.

"Add money!"

"Must add money!"

"I can't beat you anymore."

"This punch, at least ten years of skill, I can't stand it."

He took off the protective gear, and then took off the vest, looking at the skin on the shoulder blades, it was red and bruised.

Uh.

Chu Chao stretched out his hand to pull him up, and smiled embarrassedly: "It's on the top, all the power burst out at once, no, don't let me..."

Chen Qiang:……

"I will make you my grandson!"

"Did the fuck let it go?"

"I almost got shit out of it!"

He said without hesitation, and he was really in a hurry.

The physical fitness of professional athletes is simply a monster, and Chu Chao is even more of a monster among monsters.

The punching power is extremely astonishing.

"Your current strength, to be honest, ordinary people, if they are hit in the center, they may die suddenly."

he said seriously.

Although Chu Chao had almost no chance of fighting, he was a little worried, with a sharp knife in his body, and he wanted to kill himself.

Chu Chao glared at him.

"Of course I fucking know!"

"When fighting with my girlfriend, I am always careful, for fear of spoiling him."

Chen Qiang:……

White Deer: ...

"What nonsense are you talking about!"

She couldn't help but speak, and handed over a towel casually.

Chu Chao took it with a smile, glanced at her, but suddenly said, "Oh, what's the matter, why are your eyes so red? Are you crying?"

She is going to pick up her mother today.

Chu Chao knew it.

Now that he came back alone, it was obvious that the chat had collapsed.

This is also normal.

"Let's talk, I will withdraw first."

At this time, Chen Qiang said very interestingly, and left quickly.

The ace bodyguard, the speed double A, and the emotional intelligence is also top-notch.

Seeing that his back was gone, Bai Xiaolu took Chu Chao's hand, sat down, sighed, and sighed again.

"My mind is broken..."

"Three views exploded."

Chu Chao still had a smile on his face, and took a sip of water: "Hurry up, wait, the peanut drink Jianlibao in the front row..."

Bai Xiaolu glared at him.

"My mother still has a large amount of property abroad, which was transferred before. Now she wants to go out to enjoy the blessings, and she wants to take me with her."

She said frankly.

"My grass!"

This news shocked Chu Chao as well. He really didn't expect that things would turn in such a "weird" direction.

At this moment, Bai Xiaolu looked directly into Chu Chao's eyes.

"If it were you, what would you do?"

Chu Chao smiled: "If my parents had such an opportunity, would my mother still use it to practice sports?"

"oops!"

"Don't interrupt, answer my question directly."

Bai Xiaolu pouted, and asked very seriously.

Chu Chao thought for a while, and said seriously: "I won't go. I am a person who has no principles except when dealing with women, and I am very principled at other times."

"Bah you!"

"Yes, that's what I said, and then I had a serious fight with her, and then, I want to report her."

Bai Xiaolu said a little sullenly.

Her own three views told her that this was the correct approach.

But in my heart, why do I still feel a little wavering, and even a little... afraid?

Chu Chao: ...

Also fell silent for a while.

"Ruthless man."

"Brilliant."

"I want to give you one, you are really killing relatives righteously."

"Report! You must report! Let her sing tears behind bars!"

Chu Chao said in a slightly exaggerated tone.

For a moment, Bai Xiaolu was a little uncertain whether he was joking or serious.

"Are you serious?"

she confirmed again.

Chu Chao let out a long sigh.

"real."

"However, no matter what you choose, I will support it. If you want to report, then I will support reporting. If you don't want to ignore it, I will support it. If you want to cover up or even join, that's fine. I have no objection."

"Do you remember, about two months ago, a book we read at night mentioned a concept called subject separation?"

"It's my job to take care of your emotions."

"It's your job to take care of your family affairs."

"Your mother did something wrong, and that's her fault."

"Forgive her, or join her, it is also your business."

"And after you make a choice, how I treat you is my business."

"After this, how you think of me is your business."

Chu Chao said so much in one breath, then picked up a bottle of water on the table, and took two gulps.

Bai Xiaolu was dumbfounded.

"Is this what you thought?"

About two months ago, one night, I did read a book with Chu Chao called "The Courage to Be Disliked".

An important psychological concept is written in it, called "object separation", or "subject separation."

Whose affairs, whose emotions, are responsible for themselves.

This is the core of Adlerian psychology.

But, for herself, she just watched it. At that time, she was very fascinated and touched, but after a while, she also forgot.

Unexpectedly, Chu Chao had such a deep memory, and it seemed to have been "internalized" long ago.

Uh.

Bai Xiaolu inexplicably felt slightly ashamed.

I just read the book.

And Chu Chao, apply what you have learned.

This……

"Then I... report it?"

She asked tentatively, gritted her teeth, and suddenly felt that she had found a ray of light in the fog.

"You decide."

"Also... In this matter, reporting is not the final outcome. She has to be given a way to go. You tell her that it is her business to hand over the money that should not be taken."

"As an elder, it is our business to honor her and ensure her life in the future."

"It's that simple, it's clear at a glance."

Chu Chao said firmly.

Some things are not that complicated.

What to do, what to do.

Hearing this, a relieved smile finally appeared on Bai Xiaolu's face.

"Love you……"

"you are so handsome."

She said numbly.

Chu Chao stood up and laughed: "Come on, if you love me, fight with me, I love you too, don't worry, I will only use [-]% of my strength."

White Deer: ...

Huantuo laughed and said: "I think you want me to die!"

"I'm going to call my mom right now and explain it to her thoroughly."

"Oh, yes, one more thing."

Bai Xiaolu pursed his lips, reached into his pants pocket, and took out a few strands of hair.

"My mother said that I was carried by her, not her own. She should have said it out of frustration, but I'm not sure. I went to the bathroom, found two hairs, and wanted to identify them."

This...is also an annoyance.

It's very confusing.

On the one hand, I feel unbelievable, unimaginable.

On the other hand, I feel that if it is true, then...

"Isn't it?"

"So bloody?"

Chu Chao couldn't help complaining, and was a little dumbfounded for a while.

Paused.

Then he said, "Look."

"However, the same sentence, the separation of subjects, for your life, you are not the sequel of your parents, nor the prequel of your children, nor the outer chapter of your friends, nor the inner chapter of me. You are yourself. May as well Be bold, because everyone will die in the end."

Chu Chao shrugged and spread his hands.

Put on the gloves again.

Touching his hands together, he walked towards the sandbag.

If there is no opponent, you can only play sandbags.

Bai Xiaolu watched his movements, pursed his lips, and after a moment of silence, he couldn't help but laugh out softly.

so good.

Perhaps, sports can really make a person pure.

Not noble.

Nor is it out of low interest.

It is pure.

But enough is enough.

Alert and decisive, brave and clear.

boom!
Chu Chao punched the sandbag, and the iron chain at the top made a toothache sound. The sandbag shook violently, and before returning to the initial position, there was another bang, and he smashed it open with his fist, and then swung out again. .

Bai Xiaolu suddenly thought of something in his mind.

She couldn't help walking up to her, and asked with a smile, "Then have you...have you done anything wrong?"

Chu Chao's fist froze slightly.

However, he immediately hit it with a faster force.

boom!
"Maybe! But forget! No one can condemn me if I forgive myself!"

"This is my subject!"

"As for what others think, whether to forgive or not, that is her topic!"

He suddenly understood what Bai Xiaolu was asking about.

That incident was perhaps the only time I made a mistake in the 18 years before my life.

But, it's all over.

Nothing to reflect on either.

For yourself, just look forward.

Uh.

With these words, Bai Xiaolu was speechless.

She could understand what Chu Chao meant, and she could figure out the logic behind it, but she couldn't do it for a while.

This is also a kind of practice in life, right?
……

step aside.

Bai Xiaolu dialed the phone again.

This time, he called 110 directly.

"Hello, I will report..."

……

……

　Or explain a few sentences and talk about the meaning of this plot.

　　The courage to be hated.

　　Now that we have come to the time point of "", my idea is that there will be some growth in mentality.

　　The impact of sports on people is not only brutal physical, but also spiritual will.

　　Alert and decisive.

　　Brave and clear.

　　Taking myself as an example, I grew up in a "high-pressure" family environment, so I have a certain degree of flattering personality.

　　Later, I realized this, and by chance, I started playing football...

　　Go every day, rain or shine.

　　Even if there is no one in the football field, I will practice shooting there.

　　It lasted for the entire four years of college.

　　At that time, my jersey was Barcelona, ​​the number was six, and it was called Harvey of the Law Department.

　　Others skipped class in the afternoon to pick up girls, to go to Internet cafes, to go shopping...

　　I do it for football.

　　Suddenly, another interesting thing came to mind:
　　My girlfriend at the time was waiting for me to have dinner, but she didn't arrive, so she went to the stadium to find me.

　　Completely angry, angry.

　　Ask me if I want to play football or want her.

　　I said I want to play football, hahahaha...

　　Then, I like to slap in the face.

　　People leave in anger.

　　……

　　All gone.

　　As for...

　　The courage to be disliked and the two points of "separation of subjects" are the methodologies I have been practicing. They may not be completely correct, but they can really solve many troubles.

　　……

　　
　
(End of this chapter)