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Chapter 498 Xiaowen and Xiaoni’s reminders, Lin Rou’s insights.

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Xiaowen and Xiaoni’s reminders, Lin Rou’s insights.

Lin Rou actually didn't have any answer to this matter. She was still in the exploratory stage. She actually had a friend in her early years.It's just that they had a particularly good relationship.

That's it. Lin Rou actually had a very unhappy past when she was in college. When she first went to college, she was actually more caring. Then that classmate appeared, and the relationship between the two of them was very good. .

It just makes people feel that it is a pity that the two of them have been getting along for many years, maybe [-], [-], [-], [-], [-], [-], [-], [-], [-] years, but sometimes there are still some problems.

It's been fine for so long, why did something go wrong?Lin Rou couldn't figure it out either, but was there really a way to turn back?There is no way to turn back, you can only find a way to apply medicine to her, right?Let her wounds heal as much as possible.The scar remains, and there is nothing that can be done about it.

Although you can't change this kind of thing, you can at least say it.The cuts are different, right?

At least it can become different. This is often the case. We really have no way to do anything more. We can only try our best to save a person, but sometimes what can we do.

Lin Rou was also helpless. She and her friend were really close before, but they got lost later. She couldn't understand. She actually wanted to get them back now, but how, using her bicycle Ability, using her worth, using her money, this kind of redeemed relationship is still the kind of relationship she expects for Lin Rou. In fact, what she is looking forward to more is that in that Lin Rou is still just Lin Rou, not Lin Rou. When Master Lin Rou comes, they can get back together.If not, then you might rather just forget about it.Seeing that Lin Rou seemed to be in a trance, Xiao Wen and Xiao Ni did not disturb Lin Rou, but ate their meal seriously.

They are no longer young people who have just entered the society. In fact, they know a lot of things very well. They know that at this time, they should stop talking and let Lin Rou think about it.It is not too late to ask when Lin Rou is willing to ask. In other words, Lin Rou said that when she wants them to ask, it would be better for them to ask. This is also what Xiaowen and Xiaoli have concluded about some social issues. Experience, you have to know that many times it is indeed like this, um, how should I put it, very often you really need to, um, think about something clearly before doing it. If you don’t use your brain to do something, , then you are actually very likely to get a result you don’t want, because you are just a brain thing, and you are actually not a good person.right?If you don’t think about anything and don’t want to be clear about it, just say it and do it, then can you do it well?Can you tell me?It's obviously from Henan.Lin Rou also came to her senses. She looked at Xiaoge and Xiaoni, bastard, what's wrong?You seem to be worried.

Xiaowen and Xiaoni smiled and didn't say much. They told Lin Rou that they felt she had something on her mind and wanted to know what Lin Rou was thinking.

Lin Rou said that she remembered a friend from the past who had a good relationship, but then it broke down because she did something wrong.

Thinking about how to save that relationship.Xiao Ni thought for a while and said.If it's your problem, then wait for her to save it.No, if it's your problem, then take the initiative to save it, if it's not your problem.Then you just wait for her to come back to you, if there might be something wrong with both of you.

Then don't set your posture particularly low.Because she would feel it.There's nothing wrong with you.There's nothing wrong with her.When your posture is particularly low, she will feel that there is nothing wrong with her.

This is a very dangerous thing for you.After Lin Rou heard Xiaoli's statement, she thought about it seriously.It seems that is indeed the case.If you think you have no problem.Or if you really don’t have problems with both of you, but only one of you wants to save her, she may feel that all the problems are yours and she doesn’t owe you anything, and you will only become more helpless and she will only change. You have to be more arrogant. Sometimes human nature is like this, right?

I have read a good saying before, that is, the more I care about you, the more you will use my care for you as a bargaining chip for me to deal with you and for you to deal with me.This is actually a very sad thing
But sometimes.

what does it mean?What's the use of this thing?

.This is true many times, so you have to learn not to express something so directly. If you drag yourself out completely, it will be especially easy for her to deal with you. You have to learn to hide it.Lin Rou was thoughtful after listening to Xiao Ni's words.

Sometimes it turns out that this is the case.Many times, people encounter various problems and try to solve them.

Xiao Wen said at this time: "It is true in many cases. What do you think? I think if you quarrel with someone and you apologize, then she has not forgiven you because she is It is said that many wounds can be healed by not saying an apology. Does an apology just mean that it starts to heal? But healing requires time to recover and you also need to apply medicine. If you don’t help apply medicine, you don’t want to take the time to recover. I don’t want to wait for time to recover, so it will definitely be a difficult thing for me.”

After hearing this, Lin Rou also fell into deep thought. In fact, what Xiaowen and Xiaoni said were correct. Sometimes many things take time to heal. It is useless just to work hard on your own. The harder you work, the more likely it will be counterproductive. The more likely it is to cause the other party's wound to split, the more likely it is to cause the other party's wound to fail to heal.So you must learn to practice and learn to use time reasonably to eliminate the wounds between you.

Otherwise, it will be a very bad result. You try hard, but she doesn't forgive you. You try hard, but she still can't understand you. You try hard to repair the relationship, but she thinks you are just compensating you. Do what you should do. You have made such a big mistake now. It is natural for you to do so now.

Don't let the other party have such an idea, because this will cause a terrible result, because the harder you work, the more she will hate you. You really shouldn't do this, but if she has a very good mind, it may be the case. I will understand your difficulties.But there is no need to pin this kind of thing on others

(End of this chapter)