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Chapter 314 112: Love yourself first before loving others
Chapter 314 112: Love yourself first before loving others (second update)
Wei Jinfu carefully observed Chang Xi's expression while talking, deeply afraid that this cousin would be devastated by the blow, how should she comfort her, thinking that if her fiancé also came here, she would definitely collapse, but okay While that person was still in his filial piety, such things would definitely not be reported.
But this kind of thing can't be kept from my cousin, otherwise her conscience will be even more uneasy. After all, this kind of thing happens all over the world, and the person concerned doesn't know about it, and she will collapse if she thinks about it.
So she came to her cousin to inform her immediately.
Unexpectedly, Chang Xi's expression quickly recovered, and she was still able to smile, "So it's about this, cousin, don't worry about me, I already know that there are ups and downs outside, just listen to it, don't be too obsessed Besides, I know everything in my heart.”
Wei Jinfu's eyes widened immediately, needless to say the comforting words that she thought of exhaustingly, but she was still worried that her cousin would comfort her in turn, and then she would be sad alone.
"Cousin, do you really think so? In fact, if you are really sad, you can tell me, I..."
Seeing the cousin's still eager expression, Chang Xi re-emphasized helplessly, "Cousin, you can really rest assured that I really have nothing to do, let's not talk about whether he has changed his mind, even if he really does, he will How? Am I not going to live anymore? That’s not the case, I have a career and my own pursuit of ideals, and I have no reason to live and die for a man who betrayed me, that’s very meaningless.”
This is her sincere words, or the experience of her previous life has been too deeply influenced. She knows that she will never be able to like someone unreservedly. Before loving others, she must love herself first. This is her attitude towards love. It's all about self first.
She thought of her mother in her previous life, she flew like a moth to a flame that would burn her into a love, but in the end she failed, so she told herself that she would never let a man be her master.
"There is no one in this world who can't live without someone, cousin, if you face adversity one day, think more about what I said today, cousin."
Feeling that her tone seemed a bit heavy, she couldn't talk about such a heavy topic with the talented little girl, so she smiled lightly again and said, "Okay, just laugh, how do you say that poem, if the two feelings last for a long time , is it day and night?"
Wei Jinfu was actually deeply shocked by these words, which were completely different from the education she had received in the past, so many years later, when she encountered ups and downs in her life, she would revisit these words countless times in the dark, repeating them over and over again. Telling herself everywhere, she is the most precious existence in this world, and she should always love herself first, and then others.
"Cousin, I'm the one who got it. To tell you the truth, when the sisters were whispering together, they liked to listen to stories about gifted scholars and beautiful ladies. After hearing too much, it was inevitable that they would fall in love with them." She said with emotion on her face, " It is only now that I realize that there are actually problems with those stories.”
Chang Xi does not comment on the stories of gifted scholars and beautiful ladies. If there is a market for such stories, there must be a reason for its existence.
"Little girls are born to dream, and it's reasonable. Otherwise, how could the girlish feelings always be infatuated? But don't sink into it in the future." She took the opportunity to change the subject, "I saw you and me before. How is Xiaotao studying financial management? If you don’t understand something, you should ask, so that you can understand it thoroughly.”
Regardless of whether Wei Jinfu will apply what he has learned, as long as he is willing to learn, it is a good thing.
Hearing Chang Xi mention the knowledge she had learned recently, Wei Jinfu's eyes lit up. She now admires Xiao Tao very much. She can handle such complicated and messy accounts in an orderly manner. She thinks that she may It can be the same.
She quickly put aside the rumors of love and love, and seized the opportunity to ask Chang Xi for advice, because Xiaotao said that what she knew was taught by Mrs. Chang, so she had to take the opportunity to learn more from her cousin.
Inside, one asked for advice and the other patiently taught, which made Wei Guangnan secretly relieved, who had not entered the office to eavesdrop. When he saw his younger sister rushing over to find Chang Xi, he followed behind, who would have heard that the two cousins were talking about each other? Such a conversation.
It seems that it was right to let his younger sister come along this trip. If his younger sister develops the temperament of his aunt Wei Shi, he is really worried that if his brother-in-law has ulterior motives in the future, his younger sister will look for death and life, and then the headache will be even worse.
As for a man, it is inevitable that there will be another moment of temptation. He can't guarantee that he will be devoted to his wife. How can he guarantee that his brother-in-law will not steal food in the future?Just like my uncle mighty Marquis Wu, his face of stealing food is extremely ugly.
Relaxed all over, he turned around and left silently, without going in to disturb the teaching inside. He had seen the financial management that his sister was learning so far, and it was a very practical set of methods, so he very much supported his sister to learn it. Maybe he could use this set of methods in the future. The method is quoted in the Wei family industry.
When Zhao Jin received Chang Xi's reply, the weather in the capital was already very cold. Seeing her words in the letter, he knew she would not misunderstand. This made him very happy on the one hand, and frowned slightly on the other , she was still so rational that she refused to be jealous for him. Thinking about it, she seemed quite unfulfilled.
But soon, he put this idea aside, it was an annoyance born of dislike of living too smoothly, and it was nothing to worry about.
"Master, there is another girl outside who is touching porcelain, pretending to be knocked down by our carriage, this is the No. 20 of this month."
Zhou Nanji passed the emotionless words into the carriage again, and Zhao Jin, who was putting the letter in the brocade box which he had just received and read anxiously, looked impatient for a moment. After playing this trick for so long, isn't my aunt tired of it?
"Send people away. If you fail to do things well, your monthly payment for this month will be deducted."
Hearing the inhumane words of his master, Zhou Nan, who wanted to watch a good show, suddenly became ill. He didn't care about the secret ridicule of the coachman, so he quickly jumped out of the carriage to get rid of the girl who wanted to touch porcelain. There is no sympathy to talk about monthly money.
The girl was still chattering, but he said with a straight face, "Why don't you report it to the police?"
As soon as she heard the word "reporter", the girl's face changed, she stopped talking, but hurriedly recruited the maid who was hiding in the dark, and hurried away holding the maid's hand, girls from good families would not enter the yamen Yes, if your reputation is damaged, you will not be able to marry a good family.
The carriage started again, and Zhao Jin's expression eased. It's time to end this farce.
And Wei Shi, who also received Chang Xi's reply, concealed his excitement, carefully opened the letter and read it. Her daughter's handwriting was a bit scribbled, but this did not prevent her from reading it. She never thought that even after hearing her tip-off, her daughter It was still the same set of rhetoric, which made her put the letter aside in disappointment, stroked her forehead and moaned for pain.
The maid at the side hurried over to rub her forehead. She hated him, so she raised her hand and pushed the maid's hand away. She will definitely rush to Jingxing Teacher to ask her crimes, and then she will try her best to tie up the man and prevent the vixen outside from snatching her away...
Just as she was thinking wildly, she heard the maid guarding the gate say that the old lady was coming, so she got up to greet her hurriedly.
Mrs. Han walked in holding the hand of the nanny. Seeing the unhappy face of her daughter-in-law, she looked at the letter spread out on the case table, and asked knowingly, "Sister Xi came back from writing?"
After returning to Yiyang for so long, she didn't say to send her a letter to her grandmother. She was lying when she said she was not disappointed, but when she first recognized her relatives, she put her interests first, which made her unable to let go of her grandmother. Shelf took the initiative to write a letter to her granddaughter.
Wei Shi became happy again when she heard the words, "Yes, it was delivered today. Sister Xi said that everything is fine for her in Yiyang, so let's not miss her..."
While talking, she helped her mother-in-law to sit on the Luohan bed, and then unfolded her daughter's letter and showed it to her mother-in-law.
Mrs. Han was a little old and dizzy. The nurse at the side handed over the glasses, and she picked it up to read the letter written by the granddaughter. I have to say that the handwriting is quite similar to the granddaughter's temperament. I don't know where she learned this cursive script.
But what she cares most about is her letter's attitude towards the rumors about the eldest grandson. After reading it, she couldn't help laughing. This granddaughter is really confident. After all this, it is also her ability to let her move.
"Since sister Xi doesn't care, then we don't need to worry too much..."
"I really don't care, what if one day he sees the right person? Wouldn't it be disappointing sister Xi's heart..."
Wei Shi doesn't want her daughter to be frustrated in love, she has experienced it herself, and knows how uncomfortable it feels.
Mrs. Han really wanted to say that if there was such a day, it was Chang Xi who asked for it on her own, and she was no different from anyone else, but seeing her daughter-in-law's resentful eyes, her heart trembled, she must be thinking of her son's absurd behavior, When the words came to her lips, she changed her words again, "Sister Xi is always the first daughter of our mighty Marquis Mansion, and we will just choose a good one for her when the time comes, she is stubborn and stubborn, we can't let things go." It's too revealing."
Wei Shi nodded quickly, "It's my mother-in-law who is considerate. It's true. Seeing that she has found a good family to live a good life, I won't feel so sad."
Mrs. Han patted her daughter-in-law's hand to show her comfort. In fact, she knew in her heart that her own son was the one who was responsible for the son-changing incident, but she couldn't bear to blame her son, so she could only wrong her daughter-in-law.
Only then did Wei Shi feel a lot more comfortable in his heart.
But within a few days, she was happy again.
Nothing else, just because Zhao Jin said at the old emperor's place that he wanted to make up for the filial piety of his dead parents. This is what he should do for his parents after he recognized his ancestors and returned to the clan, and it is his duty as a son of man.
At the beginning, the old emperor was shocked by Zhao Jin's words, but when he heard the sentence about the duty of a son, he thought of his eldest son, who had not been enshrined and worshiped by his son for so many years, and couldn't help but feel pain up.
Immediately agreed to Zhao Jin's request, but Zhao Jin was not allowed to observe the filial piety for six years, but only allowed him to observe the filial piety for three years, and even took advantage of it to let him continue to walk in the palace without being affected by the filial piety period.
Zhao Jin's coquettish operation shocked the jaws of the people in the capital, is this okay?
But the eldest princess was very angry, this kid actually thought of such a way to avoid marriage, it is really unreasonable!
(End of this chapter)
Wei Jinfu carefully observed Chang Xi's expression while talking, deeply afraid that this cousin would be devastated by the blow, how should she comfort her, thinking that if her fiancé also came here, she would definitely collapse, but okay While that person was still in his filial piety, such things would definitely not be reported.
But this kind of thing can't be kept from my cousin, otherwise her conscience will be even more uneasy. After all, this kind of thing happens all over the world, and the person concerned doesn't know about it, and she will collapse if she thinks about it.
So she came to her cousin to inform her immediately.
Unexpectedly, Chang Xi's expression quickly recovered, and she was still able to smile, "So it's about this, cousin, don't worry about me, I already know that there are ups and downs outside, just listen to it, don't be too obsessed Besides, I know everything in my heart.”
Wei Jinfu's eyes widened immediately, needless to say the comforting words that she thought of exhaustingly, but she was still worried that her cousin would comfort her in turn, and then she would be sad alone.
"Cousin, do you really think so? In fact, if you are really sad, you can tell me, I..."
Seeing the cousin's still eager expression, Chang Xi re-emphasized helplessly, "Cousin, you can really rest assured that I really have nothing to do, let's not talk about whether he has changed his mind, even if he really does, he will How? Am I not going to live anymore? That’s not the case, I have a career and my own pursuit of ideals, and I have no reason to live and die for a man who betrayed me, that’s very meaningless.”
This is her sincere words, or the experience of her previous life has been too deeply influenced. She knows that she will never be able to like someone unreservedly. Before loving others, she must love herself first. This is her attitude towards love. It's all about self first.
She thought of her mother in her previous life, she flew like a moth to a flame that would burn her into a love, but in the end she failed, so she told herself that she would never let a man be her master.
"There is no one in this world who can't live without someone, cousin, if you face adversity one day, think more about what I said today, cousin."
Feeling that her tone seemed a bit heavy, she couldn't talk about such a heavy topic with the talented little girl, so she smiled lightly again and said, "Okay, just laugh, how do you say that poem, if the two feelings last for a long time , is it day and night?"
Wei Jinfu was actually deeply shocked by these words, which were completely different from the education she had received in the past, so many years later, when she encountered ups and downs in her life, she would revisit these words countless times in the dark, repeating them over and over again. Telling herself everywhere, she is the most precious existence in this world, and she should always love herself first, and then others.
"Cousin, I'm the one who got it. To tell you the truth, when the sisters were whispering together, they liked to listen to stories about gifted scholars and beautiful ladies. After hearing too much, it was inevitable that they would fall in love with them." She said with emotion on her face, " It is only now that I realize that there are actually problems with those stories.”
Chang Xi does not comment on the stories of gifted scholars and beautiful ladies. If there is a market for such stories, there must be a reason for its existence.
"Little girls are born to dream, and it's reasonable. Otherwise, how could the girlish feelings always be infatuated? But don't sink into it in the future." She took the opportunity to change the subject, "I saw you and me before. How is Xiaotao studying financial management? If you don’t understand something, you should ask, so that you can understand it thoroughly.”
Regardless of whether Wei Jinfu will apply what he has learned, as long as he is willing to learn, it is a good thing.
Hearing Chang Xi mention the knowledge she had learned recently, Wei Jinfu's eyes lit up. She now admires Xiao Tao very much. She can handle such complicated and messy accounts in an orderly manner. She thinks that she may It can be the same.
She quickly put aside the rumors of love and love, and seized the opportunity to ask Chang Xi for advice, because Xiaotao said that what she knew was taught by Mrs. Chang, so she had to take the opportunity to learn more from her cousin.
Inside, one asked for advice and the other patiently taught, which made Wei Guangnan secretly relieved, who had not entered the office to eavesdrop. When he saw his younger sister rushing over to find Chang Xi, he followed behind, who would have heard that the two cousins were talking about each other? Such a conversation.
It seems that it was right to let his younger sister come along this trip. If his younger sister develops the temperament of his aunt Wei Shi, he is really worried that if his brother-in-law has ulterior motives in the future, his younger sister will look for death and life, and then the headache will be even worse.
As for a man, it is inevitable that there will be another moment of temptation. He can't guarantee that he will be devoted to his wife. How can he guarantee that his brother-in-law will not steal food in the future?Just like my uncle mighty Marquis Wu, his face of stealing food is extremely ugly.
Relaxed all over, he turned around and left silently, without going in to disturb the teaching inside. He had seen the financial management that his sister was learning so far, and it was a very practical set of methods, so he very much supported his sister to learn it. Maybe he could use this set of methods in the future. The method is quoted in the Wei family industry.
When Zhao Jin received Chang Xi's reply, the weather in the capital was already very cold. Seeing her words in the letter, he knew she would not misunderstand. This made him very happy on the one hand, and frowned slightly on the other , she was still so rational that she refused to be jealous for him. Thinking about it, she seemed quite unfulfilled.
But soon, he put this idea aside, it was an annoyance born of dislike of living too smoothly, and it was nothing to worry about.
"Master, there is another girl outside who is touching porcelain, pretending to be knocked down by our carriage, this is the No. 20 of this month."
Zhou Nanji passed the emotionless words into the carriage again, and Zhao Jin, who was putting the letter in the brocade box which he had just received and read anxiously, looked impatient for a moment. After playing this trick for so long, isn't my aunt tired of it?
"Send people away. If you fail to do things well, your monthly payment for this month will be deducted."
Hearing the inhumane words of his master, Zhou Nan, who wanted to watch a good show, suddenly became ill. He didn't care about the secret ridicule of the coachman, so he quickly jumped out of the carriage to get rid of the girl who wanted to touch porcelain. There is no sympathy to talk about monthly money.
The girl was still chattering, but he said with a straight face, "Why don't you report it to the police?"
As soon as she heard the word "reporter", the girl's face changed, she stopped talking, but hurriedly recruited the maid who was hiding in the dark, and hurried away holding the maid's hand, girls from good families would not enter the yamen Yes, if your reputation is damaged, you will not be able to marry a good family.
The carriage started again, and Zhao Jin's expression eased. It's time to end this farce.
And Wei Shi, who also received Chang Xi's reply, concealed his excitement, carefully opened the letter and read it. Her daughter's handwriting was a bit scribbled, but this did not prevent her from reading it. She never thought that even after hearing her tip-off, her daughter It was still the same set of rhetoric, which made her put the letter aside in disappointment, stroked her forehead and moaned for pain.
The maid at the side hurried over to rub her forehead. She hated him, so she raised her hand and pushed the maid's hand away. She will definitely rush to Jingxing Teacher to ask her crimes, and then she will try her best to tie up the man and prevent the vixen outside from snatching her away...
Just as she was thinking wildly, she heard the maid guarding the gate say that the old lady was coming, so she got up to greet her hurriedly.
Mrs. Han walked in holding the hand of the nanny. Seeing the unhappy face of her daughter-in-law, she looked at the letter spread out on the case table, and asked knowingly, "Sister Xi came back from writing?"
After returning to Yiyang for so long, she didn't say to send her a letter to her grandmother. She was lying when she said she was not disappointed, but when she first recognized her relatives, she put her interests first, which made her unable to let go of her grandmother. Shelf took the initiative to write a letter to her granddaughter.
Wei Shi became happy again when she heard the words, "Yes, it was delivered today. Sister Xi said that everything is fine for her in Yiyang, so let's not miss her..."
While talking, she helped her mother-in-law to sit on the Luohan bed, and then unfolded her daughter's letter and showed it to her mother-in-law.
Mrs. Han was a little old and dizzy. The nurse at the side handed over the glasses, and she picked it up to read the letter written by the granddaughter. I have to say that the handwriting is quite similar to the granddaughter's temperament. I don't know where she learned this cursive script.
But what she cares most about is her letter's attitude towards the rumors about the eldest grandson. After reading it, she couldn't help laughing. This granddaughter is really confident. After all this, it is also her ability to let her move.
"Since sister Xi doesn't care, then we don't need to worry too much..."
"I really don't care, what if one day he sees the right person? Wouldn't it be disappointing sister Xi's heart..."
Wei Shi doesn't want her daughter to be frustrated in love, she has experienced it herself, and knows how uncomfortable it feels.
Mrs. Han really wanted to say that if there was such a day, it was Chang Xi who asked for it on her own, and she was no different from anyone else, but seeing her daughter-in-law's resentful eyes, her heart trembled, she must be thinking of her son's absurd behavior, When the words came to her lips, she changed her words again, "Sister Xi is always the first daughter of our mighty Marquis Mansion, and we will just choose a good one for her when the time comes, she is stubborn and stubborn, we can't let things go." It's too revealing."
Wei Shi nodded quickly, "It's my mother-in-law who is considerate. It's true. Seeing that she has found a good family to live a good life, I won't feel so sad."
Mrs. Han patted her daughter-in-law's hand to show her comfort. In fact, she knew in her heart that her own son was the one who was responsible for the son-changing incident, but she couldn't bear to blame her son, so she could only wrong her daughter-in-law.
Only then did Wei Shi feel a lot more comfortable in his heart.
But within a few days, she was happy again.
Nothing else, just because Zhao Jin said at the old emperor's place that he wanted to make up for the filial piety of his dead parents. This is what he should do for his parents after he recognized his ancestors and returned to the clan, and it is his duty as a son of man.
At the beginning, the old emperor was shocked by Zhao Jin's words, but when he heard the sentence about the duty of a son, he thought of his eldest son, who had not been enshrined and worshiped by his son for so many years, and couldn't help but feel pain up.
Immediately agreed to Zhao Jin's request, but Zhao Jin was not allowed to observe the filial piety for six years, but only allowed him to observe the filial piety for three years, and even took advantage of it to let him continue to walk in the palace without being affected by the filial piety period.
Zhao Jin's coquettish operation shocked the jaws of the people in the capital, is this okay?
But the eldest princess was very angry, this kid actually thought of such a way to avoid marriage, it is really unreasonable!
(End of this chapter)
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