After the divorce, the ex-husband traveled six years ago to learn male virtue

Chapter 78 It's your ex-husband's fault, not your problem

They are already divorced, and this matter will not cause Tang Jialin to worry about it until she suffered from insomnia last night, and today is still difficult.

"I can't figure out why I was so accommodating to him before. I feel stupid and very in love." Tang Jialin asked Xu Long, "Do you know what it means to be in love?"

Xu Long shook his head: "I don't know, but I don't think you are stupid, because in a relationship, you have to accommodate each other..."

"What if it's just me unilaterally over-accommodating?"

"That's your ex-husband's fault, it's not your problem." Xu Long said seriously, "Don't blame yourself, love someone seriously and unconsciously accommodate him, that's what everyone who falls in love will do."

"Do you know?"

"of course."

Tang Jialin was curious: "For example, which aspect?"

Xu Long has a special feeling for her now, and he is not willing to mention his past relationship, but when it comes to this point, if he doesn't give examples, Tang Jialin may not believe his words,

"For example, go to the movies I don't like with her, try the food I don't like, wear the clothes she gave me but I don't like."

Tang Jialin remembered the pair of couple cups, and asked again: "If your girlfriend bought couple items, such as a pair of cups, would you use them?"

"of course."

"Where are the couple shirts, will you wear them?"

Xu Long looked distressed: "I will wear it once or twice, no more."

"why?"

"It's very strange." When Xu Long said it was strange, his expression was also strange, "And they are all ugly."

Tang Jialin couldn't help smiling: "Actually, I also think that most couples' shirts are ugly."

Xu Long breathed a sigh of relief: "Why do you have to wear the same clothes? I like that everyone is different."

"But you can do things you don't like for the people you like?"

"Yes, if not too much."

"But sometimes, if you are more accommodating, you will gradually lose the bottom line, and even unconsciously make excuses for the other party to rationalize his unreasonable behavior. For example, my ex-husband never came to my grandma's house, and our whole family didn't feel that there was anything wrong with it." wrong."

"why?"

Tang Jialin sighed: "Because his family is very rich, my parents would feel that the village is too simple, and my grandparents also feel that the family is not suitable for hosting such a rich grandson-in-law."

"What about you?" Xu Long felt that Tang Jialin was not thinking about these things.

"I," Tang Jialin looked up and looked at the drones flying in the sky, "I always think that he is very busy and works very hard. Every time I come back to visit relatives, if I still want to visit my grandma and grandpa in the village, I will go back and forth on the same day. It's too late in the city."

"That's his problem." Xu Long once again convicted Tang Jialin's ex-husband, "No matter how busy you are at work, it won't be three years, and you won't even have time to visit the village once."

Tang Jialin said, "But I never mentioned it."

"It's good that you are accommodating him and understanding him. There's nothing wrong with it. It's him who is wrong." Xu Long emphasized.

Tang Jialin turned to look at his blue eyes as clear as the sky: "Really?"

"Really." Xu Long nodded earnestly, "As a husband, he should have thought of accompanying you to visit grandma and grandpa, why did you mention it?"

Tang Jialin's gaze also became firm: "You are right."

Xu Long continued: "I am not a judge of your ex-husband, but from what you said, I can hear that you are not equal in this relationship. He is very arrogant and did not pay reciprocally. This is his problem, not yours. Paying for it is stupid, cheap..."

He felt that he might have used the wrong words, so he lowered his head and asked, "What I mean, can you understand?"

Tang Jialin nodded. Not only did she understand, but she was also touched: "Thank you."

"No, thank you, it must be difficult to end a marriage." Xu Long raised his hand and lightly pressed Tang Jialin's shoulder. "You did it."

This is the first time someone has said this to her. When her family and friends heard about her decision to divorce or the news that she has divorced, what was the reaction? What happened? Is it irreparable?

No one thought that she would make this decision, and it would be "very difficult" when she actually got a divorce.

Also say in a congratulatory tone that you did it.

Tang Jialin felt her eye sockets warm, subconsciously looked away, and looked at Ye Niao who was still controlling the drone.

"Thank you," she murmured. "I feel better."

Xu Long actually saw the redness in her eyes, but since she wanted to cover it up, as a gentleman, she naturally pretended not to see it, so she picked up a random topic: "So what is love brain?"

"It means that only love is in your mind, and you will lose your reason and self because of love, and put all your energy on your lover, ignoring your family and friends... Maybe that's what it means."

"Is it a bad word?"

Tang Jialin nodded: "It's a derogatory term."

"You are not in love." Xu Long affirmed.

"I'm really not." Love brain is an adjective that popped up when Tang Jialin denied herself. Now that she calms down, she naturally doesn't think it is.

At this time, Ye Ling just finished filming, and they reviewed the filming materials together, counting the time, grandma and grandpa should wake up, so they went back together to continue filming in the afternoon.

Now it gets dark early, and grandma and grandpa also eat early dinner. They start cooking after five o'clock, and they start eating at six o'clock.

After dinner, Xu Long went out with his grandfather to feed the dog, closed the chicken coop, went back to the house to watch the news, talked for a while, and watched half a TV series with the two old people. The day's filming finally came to an end .

Xu Long thanked his grandparents for the day's hospitality in the camera, hugged and said goodbye to them, walked out of the room, and suddenly pointed to the sky: "There are so many stars."

Ye Niao, who was in charge of the camera, pointed the camera at the night sky and took the last set of shots.

"Okay, let's go back." Tang Jialin said to grandma and grandpa first, "It's cold outside, when we finish editing the film, I'll show it to you."

But grandma and grandpa still watched them get into the car and drive out before closing the door and going back.

Xu Long sat in the car and kept using his mobile phone to take pictures of the small courtyard that was drifting away. He didn't press the button to stop recording until the car drove onto the main road from the village.

"I really like it here." He said looking at the quiet village under the night.

"If you like it, wait until the small building is built, and stay here for a few more days." Sun Yueqin, who was finally able to speak freely, replied.

"I will definitely come." Xu Long turned around and smiled at Tang Jialin's mother.

His smile was always so bright, Sun Yueqin was also happy to see it, and said to Ye Ling: "You are coming too, you can barbecue in the yard then."

Tang Jialin was driving the car and listening to them imagine playing after the new house was built, her mood was different from yesterday, and she felt very comfortable.

Yes, she has come out of that unequal marriage, there is no need to look back, let alone reflect.

The future is so exciting, she just needs to welcome it with joy, why think so much?
(End of this chapter)