Affectionate trapping

Chapter 50 My Life Plan

Zhou Weilin looked up, a little distressed: "Then I am C and she is B? He just thinks that I am a very suitable person to marry?"

Wen Xi pondered and said: "You may also be A. After getting along with you, he likes to fall in love with you and wants to marry you, but he can't resist the temptation of B, and thinks that you will never find out, and thinks about it too." It's just an impulsive pre-marital episode, he may be telling himself that when he gets married to you, he will break up with that woman, you don't know anything, he is still the loyal boyfriend or husband who loves you .”

"But unfortunately, you found out."

Zhou Weilin's eyelashes trembled, feeling an indescribable feeling in her heart.

"So he still loves me, right?"

Wen Xi said, "Maybe."

Lost for a long time, she murmured again: "Then should I forgive him?"

"Forgive him, continue to be with him, pretend nothing happened, and then get married, what about that child? Get rid of it?"

Zhou Weilin, who was stunned, woke up suddenly, "Yes, the child, and the child..."

She shook her head firmly: "No, I can't be that executioner, even indirectly, but..."

She lost her mind again and said: "But doctor, what did I do wrong?"

"You did nothing wrong."

"Then why did I have to go through this?"

Wen Xi said slowly: "In fact, after encountering some things, many people will express such emotion, 'Where did I not do well enough?' 'Why do I experience this kind of pain?' Complaints like this, will think about God Is it too unfair to you, let you suffer this kind of thing, but we have ignored it, this is actually a high probability event, everyone is experiencing suffering, and facing this problem, people have only two solutions, That’s acceptance or change.”

"You can't change it, so you can only accept it."

Zhou Weilin cried and said, "But I can't accept it."

"Well, many people can't accept it." Wen Xi turned and said, "Let's change the question. What have you learned from this incident?"

She asked in a daze, "What have you learned?"

"Yes, or what lesson did you learn?"

She frowned and thought: "Men are not reliable, and I shouldn't put all my thoughts on him. If... I am very capable at work, can make money, and can give myself a good life, I won't be in a relationship with him." He was so sad at parting, so... dazed."

"Very well, Ms. Zhou, it seems that you have found the key." Wen Xi changed the subject: "As for his betrayal, did you really feel nothing before you found out? Want to think deeply?"

Zhou Weilin was silent.

How could they not notice it? They have been in love for so long, and they will notice something wrong.

The most real thing is that he won't have such an obvious impulse towards her as before, and sometimes even use tiredness to prevaricate her initiative.

But she didn't want to say it, and she didn't want to admit that she couldn't provoke his sex/desire, which was very damaging to a woman's dignity.

Although she didn't say anything, Wen Xi already got the answer, "Now I can pull out your mother's words again, and the conclusion is that men will cheat in the future, but as long as they have money, everything else can be tolerated, right? "

Zhou Weilin raised her head: "Yes."

"Then how can you guarantee that in the future he won't meet someone who is better than you in his heart, a more suitable marriage partner, and abandon you? If he does, he wants to divorce you, and you can get What?"

Zhou Weilin suddenly felt as if she had fallen into an ice cellar, her face was as pale as paper, as if she would be surrounded by great helplessness and pain as long as she thought about this possibility deeply.

Wen Xi continued: "A man's infidelity lies in both his feelings and his sense of responsibility. He lost his feelings for you and his sense of responsibility. How can you believe that he won't make the same mistake again after marriage? He betrayed you on impulse. , Will you abandon you in the future because of a sudden impulse to switch to the gentle land of others?"

"Even though that woman had a romantic relationship with him, he could tell her to kill the child. Then, when you get married in the future, will you maintain your sense of responsibility for your child?"

Zhou Weilin seemed to wake up completely at this moment. She knew that she would never marry him again, and she couldn't continue, but the unreconciled feeling in her heart continued to make trouble, as well as incomprehension, remorse and complaints, all kinds of negative emotions piled up , making her stuck in a dead end and unable to get out.

Yeah, how could she trust him?

A person who can frankly say "delete" even his own flesh and blood.

She suddenly covered her face, filled with grief, what kind of person did she fall in love with...

Her voice was extremely hoarse: "Did I feed the dog in the past six years?"

Wen Xi lifted her finger lightly, landed on top of her head, pressed lightly, and said softly: "I just asked you, what lessons have you learned, and your answer seems to me that your six years are not in vain, you know made sense."

"If you put your own happiness and life on others, you will never feel safe and you will not be free."

Wen Xi withdrew his hand and looked at her red eye circles, "Who can take full responsibility for another person's life? Even parents can't do it."

Zhou Weilin choked up: "You are right."

"you're right……"

"I'm so stupid, I'm just an out-and-out love brain, I actually think that he is my whole life, and he exists in all my life plans. I came to this city to work for him, and abandoned him for him. Every opportunity to be promoted, to be a canary raised by him, seems to be unable to live without him."

"I'm a whole person, I'm so young, I can't be like this."

Wen Xi also breathed a sigh of relief. Sometimes psychological counseling is a very tiring task. Some people have a strong desire to talk, and they will say all the things that are boring in their hearts. At this time, she will slowly sort out everything. Then control the rhythm and lead her to think.

Fortunately, Zhou Weilin is a person who is good at thinking and candid enough.

On the other hand, Yao Manqing's kind is much more difficult.

She looked at each other: "When you encounter something you can't accept, if you replace 'why did I go through this' with 'what did I get from this', maybe it will make you feel a lot better."

"I see, thank you doctor." She seemed to have found the meaning of life in the future: "I will re-examine my career and life after I go back, and I will formulate a life plan of my own."

"I wish you to come out as soon as possible and get a new life."

Zhou Weilin showed a relaxed smile: "I may come to you again in the future."

It's just that it won't work in the near future, and she needs to save money for her poor life.

　Shen Yuli: Baby, you are my ABC
　　Wen Xi: ...

　　
　
(End of this chapter)