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Chapter 103 The Man Behind the Scenes (15)

After hearing this, the woman frowned and asked, "Don't you think that it's actually your own problem? If you didn't take your feelings so seriously and give yourself blindly, in fact, you wouldn't get what you don't want. result.

What's more, friends are originally gentlemen's friends, and they are as light as water. It is a very stupid way to insist on having something to do with him, or want to have something to do with him.

And if you want to have someone who will never be separated from you for the rest of your life, this is actually an unrealistic thing, because there are many things in your life that you cannot predict, and what you think is good now, there are Maybe it won't get better after a while.

What you think is bad now may become good in a short time, and none of us can change things.So why do you only think about changing others instead of changing yourself? In fact, in the end, none of us can blame it, but ourselves. The decision at the time was too stupid, and it was not a decision that a person should make at all.

Don't you feel that all your behavior is because you are too dependent on the other party?They are just your friends, not people who can spend the whole life with you. Even if it is your wife, no matter how much you love her, you will lose each other one day.

These are unreliable things, why should you depend on others?Can you guarantee that even if you are married, you will find your life partner?

Will she never leave you too?This is too stupid. There are many accidents in this world. It may be that you leave first or the other party leaves first. "

The man sighed, "I just feel that I have been too lonely since I was a child. When I was young, I longed to have a very good friend, because I see that many people have their own good friends. Their relationship is so intimacy.

It's like a real brother, and I not only don't have my own brothers, but I also don't have my own good friends. I always feel that I am very pitiful.

But after such a long time, I found that it was not what I imagined, maybe I was too obsessed, but it didn't make sense for me to do so, if he doesn't want to be the best friend in this life, he You can tell me at the beginning why you should wait until after I have paid a lot to tell me.

Their feelings for me are just ordinary friends, nothing else, and they don't think I'm so unique, so special, is it all my fault?
Don't they have a little bit of their own fault?I have never felt that no matter what kind of relationship between two people, it is only the fault of the other party, and there must be their own faults, and those who can blame all the faults on the other party are actually the most vicious people in this world people.

I don’t think these are reasonable excuses. At the beginning, if you realize that the other party is particularly interested in you and you don’t want to, then you should tell the other party instead of letting them misunderstand your intentions.

As a result, he paid too much to you, and in the end he paid a lot that he shouldn't pay, and you really feel that these are completely unnecessary, but it will make people very sad.

I think people who do this are simply too irresponsible. Anyway, I have no way to accept it, and I will not become such a person. "

The woman shook her head and said: "Actually, many people don't have much purpose when they make friends. They just think that the other party is more imaginative than their own personality, and they also have a lot of the same interests.

People who think they can get along with each other will make friends together, but they didn't expect to have a long-term relationship with this person, or to become best friends with him in this life. Others don't believe it. The true thoughts in the hearts of most people.

And it's also a very normal one. If you put all your heart on the other person, you feel that as long as you have it, you can lose everything, or you can give for him what you want or even for a long time. It is very great for you to think that something can only be obtained with great difficulty.

But others don't think that the reason you do this is because you don't take yourself seriously, you always pin your hopes on others excessively, thus forming all kinds of illusions about others, and your life is full of In your fantasy, that's why you are so depressed, doing nothing every day.

Put all your emotions on others, and later you may feel that it is their fault because they failed you.For his care, you think that if you care about a person, he should treat you with care, but is that what he asks for?Does he want you to do this?
But you don’t think he doesn’t want it, that is, he really doesn’t want it, but you feel that the other party is really embarrassed, and you will only pay according to your own ideas, but you never consider the other party’s feelings, so in the end the other party feels You are baffled, but you feel that the other party is a particularly ruthless person, and there is no love at all.

You think that it is the other party's ruthlessness that made you like this, but there is no such thing as a house in the world, and you have to pay for this kind of thing.Only then, I always know that you may have your own mistakes, but I can't help you, and I don't help you because I think you are so good.

This is the difficulty I have encountered now, so as long as you help, the premise is that I need it, but if one day I don't need your help, but you still give me help, I will only feel that I am very grateful to you.

But I really don't need it, but if it were you, you would think that since I helped you, you should repay me double. This kind of thinking is particularly dangerous and terrifying.I am also very afraid of this kind of person. If I meet this kind of person, I will only feel that I have met the wrong person, and I will avoid it very carefully.

I just have no way to break these contacts with you now. After all, I really need your help now, but if you keep going like this, maybe one day I will feel that no matter how hard I am, I won’t give up because of you. Just hurting others, in fact, although I was a charlatan before.

But I am not the kind of person who will deceive everyone, I will not deceive such innocent people, even every time I deceive a person, I will go according to the person I think is a bad person, I will not deceive A good person, and this girl is not a bad person at first glance, I think she is quite innocent. "

(End of this chapter)