Doom Roar

"Forget it, you don't need to answer." Seeing Xu Mo's silence for a long time, He Shang completely understood, sat on the armrest of the sofa and patted Xu Mo's shoulder comfortingly, "What is your biggest shortcoming?" They all think too much, too long-term. It doesn't matter about other things, but you can't look at it that way when it comes to feelings.

To say a cliché, how old are you now? .Can you be sure now that you will spend your future life hand in hand with Lin Yijing?Even if you can guarantee it, doesn't Lin Yijing have the possibility and right to choose a partner again?

The future is full of too many variables, since no one knows where his future will go, why can't he give Li Li a chance?Similarly, this is also giving yourself a chance to confirm your true heart, isn't it? "

"Originally?" Xu Mo raised his head suddenly, He Shang's words seemed to catch him, but he couldn't see clearly.

"Yes, my heart." He Shang held up his glasses. What he was most worried about was that Xu Mo would go into a corner because of this incident, but now it seems that this is impossible. "The most difficult thing in the world to see through is your own. Original heart... Just like you and Xu Bilin back then, did you like her because of your original heart? If that is really your original heart, then what is your current feeling for Lin Yijing? Use her to make up for it The emptiness and loneliness after losing Xu Bilin?"[

"No! I never thought of that!"

Xu Mo excitedly said that he may not have had such a vigorous vow to Lin Yijing, but the warm memories accumulated bit by bit are not allowed to be doubted and desecrated by anyone.

"You and my best friend for so many years, of course I know what kind of person you are." He Shang put his hand on Xu Mo's shoulder, motioning him to remain calm, "On the other hand, you can be sure of your feelings for Lin Yijing now." Is it all out of your heart? Isn't there a little bit of vanity to be the goddess in the hearts of all the boys in the school?"

"I……"

Xu Mo could refute what He Shang said. Long before she had in-depth contact with Lin Yijing, she had already been the dream lover in Xu Mo's heart. The vanity and complacency of chasing back, how is that possible?

"The so-called love is inherently complicated. It is not pure in itself. On the contrary, it is a higher-level emotion produced by the mixture of many emotions. But if it is explained from the final result, it is actually nothing more than attracting and adapting to this kind of emotion." A state of balance between the two.

Attraction is the prerequisite for love. People, especially men, will inevitably be attracted to many women in their life, to varying degrees... But in the end, the man's choice may not be the one that attracts him the most. Why is this?

That's because, a truly complete love also includes this necessary condition.

Just like Xu Bilin is also attracted to you, but you also know very well that she is not suitable for you, because she likes the type of boy Ouyang Ning, and she just likes the feeling of being friends with you.

But Lin Yijing is different, although she may not attract you like Xu Bilin at first, but she is gentle and virtuous, she is understanding, she has all the excellent qualities of a good wife and mother, so she is more suitable for you than Xu Bilin.

Very attractive plus extremely unsuitable, generally attractive plus very suitable, that's why you finally gave up on Xu Bilin and came together with Lin Yijing.

Don't say that Lin Yijing's persistence moved you, the final result of love is only related to attraction and suitability, and nothing else.If it was Zhang Xiaoxiao, even if she begged you at the door of your house every day, would you agree?No, because she is neither attractive nor suitable for you. "

"Then... what kind of feelings do I have for Li Li?" Xu Mo looked at He Shang with pleading eyes, hoping to find the real answer from him.

"Perhaps there is something about Li Li that attracts you? Although she is not suitable for you, it can make you in a dilemma between her and Lin Yijing, who is absolutely suitable for you. That's the only reason."

Perhaps from the perspective of a bystander, He Shang could clearly see Xu Mo's inner struggle.

Pausing for a moment to give Xu Mo some time to calm his thoughts, He Shang stepped forward and patted Xu Mo on the shoulder, saying: "Love is a multiple-choice question... The result of focusing on attraction and despising suitability is sweet first and then bitter; heavy The result suitable for light attraction is bitterness first and then sweetness. There is no better or worse between the two. There is actually no difference between eating sugar or taking medicine first. It depends on which aspect you value more.

Give Li Li a chance, this is not only responsible to yourself, but also to Lin Yijing.

Otherwise, if one day, when Li Li puts on the wedding dress prepared for her by others, you suddenly discover your true nature, how will you let Lin Yijing deal with herself?Even if you really get together and let her live in Li Li's shadow for the rest of her life, don't you think that would be more cruel? "

"But……"[

"Nothing to worry about." He Shang forcibly interrupted Xu Mo's last insistence, stared into his eyes and said seriously: "Xu Mo, love is not marriage, there is no so-called responsibility, it's just two people deciding whether they can grow up with each other A mutual exploration process of living together time... If you insist on imposing on this process the responsibility that only belongs to the result, it will not only be a kind of pressure on yourself, but also a kind of breathlessness for the other party bondage, do you understand?"

bondage?Will Lin Yijing feel constrained by her insistence?

Xu Mo suddenly found that his cognition of love seemed to be once again as blurred as a moon in water and a flower in mist.

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Room 701, seventh floor, Nanzheng Municipal Government.

This was originally the private office of a bureau-level leader in the Nanzheng City Government Building. After the entire building was requisitioned by the military as a temporary headquarters, this office was used as a part of the female dormitory because it had a separate bathroom. The time is for female members of the "Constellation" special forces team.

The layout of the room is surprisingly simple. The boss desk, boss chair, and some bookshelves, file cabinets and other furniture to show the status of the owner of the office have all been moved to the corners of the room. Wait for the cleaning tools to pile up.

A log single bed, a single bedside cabinet, and a small desk lamp were placed alone in the corner near the door and the bathroom.

There was a foldable square table with the same texture as logs, and some ordinary junior high school textbooks were piled up on the table, as well as... a plate of steamed buns that had long since ceased to emit heat.