Merchant and doctor

Chapter 1078: The Secret of Harmony
One of the core ideas of Chinese studies lies in the word "harmony". As the main component of Chinese studies, traditional Chinese medicine and pharmacy also attach great importance to the word "harmony". Chinese medicine treatment and Chinese medicine preparation have always emphasized the harmony of heaven, earth and man.

As an individual, if a professional Chinese medicine physician wants to reach the highest level of Chinese medicine and Chinese pharmacology, in addition to practicing, refining, and diligently studying medical skills and pharmacology, he or she must also pay attention to the word "harmony" in his or her personal and family life. This aspect gives Chinese medicine doctors, especially those very outstanding ones, a certain unique temperament.

In daily life, you may bump into a man or a woman unexpectedly in a certain occasion, and feel that his or her temperament is quite different from that of ordinary citizens. After asking casually, you will find out that he or she is a very famous Chinese medicine doctor.

In Bian Mu's impression, most of the senior teachers who exude the temperament of famous doctors have very good personal marriages, which are harmonious and happy!
It definitely represents the word "and".

Nie Yixiong, Cen Songxue, Meng Shulan... almost without exception, at least, they sound happy.

Bian Mu has already encountered a counterexample in this regard: Ouyang Ziye.

According to Huang Boxi, Ouyang Ziye's family life is actually quite happy. His wife is seven or eight years younger than him and is a teacher at a national-level ministry-affiliated college. She is a talented woman. In addition, Ouyang Ziye and his wife have a son and a daughter. I dare not say that they are outstanding, but at least the two children are not ordinary.

however……

Ouyang Ziye happened to have thoughts about the female assistant beside him that he shouldn't have, and as a result... Ouyang Ziye was never able to improve his medical skills, and eventually he gradually became a "typical doctor", which is quite sad.

Theoretically speaking, if Bian Mu really wants to achieve outstanding achievements in traditional Chinese medicine and Chinese pharmacology, he should get married at the right age and marry a good wife with both talent and virtue to help him manage the household. Only in this way will he be able to reach the pinnacle of his personal career development in the future.

Alas! What a pity! Theory is theory, reality is reality, the Bian family is quite poor, let alone buying a house and getting married in Lijin City, taking a step back, going back home, living in a small county town, relying on the existing medical skills to make a living, but supporting a family and becoming famous? At present... it's really difficult!

What era is this now? The Bian family can’t even afford a house of their own in their hometown, a small county town. To this day, the family of four still has to rent a house!
Bian Mu had reflected on this question many times. Logically, his father was a versatile old technician, proficient in carpentry, lathe, fitter, forging, welding... almost everything. Apart from other things, several of his apprentices had both a car workshop and a workshop. It was strange that after decades, his father really didn't save much.

My mother is a very strong-willed person. She has a high level of education for a small county town. She is smart, skillful, and good at math. Although she was unlucky and her former company went bankrupt early, it did not prevent her from calculating the family's livelihood carefully.

The Bian Mu brother and sister have been very sensible since they were young and never spend money indiscriminately.

Somehow, the Bian family seemed to have accidentally offended the God of Wealth, and it has been very difficult for them to recover financially...

Since ancient times, it has been impossible for a poor family to marry a wife. No matter how smart and capable Bian Mu was, he was short of money. Not to mention buying a house and marrying a wife, he even felt a little hesitant to have a girlfriend.

Even so, if Bian Mu is determined to rent a small house and get married, he still has the ability to do so. For example, Nana from the Feng family in his hometown likes Bian Mu, but... Bian Mu does not want to get married just to start a family.

No matter what, Bian Mu also needs to find a close partner who shares similar interests and interests and gets along naturally. Isn't the Bian family not wealthy? So he won't force anything else.

Over the years, Bian Mu gradually realized that he had thought too simply about this matter! The minds of those outstanding girls of the same age were very complicated! When dealing with them, Bian Mu was always very immature...even...he was not their opponent at all. Over time, the desire to start a family gradually faded...

In the dead of night, Bian Mu slowly figured out one thing: the Bian family was too poor, and his ambitions since childhood were probably a bit naive. Well! As a second choice, he would first refine his medical skills to the highest level he could reach, and at the same time, he would pray to the God of Wealth for some fortune and slowly save some wealth for the Bian family. At the very least, his sister Bian Yue must not be too shabby when she gets married in the future!
……

It was not until he met Qi Yuewei that Bian Mu's increasingly cold and lonely "heart of family" began to loosen up...

To be honest, Qi Yuewei is definitely the most ideal partner. Moreover, the two of them have gradually laid a certain emotional foundation. Bian Mu always feels that he is not too one-sided, but... the difference between the two families is too great. Once the realistic factors are substituted into the "love function equation" of the two for further solution, Bian Mu's heart immediately becomes cold...

Bian Mu is skilled in mathematics, and each step of his calculations has a strict mathematical basis. In this regard, he has always been meticulous. In his spare time, Bian Mu often predicts the final outcome of himself and Qi Yuewei. Every time, Bian Mu is quite disappointed.

Maybe, this is the so-called fate? !
……

Lu Yisi and Qi Yuewei arrived quite quickly, chatting and laughing. Lu Yisi opened the door very gentlemanly and asked Qi Yuewei to go in first. Bian Mu noticed that the two of them got along very naturally.

"You're right! They are a perfect match, this golden boy and jade girl! As the children of a wealthy investment family, they can be considered a well-matched couple!" He was really talking about something irrelevant. No one understood what he was talking about at the moment, and Dr. Yue even praised him with a few words.

For no apparent reason, it seemed as if a ball of cotton was suddenly stuffed into Bian Mu's chest. He couldn't spit it out, and it was difficult to swallow. He felt so uncomfortable!

Fortunately, Bian Mu still had some self-control, and he gently placed the spoon and chopsticks in his hands on the plate. For a moment, his appetite was gone!
Bian Mu and his friends sat at a small dining table. Qi Yuewei, who was always well-behaved, naturally chose to sit next to Bian Mu. Lu Yisi sat opposite Bian Mu with confidence, and Dr. Yue naturally gave way to him. As a result, Lu Yisi ended up occupying a large space with his back to the store door.

Seeing that the eldest daughter of the Qi family didn't mind hinting to the outside world about her close relationship with him, the annoying "heart cotton" in Bian Mu's chest suddenly disappeared without a trace...

His medical skills were gradually becoming divine, but... in terms of personal emotions, Bian Mu was sometimes as naive as a child...

Doctor Yue was not very familiar with Qi Yuewei and Lu Yisi, but she was not a stranger to them at all. She was always polite in her behavior and called a waiter to remove all the almost finished meals to make some room for new dishes.

The new dishes were served very quickly. Qi Yuewei and Lu Yisi took a few bites and praised Bian Mu for his good taste.

The four of them were having a great time eating together as they chatted and laughed...

During the dinner, Lu Yisi asked Bian Mu several very sharp academic questions from the perspective of Western medicine emergency treatment. Bian Mu answered them one by one with ease and laughter. After a while, the two of them had a very good chat...

Dr. Yue chatted with Qi Yuewei about the recent stock market situation...