Merchant and doctor

Chapter 1082 The Golden Years Are Only Thirteen Years

Since moving to the city, Bian Mu has had almost no decent leisure life. This is not because he is naturally introverted and prefers quietness to activity.

When I was a child, my grandfather would occasionally say: It is impossible for a person to be lucky all his life. The best time to change one's destiny is only 13 years. If you miss it, you miss it. No matter how lucky you are or how great a family you were born into, once you miss those 13 years, it can never be reversed!
To this day, Bian Mu firmly believes that what his grandfather said was right! He has always believed it without a doubt.

After graduating from college, I have been doing nothing. In the blink of an eye, the two or three years of "social adaptation period" are gone. Roughly speaking, the only golden ten years in my life that I can fully utilize can no longer be missed.

Within ten years, Bian Mu must grow into a well-known, qualified professional Chinese medicine physician, and be only one step away from the level of Nie Yixiong and others. If God has mercy and opportunities permit, within ten years, even at the risk of his life, Bian Mu will try his best to surpass the level of Nie Yixiong and others.

Not only that, in the commercial operation of traditional Chinese medicine, Bian Mu also plans to make more money, preferably a fortune.

These two major life events only last for ten years, and Bian Mu can only fight alone and take care of both. So... dare he waste even a little bit of his spare time? !
Slightly different from his colleagues in the industry headed by Nie Yixiong, Bian Mu is proficient in mathematics and is a master in arithmetic. When he usually sees patients and meets various successful people in society, he will chat with them intentionally or unintentionally. On the one hand, it is to obtain more information about the patients and thus cure them completely at the lowest cost; on the other hand, Bian Mu is somewhat selfish. He has to use their kind of empirical evidence to further verify whether the life experience summaries that his grandfather mentioned can stand the test of social practice.

Today, the conclusions drawn by Bian Mu through repeated use of the incomplete induction method have basically verified his grandfather's life advice. Everyone has only one chance to work hard in their life, and the longest period is only 13 years. As for whether you start working hard in your twenties, or work hard in your thirties, or you are a late bloomer and realize the urgency of life in your forties or fifties, or some people, like Jiang Ziya, start working hard in their sixties...

The final result is the same. God only gives you a golden period of 13 years. If you miss it, most people will have no hope.

The lucky ones are always a minority and their proportion will never exceed 7%.

Bian Mu never considered himself a lucky man. In his opinion, as long as God has mercy on him and does not make things difficult for him when he has the most energy, the most intelligence, the most opportunities... then he is already very lucky!

As a result, he almost never participates in parties, socializing with classmates and colleagues, romance, shopping, walking the dog, traveling... simply because he has no time!

Bian Mu must work hard for at least ten years. After ten years, if he is really unlucky, he will just accept it and go back to his hometown, live whatever life he wants, be content with poverty, study medicine, or even find a quiet place to write books, which can be a good destination in life!
For this reason, Bian Mu's understanding of the struggle stage of life is naturally a little deeper than that of his peers. At least half of his remaining spare time is used by him to summarize daily medical cases. To date, Bian Mu has written more than 10 million words of "medical notes" in paper notebooks and computer hard drives.

In "Medical Notes", Bian Mu summarized a lot of medical experience, one of which is this: if we look at it from the perspective of a medical practitioner, the relatively wealthy or even very wealthy class is more likely to carry high negative energy and negative magnetic fields than the class with the same type of slightly worse economic conditions. In layman's terms, the probability of the poor being healthy and happy may be higher.

Mr. Miao's past experience just proves this point. In "Medical Notes", Bian Mu also summarized one point: when a person is seriously ill or about to develop a serious illness, people with poor economic conditions, of course, there is a premise, adults! People of this class are more likely to accept the adverse health consequences, their mentality is relatively relaxed, the adaptation period is often very short, and their hearts are relatively calm.

On the contrary, the better the economic situation is, the harder it is to accept it, and it is even easy to collapse and despair. Bian Mu believes that, apart from other factors, the more successful people are, the more unwilling they are to accept it, and almost no one can accept that cruel fact.

Based on this medical knowledge, Bian Mu gradually developed a habit in his medical practice: whenever he met patients with very good economic conditions and who were doing well on the street, once he found out that they were suffering from some serious illness or were about to develop in that direction, he would suggest that the other party call a few of their most trusted relatives and friends to sit together and have a frank talk.

Bian Mu was unwilling to discuss similar illnesses with them alone.

Of course, in doing this, Bian Mu has another consideration: in order to avoid conflicts between doctors and patients and minimize medical accidents, Bian Mu must provide himself with some necessary witnesses, just in case.

When I was in high school, there was a very quiet boy in my class. He was handsome, did well in his studies, and was very good at playing table tennis. His only shortcoming was that he was a little "feminine". I had never seen him talk loudly to anyone, and he could never utter a dirty word. He never argued with anyone and was only thinking about getting into a good university.

Once, because of a pretty girl in the school who was in the same grade as Bian Mu and his classmates, the very quiet boy inexplicably offended several male classmates, two of whom were a year older than Bian Mu and his classmates, and they were all tall and strong.

After school, there was a small alley next to the school. Those boys blocked the very quiet boy in it, pushing and shoving, making the boy very embarrassed. Bian Mu got angry at the time and stepped forward to argue for his classmate. After a disagreement, the two sides started fighting. There was no suspense in the end: Bian Mu won!

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To this day, that very quiet male classmate has been in contact with Bian Mu. The amazing thing is that he eventually passed the lawyer's license exam and now works as a professional lawyer in Beiqi. It is said that in their line of work, that very quiet male classmate is doing very well and is quite proud of himself!

You really can’t judge a person by his appearance!
Sometimes when chatting on the phone, the very quiet male classmate mentioned to Bian Mu many times: When lawyers are fighting lawsuits, the people they should least trust are precisely their bread and butter: their clients!
Combining his brief medical experience, Bian Mu followed a certain logic and deduced that as a doctor, especially a Chinese medicine doctor, one must always remind himself that sometimes, the people who should not be trusted the most may be one's own patients, especially those patients who have received higher education, have a good daily income, look pleasing to the eye, speak pleasantly...

Therefore, for patients like Mr. Miao, Bian Mu must take precautions in advance.

There is no other way. Bian Mu is practicing medicine alone on the street, and he must always be aware of the security system!