Time flies in the world of film and television

Seeing Andy in pain, Han Tao knew that she was under too much mental pressure, so he asked:

"Andy, the most important thing you should do now is to calm down and recall carefully. Can you confirm that your grandma and your mother are both mentally ill? Can you confirm that their illnesses are caused by genetic factors? The results of it?"

"No, I was very young at the time, so I didn't know about it at all. I just vaguely remembered that my mother went crazy later, but I've checked it before, and the genetic probability of mental illness in the immediate family is 46 out of [-]. .”

After all, Andy's expression became even more bewildered. She couldn't remember too many things at that time, but she knew that she and her mother wandered around after leaving grandma's house, and basically didn't have much memory of grandma.

Han Tao held her hand, shook his head directly and said: "Andy, from this point of view, you are not sure whether there are some aspects of the family genetics, right?

And you don't know why your grandmother is sick, so we can't just listen to Wei Guoqiang and confirm that your mother's illness is caused by heredity.

You don’t know much about China. They lived in a special era at that time, and there were many things that could lead to a person’s mental breakdown, such as being severely stimulated, which was not necessarily a hereditary mental illness.

And I can clarify one problem in your narration, that is, your mother didn't have a mental illness from the beginning, otherwise, how could Wei Guoqiang, a young talent who went to Daishan from the magic capital to the countryside, fall in love with a mental illness, but after so many years Didn't get sick, why did it suddenly happen? "

Andy looked at Han Tao, frowned, and returned: "I've already mentioned this issue, Wei Guoqiang said that my mother had a high fever and kept falling ill after accidentally falling into the water."

"This is the problem. Why did such an excellent person choose to be with your mother after returning to his hometown? You must know that people at that time could leave the countryside, and few returned, and your mother really Did it accidentally fall into the water?

If it was not accidentally falling into the water, but committing suicide by jumping into the river, it would be completely different. According to what Wei Guoqiang said, your mother supported him in the college entrance examination, and even waited for him to go to college. Instead, when Wei Guoqiang was in his senior year, would she suddenly jump into the river?

Even if your mother really fell into the water accidentally, and then had a high fever for a month, followed by a low-grade fever for a long time, and then had a complete mental problem, then when did your mother have you? "

"This…………"

Andy was stunned. Her attention was all on Wei Guoqiang's saying that her father had mental problems, so she ignored how and when she came to this world.

But Andy's memory is superb, and he immediately remembered what Wei Guoqiang said. He came home after receiving a notice from the village when he was in senior year, and he also sought medical treatment for his mother, which meant that his mother was not pregnant before that.

Otherwise, when the doctor saw his mother, he would not have known that she was pregnant, and Wei Guoqiang would not have been unaware of himself. If so, it should be a year after his mother fell ill that he became pregnant with him.

If things were really like Wei Guoqiang said, his mother's mental state was not good after falling into the water, then Wei Guoqiang was afraid that it would be too late, how could he make out with a mental patient, and even make her pregnant?

But what Wei Guoqiang said is not true, so there is only one possibility, that is, the mother was stimulated by Wei Guoqiang's sudden disappearance after she was pregnant, and finally caused a mental illness, because only this explanation is more reasonable.

Thinking of this, Andy felt his mind was in a mess, and asked, "Han Tao, if he lied, then why did Wei Guoqiang run away after my mother was pregnant? Is it really because of my mother's mental problems, or is it simply because he doesn't want to go? My mother and I, that's why we ran away?"

"This is what I want to ask too. According to the reasoning, he probably abandoned you during your mother's pregnancy or after giving birth to you, which caused your mother to suffer from postpartum depression, and he was not killed by anyone. Take it seriously, and eventually develop into a mental illness.

After all, there are quite a few cases like this. Many pregnant women are under increasing pressure because they are not taken seriously, and they are not cared for by their family members or lovers in a timely manner. "

When Andy heard these words, it was as if he had grasped for a life-saving straw. He excitedly held Han Tao's hand and said, "You mean, my mother's disease is not necessarily due to heredity, right?"

Han Tao nodded, and said with a gentle smile: "Yes, do you think it's ridiculous to always suspect that you have a hereditary mental illness before? Don't be subjective about everything, or you will drive yourself crazy."

"Really, if it wasn't for you to help me analyze it, I would probably have driven myself crazy!"

Andy smiled, but just after speaking, he frowned again and said: "But you can't rule out the possibility that I have this gene, and Xiao Ming's problem is there, isn't it? So... ..."

"No, Andy, you are wrong. In addition to your mother, Xiao Ming also has his father's genes, and Xiao Ming is not crazy, he is autistic, and the recovery effect is not bad now!"

Han Tao interrupted Andy's conjecture, and directly dispelled her worries: "Even if you say it makes sense, the chance of you getting sick is only about [-]%, because you are the same age as your mother and your grandmother. At the time, she didn't show the slightest mental problem, which just shows that your mother's mental illness is not hereditary, but caused by psychological stimulation.

So you have to relax your mind, you can't scare yourself, and you shouldn't wrap yourself up layer by layer. You can enjoy life like most people, you can have your own family, and you can also have a relationship. Don't be a hundred years old. regret later. "

Andy nodded seriously, showing a light smile and said: "I can accept your logical theory, but I still can't rule it out 100%, so I will accumulate more capital for myself and Xiaoming in the future, as for getting married, forget it , I don’t want to harm others or myself.”

"Although it cannot be ruled out 100%, but don't pay too much attention to it. Now that society is under great pressure, everyone may have more or less mental illnesses, such as common depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, cleanliness and so on.

What's more, according to scientific statistics, if both parents suffer from mental illness, the prevalence rate is 50.00%, and if one parent suffers from mental illness, the genetic probability is 13.00%, so don't worry too much. "

"Han Tao, I think you are not just a lawyer, you are also a psychiatrist, how can you know everything, you will not be a superman hiding beside me, right?"

Andy unexpectedly made a joke, and the big stone that had been pressing down on his heart was relieved a little.

The hereditary mental illness is like a time bomb, tormenting her all the time, so she pursues efficiency too much in doing things, hoping to let herself do as many things as possible before she gets sick.

But after listening to Han Tao's analysis, she felt that she could slow down a little bit, and in the future, she could show Xiao Ming more about the beauty of the world, and even talk about a vigorous love, it doesn't matter if they get married or not.

Thinking of this, Andy couldn't help looking at the man in front of him in a trance, and a trace of inexplicable feeling deep in his heart grew stronger and gradually occupied a large position.

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