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Chapter 773: Differences and Adjustments

Guan Juer talked with Andy for a long time in 2201. No one knew what they talked about exactly, but she was in a completely different state after she came out. It was obvious that the two had reached some kind of consensus.

At 2202:, Qiu Yingying also came back from a date with Ying Qin, holding a large bag of snacks and grinning. When Fan Shengmei saw this, she couldn't help but tease her:
"Look how happy our little earthworm is. Tell me, sister, how far has this progressed?"

Hearing this, Qiu Yingying shook her head a little embarrassedly and said, "It's nothing, we just had a meal together, watched a movie and came back.

But after getting to know him, I felt that he was really a nice person and was very nice to me. He bought me a lot of things and told me that he liked me.

Sister Fan, what should I do? Do you think I should agree to Ying Qin's request? "

Fan Shengmei looked at the things Ying Qin bought for Qiu Yingying and sighed, "Silly girl, is buying her some snacks considered being nice?
All these things are not as valuable as a scarf that someone gave me, let alone the gifts Han Tao usually gives me.

However, considering Qiu Yingying's attitude towards love, Fan Shengmei thought for a moment and said, "Little earthworm, that depends on how you think.

Last time, I reminded you that there is no need to be so cautious when it comes to dating. If you like someone, just give it a try.

Besides, you are from the same hometown, you have common topics to talk about, and he is a technician and he doesn't have so many tricks. He shouldn't be like Bai Zhanan."

When Qiu Yingying heard Fan Shengmei's words, she couldn't help but giggle and said, "Hehe, actually I think so too. When Andy went to deliver food with me last time, he also said that Ying Qin looked okay!"

Seeing her innocent look, Fan Shengmei, like an experienced person, reminded her again: "Little earthworm, don't be too happy yet.

Sister Fan tells you that in order to make him respect you in the future, you must be reserved and reserved. Never be blinded by love again and fall into it foolishly.

If you two are planning to be together, there is a very important issue that you need to consider clearly, which is the issue of adding your name to the property title that I told you about. This cannot be ignored."

Hearing this, Qiu Yingying frowned and said, "Sister Fan, I don't think it's a good idea to add my name. I'm with Ying Qin, not for anything from him, so even if it works out, I don't plan to talk about it."

At this time, Guan Juer on the side also nodded in agreement, sat over and said: "I think Yingying is right to think so, we should not be too calculative or too utilitarian in love.

For Ying Qin, a boy from another city, to have his own house in Shanghai is already quite an achievement.

After all, the cheapest house in Shanghai costs several million, and even a mortgage down payment would cost tens or even hundreds of millions. Why would Yingying let someone add her name to the house? "

"Guan Guan, this is not about utilitarianism or calculation. This is about testing the other party's attitude."

Fan Shengmei was not angry at Guan Juer's words, but told her her own point of view:

"Xiao Qiu is a down-to-earth person, so every time she falls in love, she actually plans to get married and live together, so it's okay even if she asks to add a name.

Ying Qin only paid the down payment for the house. After all, Little Earthworm will have to help pay the mortgage in the future.

Even if you buy it in full, there is nothing wrong with adding the name of Little Earthworm, because it is a manifestation of love, and it also gives a sense of security to the girl who is going to spend the rest of her life with you.

Think about it, after Han Tao got together with you, he also bought you such a big house downstairs, this is the truth. "

"Sister Fan, I understand what you mean, but I still think it's unnecessary. Although Brother Han bought me a house, I didn't live there, nor did I plan to accept it.

Besides, my parents are coming to Shanghai soon and they said they would buy me a house as a dowry because they don’t want others to look down on me because of my house and property.”

"Guan Guan, why don't you understand? Why did Han Tao buy you such a big house downstairs after your parents met him last time? Isn't it just to show his attitude?
Of course, if your family has the conditions, you don't have to care, because with a family background like yours, everything you do and how you behave is methodical.

So in order to make you feel more confident, your parents plan to buy you another house.

But these are two different things. Besides, the little earthworm can’t compare with you. She has to fight for everything by herself and learn everything little by little.”

"Okay, maybe what you said makes sense, Sister Fan, but I still think Yingying should make her own decision on this matter. After all, our situations are different from hers." Guan Juer did not refute Fan Shengmei in person, but spoke objectively in order to retreat and advance.

From this we can see that the biggest difference between them lies in the influence of their families. Guan Juer can be said to be a child who grew up in a middle-class family with good financial conditions.

It can be said that Guan Juer's father and mother provided her with a very superior material life since she was a child. Even her job was obtained through family connections, so she did not have much concern for material things.

But for Fan Shengmei, that house is not just a house, it is a home. The home she wants is also the sense of security she is looking for.

Because of her tragic family background, Fan Shengmei has never felt the warmth of home or the love of her parents since she was a child. It has always been an endless exploitation for her.

Therefore, in her subconscious mind, that home will always belong to her brother, and there are endless debts and messes to clean up.

So for Fan Shengmei, a house is a harbor where she can dock after years of wandering, and it is her dream.

In fact, there is no right or wrong in either of their views. It’s just that they stand at different angles and see things differently.

Seeing the two arguing about her own affairs, Qiu Yingying hurriedly tried to smooth things over, saying, "Sister Fan, Guan Guan, we'll talk about the future of Ying Qin and I later.

Now let's focus on the problem at hand. What do you think? Should I invite him out for dinner? It would be a good opportunity for you to help me check it out!"

"Okay, let's have dinner whenever you think it's appropriate. Invite Andy and the others along. Sister Fan will treat you all."

As she spoke, Fan Shengmei touched her hair, smiled bitterly and continued, "Actually, Guan Guan is right. Relationships cannot be mixed with too many things. Maybe I am too insecure, so I am a little obsessed.

Don't think that Sister Fan is powerful. I am also considering Little Earthworm. After all, it is so difficult for an ordinary person to gain a foothold in the Magic City.

We are not like Andy and Qu Xiaoxiao, one has a good family background and the other has strong personal abilities. Even your family background is something we cannot envy.

So the problem that you can solve with one sentence, if it were me or the little earthworm, it would take a very long time to complete, maybe even a lifetime. "

"I'm sorry Sister Fan, that's not what I meant!"

Guan Juer looked at Fan Shengmei, who seemed somewhat melancholy and lonely, and held her hand and continued, "I think the difficulties in life are nothing, as long as we are strong enough, everything will pass.

Just like you now, you are a veteran of Lutu Coffee, you have dividends and options, and you are currently the regional manager of more than a dozen stores.

Yingying is also the director of the network operations center. She is a mid-level manager anyway. She has a bright future ahead of her and doesn’t need to envy anyone.”

Fan Shengmei looked at the two little sisters, smiled and said, "Well, Guan Guan is right. I was a little emotional just now. As long as we work hard, everything will pass. Let's work hard together!"

The tense atmosphere dissipated, and Guan Guan also smiled, "Actually, what Sister Fan said makes sense. After all, without a house of your own, you always feel like a dependent, with no sense of security or stability."

"That's right. Now that I think about it, I think what Sister Fan said makes sense. It's just like we're renting a house now. The landlord can raise the rent if he wants to, or evict us if he wants to."

"Yingying, we don't have to worry about these things in the future. If the landlord raises the rent, we will move downstairs and we will never separate."

"That's right. Now we Guan Guan is a wealthy woman. If my sister and Little Earthworm can't pay the rent, you can't chase us away!"

"Yes, yes, yes. I will be responsible for cooking and Sister Fan will be responsible for cleaning. Anyway, the house downstairs is so big and luxurious. As long as Guan Guan doesn't bother me, I won't move out no matter what I say."

"How could I be annoyed? I'm so happy that I don't have time to express my feelings. Actually, I heard a piece of news that I haven't told you yet. Brother Han said......"

The three people who seem to be noisy are always full of warmth. Even though they have many different ideas and have conflicts of varying sizes, their relationship is still very good.

Especially when one of them encounters difficulties, they will definitely forget their grudges against each other and do their best to help each other.