Rekindle 2003

Chapter 393 Xiaoqing talks about men
"What's wrong?" Qing Yun smiled, got up and simply locked the office. He took out a bottle of wine from the cabinet, took two wine glasses, and asked Qin Xiangyu to sit down in front of the coffee table.

Qin Xiangyu felt a little dizzy when he saw this formation, "No, brother-in-law, you drink too much so early in the morning?"

"Can't we still drink flower wine?" Qing Yun kept moving and poured two glasses.

As a second-generation rich man, Qin Xiangyu was not a very honest boy, but drinking this morning gave him a bad shock.

After all, he is 28 years old. No matter how generous he is, he actually knows that this brother-in-law wants him to relax and facilitate conversation.

"It's not impossible to drink flower wine, as long as you are not afraid of my sister breaking your legs." Qin Xiangyu said playfully while holding the wine glass, wanting to see how this brother-in-law, who was good at manipulating people's hearts, manipulated him.

Qing Yun clinked the glasses with him, raised his head and drank it all in one gulp, then shivered all over and felt very comfortable.

The soreness in my muscles after exercising in the morning immediately dissipated a lot.

He swore that he would never play train bento with Qin Manman in the future. That plus-size woman had no idea about her weight. When she saw him playing with Tang Qianying, she insisted on being treated fairly.

Can this be treated fairly?

Just competitive!

Qin Xiangyu felt a little sick in his stomach when he looked at the two taels of cups, but in the face of his brother-in-law's teasing eyes, he gritted his teeth and did it.

I've never drank like this.

Qing Yun took out a bag of peanuts from nowhere and poured it on the table. After eating two of them, he said leisurely, "The fault lies at the source."

Qin Xiangyu smiled helplessly, "Really? You also think that I shouldn't get to know Shen Fu, right?"

Qing Yun shook his head, "Let me tell you my point of view first, which may subvert your views on marriage and love. Don't interrupt. After listening, you can compare it yourself."

Qin Xiangyu nodded and motioned for him to continue.

"Actually, rich people and ordinary people have different views on mate selection."

Seeing that Qin Xiangyu wanted to refute him, Qing Yun gave him a sideways glance and poured another glass of wine, "I know what you want to say. What's the difference? In fact, it's fundamentally different.

Most of the lives of ordinary people are very difficult, so marriage has become one of the few happy and happy things in their minds.

So the purpose of finding a wife is to enjoy happiness together. "

Having said this, Qing Yun stared at Qin Xiangyu and said, "Please note that the key word here is: happiness.

So you will find an interesting phenomenon. Everyone gets married for happiness, gets divorced for happiness, and is single for happiness.

For them, in a word, if they are not happy, they are not good enough. "

Qin Xiangyu, who was listening indifferently, frowned unconsciously and began to think.

For happiness... isn't it?

Qing Yun ignored him, rubbing Peanut's red clothes in his hands, and continued, "And rich people need it. Note, what I say is 'need', not people who can share happiness with them, but people who can share happiness with them." Share the pain, understand his difficulties, and preferably someone who can help him solve his problems."

At this point, he smiled playfully, "Because, a man may not be happy if he has money, but as long as he has money, someone will try their best to make him happy. I think... this is the truth, Brother Xiangyu, You must understand."

Qin Xiangyu was silent for a while and sighed, "I have understood this kind of happiness since junior high school."

After that, he stared at Qing Yun, "So, Shen Fu, in my eyes, is unique. She is the happiness I actively pursue. I chased her for six years, from the first year of high school to the third year of college."

Qing Yun nodded in understanding.

The joy of licking a dog.

"So, what rich people lack is not happiness, and there is no need to get married in order to be happy." Qin Xiangyu just wanted to refute, but he immediately understood. Qing Yun was talking about a group, not him. case.

"What they need is actually these three things: compensation for lack, blessing of resources, and greater achievements."

Qin Xiangyu became interested when he heard this. He also wanted to know the difference between himself and his original class.

He always felt that he was a little out of tune with the rich second generation around him.

Qing Yun actually understands this issue very well.

The essential reason is that the tutors in the Qin family are... really good.

Let a rich second generation have no thoughts belonging to his class at all.

This kind of tutoring is beneficial. It is really unlikely to produce a prodigal son. In other words, it is benign in terms of the family plan.

But on a micro level, there are also disadvantages. If future generations are not so talented, they can easily fall into conflicts between world views.

Qing Yun raised three fingers, "These three things also divide men into three levels. Let me talk about them one by one.

Let's change the perspective today and look at how a man can get a rich man from a woman's perspective.

Junior rich people often pursue lack compensation.

These are usually the first generation, and it is no exaggeration to say that the first generation with a successful career is definitely the most difficult category of all men.

Let me start by saying, except for your father, my father-in-law and the other brothers, because their marriages were before they made a fortune. "

Qin Xiangyu nodded in agreement, "My dad's marriage was so simple back then, but now... people's hearts are not as old as they used to be!"

Qing Yun smiled and rolled his eyes inwardly.

You fucking rich second generation, are you telling me this?

How innocently you said it, but it turned out that it was not the trouble caused by not being able to control your belt!
He curled his lips and continued, "If a founding generation can break through, start from scratch, have no one to rely on, and be blocked by soldiers and covered by water, then this person's mental journey must be extremely complicated and tortuous.

No matter how smooth and sophisticated he looks on the surface, he must be paranoid or flawed deep down, and maybe even a little dark.

Moreover, because he has experienced countless collapses and reconstructions: first becoming a grandson, then becoming a father, becoming a father and then becoming a grandson... This cycle of ravages will form a strong protective mechanism deep in his heart.

Therefore, every time we collapse and rebuild, we will put a protective shell on our hearts.

Their hearts are not covered by a protective shell, but by layers of protective shells.

Therefore, you cannot pierce his heart with a needle. On the contrary, everyone has a clear price tag in his heart.

Some women often show off the expensive bags and nice cars their men bought for them, as if this can prove how much the man loves her.

On the contrary, if he buys you a 1 yuan bag, it means that you are worth [-] yuan in his heart.

At this time, if you ask him how much you want, he will be disgusted and think that this woman is so low.

If it were another woman, her looks would still be worth 1, but this woman has a very high emotional intelligence and is very good at making troubles. The amount given might be 10, because this woman went one step deeper into his heart.

At this point, the founding generation will be stratified.

Some will fall into lack of compensation. What does this mean? "

(End of this chapter)