Siheyuan starts from a better life

Chapter 986, Visit 2
"Why are you still standing? Sit down." Jiang Yan looked at Jiang Yiyi, who was standing there with a look of indignation, and spoke in a stern tone.

Jiang Yiyi saw that her father was about to get angry, and was pulled back by her boyfriend before she sat down.

At this time Jiang Yan spoke unhappily.

"You talk to your mother like that? She worked so hard to raise you and held you in her arms. Aren't you afraid of hurting her feelings? What did you learn from the knowledge and manners that I taught you every day? How can you talk like that?"

"You said your mother didn't love you. When you had a fever as a child and cried all night, your mother was there to accompany you. It wasn't your mother who took care of you when you were sick that time. You forgot all that."

Hearing Jiang Yan say this, Jiang Yiyi lowered her head, but still spoke stubbornly.

"But she can't say that about Xia Tian. Xia Tian is not that kind of person."

"I know Xia Tian is not that kind of person, but isn't what your mother said true? What do you think marriage is? Just two people falling in love and getting another certificate is enough? What is this? This is a joke. Have you ever considered your family's feelings, or do you want to do this too?"

"Hmm" Jiang Yan got angry.

"No, uncle, no, no, we haven't thought about it that way, really not." Xia Tian hurriedly explained.

"It seems that I have really spoiled you. You know what marriage means. Marriage is the union of two families. There are many aspects involved. You don't need to consider these."

"Ask Xia Tian why he didn't dare to come to our house before? Because he knew that our two families were not equal, and he considered that a marriage would cause conflicts. As for you, you have no thoughts of your own except love in your mind. It's true that love warms the heart!"

"Also, you always criticize the ancients for emphasizing matching one's social status. Have you ever really understood matching one's social status? Matching one's social status in those days meant being equal in terms of family conditions, economic status, and social status. From today's perspective, it means education level, values, upbringing, and interests. These should be basically the same, so that many conflicts can be reduced."

"The process of choosing a spouse is the same. The reason is that it is the process of 'survival of the fittest', which has its own selection and elimination mechanisms. A rational marriage should start with mutual attraction. In the long journey of marriage, it can only last long if it is maintained by mutual responsibility and commitment. As for material things, they are also an indispensable foundation."

While Jiang Yiyi was being scolded, she also began to reflect on herself. What Jiang Yan said broke her concept of love. She always believed that love is love and has nothing to do with anything else.

Jiang Yan's words also made the people present start to reflect. Deng Zirui felt that her father-in-law's words were of great level and the analysis was too thorough.

At this time, Xia Tian quickly tried to smooth things over.

"Uncle, Yiyi was just too nervous about me, so she didn't speak carefully. Please don't be angry with her. She really didn't mean it like that. She was just too anxious."

Jiang Yan glanced at Xia Tian.

Judging from his performance today, Jiang Yan is quite satisfied with him and he is quite rational. He feels that it is okay for Yiyi to marry him.

"You don't have to tell me. I'm my own daughter and I know her well. I'll apologize to your mother." Jiang Yiyi nodded.

"I'm sorry, Mom." Jiang Yiyi spoke to Jiang Sirui who was sitting there angrily.

"Okay, wife, don't be angry. You don't know what kind of person she is. She is a careless person."

"I just keep thinking about your little lover. Sooner or later, I'll be pissed off to death by you guys." Jiang Sirui said.

As soon as she opened her mouth, the storm was over and the sky cleared up.

At this time, Jiang Yan looked at Xia Tian again. "Since Yiyi's mother mentioned this question, then I'll ask, Xia Tian, ​​what do you think? Should you continue to save money like this, and then start a business?"

Hearing this, Xia Tian seemed to have used a lot of courage and said, "Uncle, I am unwilling to give up. I don't want to be looked down upon. I want to start my own business. I believe I can succeed."

At this time Jiang Yiyi quickly chimed in: "Dad, Xia Tian is very determined. You believe in him, he will definitely succeed."

Jiang Yan reached out and interrupted them.

"I know Xia Tian has perseverance, but he cares more about face. What's the point of looking down on others? Can you control those rumors? No matter how well or badly you do, people who want to say something about you will always find a way to say it, no matter whether you are successful or not."

"Also, the underlying meaning of what I said to you the other day is that youth only lasts a few years, especially for girls. How long do you have to wait, Yiyi, and how long will it take for you to make a comeback? Three years, five years, ten years, twenty years, or even a lifetime. We, Yiyi, can't wait indefinitely."

Xia Tian, ​​your emotional intelligence and IQ are both top-notch. You have to know that we live in a society based on relationships and connections. You can’t succeed without these. I won’t hide it from you. My success is inseparable from connections. But now, do people say that about me? They only look at the results. The process is not important. Do you understand? "

Hearing Xia Tian say this, he fell silent. He was thinking about what Jiang Yan said.

Jiang Yan continued.

"Having connections is a skill in itself. Business is like this. Either you rely on people or others rely on you. If you want to start your own business, you can use Yiyi's connections. This will be much more convenient. Don't care too much about other people's feelings. Why would you start a business when you have something ready-made?"

Jiang Yiyi also felt sorry for Xia Tian. She knew how hard it was to start a business. Jiang Yan was so busy at that time that he didn't even have time to eat and he came home very late. He saw all these little things and kept them in mind.

"Maybe Yiyi didn't explain it to you clearly. In addition to these restaurants, I also own the Panshi Group. His uncles also own a lot of businesses, such as Mr. He's instant noodles and FC Cola, all of which have shares."

"This, this..." Xia Tian couldn't help but be surprised when he heard it. These industries are ranked among the top industries in the entire city and even in the entire country.

"I'm not telling you this to show off or look down on you. I'm just telling you, young man, that your path is narrow. And Yiyi, even if this girl doesn't tell me, tell her uncles, and your path will be much easier."

"Let me teach you another lesson. Read Sun Tzu's Art of War more often. The business world is also a battlefield. To be honest, I am very optimistic about you."

"Uncle, I understand. Thank you uncle, but I have a request." Jiang Yan nodded with satisfaction. Fortunately, Xia Tian was not stubborn, otherwise it would be difficult to deal with.

"Speak out and listen."

Xia Tian said seriously: "I want to start from the bottom, this is the only requirement."

Jiang Yiyi said hurriedly: "Xia Tian, ​​with your ability, you don't have to start from the bottom."

Xia Tian looked at Jiang Yiyi and said seriously: "Yiyi, this is my last dignity."

Jiang Yan smiled and said that he basically understood that a person can be without arrogance but still have pride, and Jiang Yan liked him for this.

"Okay Yiyi, don't say anything. I can understand Xiaoxia's thoughts. A man is a man. He starts from the bottom. But not here. Go to your uncle Damao. I believe in you."

"Thank you uncle, I will try my best."

(End of this chapter)