After the first assistant's wife is reborn

"Hey, how could Yuer be too little?"

It's not that it's too little, it's because it's not easy for my grandfather to save so much silver over the past few decades.

His old man only has income from a few farms and two shops, and his farms are all raising those old, weak, sick and disabled veterans who have nowhere to go.

Since Ding Dai's daughter got married, almost all the courtyards in the mansion have been vacated, leaving only the Feishi courtyard where he lives.

In addition, there are no maids in the mansion, only a few women who wash clothes, and the rest, doorkeepers, handymen and even cooks are all veterans.

I eat and drink at the same table with these veterans every day.
And less of those messy fees.

If others were like him, the third-rank general of Huaihua, with three wives and four concubines in his family, a lot of concubines and children, and a lot of servants.In addition to food and clothing expenses, there are tens of thousands and 8000 taels per year.

My grandfather was alone, and saved more than [-] taels of silver after living frugally for more than [-] years.How dare you call Xia Siyu to ask for it?

"Grandfather, Yu'er can't have it." Xia Siyu said with red eyes.

Ding Dai stretched out his cocooned palm and patted the back of Xia Siyu's hand and said, "How long will Grandfather live? Could it be possible to take the money into the coffin?"

"Besides, apart from you, my grandfather is a lonely old man with no cares or concerns." Ding Dai's eyes dimmed, and his voice was full of vicissitudes.

Why did the ancients have to have a boy to pass on the family line?
When boys grow up, they marry wives and have children, and when the elders in the family grow old, they can take care of them.

A hundred years later, he can be buried, the memorial tablet will be put into the ancestral hall, and it will be safe when it falls to the ground.

However, after giving birth to a daughter and getting married when she grows up, she becomes the daughter-in-law of someone else's family. She must be filial to her in-laws, serve her husband, and have children.
As the saying goes: The water thrown by the married woman.

It is not what people understand, the meaning of daughters getting married is like pouring out water, and they no longer recognize each other.

Rather, it is involuntary for a daughter to marry, and it is difficult to take care of her natal family.

After a hundred years, the childless old man only ends up with his family property and becomes the owner of his clan.The daughter couldn't come to the funeral, so he could only temporarily find a relative of the younger generation to hold the funeral tablet for him.

After death, you can't enjoy the four seasons and eight festivals of the family's descendants.
Xia Siyu recalled that year when he was recuperating at his grandfather's house after being frightened and seriously ill, he once heard his grandfather's best subordinate, Uncle Ji, say: "Old general, my subordinates see that you always love the third young master very much, and my uncle is also very filial. Just to mention, adopt the third young master, and in the future, there will be people holding a tablet for you and inheriting incense for you."

"Hey, Lao Ji, it's not as simple as you said. After all, they are descendants of the Xia family. How many people are willing to give their children the surname of outsiders? Now we get along well with our son-in-law, so it's not good to be ashamed of this matter."

At that time, Ding Dai was worried that if the son-in-law didn't want to, and he couldn't save himself, wouldn't he be in a dilemma?

Let the son be adopted by his father-in-law as his grandson, but he himself is reluctant.Don't give it, my father-in-law has already proposed
Xia Siyu was still young at that time, how could he understand these things?
I didn't take it to heart, but now that I think about it, I have a plan.

to adopt to grandparents
"Grandfather, is Yu'er good with your surname?" Xia Siyu knelt down in front of the old man, looking at him expectantly.

Ding Dai was taken aback for a moment, and then he put his hand on Xia Siyu's forehead and asked, "Ah, did Yu'er drink too much? Why are you talking nonsense!"

"Yu'er is not talking nonsense, Yu'er really wants to be your grandson." Xia Siyu eagerly expressed his wishes.

Ding Dai's eyes were slightly wet, and he felt comforted in his heart.

I didn't see the wrong person, and I didn't love the wrong person.

In the eyes of outsiders, the eldest grandson Zhilan Yushu is well-educated, diligent and progressive in reading.

The second grandson doesn't give way too much, has a handsome appearance and strong martial arts.

The two brothers are good men in the world of self-denial and courtesy.

Only this little grandson doesn't try to make progress, and is mischievous all day long. He seems to be incompetent, but in fact he is the clearest in his heart.

Only he can bring a lot of joy and laughter to the elders in the family.

"Hey, it's getting late, go to sleep." Ding Dai pulled out the pillow, laid it flat, lay down and rolled up the quilt to cover him, and fell asleep on his side.

Seeing that his grandfather refused to agree, Xia Siyu was not in a hurry. He would talk to his father when he got up tomorrow.

On the next day, at dawn, Xia Siyu saw that there was still someone from his grandfather on the bed?

Only the dark gray purse containing the bank notes lay on the pillow where my grandfather slept.

Xia Siyu called Hua An, the servant, and asked, "When did my grandfather leave?"

Hua An hurriedly replied: "If you go back to the young master, the old general will get up and leave at Yinshi."

"Hey, why didn't you wake me up?" Xia Siyu blamed while getting up and getting dressed.

Hua An accompanied him with a smile and said, "Master, the old general ordered me not to wake you up, Master."

"Well, okay."

Xia Siyu put away his purse and hurried to wash up, maybe his grandfather was having breakfast with his parents.

When he arrived at Jinjutang, his mother told him that his grandfather had gone back long ago.

Ding glanced at her youngest son, and asked with concern: "Yu'er, have you had your breakfast? If it's useless, mother will ask them to bring it for you, so you can eat it here."

"Okay, my son is hungry."

Xia Chun glanced at his youngest son, said with a smile, "Promise."

Xia Siyu saw that his father hadn't gone to the study and was talking to his mother.

He hurriedly walked up to Xia Chun, swayed, and knelt down with a plop.

Xia Chun: "."

Ding: "."

Nanny Kong and Chunxiu in the room were also surprised
"Daddy, son, would you please promise me something?"

Xia Chun looked at his begging son, and asked the blue and white porcelain teacup in his hand, "What do you promise? Get up and talk first."

Ding Shi and Xia Chun looked at each other, and thought: I said yesterday that I want to do business, didn't I already agree?
Why, he was worried that his parents would repent, wasn't he? Could it be that his parents should write him a guarantee?

"My son wants to adopt his grandfather and be his grandson." Xia Siyu said with a fixed gaze and affirmative tone.

His grandfather stayed with him yesterday, and he was afraid that his father's misunderstanding was brought up by his grandfather.

Quickly explained: "The son sees that his grandfather is old, and there are no relatives around him to serve him. My son has been loved by his grandfather since he was a child, and he can't see his old man even throwing pots and people holding signs all the time after a hundred years. No." Xia Siyu said this, with tears in his eyes.

"Hmm" Ding sobbed, picked up the brocade handkerchief and wiped the tears from the corners of his eyes, choked up and said, "Son, your grandfather didn't love you in vain at last."

Xia Chun was surprised, and said comfortingly: "Your grandfather has put a lot of effort into the four of you, teaching you martial arts and the principles of life since childhood."

Xia Chun thought of his old father-in-law, and felt very grateful.

Almost all four children were brought up by the elderly, especially the second son. If the old father-in-law hadn't told him to learn martial arts since he was a child, how could he go to the frontier to make meritorious service?
Become a general who everyone admires and praises?
Xia Siyu: Grandfather is very lonely alone. I want to adopt him as the grandson of the old man and take care of him until the end of his life.