The little lady of the dude's family, she is tea and rustic

Chapter 257 Teaching
Ruan Jiaojiao has her own principles on this point, and she has never been the one to make things difficult for herself.

Between embarrassing others and embarrassing herself, she decisively chose to embarrass others.

She smiled, looked at the man and gave him a piece of braised pork ribs.

"Ms. sir, don't worry about me. I can handle such ordinary things."

If He Zong was still in Yecheng, he would be relieved, but now he was worried that he would wrong him by taking too much into account.

"Tell me something."

Ruan Jiaojiao smiled and scolded him, "You care about the affairs between women? It's just making friends and dealing with each other. How can such a trivial matter be of any use to you?"

He Zong was still worried. She was soft-tempered and sometimes straight-spoken. How could she get along with those people who made a few twists in their words?
He won't do anything to the women who live in the house, but he can do anything to their men.

But He Zong felt that there was no need for her to know, as long as she was obedient and came back to complain to him.

For this reason, he said solemnly, "If you have any questions, you must come back and tell me. Don't suffer a loss outside."

His wife would suffer in such a situation, and he was even more worried that she would suffer even more if she had a head-on confrontation with others.

"Take a few more people with you when you go out, including Chu Hua. If you have any questions, don't argue with others. Just come back and tell me."

He Zong thought that he would have to find a girl who knew some fisting and kicking to follow her. Yao Huang's mouth was so fierce that she couldn't stand it if something happened.

Once you find someone and bring him back, whatever you say now will be empty talk.

And Ruan Jiaojiao was told repeatedly by her, so of course she agreed honestly.

The man only thinks about her safety, so of course she will not be ungrateful.

He Zong turned around and asked about his sister, "How is Yufen doing? If she disobeys and makes you angry, just teach her a lesson."

It's not that He Zong didn't care about his sister since he had a wife. He said this precisely because he knew that his wife was doing everything for the sake of her sister.

Although he had never paid attention to what other girls learned at home, he also knew what his aunt was responsible for at home.

There is also his wife. After marrying him, she was in charge of the whole family. She definitely learned these things when she was at home, and she did not master them immediately after marrying.

But obviously, He Yufang and her three sisters were not very good at it.

He Yuhui is no longer a householder, and all she cares about is her husband and children.

He Yufang did take care of things when she was in the Chen family, but it was obvious that her management was in a mess, and she only helped herself.

Looking at He Yufen again, she is not much better than those two.

Do you blame your aunt for not teaching them carefully?

I have taught him, and even asked a female teacher to teach me, but the effect is not ideal.

Now that the sister-in-law is willing to teach her, He Zong will only be grateful to his wife.

The leader not only needs to be able to look at the books, but also needs to be able to manage and employ people. First of all, he must be able to stand on his own feet.

But He Yufen obviously couldn't do it.

But in these aspects, He Zong thought that his wife had done a good job, and her family had never let him worry about her since she got married.

That thing doesn't count.

After all, it was his wife who had to deal with it cleanly.

He didn't understand the principles in the book, but he knew the principle of having a good wife at home.

Ruan Jiaojiao not only didn't feel a headache when talking about He Yufen, she was actually a little relieved.

“It’s true that Yufen is soft-tempered, and it’s also true that she learns quickly and has understanding.

Don't be in a hurry, learn slowly.

After she can sort out the account books and chores at home, I will give her a shop to practice, but things at home cannot be controlled in a short while.Some older servants saw that she was young and thin-skinned and deliberately suppressed her, leaving her to deal with it on her own. "

They brought some people from Yecheng, but it was obviously not enough, so they bought more.

The old man respected and feared Ruan Jiaojiao, a kind-looking lady. Even if the wife now delegated power to the fourth lady, they would all obey the fourth lady's arrangements and dispatches honestly.

But the newcomers sensed He Yufen's temperament and saw that his wife was easy to talk to, so they tested her again and again.

These will be passed from the mouths of Nanny Fang and Yao Huang to Ruan Jiaojiao's ears, and she will also see them herself.

Just as she said, she didn't make any reaction, as if everything was delegated to He Yufen.

When He Yufen didn't relax all day long, the accounts were easy to talk about, but the housekeeper really didn't just talk.

Just the money and items that have to be taken in and out every day give her a headache, let alone some emergencies.

The He family only had three masters, which was simple and easy, but even so she couldn't handle it.

Today it was this servant who did something wrong, and tomorrow there will be some minor mistakes.

Her sister-in-law asked her to examine the newly purchased servants and keep the suitable ones and replace the inappropriate ones.

She hasn't investigated it yet, so it's impossible to make a decision.

Three or four posts were sent to her in the past few days. After reading them, she found that they were for her sister-in-law, so she rushed to send them to her.

Her sister-in-law asked her, "Do you think you want to go?"

He Yufen didn't even know who the other party was, so how could he know whether to go?

But when her sister-in-law asked her this, she had to think, "Why are we here for the first time? Someone sent me a message to show their kindness. I think I can go."

Ruan Jiaojiao smiled and nodded, "It may be a show of goodwill, or it may be a test.

But who is not testing the first contact between people? The good result is to continue to interact, and the bad result is to become strangers or have no choice but to deal with it.

No matter what the situation is, the first thing to do is to take the first step.

Since the other party posted the message and accepted it, there is nothing to be afraid of. "

He Yufen listened carefully and thoughtfully, "Then I will write a reply and prepare a gift when I get back."

"Before this, what you have to do is to inquire about the other party's basic situation. At least know some superficial things so that you can have the confidence to face it and the possibility of contingency in case of emergencies.

There is also a lot of knowledge in giving gifts, otherwise it will be in vain and it is more likely to offend people. "

After He Yufen returned, she followed her sister-in-law's instructions and sent someone to inquire about the situation of these families. She had carefully considered the person she sent out.

An old man brought a newcomer. The old man was usually close to Zhao Sheng.

She may not dare to use it freely with other people, but Zhao Sheng is the person that her eldest brother trusts, so she dares to use it.

Ruan Jiaojiao told He Zong, "Even if you feel sorry for me, I will be cruel. I plan to train her to do things for me for two years first."

The butler who came with him was Butler Jiang's eldest son, so he had no problem taking care of the family for the time being.

But Ruan Jiaojiao currently had too few people she could use, so she set her sights on He Yufen.

What does He Zongneng have to say about this? He just waved his hand and sold his sister without even taking any money.

"You can use it, if she dares to kick you, I'll teach her a lesson."

Poor He Yufen worked hard for the family, even doing chores in her dreams, but she was scolded by her elder brother.

Aunt Fang came back from Yao Huang's place before the meal was finished. Seeing her brisk steps and smiling face, and the lines at the corners of her eyes getting a little darker, Ruan Jiaojiao knew that Yao Huang was fine.

Maybe it's a happy event. Didn't you see Grandma Fang beaming with joy?
"Master, Madam, Yao Huang is very happy."

(End of this chapter)