Traveling through the farmhouse: farming and making a fortune and raising cubs

Lin He was really angry, everyone could see it.

I'm angry that my good friend Xiuling doesn't know how to take care of her body.

In the end, it was Li Changhui who put some food into Lin He's bowl and was the first to break the silence on the table.

"Eat first. If you have anything to say, please wait until after dinner. You are making it difficult for my brothers and sisters to eat."

When Lin He came back to his senses, he realized that he was so angry that he didn't pay attention to the occasion.

I couldn't help but let out a sigh. Anyway, I had said it all, and it happened to let the men at the table know that it is not easy for a woman to give birth to a child.

"When a wife from a wealthy family gives birth to a baby, the adults and children will be cared for by dedicated people during the confinement period. The mother does not need to do anything. She only needs to rest and recuperate."

"How many ordinary people can do this? Except for the two days after giving birth, you can rest and rest. Do you still have to get up and do some things at home after that? Xiuling, are you right?"

Lin He's tone softened, but Xiuling didn't dare to shake her head at this question.

They don't have wealth and fortune, so how can they really do nothing during confinement and just take a month's rest. Apart from anything else, they still have to clean up the house, cook some food, and take care of the children.

Lin He had known this for a long time and was not surprised at all.

"You have just given birth to a child, and your body is already at its weakest. Giving birth takes a lot of damage to your body, and it has never recovered. What will you do when you get older after you have given birth one after another?"

"Look at the elderly people in the village. Don't talk about it. Has your eldest aunt been feeling unwell in many parts of her body in recent years?"

Back pain, leg pain, headache, etc., she had often heard her aunt mention them before, and it was still the kind of pain in the bones. She knew without asking that they were almost all symptoms of confinement.

Poor people are not eligible for confinement. If they can rest for two or three days and eat two eggs, it is already a very good enjoyment.

But poor people don’t have to have so many children.

Even if you want to have a baby, you can still wait a little longer.

Seven years, five years, if this wasn't her friend, she would have wanted to curse!
Li Changhui served Lin He a bowl of chicken soup: "Okay, Chang Sheng and his siblings will find out later, and they happen to be in the county now. Please take good care of her and let her rest for half a year, okay?"

It was almost coaxing and coaxing.

It was also the first time that he saw Lin He so angry. Similarly, it was also the first time that he knew that a woman had so many side effects after giving birth.

Just like Lin He said, his mother, aunts, sisters, etc., whether they are pregnant or giving birth, are surrounded by a bunch of people to take care of them. They can just focus on raising the baby without worrying about anything.

Even if the child is born, there will still be nannies and maids to take care of it. The parents only need to comfort them in their free time. When they cry or urinate, there will be a bunch of people to take care of them.

But he has also stayed in the countryside for such a long time, so he naturally knows that ordinary people do not have this condition. It is normal for him to go to the fields for three days after giving birth.

But that is indeed the result of overdrafting the body.

Thinking of this, Li Changhui couldn't help but glance at Xiuling.

His sister just left at noon today. She is also about the same age as Lin He and also gave birth to a child two years ago.

But his sister, Jinrong, is still beautiful, but has a bit more mature charm than when she was a girl.

However, Xiuling looked a whole generation older than Jinrong and Xiaohe, tired, dispirited, decadent, and a little bit old.

Take another look at my little daughter-in-law. The three of them are the same age, but they are only about half a year apart at most.

But Lin He has never given birth to a child, and until now, she still has the bright appearance of a girl.

If Lin He let down her rolled-up hair and styled her hair in a girlish bun, no one would associate her with Mrs. Li.

It turned out that what Lin He said was true.

Even for wealthy families, there is really such a big difference between having children and not having children.No wonder, when Lin He first got together with him, she told him seriously that she did not plan to have children.

And until now, many people around them have reminded the two of them openly or covertly, but they have not swayed Lin He's decision at all.

In just such a short moment, countless related thoughts flashed through Li Changhui's mind.

Lin He was also successfully calmed down by Li Changhui at this time.

He took the initiative to give Xiuling a piece of chicken leg.

"Brother Hui is right. I won't tell you to invite a mother-in-law. Come out during the day and come to my place. I will help you take care of the child, so you can relax."

"To tell you the truth, we will leave Nanzhi County after Yu'er takes the exam next year. You and I haven't seen each other in the past few times, so it's a good time to get together in the past six months."

This was the first time Lin He mentioned leaving to others, and everyone was a little surprised for a while.

"Sister-in-law, are you leaving? Where are you going?"

Lin He had already thought of the excuse: "Yu'er's studies are pretty good. If he stays in Nanzhi County, his future achievements will be limited. I want to go to a better place while he is still young."

Li Yu, who had been eating quietly, secretly listening to his mother educate his aunt, and warning his younger brother to be quiet, now also looked up in surprise.

"because I?"

He thought that his parents suddenly said they wanted to go to the capital because they felt tired of staying in Nanzhi County. After all, it was the same when they were in Yonghe Town. After living there for a few years, his mother didn't want to go back.

"Not at all."

What Lin He said was unambiguous at all.

"We have been in Nanzhi County for several years. We want to see other places for a long time. We heard that the cities outside are more prosperous and we want to see them."

Li Yu suddenly breathed a sigh of relief, okay, okay, and instantly felt that the pressure on his shoulders was gone.

Li Yu was still young and didn't know how to restrain himself. His little thoughts were all reflected on his face.

Lin He shook his head. This child's ability to withstand pressure is too poor.

Then he ignored Li Yu and looked at Li Changsheng: "There are assistants who do the chores in the Malatang shop. Changsheng only needs to make the bottom of the pot and make the Malatang. The rest of the things are taken care of by the dedicated shopkeeper and waiter."

"As long as you have the recipe for making Malatang, this cooperative business can continue and you can continue to make money."

Then she told Xiuling: "We have many children, and everything else is fine. But we also have to change a lot of clothes every day. There are people in the county who specialize in washing clothes, and they don't use much money a month."

"It will be a lot easier if you hand over the laundry work and send the boss to the Enlightenment School. Your current physical condition does not look very good. You must take good care of your body. It is best to go to Find a doctor to take a look at."

They are still young now, and they may just look fat, but if this continues for a long time, what if Li Changsheng loses control and the two of them want to continue having children?
Ordinary people in this era have almost no idea of ​​contraception. If it weren't for the wrong situation, Lin He would have to pull Xiuling and tell her some contraceptive methods without taking pills!
Forget it, let's talk about it tomorrow.

Xiuling and Changsheng nodded repeatedly after hearing this, saying that they would definitely listen to their sister-in-law, and they would do whatever her sister-in-law said. There was no barrier at all due to the several years of separation.

When Lin He saw this, he seemed a little embarrassed.

"It's all my fault for being too anxious. Today was supposed to be your wedding banquet, but I disturbed your interest. Eat first, then wash up after dinner and get some sleep. You won't be tired tomorrow."

Finally, the atmosphere at the dinner table became active again.

Sure enough, my sister-in-law was angry, and even Brother Changhui had to avoid the limelight.

These are two younger siblings who have the same idea.