Deliberate and affectionate

Chapter 254 Confused
Mother Li didn't wake up until two hours later. After waking up, she felt a lot better when she saw Father Li beside her.

At least someone is always by my side, at least not everyone is on the opposite side of me, accusing myself of not doing well.

Li's mother thought, she shouldn't have so many regrets, her husband loves her, and her children are promising, so what else is there to be dissatisfied with?What are you doing so much?
They were right, she could have enjoyed the blessings, but she was the only one who suffered so much.

Seeing Li's mother waking up, Li's father immediately approached her, and then asked with concern: "Are you awake? How do you feel?"

Mother Li said: "I'm fine, I feel much better already, thank you for your hard work."

Father Li said, "This is what I should do."

Li's mother said: "You can solve the Tang family's affairs however you want, and I won't take care of it anymore."

Li's father was taken aback for a moment. Li's mother, who has always been filial and always considered her parents' feelings, changed her mind all of a sudden?

Li's mother looked at Li's father with some doubts in his eyes, and she continued: "Don't look at me like that, in fact, I have always known what kind of attitude they have towards me. It's just that I have been unwilling to admit it, thinking that as long as I treat them again It’s better, and they won’t count so much.”

Li's mother sighed, "I want the two families to live in peace, I don't want to ruin the relationship between the two families, and I want a harmonious and happy family. But, how is this possible? I want too much, causing myself I have made the family restless by myself. I am not in charge of the Tang family's affairs. How can I ask them to get along with them as I want? I am too naive. Thoughts, am I stupid?"

Father Li said: "What are you talking about, you are not stupid at all. No matter how old you are, in my heart, you have always been that little girl who can't grow up."

Mother Li smiled and said, "You will make me happy."

Father Li said: "This is the truth, I'm not coaxing you."

Li's mother thought of Li's father's promise to her in the past. He said that she could do whatever she wanted in the future, and he would have everything to him, and he would solve all the troubles for her.

He will spoil her all the time, she just needs to be happy, and don't care about other things.

He did it, even now, even if he has become the mother of two children, even if his children have grown up, he still spoils himself so much, and he can decide everything by himself.

His promise at the beginning has been persisted for decades, and until now, it has not changed. He really did what he said.

Li's mother thought how stupid she was back then. She was very happy, and she could live a very happy and fulfilling life, so what the hell was she tossing about?

There are a lot of bad things going on in other people's homes. One day a lover comes out, and tomorrow another illegitimate child comes to the door. The house is in disarray. I am so happy, why should I get mixed up with them.

They always persuade themselves this and that, telling themselves what to do and what to do, they are all in a mess, so why do they always come to give direct advice?
They may just want to live a bad life for themselves, because they are jealous of themselves, jealous that they are pampered and can do whatever they want.

Then always instill some thoughts in yourself, let yourself fall into misunderstandings, and then they can watch their own jokes.

Li's mother couldn't understand them before, and she regarded them as her good sisters, and liked to tell them everything.

In fact, they don't really care about themselves, because they are different from them. They are busy guarding against their husband's lover, fighting for family property, and guarding against those illegitimate children all day long. How can they be as leisurely as themselves.

So every time they saw Li's mother, they would always tell Li's mother, this is not okay, and that should not be done, which caused Li's mother to think wildly every time she went back, and then began to lose her temper.

Get angry at your husband, lose your temper at your son, and look at this all day long, and look at that in a bad mood.

It made the whole family unable to live a peaceful life. Originally, everything could be fine, but it was because of me being troubled that I seemed so irritable.

But even though I made such unreasonable troubles, my husband never blamed himself, but always followed him. Really, why do you indulge yourself so much.

But with his stubborn look at the beginning, if he persuaded himself, maybe he would be even more angry, and then he would ignore him.

In the end, I am afraid that the relationship between the two people will be exhausted by myself. At that time, I will be really alone and helpless.

I didn't have much to rely on in my natal family. If I separated my husband and son from me, I would never have a good life in the future.

Why was I so confused before, I couldn't even figure this out, and I really found things for myself, which only added to my troubles.

But this time, Li's mother finally understood how wrong she was.

Maybe people are like this. At a certain point in time, after a certain event happened, they suddenly figured out many problems, and their mind suddenly became very clear.

It was as if the fog that once trapped me, the problem that confused me, suddenly disappeared.

But this time, the Tang family's unreasonable attitude of not caring about themselves and not caring about themselves really stimulated Mother Li and made her understand many things.

In the future, I will never foolishly try to please them again.

Obviously they want to get benefits from themselves, why let themselves please them instead, why let themselves follow their wishes?Why are they?
In the past, I was not sober and always listened to what others said. In the future, I will never make such low-level mistakes again.

My own small family is obviously very happy, how can this kind of happiness be easily broken because of a few words from outsiders?
You should be content with yourself, instead of wanting this and that, and end up with nothing.

Li's mother looked at Li's father, and said helplessly: "Why are you so stupid, you don't know how to stop me, indulge me in everything, almost made me a big mistake."

Father Li said: "There is nothing wrong with what you did, why should I stop you? Is it possible that I am still against you everywhere? How can I do that?"

Li's mother didn't know what to say, but Li's father was right. In his eyes, everything he did made sense, and he could find excuses for himself even if it didn't make sense.

He hasn't done anything harmful to the world, so he really has no reason to stop himself and oppose himself everywhere.

(End of this chapter)