Going through the book and raising younger siblings

Chapter 107
106. Same table
"Go! There are bed boards in that old house, but no quilts. Take a quilt from me and let Wu Yueping live there. Don't go back to that house again. Add other daily necessities slowly."

Zhang Yu packed a set of bedding for Wu Yueping, and two pieces of his own clothes.

"Wu Yueping, don't wear this dress on your body. Not only is it torn, but also, as a girl, you should dress more beautifully. Dress like this, so your classmates treat you like this. People judge people by their appearance."

Liu Yulan: "No, no, how can I want your clothes? There are two good clothes at home, not torn at all. She doesn't want to wear them, so she likes to wear this one. I can't do anything about her. "

Zhang Yu Bingxue was smart, and instantly understood what was going on.

"Girls don't want to dress up beautifully. You, a mother, didn't you come here when you were young? She deliberately made herself so ugly, why? Isn't it to avoid being hurt by it!"

Liu Yulan suddenly realized, and cried bitterly while hugging her daughter.

"Okay! If you want to live a good life in the future, don't just cry, be strong, no matter what difficulties you encounter, find a way to solve them, instead of just being patient and shrinking. Your daughter is your eyeball, and your eyeball is hurt. , you are finished, you have to learn to cherish yourself, and don't take other people's harm to you as a routine."

Yingzi called Ling Feng and accompanied Wu Yueping to the old house together.

Wu Yueping, mother and daughter, thanked Zhang Yu and left.

Er Niu kept silent, but she kept listening.

"Sister, why are your classmate and her mother crying all the time?"

"They had a miserable life. Ten years ago, their father passed away, and her mother married her current husband. The mother and daughter were beaten by this man every day, and their bodies were covered with injuries."

"Why do you marry such a man? Why don't you get a divorce?"

"If you ask for a divorce, you will be beaten even worse."

"There are such hateful men in this world?"

"Yes, there are quite a few. However, if you are strong, you will not meet such a man, so you know now? Why should I teach you Kung Fu?"

"Yeah! If my fist is hard enough, who would dare to bully me? If it were me, I would beat him to the teeth."

Zhang Yu gave her a thumbs up with a smile.

"However, force can only solve special problems. Many things in our lives need to be solved with wisdom to be considered satisfactory. Therefore, studying hard is the most important thing."

Er Niu: "So, your classmate's problem is not only because they can't beat that man, but more importantly, they don't have the wisdom to use other means to solve it."

"The problem here is quite complicated, not only a problem of wisdom, but also a problem of character. If a person is not confident, he will not have the courage and ability to change when he encounters difficulties."

"Where does self-confidence come from? Economic conditions, if you have money and the capital to live without anyone, why are you willing to stay in the abyss of pain?"

Er Niu: "I know, if a person wants to live well, he must have money, wisdom, self-confidence, courage, and a strong fist."

"Er Niu, that sums it up very well, and the order is right. Hard fists come last. That's the bottom line. It's a last resort. Money comes first. Money can't solve all problems, but it can solve most problems. It is wisdom, self-confidence and courage, wisdom is the accumulation of knowledge and life, self-confidence is the best way to love yourself, changing and solving problems requires fearless courage.”

Er Niu understands but does not understand.

Zhao family.

Zhao Chunxiang was losing her temper, and she yelled at her mother: "Why am I so unlucky, I can't avoid this big girl Zhang anywhere, she is really lingering, she happened to enter our school, she was in the same grade as me, she was even a Classmates. It's all your fault, why did you intercede for her and take some academic exams. Otherwise, she would have no chance to enter the school, nor would she have the chance to be my classmate."

"I didn't expect that she actually passed the exam. I heard that the exam was still the final exam paper of the second semester of the second year of high school last year. The scores were not low, all of which were above 95."

"A blind cat meets a dead mouse! Maybe it just so happens that she has seen that set of test questions."

"No way! What a coincidence? And every subject."

"Or else? Is she a genius? She didn't graduate from elementary school, and she went to take the final exam of the second grade of high school, and she was still excellent."

"I also think this matter is unbelievable. Even if she does a surprise study, the speed at which she absorbs knowledge every day in a month is too fast! It is simply bizarre."

Li Jiahui: "No matter what, she passed the exam to get in. Whether she is really talented or not, she will have opportunities to prove in the future. If she is really talented in learning, it means that her IQ is high, and her children will be very smart in the future..."

"Mom, you don't really agree with her marrying my brother?"

"Does it matter whether I agree or not? Look at your brother who treated her like that. Who can change him? What's more, your grandfather and father support them. If she can really go to university, why should I continue to object? That is uncomfortable, Chunxiang, you have to see the facts clearly, don't make things difficult for the big girl, she is your future sister-in-law, if you make things difficult for her, it means you make things difficult for your brother, and you also make it difficult for yourself."

Zhao Chunxiang was stunned.

"Mom, why did you surrender so quickly? Hasn't she not been admitted to college yet?"

"What if you pass the exam? You offended her before, how will you face her in the future?"

"Why should I face her? Even if my brother really married her, I don't like her and don't accept her. Are you going to force me to accept someone I don't like?"

"Chunxiang, it seems that I spoiled you too much and spoiled you. Why don't you understand that there are some people and certain things that you don't face if you don't like them. You can't solve the problem by avoiding them. For example, this matter, If your brother marries a big girl, she will be a member of the family from now on, living together under the same roof, looking down and not seeing her, can you treat her like air? You two can’t get along well, you think she’s wrong , she must also see that you are wrong, isn't this family turned into a mess by you?"

"Mom, if we have conflicts in the future, don't you protect me?"

"First of all, your idea is wrong. You two have conflicts. You should find a way to resolve them and turn them into friendships, instead of wooing someone to stand with you. This will only backfire and intensify the conflict. Secondly, I will take sides with anyone who is reasonable. If If I side with you indiscriminately, your brother will definitely not be happy, and the big girl will definitely not respect me as an elder, and I will have even less prestige in this family in the future."

(End of this chapter)