Going through the book and raising younger siblings

Chapter 155
154. Winter vacation
Zhang Yu didn't expect Liu Yulan to directly say that she would not marry Lao Feng before she could speak.

"Auntie, you have to understand Huihui. She was hurt by Wu Laosan and has psychological shadows. She doesn't want a man in the family to appear. She said she was afraid..."

"I know, I'm sorry for her. At the beginning, Wu Laosan coveted her and was almost harmed by him. That scene, let alone her, I'm afraid when I think about it, but Lao Feng doesn't know it. He is an honest man. Unfortunately, Hui Hui does not accept him..."

"Auntie, do you think Old Feng is an honest man, how long have you been in contact with him, do you really know him?"

"We have been in contact for more than three months! He lives nearby and often buys steamed buns in my store. We have known each other since he came and went. He often helps me with work. He is quite a real person."

"I heard that you were planning to get married next week?"

"That's right! I didn't expect Huihui to react so strongly to my remarriage. I thought she would support me. Forget it, let's not mention it."

"Auntie, Huihui objected because she was afraid that you would repeat the same mistakes. Another one, she is not used to having a man in the family, let alone the Feng family has four men, so it is understandable for her that it is difficult to accept."

"I know this. She told me everything. She said that if I remarry, she will run away from home and never come back. She is my only child. Isn't she killing me by doing this?"

"So, you gave up the idea of ​​remarrying, just for Huihui?"

"She went to college in other places. I'm a woman, busy with business. It doesn't matter if I'm a little bit tired. I'm afraid that Wu Laosan will come to my door again. Since Huihui went to college, I have seen Wu Laosan outside my shop several times. Spy on me, girl, do you know? For a while, I lived in fear, afraid that one day, Wu Lao San would rush into my shop and grab my neck again... But since Lao Feng came to my shop After helping, Wu Laosan disappeared, and from appearance, Wu Laosan is no match for Lao Feng."

"Auntie, I understand your feelings. You want to find a man with a companion and someone to rely on, but if you stay with him if you don't know this man well, not only will he not be able to protect you from the wind and rain, but on the contrary, you will be in trouble in your life." All the wind and rain are brought to you by him, Wu Laosan is an example."

"Old Feng is not such a person, how can Mr. Wu compare with him."

"Auntie, you have only been in contact with him for three months. I think it takes at least a year to get to know someone! So you and Lao Feng are indeed a little hasty. Why don't you get to know him better! Because you have already failed once, So this time, we should be more cautious."

"Anyway, Huihui disagrees, so I won't think about it anymore."

"Auntie, what I mean is, even if Huihui doesn't object, you have to think carefully about it. Let me help you analyze it. Even if Lao Feng is really an honest person and a good person, the two of you are together and can be mutually supportive. Rely, but both of you have children. Lao Feng's three children are still in school. It is the time when money is needed and the body is growing. The daily appetite of three and a half children is quite It’s about your mother and daughter’s food intake for three days! The sum of their monthly expenses is equivalent to your mother’s and daughter’s three-month expenses! Have you thought about this?”

Liu Yulan remained silent.

"Auntie, Lao Feng's salary in the machinery factory is only 60 yuan a month. Is it enough to feed the four of them? Just eating is not enough? These years must have caused a lot of famine? These, after you get married, will be There is a joint debt, will you pay it for them?"

"Also, now, your daily income, in addition to the various expenses of your mother and daughter, there is still a sum of money left. Your savings increase year by year. When you are old and can't work anymore, you can help Huihui With children, you can give your grandchildren some money to buy candy, and you can also buy whatever you want. You can live a leisurely life. If you marry Lao Feng, will you still have leftovers from the money you earn now? You spend every day In addition to selling steamed buns, you also have to wash and cook for the four elders, are you tired?"

"When you get old, you will marry old Feng's three sons and take care of the children. You have never had a single day in your life. Are you tired?"

Liu Yulan was thoughtful.

Zhang Yu continued: "In this life, people want more and pay more. If you want Lao Feng's care and support, you also have to pay a lot. Compared with what he gave you, I'm afraid you gave more A lot, right? You think about it clearly, what you get and what you give are unbalanced, if you think it’s worth it and have no complaints or regrets, then it’s as if I didn’t say anything.”

"Physical and financial sacrifices are not the most terrible thing. The most terrible thing is that you help Lao Feng raise his three sons and get married. Will they treat you like a real mother? If not, can you accept it? ? Even, some children even hate you. When you get old, you become their enemy. Are you willing? Can you bear it? Can you live a peaceful old age? "

"So, in order to covet such a little bit of dependence, you have to pay more, and even fall into a whirlpool of pain that you can't extricate yourself from. Think about it, is it worth it?"

"Your troubles now are nothing more than that when your daughter is not around, you will be lonely sometimes, and Wu Laosan will occasionally pass by the door, and you are a little worried. These are problems that are easy to solve. Lonely and lonely, everyone has it. Life It is lonely from birth, there is no one, and there is always someone to accompany you, so it is not difficult to learn to endure loneliness. Compared with the troubles brought by those lively lives, this kind of loneliness is actually a kind of enjoyment. As for Wu Laosan, so After a long time, why are you still afraid of him? At worst, call the police and let the police deal with him. He is a bully and fears evil. If you see him not afraid, he will not dare to provoke you. You seem to be very afraid of him, so he dares to come in .”

"You choose to marry Lao Feng because you are afraid of loneliness and Mr. Wu, and it is impossible for him to be by your side all the time, so the person you can rely on in the end is yourself."

"If you marry Lao Feng, your worries are, how to make more money to support the family, how to do it, the children will not reject me as a stepmother, if the child makes a mistake, if you dare to criticize him, you are a Vicious stepmother, if you don’t criticize him, you are an irresponsible stepmother. No matter what you do, someone will criticize you. Even if the three children are sensible and obedient, they will get married in the future! The three daughters-in-law will treat you as a stepmother What's the matter? Your own children are not necessarily caring and caring! You only have to raise your stepson, but you can't expect them to retire. It's not good for you to spend all your time, energy and money on your own daughter. Do you want to raise three stepsons and ask for trouble."

(End of this chapter)