Going through the book and raising younger siblings

Chapter 200
198. Aunt
After dinner, Zhao Chunxiang sent Sun Shaolin out.

Li Jiahui said to Zhang Da Niu: "Da Niu, what do you think of this Sun Shaolin?"

Zhang Daniu asked back: "Mom, what do you think?"

"Although my own conditions are not very good, I am quite discerning."

"So, Mom agrees that Chunxiang will be with this Sun Shaolin?"

"Of course I don't agree. There are many people who are better than Sun Shaolin, but seeing how this dead girl treats him, it may not be easy for her to give up."

Zhang Daniu knew that her mother-in-law felt a little relieved.

As a sister-in-law, she is not qualified to dictate the marriage of her sister-in-law.

But this is my husband's biological sister, and her life will not stop in the future, and her small family will definitely not be peaceful, so Aunt Zhang has to take care of it, but this kind of thing may not only have no effect, but will also cause sister-in-law The resentment, and even the hatred of the two of them for a lifetime.

The most sensible thing to do as a daughter-in-law is to ignore the affairs of the husband's family.

If you manage it well, it's not your credit. If you don't manage it well, the whole family will blame you.

So, in this matter, Zhang Daniu doesn't care about it, and doesn't care about it.

Zhao Wenjie said: "The child's affairs, the child can decide for himself! You worry so much, people may not appreciate it."

Grandpa Zhao also said: "The condition is almost, but as long as the child is happy, what else can we do?"

Zhao Chunhua said: "Big girl, you are quite accurate, tell me how you feel."

The mother-in-law also cares about Da Niu Zhang's opinion.

"Yes! Girl, what do you think of this Sun Shaolin?"

"Mom, the IQ problem you are worried about is not a problem. On the contrary, I think he is too smart, a little too smart."

"Isn't it better to be smart?"

"Smart people are quick-responsive, quick-witted, and will come to trouble. This is understandable, but it is scary to be clever with calculations and scheming."

Zhao Wenjie: "I just said, I always feel a little uncomfortable. What the big girl said woke me up. I also think this person is too shrewd."

Zhao Wenbin: "That's right! I'm also from the countryside. The big girl worked hard on her own, but this kid always makes me feel like he's too good at making money. Also, speaking of being smart, the big girl is smarter than him. There are too many, but Da Niu's cleverness has kindness in it, and his cleverness has purpose."

Li Jiahui: "Our Chunxiang is a heartless and silly girl, and having a shrewd person like Sun Shaolin by my side is also a kind of complement."

Zhang Daniu was surprised, it seemed that her mother-in-law agreed with this future son-in-law.

Zhao Chunhua: "I think I should advise my younger sister to think carefully. Just because my younger sister has no heart, she should find a reliable trustee for life."

Li Jiahui: "But who can persuade her?"

"Let me and the big girl try to persuade her!"

"Okay! You two persuade her. If she is willing to listen, it's best if she doesn't want to. It's up to her. She is a 23-year-old girl. If you delay, she will become an old girl."

Back home, Miss Zhang said dissatisfiedly: "Chunhua, didn't you hear it? Your family has recognized this Sun Shaolin, and you still want me to follow you to persuade Chunxiang. I don't want to make fun of myself."

"I always feel that this Sun Shaolin is a bit unsteady. Ask yourself, if Er Niu met such a person, would you trust her to him?"

"If it's Erniu, I won't agree with her being with this type of man. I will try my best to get Erniu to leave him, and Erniu will definitely listen to me, but Chunxiang is not Erniu, she will not listen to me .”

"Then you can look at my face, treat Chunxiang as your own sister, and persuade her well."

"As I said just now, Chunxiang is not the second girl, she won't listen to me, I can only say try."

In the afternoon of the next day, Zhang Daniu asked Zhao Chunxiang to have dinner at the Red Star Restaurant.

Zhao Chunxiang hurried over after work, and Zhang Da Niu had already ordered food.

"My sister-in-law is really rich. It's a waste of money to find someone to talk to, and to find such a high-end place! Wow, they are all my favorite dishes, thank you sister-in-law."

"It's just a meal, if you like it, I'll treat you a few more times in the future."

"Sister-in-law, they are all of the same age. Why do you think the gap is so big? Before, people in my family said that I was inferior to you, and I was very disgusted. Later, I had to accept it! You are indeed better than me, I Be willing to bow down."

"If I could choose, I would choose your life. With the love of your parents and grandpa, and an older brother to protect you, you have no worries about food and clothing since you were a child. You don't need to worry about making a living. You can live a smooth life and live a better life." At ease; leisurely."

Zhao Chunxiang giggled, a girl in love, full of confidence and high spirits.

"That's why people are not satisfied. You envy me, and I envy you."

"Chunxiang, do you know why I invited you to dinner?"

"When my brother told me, I was very curious. I don't know what you want to say to me. Did my mother entrust you to be a lobbyist?"

Zhang Da Niu nodded honestly.

"Yes, the whole family asked me to persuade you to think carefully about Sun Shaolin."

"Sister-in-law, you are also from the countryside, so you won't look down on Sun Shaolin who came from the countryside too!"

"Chunxiang, the fact that my family accepts me as a daughter-in-law from the countryside shows that they don't have this concept of family status at all, and I won't slap myself in the face. We advise you to consider Sun Shaolin carefully because the two of you have incompatible personalities, or Say, this Sun Shaolin is not suitable for you."

"The two of us are very good, and we are very happy together, why is it inappropriate."

"The feeling when you fall in love is different from the feeling after you get married. At this time, you will not be entangled in trivial matters such as rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and the conflicts in each other's personalities will not be reflected. It will be too late if you find out after you get married."

"Apart from his poor family conditions, there is nothing wrong with him. In terms of personality, I think no one is more perfect than him and is more suitable for me."

"I can imagine that he treats you very well now. He has a high emotional intelligence and will take care of all your psychological needs. This is an easy thing for him, but a person's enthusiasm will gradually fade. You You have to be mentally prepared for that.”

"He said he would spoil me like a princess forever."

"Do you believe what you say when you are in love? Just listen to it."

"Sister-in-law, what my brother said when we were in love doesn't count now?"

"Your brother is a real person. He can't speak beautiful words. What's more, he does more than he speaks."

"I believe that everything Sun Shaolin said will be fulfilled."

"Chunxiang, you don't judge a person by what he says, but by what he does."

(End of this chapter)