Going through the book and raising younger siblings

341. Two Girls
One day when Er Niu came home from get off work, Zhang Da Niu went to her room on purpose.

Er Niu just took a shower and sat on the dressing table to wipe water on her face.

The door was open, and Zhang Da Niu knocked on the door.

Er Niu turned her head and said with a smile: "Sister! Come in! The door is open! You are so polite."

Zhang Da Niu came in with a smile and sat at the desk next to her: "You have grown up! You have your own private space."

"Your job is quite busy. Although we live under the same roof, we rarely have time to chat. You should not have been asked to study medicine if you knew that this kind of work is so tiring."

"Didn't brother-in-law also study medicine? Why don't you complain that he is too busy to take care of his family?"

"Men are different from women. Men focus on their careers. Women work only to ensure their own quality of life, but they spend all their time on work. No matter how much money you make, you have no time to spend. What's the point? If women want to stay young, they must You have to learn to enjoy life."

Er Niu giggled.

"How many people can arrange their work and life in such an orderly manner like you, eldest sister? Most people have to spend all their time on work in order to live."

"I have so much money, even if you don't work all your life, I can afford you."

"Look, since I was a child, you told me that girls should be self-respecting, self-loving, self-reliant, and now you're telling me not to work so hard. Don't you think you're contradictory?"

"Although you and Xiaobao are my younger brothers and sisters, in your heart, they are like my children. That mother is not a unity of contradictions. She hopes that the child will be successful and able to do things at work, but she is also afraid that the child will be in trouble. It's too hard outside."

Er Niu was a little moved.

"Eldest sister is like a mother, that's true. On the surface, you are quite loose in managing Xiaobao and me, but we all know that you have been giving us help and inspiration in every way in your heart. Every step we take, every key You have given us the most correct guidance every moment. You are the most qualified parent."

Zhang Daniu smiled and said: "This sentence is the best compliment I have ever heard in my life."

"Er Niu, I came here today to ask you, you are not young anymore, how about your personal problems? Is there any boy you like?"

"Sister, I feel a little afraid of marriage."

Zhang Da Niu was taken aback.

"why?"

"The people around me, except you and your brother-in-law, who have a very good relationship after getting married, others seem to be happy, such as sister Yingzi, sister Chunxiang, and your friend Liu Yuhui, one by one, It's either cheating or domestic violence, it's terrible."

"You are so powerful, who can beat you to domestic violence."

"What about Sister Yingzi? People don't dare to abuse her domestically, but it's really chilling for her mother-in-law and husband to bully her together."

"Why do you always look at those families who are unhappy? Most families are still happy and happy. Not only do we have to work hard, but we also need to work hard on family and life. Many people can do a good job. But running a poor family depends not only on luck, but on wisdom.”

Er Niu: "Everyone thinks that they are looking for the best one before they get married, but they live and live, but it is completely different from what they imagined. This is really a bit of a gamble."

"What kind of character inspires what kind of people, Yingzi's ex-husband Ling Feng, I felt bad at the beginning, but Yingzi felt inferior, and felt that as long as someone liked her, she would be grateful, so she had no demands on herself, and she even looked down on her. How could others not bully her?"

"Where is Liu Yuhui! In order to get rid of her mother, she wanted to get married and leave home early, so she confessed herself early and did not investigate the other party for a long time. By the time she found out the problem, it was already too late."

"Zhao Chunxiang has a willful personality. Since she was a child, her family loved her in every possible way. She lived a smooth life. She didn't know that people's hearts were sinister. She couldn't tell the truth from other people's flattering words. She loved her family's earnestness. He didn't listen to the wind, so he finally paid the price for his waywardness."

"What about you! You're so wise, and you've been by my side for so many years, you don't know people! I heard that many admirers went to the hospital to look for you! Tell me, among those suitors, there is not a single one Can you see it?"

"Those just add to the troubles, I..."

"Do you have someone you like?"

"Sister, what do you think of Yang Guodong?"

"Yang Guodong, do you like him?"

"Tell me! How is he?"

"It's okay, the car king, the young talent, the diamond king and the fifth."

"These are not important, the important thing is character. You two have known each other since you were young, and you know each other well. He is such a simple and honest person, and he has never treated anyone badly. Of course, his character is needless to say."

"He studied so hard, I feel very discouraged when I think about it now. If I have a child in the future, IQ will be up to him, so don't worry about killing me."

Seeing Er Niu's seriousness and serious face, Zhang Da Niu thought this younger sister was cute.

She laughed.

"Yang Guodong's brain, do you still worry about his lack of IQ? My God! According to your standards, if his IQ is higher, what kind of character is he?"

"But it was really hard for him to study at the beginning."

"He didn't get the hang of it for a while, didn't he catch up with your help later? He has no IQ, can he become a car king? Can he make so much money? Your requirements are too high!"

Er Niu also laughed.

"I didn't help him with his homework before, so I have a psychological shadow!"

"Fortunately, you are still a medical student. You are so smart. How can a child be so stupid? Besides, with such smart and capable parents, how can their genes be so bad?"

Er Niu: "Okay, the second question, in the future, their family will definitely want to live with the whole family. I'm afraid they won't get along well with his parents. As you said, his parents, including his younger sister, are human beings." Jing, especially his father, used to be a high-ranking person, and I was afraid that getting along with them would be stressful."

"What's the pressure? How is your brother-in-law's family? My mother-in-law is picky, and my father-in-law is also the leader of the hospital. We get along very well! They are all smart and well-educated people. We treat them sincerely, and they won't do anything wrong." Embarrass others and embarrass your own affairs.”

"Sister, I admire you for this. You have done a good job with your parents-in-law. My sister-in-law had objections to you at the beginning, but she was influenced by you later, but the best way for you is to live together. To reduce friction, you and your brother-in-law lived outside because you wanted to take care of me and Xiaobao, so I wouldn't have to come up with such a reason! And I don't have such a reason!"