Hu Qiang's Decision

Chapter 123 Walnut Dad, Please Stay Away
"Sister Ouyang, you are so handsome! I have decided that from now on, I will be your fan!"

"Okay, then you have to study hard. Sister, I have been a top student since I was a child. I don't like children who are poor at learning to be my fans!"

"Don't worry, my academic performance is good, I will definitely work harder in the future, and I will not disappoint your expectations!"

"Hahaha, okay, then it's a deal. If you study hard in the future, I agree that you will be my fan. Come, high-five!"

Hu Qiang didn't know what to say when he saw the two girls, one big and one small outside the conference room, playing high-fives and then giggling and hugging each other intimately.

What the hell, I don't know, I thought Hu Tao was really Ouyang Murphy's child, no, sister.

Although Ouyang Murphy's actions saved Hu Qiang a lot of money and relieved his anger, he always felt that there was something wrong with Ouyang Murphy's education.

But if you want to specifically say what is wrong, Hu Qiang can't say it. Anyway, I always feel that it is somewhat contrary to my traditional educational philosophy.

"Father Walnut, please stay."

"Huh?" Hu Qiang quickly turned his head to put his heart away, and looked at the middle-aged female teacher with a blank face opposite, "Mr. Chen, is there anything else?"

That Teacher Chen nodded slightly, then glanced at Ouyang Murphy, then lowered his voice and said, "Mr. Hu, can I have a chat with you alone?"

Hu Qiang looked at Ouyang Murphy, then at Teacher Chen with a serious face, and nodded: "OK."

Afterwards, Hu Qiang asked Ouyang Murphy and Hu Tao to wait for him in the conference room, while he and Teacher Chen left the conference room and came to the side of the corridor.

It was still class time, and there was no one in the corridor.

Hu Qiang followed Mr. Chen to the side, and after making sure that no one around could hear him, Mr. Chen stood still and nodded to Hu Qiang.

"Mr. Hu, although the matter of Hu Tao's beating has been resolved, I still hope that you can restrain Hu Tao after you go back.

In particular, your family's educational philosophy and methods, with all due respect, really need to be changed.

Otherwise, Hu Tao can now rely on her young age to escape this catastrophe, what can she do next?What will she do when she grows up?
Or let me put it another way.

Speaking of today's matter, if Hu Tao and the child injured by her are both adults, do you think the matter will be resolved like this?
Obviously not, right?

However, today you and... um, sorry, what is the relationship between you and that lady inside? "

Hu Qiang sneered, and then explained: "Don't get me wrong, she is my colleague, my subordinate, but she has a better relationship with Hu Tao, and she is outspoken and has a quick temper, so..."

"Okay, don't talk about it." Teacher Chen waved his hand, "I don't care what kind of relationship you have with that lady, but what I want to say is that you'd better stop letting her use her nonsense to educate your daughter, so that He will suffer greatly.

I say this not to have any opinion on the lady herself, but purely to discuss the facts.

Your child, Hu Tao, is just a child, and his three views are not yet sound.

The first and second grades of elementary school are the critical period for establishing the most basic outlook on life.

So the more it is at this time, the more it is necessary for children to develop some good habits and some basic understanding.

For example, let the children develop the habit of loving reading, the habit of automatically doing homework after returning home, and the habit of not swearing, not littering, etc., etc., etc., etc., etc., all need to be instilled in them during this period, so that They will remember it later, and they will get used to it later.

In addition, some basic outlook on life, such as not hitting people casually, is the most important thing.

Your littering and the like are at most a matter of personal morality, but if you develop the habit of beating people at every turn, big troubles will happen in the future.

As the old saying goes, a thief who steals needles grows up to steal gold.

Hu Tao is only six years old now, so she has such a bad temper, and beats people at every turn. Even though she seems to be right in many things, it is wrong to beat people.

Once she doesn't correct it at this time, let her think it's right, and she will get used to it in the future. If something happens to her when she grows up, and she beats someone, then it's okay?

We live in China, and domestic laws and regulations are there.

Just like today's incident, it seemed that the other party was ignorant, but if Hu Tao hurt someone, it was her fault.

If Hu Tao was an adult, she would have been caught already.

I say that, you understand? "

Hu Qiang immediately nodded solemnly: "Understood, I will definitely educate Hu Tao when I go back, and let her get rid of her habit of messing around."

"That's the best." Teacher Chen nodded, "Okay, I still have something to do, so I'll go back first. As for the walnuts, you can take them home, anyway, school will be over soon."

Hu Qiang frowned: "Then her schoolbag homework..."

Teacher Chen pondered for a while: "Then you wait here, I will go to the classroom and bring her things for her.

Well, Hu Tao's current situation is not suitable for returning to the classroom, you should take her back first.

Don’t worry about homework, our teachers will post homework in the group every day, and your aunt will take care of it. If you don’t understand anything, you can ask her.

Also, let Walnut write a deep check and bring it to me on Monday, okay? "

"Yes, I understand." Hu Qiang nodded.

After hearing Hu Qiang's cooperation, Teacher Chen sighed:
"Father Walnut, the growth and education of children cannot rely solely on teachers, the key is parents, especially parents who set an example and teach by example.

If the lady inside is really not close to you, I suggest you try to let her have as little contact with Walnut as possible, and don't let Walnut learn from her.

Her performance today seems to be hearty and joyful, but in fact there are many hidden dangers.

Have you ever thought that this time the lady in the house excused her responsibility by claiming that she was young, had no legal responsibility, and did not constitute a crime? Come more trouble.

For example, the party being beaten can also use the trick of being young and not committing a crime to deal with your walnuts in turn.

especially……"

"Especially what?" Hu Qiang asked again.

Teacher Chen looked around, then lowered his voice and said:
"Father Hu, I won't hide it from you, the parents of the other child were originally villagers from nearby villages, but they got rich when the city was demolished.

Although I don't discriminate against these people, you have to know that the quality of some of these people is actually the same.

Otherwise, their children can spit everywhere, and push people first if they do something wrong?

Obviously I learned this from my parents!
It can be seen from this that the other party's parents are not good.

Don't beat their children this time, and you have lost such a big face, do you think they will be willing?
On the surface, I may not discuss the explanation with you again, but in private, I can't guarantee it. "

Hu Qiang frowned and asked, "Mr. Chen, I can't guarantee that what you said refers to..."

Teacher Chen said with a sullen face: "For example, I'm just making an example.

For example, if they are too angry, they turn around and get entangled with the children of a group of relatives and friends, and beat your children at school. No matter how hard your children can beat, they will be no match for four hands, right?

When your child is beaten, you go to them to argue, and they will follow what the lady said earlier, saying that the child is young and has no legal responsibility. It is okay to beat your child, so you have nothing to do with them. Am I right? "

Hu Qiang immediately became serious: "Mr. Chen, if you let your child bully your child, is this considered bullying? Does your school care?"

Teacher Chen sighed: "Of course it doesn't matter, you have to see the encounter.

But our school is a public school. There are eight classes in one age group and 45 children in one class. There are so many classes and so many children, but the number of teachers is very small.

Don't be afraid of thieves stealing, just be afraid of thieves thinking about it. If people insist on targeting your child, they will always find a chance.

Of course, the situation I mentioned is a bit serious, and it may not happen. If it does happen, we will definitely deal with it seriously.

But there is another situation that has to be guarded against, and this situation is more difficult. "

"What's the situation?" Hu Qiang asked with a frown.

Teacher Chen lowered his voice and said: "For example, they gathered a group of parents of their children to come to the school to make trouble, saying that your child is too dangerous, and they jointly demanded that your child be expelled and let your child leave the school.

Your child has a record of fighting many times before. If they demand that your child be expelled because your child is too dangerous, it will be difficult for everyone to agree. The school may execute your child in order to calm the emotions of most people. Persuasion processing.

Even if you insist on not dropping out of school, or even sue the school, you may be able to stay, but in this way, the school has plenty of ways to treat your child coldly.

Even if the school treats everyone equally, if the parents of the students want their children to unite and isolate your children together, they are not allowed to play or talk with your children.

Isn't this cold and violent environment a greater harm to your child?
And, Dad Hutao, no matter how good your female friend said before, she just persuaded me and frightened the parent.

But you can't change the fact that the other child's injury is worse, and it looks miserable.

People figured it out later, took photos of their children’s injuries and posted them on the group, and then the villain first filed a complaint to guide public opinion, saying that your child has violent tendencies and likes to beat people. Who do you believe when you say that?
Do people believe in the intact child of your family, or in the beaten child with black nose and swollen eyes?

At that time, did other parents who didn't know the truth believe them, or what you said?

Don't expect the school to handle it. If public opinion is really guided, even if we tell the truth, the parents of the students will not believe it.

After all, you also know that today's parents are very concerned about their children. If they know that there is a child who is violent and likes to beat others, they don't like it. They are afraid that their child will be hurt one day.

If everyone believes it and join forces to ask your child to drop out of school, what will our school do?I can only dissuade your child.

The other child's parents are locals, and there are a lot of local relatives and friends. Many of her relatives and friends' children are in this school.

Because this place was originally a rural area, after the urban construction and reconstruction, the children of these villagers became urban residents, and the children naturally came here to go to school.

If they want to form a series, isn't that easy and comfortable?
When the time comes, do you think they will trust the locals, or trust you as a foreigner?

So, if you don't want your child to be forced to transfer to another school, then I advise you to go back and apologize to the parents, and turn the big thing into a small thing.

Don't be serious with others just because of your momentary euphoria, it will make your child uneasy in the future.

I know that you are very busy with work and rarely go home, otherwise you would not entrust your children to a nanny.

You can't watch your kids every day in this situation, can you?
But those local people, especially the demolition households, have money and leisure, and they are very face-saving. They really want to find a way to deal with your children, and there are plenty of ways.

Didn't you see the look in that parent's eyes when they left just now?

That is clearly a look of dissatisfaction, you give me waiting eyes.

Now is a society ruled by law, maybe they can't deal with adults like you, but do you really find it difficult to deal with children?

Mr. Hu, you are angry with the locals, aren't you asking for trouble?Isn't this the time for revenge? "

"Yes, I understand." Hu Qiang nodded solemnly.

"Mr. Chen, don't worry, when I go back, I will definitely educate Hu Tao, make her reflect on herself, and write a good review.

In addition, can you give me the contact information of the other party's parents, I will apologize to them later. "

Teacher Chen nodded in relief:

"Okay, I'll give you the contact information of that child's parents later.

Remember, you must speak well, apologize well, and don't intensify the conflict!
Enemies should be resolved rather than knotted! "

"Yes, I understand!" Hu Qiang nodded seriously, "I promise to apologize."

After that, Hu Qiang and Mr. Chen added WeChat friends to each other, and also joined Hutao's parent group.

After a while, Teacher Chen took Hu Tao's schoolbag, handed it to Hu Qiang, and then gave Hu Qiang the phone number of the other's parents, and after a few more instructions, he turned and left.

Looking at the back of Teacher Chen leaving, Hu Qiang frowned deeply.

"Ouyang Murphy! You are such a troublemaker!"

(End of this chapter)