Hu Qiang's Decision

Chapter 127 How does it feel like you are comforting me?
After an unknown amount of time, Su Damiao suddenly let out a long sigh.

"I'm sorry, Mr. Hu, I made you laugh." Su Damiao, who had sighed, smiled with red eyes.

"It's nothing." Hu Qiang smiled slightly, "Whoever hasn't felt sad, just go over."

"Actually, the reason I'm so miserable today is because I remembered the past." Su Damiao raised her head and looked at the sky outside.

"Back then, I worked as a nanny for a family whose situation was similar to yours. It was also a single father with a daughter.

Originally, I had a very good relationship with that family, and I couldn't help but fell in love with that girl's father.

But then one day, her daughter bullied other classmates at school. When I used to negotiate with the parents, the other parents pointed at me and scolded me when they saw me, saying that I was just a nanny and had no right to take care of this matter.

That's all, the key point is that the girl I protected was also very dissatisfied with me, saying on the spot that I shouldn't meddle in other people's business, that I'm just a nanny, a servant who serves others, what right do I have to meddle in the master's affairs . "

"What? It's too much!" Hu Qiang said immediately, "How does this kid talk? Who did he learn from?"

Su Damiao smiled slightly: "I was very sad at the time, but I thought it was just the other party's angry words, so I wanted to continue negotiating and persuade that girl to apologize.

However, that girl not only refused to accept my kindness, refused to apologize to the other party, but also taunted me on the spot, and even picked up a glass of water and splashed it on my face.

She also said at the time that you can't hit your classmates, but it's okay to hit me.

Then she said that I was a vixen, worried about her family's property, and that I was like her stepmother or something.

Many people were present, including other children's parents and teachers. I, I couldn't stand it at that time, so I left.

But later, when I went back, I thought the other party would reflect on it, thinking that even if the child was ignorant, the child's father should always be sensible.

In the end, what I waited for was not the kid's apology, nor the kid's father's understanding, but dismissal.

Not only that, the child's father also said bad things about me everywhere, saying that I seduced him and wanted to occupy his family's property, which made it impossible for me to stay in the local area and continue to work as a local nanny. "

"You didn't complain?" Hu Qiang frowned, "Didn't you sue them for slander?"

"How to sue?" Su Damiao's tears flowed down again, "I'm just a nanny, and the other party has a reputation in the local area, a civil servant, and a small leader. His usual style is also well-known. I was also deceived by his superficial skills.

In a situation like this, everyone will only believe what the family said, and will not believe me. They will only think that I am the kind of vicious woman who wants to hook up with the master and take over the property.

Even if I sue him, I can't win because I don't have any evidence, and I don't have the time and energy to go to court with a local civil servant. "

Speaking of this, Su Damiao took out a tissue and wiped away her tears:

"I am also a person with children. I can be wronged myself, but I cannot let my children be wronged.

My child is still attending a local university, my reputation has been ruined, and I can no longer ruin my child's reputation.

So, I left that city alone and came here quietly.

Shanghai is an international metropolis, there are all kinds of people, and no one cares about your past.

Here, I repackaged myself, named Susan in English, and then studied while working, and gradually became an elite nanny.

The so-called elite nannies are just packaging and gimmicks. They are still serving people in essence, but the income will be quite different.

Of course, the reason why I want to be an elite nanny is not only for money, but also because I don't want to encounter those bad things again.

Because I heard that rich people in Shanghai tend to be more magnanimous, and their quality is generally higher.

I don't know anything else, I can only do housework and take care of people, and I can only continue to be a nanny.

Besides, I'm not young anymore, and my child is too old. If I don't work hard to save some money, I will be very sad in the future.

That's why I worked hard and wanted to be an elite nanny.

In addition to high salaries, the biggest advantage of high-end nannies is that they can raise their own value, can choose an employer at the initial stage, and find out the employer's situation in advance.

Unlike ordinary nannies, the employer can only choose our nannies unilaterally, but our nannies cannot find out the situation of the employer in advance.

To put it bluntly, between high-end nannies and employers, information acquisition is more equal, similar to a blind date, and the respective conditions and needs can be clearly stated in advance, which avoids a lot of trouble later.

But after entering this industry, I realized that it is not so easy to be a so-called high-end nanny. You don't just have to serve people, you have to be young and beautiful, and have special talents.

I can't compare with those young people with high education and high quality. I can only work hard on my work attitude, and then get more skills certificates to package myself.

But even so, I am still not very popular among high-end nannies, because real high-end people don't like people with a mixed education like me, and they don't like people in my age group, so they will be brushed off from the beginning.

Therefore, I am very grateful that you chose me and trusted me so much. "

"It's a shame to say this." Hu Qiang shook his head, "You have also helped me a lot, and I am really grateful to you."

After a short pause, Hu Qiang said: "Sister Su, I understand your mood now, I'm sorry, because of Hu Tao, it reminded you of those unhappy things in the past."

Su Damiao shook her head: "As you said, at this age, who hasn't felt sad? It's good to be in the past. After all, people have to look forward, right?"

"Yes, we must look forward." Hu Qiang nodded.

Speaking of this, Hu Qiang frowned suddenly: "Wait, how do you feel, it seems that you are comforting me?"

Taking a closer look at Su Damiao's appearance, Hu Qiang asked: "Sister Su, you didn't mean to see me angry, so you deliberately came here and told me these things to make me feel better?

Deliberately uncovering my past scars just to make me feel better? "

"Ah?" Su Damiao was stunned for a moment, then smiled slightly, "Ah, you can see it."

Hu Qiang shook his head, sighed and said, "Sister Su, actually you don't need to do this."

Su Damiao was silent for a moment, then smiled slightly: "Yes and no.

What I said before is true. When I was negotiating with the other party's parents about Hu Tao, I was really scolded by the other party. Then I remembered the past and couldn't stand it for a while, so I ignored Hu Tao's feelings and chose to escape. .

I am sorry for Walnut's trust, and I have also failed your trust.

Especially because of my affairs, you father and daughter are at odds, and I feel even more guilty.

I don't know what to do, I can only come over and admit my mistake and explain why. "

"Oh." Hu Qiang sighed, "Sister Su, you are such a caring elder sister. I was almost cured by you. You shouldn't be a nanny, you should be a psychological counselor."

Su Damiao smiled and shook her head: "It's not that easy to be a psychological counselor. I can't pass the exam, at least I don't pass the qualifications."

Hu Qiang nodded: "Okay, I won't mention this matter, but Hu Tao... what should I do? To be honest, I'm not good at communicating with children at all."

Su Damiao smiled and said: "Okay, Mr. Hu, don't worry about it, leave the matter of Hu Tao to me, and I will persuade Hu Tao."

"You?" Hu Qiang frowned, "Hu Tao scolded you like that just now, and you still go to persuade him? Can you do it?"

"Why not." Su Damiao said with a smile, "Children are actually very simple. You just need to be nice to her, then apologize to her after doing something wrong, admit your mistakes, and make her feel honored, then you can talk to her." Makes sense.

In fact, Hu Tao is a very smart child, and also a very reasonable child.

She is only still angry now, and she can't get rid of her face before she hurts others.

But as long as I apologize to her first in the past, the problem is not difficult to solve. "

"Is this appropriate?" Hu Qiang frowned, "It's obviously Hu Tao's fault, but you asked her to apologize to her?"

"You can't say that." Su Damiao shook her head.

"Actually, what Hu Tao said is correct. The source is that I did something wrong. I shouldn't have been scolded at the time, so I left Hu Tao and ran away. It was my lack of character.

So I went to take the initiative to apologize, as it should be.

In addition, don't think that the other party is a child, and we adults can ignore their psychological demands.

On the contrary, just because the other party is a child and has a relatively simple mind, we should apologize immediately after doing something wrong.

As long as you sincerely apologize and reason with them, they will understand you. "

"But……"

"Don't worry, don't worry, leave it to me, you go back to the living room and wait, we will have dinner later."

After speaking, Su Damiao nodded to Hu Qiang, then left the balcony and went to Hu Tao's room.

Hu Qiang also left the balcony and sat on the sofa in the living room playing with his mobile phone.

After about half an hour, the door of Hu Tao's room opened.

Immediately afterwards, Hu Tao walked up to Hu Qiang with her mouth pursed, lowered her head and whispered, "Dad, I'm sorry, I was wrong."

"Huh?" Hu Qiang frowned, sat up straight and asked in a deep voice, "Where did you go wrong?"

Hu Tao continued to lower her head and dare not look at Hu Qiang: "I, I shouldn't say Su, Aunt Su is a nanny, and I shouldn't say that she has no right to control me. I, what I said broke Aunt Su's heart."

Hu Qiang looked at Su Damiao behind Hu Tao in surprise, and after finding her smiling and nodding, Hu Qiang asked Hu Tao: "Do you really know that you are wrong?"

"Yeah." Walnut nodded.

"I really know I'm wrong, it's rude to say Aunt Su like that, after all, she's doing it for my own good.

Moreover, and I shouldn't hit people at school, I should tell the teacher as soon as possible.

Because no matter whether the other party did something wrong or not, one should reason and not do anything.

If the other party hits someone, and I also hit someone, it is the same as a dog biting me, and I bite back again.

The dog bit me, how can I learn from the dog?

Of course, we should use human means to counter it, beat the dog with a stick, or ask the security guards and the police to deal with the dog, otherwise, wouldn’t I become a puppy too? "

"Well, well said." Hu Qiang nodded.

But soon he frowned again: "Wait, who taught you the saying that the dog bit you?"

"Of course it's Sister Ouyang!" Hu Tao suddenly smiled and raised her head.

But seeing Hu Qiang frowning, Hu Tao stuck out her tongue and lowered her head again.

"Sister Ouyang?" Hu Qiang was taken aback, "Ouyang Murphy?"

Walnut nodded.

"Nani?" Hu Qiang looked surprised, "Why is it her again? What's the situation?"

At the last sentence, Hu Qiang looked up at Su Damiao.

Then Su Damiao came over and explained.

It turned out that after Su Damiao entered Hu Tao's room, Hu Tao ignored Su Damiao at first.

It was only when Su Damiao first admitted his mistake, saying that he shouldn't have left at that time, and should fight hard to defend Hu Tao, that Hu Tao said a few words.

Hu Tao said at the time: What's the use of apologizing now? If you were like Sister Ouyang, would I be fined to stand for so long?Come on, stop talking, I don't want to see you.

Afterwards, Su Damiao talked all kinds of things, including Grandma Hutao, who also persuaded her, but Hutao just refused to listen and asked them to leave quickly.

Later, Su Damiao had an idea and contacted Ouyang Mofei on WeChat. First, he told Ouyang Murphy the situation here by typing, and then hoped that Ouyang Murphy would come to persuade Hu Tao.

Because Su Damiao discovered that Ouyang Murphy had a very high status in Hu Tao's heart at this time, if Ouyang Murphy could come to persuade him, the effect should be good.

When Ouyang Murphy replied yes, Su Damiao turned on the mobile phone video and asked Ouyang Murphy to video chat with Hu Tao.

Sure enough, when Ouyang Murphy spoke, Hu Tao immediately listened.

For example, Ouyang Murphy told Hu Tao that Aunt Su didn't care about her, but that she felt uncomfortable after being scolded, just like Hu Tao now, so she couldn't hold back for a while and ran away, but now she apologizes , indicating that she regretted it.

Ouyang Murphy also said that Aunt Su is a person who really cares about Hutao, and she should not complain about those who love and care about her just because others have done wrong things.

In addition, Ouyang Murphy is also speaking good words to Hu Qiang, saying that Hu's father has always cared about Xiao Hutao, but he is a man, not good at expressing, and he is usually very busy with work, and he is focused on making more money and improving the life of Hutao's family.

Papa Hu is working hard, I hope Hu Tao will stop embarrassing Papa, and learn to understand and tolerate.

Well, anyway, it was Ouyang Murphy who said a lot of comforting words, and immediately moved Hu Tao.

So far, Hu Tao not only forgave Su Damiao, but also forgave Hu Qiang, realized her mistake, and was willing to come out and apologize to Hu Qiang.

"Really?" After hearing what Su Damiao said, Hu Qiang couldn't believe it at all, "You mean, it was all said by Mo Fei, Ouyang Mo Fei? She persuaded Hu Tao? Did she really say that? "

"Of course!" Before Su Damiao could speak, Hu Tao suddenly raised her head and said, "Sister Ouyang is all right, she has been reasoning with me, and she speaks nicely.

By the way, she also said that she planned to take me to the playground to play karts tomorrow.

Dad, you must agree, right? "

Hu Qiang blinked: "I..."

"You will definitely agree!" Hu Tao said quickly, "Sister Ouyang said, you love me so much, you will definitely agree, but don't go, it will be boring if you go, Sister Ouyang said, she just wants to play with me , I don't want to play with you."

"I don't want to play with her yet!" Hu Qiang said subconsciously, "But, don't you have an interest class? You don't dance or play the piano anymore?"

"I'm free tomorrow morning." Hu Tao said, "My interest class starts tomorrow afternoon, and there is only one art class at three o'clock tomorrow afternoon.

So tomorrow morning I will go play with Sister Ouyang, it should be fine, right? "

"This one……"

"father!"

Hu Tao suddenly said: "If you don't agree, I won't talk to you anymore! You don't want me to ignore you from now on, do you?"

Hu Qiang frowned and said, "But you're still so young, I'm worried if you play alone with Mo Fei, she's not very reliable."

"No!" Hu Tao said, "Sister Ouyang is much more reliable, anyway, I will go to the playground with her! If you don't agree, I will never talk to you!"

"Mr. Hu." Su Damiao said suddenly, "Since Hu Tao wants to go so much, let her go. If it's not possible, I'll go with her, but Auntie needs your help to take care of her."

Hu Qiang thought for a while, and felt that there was no problem, so he nodded: "In that case, let's go together tomorrow! I will stay and take care of my mother."

Immediately afterwards, Hu Qiang said to Su Damiao again: "By the way, Miss Su, you know how to drive, right?"

"Yes, I will." Su Damiao nodded.

Hu Qiang thought for a while and said, "How about this, you rent a car, and drive with Walnut and Ouyang Murphy, my colleagues, tomorrow, let's hang out together.

I remember that Walnut only has one art class tomorrow, at three o'clock in the afternoon.

How about this, you go to discuss with the teacher of the art class and change the class time to six o'clock in the evening.

That way, you guys can have more fun and play outside all day.

Don't worry about the cost, I will call you in advance, refund more and make up less, what do you think? "

Before Su Damiao could speak, Hu Tao jumped up first: "Dad, really? Can we really play all day tomorrow?"

"Of course it's true." Hu Qiang smiled, "When have I lied to you?"

"Hmph, you lie to me too often!" Hu Tao pouted.

Hu Qiang was taken aback for a moment, and then said: "Okay, I won't lie to you this time, it's true."

"It's great!" Hu Tao jumped up and kissed Hu Qiang's face fiercely, "Daddy Saigao, Daddy is great!"

Hu Qiang wiped his face with a wry smile: "You, you, crying and laughing, what can I say about you."

"Don't talk, don't talk." Grandma Hutao said with a sudden smile, "Come, come, let's eat, let's eat hot pot together!
Walnut, today I bought your favorite beef roll. "

"Yeah, hot pot, and my favorite beef roll, it's great!"

"Since you love to eat, why don't you come over and help grandma arrange the dishes? Get the food from the refrigerator early, and let's eat early!"

Seeing Hu Tao happily running to the dining table to help arrange the dishes, Hu Qiang sighed and subconsciously looked at Su Damiao.

After seeing Su Damiao smiling at him and pouting at the dining table, Hu Qiang was stunned, and immediately stood up.

After putting on a bright smile, Hu Qiang walked over: "I'm coming too, let's eat hot pot together!"

(End of this chapter)