Hu Qiang's Decision

Chapter 179 Love is not a necessity of life

Drinking coffee is really drinking coffee.

Of course, they also chatted with each other for a while, but they always asked each other what they did, talked about what they did, and briefly talked about their family situation. The content was very cautious.

To put it simply, it is to really go to a coffee shop to have a cup of coffee, then chat and get in touch with each other, but that's all, nothing else.

Originally, although Ye Zhen Zhen had a good attitude towards Hu Qiang, Hu Qiang could tell that she was still very wary of herself.

But when Hu Qiang said that he was married, had a daughter and a mother, his vigilance dropped several notches.

It can be seen from this that a middle-aged man who has a serious job, is married and has children is indeed synonymous with reliability in society.

In any case, through this short chat, everyone has a little understanding of each other's situation.

"Speaking of which, Mr. Hu, you look so mature, are you married?" Ye Zhen Zhen suddenly asked with a smile.

"I'm married, and my children are in elementary school." Hu Qiang smiled, "How about you, Ms. Ye?"

"Me, I'm still single." Ye Zhen Zhen said with a smile.

"It's hard to see." Hu Qiang shook his head, "A good lady like you shouldn't be single, unless the conditions are too high."

"It's not that the conditions are high." Ye Zhen Zhen smiled, "I just haven't considered this issue.

After all, I am usually very busy studying, and I am busy working after graduation, and our work sounds good, but it is actually very tiring, especially when we are doing projects, we often sit day and night.

So, whenever I have some time, I just want to have a good rest, how can I have time to think about those things. "

"That's true." Hu Qiang nodded, "Only ordinary people like us think about marriage and having children prematurely. Scientists like you think about big things, and you are like ordinary people who know how to mess around when they go to work." People are different."

"Mr. Hu, you are scolding me by saying that." Ye Zhen Zhen smiled and shook her head.

After thinking about it for a while, Ye Zhenzhen said seriously: "Actually, I don't have any. It's just me. Not everyone in the research institute is like me. They work like a hard worker. If you want to be lazy and work hard, there are still Lots of opportunities.

It's just that I think, since I chose this industry, I have to work hard, and I like this job, so I just work hard. If I don't work hard, how can I produce results?
I like the process of working, and I also like the satisfaction of getting results, which cannot be bought by money.

As for personal feelings, I'm not the kind of person who just wants to work and doesn't have feelings. I just think that in this kind of thing, it's fine to follow the fate, and there is no need to force it.

It’s best to have that person appear. If I don’t show up all the time, I don’t have to deliberately pursue anything, especially I won’t lower my own standards to match others.

Anyway, what about my current life, I think it’s okay, I’m pretty good alone, there’s no need to force me to have a boyfriend or something, it’s not beautiful if I’m too deliberate. "

"It makes sense, what you said is too reasonable." Hu Qiang felt that he had a bosom friend.

"Miss Ye, I agree with your point of view.

Love is not a necessity of life.

It is good to have it, but there is no need to force it.

Movies and TV show love all day long, it is for people to watch, and the cost of filming love is the lowest.

But in real life, unless you have a lot of free time all day, how can you have so much free time.

I am very tired from work, and I just want to lie down and rest when I get home. Who cares about dating.

In fact, I think that if a person can live a good life, for example, if there are no material and psychological problems, there is no need to force yourself to find a partner to live with.

I don't know what other people think, anyway, I think getting along with people is a technical job.

It is very troublesome for two people to live together, you have to get along with each other, if the two of you are not in the right temper, you will just fly around and mess around, it is better to live alone.

If we are not together, there is a little distance, and we are a little reserved and particular about each other, that would be better.

But if it becomes a couple relationship, after a long time, it may not be able to satisfy the other party.

If in the end, it is still the end of the breakup due to various reasons, which makes each other feel more painful, then it is better not to be together in the first place.

At the very least, if we are just ordinary friends and ordinary colleagues, we will never break up, never become enemies and strangers.

But if they get together rashly, but break up due to various reasons in the end, they may lose each other forever, and it is even impossible to see each other again. "

Speaking of this, Hu Qiang seemed to be touched, shook his head slightly and murmured:

"If you don't meet, you don't fall in love.

If you don't know each other, you don't love each other.

If you are not accompanied, you can not owe each other.

If you don't cherish each other, you don't have to remember each other.

If... Hey, in short, it's best to live alone! "

Having said that, Hu Qiang let out a long sigh, then stopped talking, just silently stirred the coffee with a spoon.

Ye Zhen Zhen clearly sensed that something was wrong with the atmosphere, so she carefully asked: "Mr. Hu, are you alright?"

"No." Hu Qiang recovered quickly, pinched his nose, blinked his eyes forcibly, and then said with a smile, "It's just that I was a little emotional for a while, and my personal opinion makes you laugh."

Ye Zhen Zhen smiled slightly and took the initiative to change the subject: "By the way, Mr. Hu, are you from Shanghai?"

"No, I'm not a local." Hu Qiang shook his head.

"Coincidentally, neither am I." Ye Zhen Zhen smiled, "How long have you been here in Shanghai, Mr. Hu?"

"Me." Hu Qiang said, "Let's think about it. I went to school for more than four years and worked for more than ten years. It's almost 15 years."

"It's been so long." Ye Zhen Zhen said, "Then have you settled down in Shanghai yet?"

"I have settled down." Hu Qiang said with a smile, "I bought a house in the suburbs many years ago and settled down. Now, I can be regarded as a native of Shanghai. By the way, Ms. Ye, how about you?"

"Me." Ye Zhenzhen smiled, "I am a returned student who has registered permanent residence in Shanghai, and now I have a registered permanent residence in Shanghai. As for the house, that 2203 is my house."

"Oh, that's the house you bought?" Hu Qiang said in surprise, "Excellent, that house is not cheap."

"My family bought it for me." Ye Zhen Zhen smiled, "I just started working, where can I afford it?"

"That's amazing." Hu Qiang smiled.

"Family relationship cannot be separated after all, and being able to rely on parents to buy a house is also a manifestation of ability.

Of course, I absolutely believe that even if you don't rely on your parents, with Ms. Ye's own ability, it will be a matter of time before she buys a house. "

"Thank you for saying that." Ye Zhen Zhen smiled slightly.

"Well, let's add WeChat to each other." Hu Qiang took out his mobile phone, "It doesn't mean anything else, that is, we will be neighbors in the future, and if we need help with anything, we need to discuss it, and it is also convenient for communication."

Speaking of this, seeing Ye Zhen Zhen hesitated, Hu Qiang said again: "Don't worry, I'm not the kind of person who likes to harass people, I added WeChat just in case.

If you find that I harass you in the future, you can block me at any time. "

"That's not what I meant." Ye Zhen Zhen smiled and took out her phone, "I just...well, let's add a WeChat."

After the two sides smiled again, they added WeChat to each other.

"The most handsome Xiaoqiang?" Ye Zhenzhen looked at Hu Qiang's screen name, "Is this you?"

"Yes, it's me." Hu Qiang nodded.

"There is no special meaning in choosing this name, it is to urge myself to be the most kind Xiaoqiang, even if I am as humble as dust, even if I am beaten into the mud, I will never be discouraged, I will never be defeated, and I will continue to survive strong. "

After scratching his head, Hu Qiang sneered: "It's a bit vulgar, don't laugh at me."

"No, this name is very good." Ye Zhen Zhen smiled, "From this screen name, it can be seen that the master is a person who will never admit defeat and never get discouraged, it's really pretty good."

Hu Qiang smiled, did not continue to explain, but looked down at Ye Zhen Zhen's screen name.

"Yan Zhengyi?" Hu Qiang raised his eyebrows, then looked up at Ye Zhenzhen, "Beauty is justice?"

"No, it's not like that!" Ye Zhen Zhen quickly smiled and waved her hands, "Actually, I chose this name because my idol is Professor Yan Yizheng. I chose this name in order to pay tribute to my idol."

"Yan Yizheng?" Hu Qiang frowned, "I seem to have heard that name somewhere before."

Speaking of this, Hu Qiang quickly searched on his mobile phone, and soon found Yan Yizheng's information.

Looking at the photos, she is a Chinese beauty who can be called a model. Looking at the introduction, she is actually a structural biologist, a foreign academician of the National Academy of Sciences, a member of the American Academy of Arts and Sciences, a tenured professor and doctoral supervisor of Princeton University, Tsinghua University Adjunct Professor of the University's School of Life Sciences.

Anyway, it's just a lot of awesome titles, a typical beauty school master, no, it should be regarded as a beauty school master now.

No wonder Hu Qiang felt that he had heard of it. He had occasionally read it when he checked the news before. He was a star female scientist among the Chinese.

"Oh, awesome!" Hu Qiang exclaimed after seeing this, "You are a good idol, not bad, not bad, you are indeed a scientist."

Speaking of this, Hu Qiang smiled: "It turns out that this is what you mean by Yan Zhengyi. I thought it meant that appearance is justice. In fact, even if it is true that appearance is justice, it is very suitable for you." .”

"I'm just kidding." Ye Zhen Zhen smiled and stroked the hair next to her ear, obviously a little embarrassed.

After that, everyone drank coffee silently, and no one spoke for a while.

In fact, knowing this point is generally enough.

At least on the surface, both parties are relatively decent and reliable people, and there is no danger.

For example, whether you are married, whether you have a formal job, whether you have a Shanghai hukou, whether you have a house, and other questions related to reliability, both parties asked.

Other questions related to privacy, such as how much income, what do parents do, etc., were not asked.

After all, they are all strangers, and men and women are different, so there is basically nothing to say when the topic comes to this point.

Hu Qiang is also a person with sharp eyesight, so he took the initiative to leave quickly on the grounds that he still had something to do, so as not to appear embarrassing when he had nothing to say.

Ye Zhenzhen is also a smart person, she knew what Hu Qiang meant, so she said goodbye to Hu Qiang very readily.

After leaving the cafe, Hu Qiang smiled, thinking that this neighbor was interesting.

He could tell that Ye Zhenzhen was a very polite, well-educated, well-educated and well-off child, simply put, she was a highly educated Bai Fumei with a good family background, very rational and temperamental.

She is also very vigilant, which can be seen from a series of performances after the meeting.

Let’s not talk about her performance in the elevator before, let’s just say that she insisted not to enter Hu Qiang’s house, and she invited people to drink coffee and did not invite Hu Qiang to her own home, but went to a cafe in a public place. She is very vigilant, even too strong.

If she had been living in China, Hu Qiang might think she was a little bit wrong, but if she had studied abroad, then Hu Qiang would understand.

You know, in foreign countries, except for very few countries, one counts as one, especially Western countries, in fact, the law and order are not very good.

Even in Europe and the United States, the law and order environment, even the wealthy areas cannot guarantee absolute safety.

This is especially true for women.

Since Ye Zhen Zhen came back from studying abroad, it is easy to understand why she should keep some vigilance in living abroad.

Especially since she is still a rich and beautiful woman, it is even more understandable.

To sum it up, it's actually not bad to have such a high-quality single woman as a neighbor, at least it is reasonable and reasonable, and there are not so many things.

I believe that as long as Hu Qiang doesn't take the initiative to cause trouble, and maintains a basic distance and etiquette, it shouldn't be a big problem to get along well.

(End of this chapter)