Hu Qiang's Decision

Chapter 338 Finding a Husband, the Key is Three Views Upright, It Will Hurt You

Half an hour later, Chris drove Hu Qiang to the underground parking lot of a large supermarket.

After that, Chris took Hu Qiang to the supermarket, and met Chris' mother in the supermarket by phone.

When everyone met, Chris's mother had already bought almost everything in the cart, and everyone just had to go out and check out.

Regarding this, Hu Qiang smiled on the surface, but secretly complained in his heart, which made it clear that he was asking himself to pay and help carry things.

That's right, how could an old lady be able to carry such a cart full of things?
Also, he always felt that the Chrissy family was too self-talking, and they made their own decisions, and immediately recognized Hu Qiang as her boyfriend, and even talked about it everywhere, without asking whether others liked it or not.

Especially since Lisa knew about this matter, this is a big problem.

Hu Qiang decided to find an opportunity to explain clearly to Lisa after a showdown with the Chris family.

Not for anything else, at least, to keep the job first.

Otherwise, when Lisa got angry and fired herself, it would be a big trouble.

Although Lisa said before that she was disappointed with herself, it was basically equivalent to giving up talking about friends with herself.

But a woman's mouth is a deceiving ghost, how can such words be believed?

Even if it's true, you can't just break up with Lisa here and then talk to Lisa's secretary later.

Ordinary women can't bear this kind of thing, let alone Lisa?

But what worries Hu Qiang the most is that Lisa still looks very happy after hearing the news, which is obviously not right.

The biggest possibility is that Lisa did it on purpose. She wanted to tell herself through Chris's mouth that she already knew about this matter, and then waited for her own explanation, and finally dealt with herself according to her own explanation.

Therefore, I had to make it clear to Chris earlier and reject her earlier.

As for when to make it clear to the Chris family.

Well, there are so many people now, let's talk slowly when there are fewer people.

After all, her mother is still there, and she is still sick, so she needs to take care of it, so don't be too exciting.

In case something happens to her mother who is so exciting, I can't bear the responsibility.

That's right, you can't say this in front of her mother.

I have to coax her mother over first, and then talk to Chris alone.

In the final analysis, the problem still lies with Chris.

If Chris thinks he's not suitable, it's useless for her mother to urge her.

After having this idea, Hu Qiang obediently pushed onto the trolley and followed slowly at the end, while Chris and her mother walked in front, chatting and laughing.

I don't know, but when I saw the situation, I really thought it was a family that came out to purchase.

Hu Qiang, who was pushing the trolley, was speechless all the way, acting like a classic version of the little man in Shanghai, working hard and seldom talking.

He had already made up his mind, and he would take Chris to the apartment he used to live in later.

That apartment is very dilapidated, and it has not been lived in for a long time, and it has not been cleaned for a long time. It is probably already dirty.

Seeing the environment of that apartment, Chris and her mother must have disliked him.

At that time, if you take advantage of the situation and say that you are more miserable and incompetent, maybe you don't have to break up with yourself. Because Chris and her mother can't stand it, they just say they broke up.

In this way, isn't it the most perfect?

Oh, sure enough, self-defilement and hiding one's clumsiness are the kingly way.

No matter how handsome a man is, if he has no money, no skills, and a sloppy life, no woman will pay him back.

If that doesn't work, well, let's talk about it later.

Just when Hu Qiang was thinking about the self-pollution plan, he came to the checkout counter without knowing it, and then queued up to wait for the checkout.

But soon, a familiar voice came from behind Hu Qiang: "Huh, old Hu? Is it really you?"

Hu Qiang was taken aback for a moment, and when he looked back, he actually ran into an acquaintance.

"Ye Zhen Zhen?" Hu Qiang asked in surprise, "It's you?"

"That's right, it's me." Ye Zhenzhen, who was also pushing a trolley, chuckled, "I thought you looked familiar just now when I saw your back, but when I came here to take a look, it's really you! What a coincidence! Why, you're here to buy things too Ah, huh, buy so much?"

Hu Qiang smiled dryly, and just about to speak, Chris came over and said with a smile: "Qiang, who is this, why don't you introduce yourself?"

Hu Qiang was taken aback, and introduced awkwardly: "Well, this is Ye Zhenzhen, it's me, it's my friend."

"Friend?" Chris frowned subconsciously.

Seeing the situation, Ye Zhen Zhen blinked and smiled quickly: "Yes, we are just ordinary friends. In fact, strictly speaking, we are just neighbors, we live in the opposite door, that's all."

"Ah, you are neighbors." Chris laughed.

"Yes." Ye Zhen Zhen nodded with a smile, "We are just neighbors."

"Hello." Chris took the initiative to smile and stretched out her hand, "My name is Yuan Baijie. I am Hu Qiang's colleague and his girlfriend. You can call me Chris directly, or you can call me Ajie."

"Ah!" Ye Zhen Zhen looked at the embarrassed Hu Qiang with a half-smile, then smiled and shook hands with Chris.

"Hi, my name is Ye Zhenzhen, you can just call me Zhenzhen."

"Okay, Zhenzhen." Chris smiled.

After letting go of her hand, Ye Zhen Zhen smiled slightly at Hu Qiang: "Okay, Lao Hu, why don't you introduce me sooner when you have a girlfriend? Do you still consider me as a friend?"

Hu Qiang smiled awkwardly: "This, this... It's a long story, a long story."

Chris smiled and said, "Don't blame him, we have just established a relationship not long ago, strictly speaking, less than two days."

"Ah, that's it." Ye Zhen Zhen smiled.

"That's right." Chris pulled her mother over at this moment, "This is my mother."

"Hello." Chris' mother nodded kindly to Ye Zhen Zhen.

"Ah, hello, Auntie." Ye Zhenzhen nodded hurriedly, "I'm Ye Zhenzhen."

Chris's mother chuckled: "Miss Ye is really beautiful, and she has a special temperament. She is not a child of ordinary people at first glance."

"Where is it?" Ye Zhen Zhen said with a smile, "I was joking."

Chris's mother nodded: "Ms. Ye is such a nice person, do you have a date?"

"Auntie!" Hu Qiang said hastily, "I didn't ask that."

Chris's mother covered her mouth: "Oh, look at me, talking nonsense again! I'm sorry, Miss Ye, I didn't mean it, but you also know that we old people come and go on these issues, alas, Don’t blame me for saying the wrong thing.”

Ye Zhen Zhen smiled slightly: "It's nothing, actually my parents always ask me that, I'm used to it."

Mother Chrissy nodded: "Yes, as a parent, I hope that my children can start a family and start a business early, especially those with daughters. Before they grow up, they are worried that she will fall in love early, and when they grow up, they are worried that she will not fall in love.

Alas, sometimes I feel that being a parent is really tiring. I always want to just let go, but in the end, how can I really let go. "

"Mom!" Chris tugged at her mother's arm, "What are you talking about?"

"Oh, I'm sorry." Mother Chrissy patted her mouth lightly again, and said to Ye Zhenzhen, "I'm sorry Miss Ye, I said some nonsense again, just pretend you didn't hear."

Ye Zhen Zhen smiled, and then looked at Hu Qiang's trolley: "Ah, you bought a lot of things, yo, there is also a mandarin duck hot pot? Look at it, don't you want to eat hot pot?"

"Sight!" Mother Chrissy nodded.

"To be honest, I will not be here for long, so I plan to have a good meal with my family before I leave.

But you also know that the food outside is expensive and unhygienic, and it’s all technological and hard work, and you don’t know how many additives are used in it, it’s very unhealthy.

So I decided to have a meal at home.

But the place where my daughter lives now is shared with others, and there are two maids there, Xiao Hu was not suitable in the past.

I heard that Xiao Hu lives by himself, so we decided to go to Xiao Hu's house to have a home-cooked meal together tonight.

I know that Xiao Hu is from the Northeast, but I'm not very good at cooking their food.

So after much deliberation, let's eat hot pot.

I heard from my daughter that Xiao Hu also likes to eat our Sichuan hot pot, which is so simple and lively. "

"Yes, it's good to eat hot pot." Ye Zhen Zhen smiled, "It's delicious and lively."

"Hey, that's right!" Chris' mother said with a smile, "Miss Ye, aren't you Xiao Hu's neighbor, why don't you come over to eat together, it's so crowded."

Ye Zhen Zhen was stunned: "This, this is not appropriate."

"What's inappropriate." Chris' mother said with a smile, "As the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors.

You are Xiao Hu's neighbor, my daughter is now Xiao Hu's girlfriend, maybe in the future, you will have to move around frequently, what's the point of having a meal together?
Besides, I bought a lot of ingredients here, and even the three of us can’t eat them. If you have time, come over and eat together. "

Chris followed suit and said, "Yes, Zhenzhen, let's come and eat together, it's so crowded."

"I don't think so." Hu Qiang interrupted hastily, "Auntie, Chris, well, Ms. Ye is also quite busy, so it's inappropriate to invite her to dinner rashly."

"Why is it inappropriate?" Chrissy's mother said, "It's normal for neighbors to visit each other, and it's rare to meet. This is also a fate. It would be inappropriate not to invite people over for dinner Woolen cloth."

Speaking of this, Chris's mother looked at Ye Zhenzhen with a smile: "Miss Ye, what I said before was offended, if you don't dislike me as an old woman, why don't you come over and have a meal together?"

Ye Zhen Zhen was taken aback for a moment, then she nodded with a smile: "Okay, it's better to obey than to be respectful, so let's have a meal together."

Hu Qiang was dumbfounded: "No, auntie, you can't do this, it's not appropriate."

"What's inappropriate." Chris's mother said with a smile, "I like Ms. Ye just looking at her, and she agrees to it, Xiao Hu, don't interrupt."

Hearing what Chris' mother said, Hu Qiang sighed and stopped talking.

Ye Zhen Zhen smiled and nodded: "By the way, how did you get here?"

Chris smiled and said, "We drove here."

"I also came here by car." Ye Zhen Zhen smiled, "How about, where is your parking space? I'll drive to find you. We all meet at the underground parking lot first, and then you follow my car, how about it?"

"Okay." Chris nodded, "That's it."

Hearing this, Hu Qiang frowned, but still didn't speak.

He knew that with Ye Zhen Zhen's appearance, it was impossible to take Chris's family to his original apartment, and he could only go to Ode to Joy community.

But it doesn't matter, anyway, there will be a showdown in the end, so it's okay to have fun first.

Yes, with so many accidents, Hu Qiang is calm now.

He decided to coax the old lady away according to the established plan, and then have a showdown with Chris alone.

As for Ye Zhen Zhen, it doesn't hurt to explain later.

In other words, Ye Zhen Zhen is the most harmless here, the trouble is actually how to explain to Lisa.

But no matter what, this is a farce after all.

No matter what the Chris family does, as long as they don't admit it in the end, everything will be useless.

The reason why Hu Qiang is still silent now is purely because he doesn't want to irritate the old lady, lest something happen to her.

After coaxing the old lady away, he will have a showdown with Chris immediately, and he will no longer be ambiguous.

That being the case, before that, you might as well behave a little more casually, defaulting to Chris's boyfriend, so that the old lady and everyone else will be happy.

After making up his mind, Hu Qiang no longer struggled, and was able to talk and laugh.

Soon, everyone settled their bills, and then went to the underground parking lot together to find their own cars.

Just when Chris unlocked her car, Hu Qiang put the things in the trunk and subconsciously went to the co-pilot, Chris suddenly said: "Qiang, do you have a driver's license?"

Hu Qiang was taken aback: "Yes."

"Do you have an electronic driver's license?" Chris asked again.

"Yes." Hu Qiang nodded subconsciously.

Chris smiled: "Then you drive, after all, you are going to your house, and you are more familiar with the road."

Hu Qiang frowned, but still nodded: "Okay."

Just like that, Hu Qiang took Chris's car keys and got into the driver's seat.

But Chris didn't get in the car immediately, instead she pulled her mother aside and asked in a low voice: "Mom, why did you suddenly invite that Ye Zhen Zhen to have dinner together? She's not familiar with her."

Mother Chrissy squinted her eyes, smiled and said in a low voice: "Silly boy, that Ye Zhenzhen, since he is Xiao Hu's neighbor, why don't you get to know his details first?
Furthermore, if you want to date Xiao Hu in the future, you need to know more about each other. If you want to understand each other, you must first get to know the people around him, especially the neighbors.

Although the neighbors may not know much information, at least it is objective enough.

Therefore, if you want to understand a person's nature, you must first start by understanding his neighbors.

Also, if you get along with Xiao Hu's neighbor and become good friends, wouldn't it be easy to control Xiao Hu's every move?

In addition, that Ye Zhenzhen has a good appearance and temperament, she is wearing famous brands, she can be seen as a lady, and she can be seen as single.

Although I feel that she and Xiao Hu are unlikely, but everything must be prepared just in case.

After all, this lonely man and widow are neighbors, and they are about the same age. Who dares to be okay all the time?

Therefore, inviting her to have a meal together is also asking you to swear sovereignty in person, understand? "

Chris was stunned, then nodded and smiled and said, "Mom, you are still the best! My dad was taken down by you back then, right?"

"What nonsense." Chris's mother said quickly, "It was your father who chased me hard back then."

"Really?" Chrissy laughed, "But that's not what my dad said."

"Hmph!" Chris's mother flattened her lips, "He's just trying to save face, don't listen to him."

Immediately afterwards, Chris's mother said: "Anyway, Xiao Hu, you must pay close attention! I didn't feel it before, but now I suddenly discovered that he seems to be very attractive to women. You must be careful."

Chris shook her head: "Mom, I didn't say that, he is a married middle-aged man with no money or skills, and he has a child and a sick mother, so he is basically eliminated in the marriage market.

If I can give him a chance, he will burn the incense. It is not as exaggerated as you said, making it seem like he is very popular. "

Mother Chrissy sighed: "What do you know! There are some men who don't look very good on the surface, but they actually have inner beauty. They are the kind of masters who are more attracted to you the more you get in touch with them.

Before, I just looked at Xiao Hu pleasing to the eye, and wanted you to try it, and if it didn't work, I would pull it down.

But after getting in touch with him for a period of time, I found that he is really good, versatile, good-natured, nice-sounding, and good at loving people. He is really a good man.

Compared with his inner beauty, his superficial condition actually doesn't matter.

Of course, those money-worshiping women may be intimidated by Xiao Hu's superficial conditions, after all, what they are looking for is money and material things.

But those women who have broken away from low-level tastes, they have already lost their desire for money and material things, they have already broken away from this low-level tastes, and they are pursuing higher-level things, more of a spiritual pursuit. and emotional satisfaction.

I am not saying that money is not important, but that inner quality is more important than money and material things.

Although our family can't be said to be rich, it can at least be considered a well-to-do family. Among other things, it is no problem to buy you a house in Shanghai.

Since we have the ability to buy a house and a car, why do we have to require men to have these conditions?

It's like many rich men who are able to buy a house and a car on their own. When they look for a woman, do they really look at the other's education and wealth?

No, men who are really rich and capable, when they want to find a woman, they are more interested in whether she is young, beautiful or obedient.

As for women's education, work, and wealth, they are all secondary to those men who are really capable.

Conversely, if a woman is rich enough to buy a house and a car, does she really require a man to be rich and have status?No, what she may want is a man who can really love herself, be considerate of herself, and take good care of herself.

To put it bluntly, regardless of men and women, if you can meet your own needs materially, then your requirements for the other half are no longer mainly material, but other needs.

For rich men, what they like are young, beautiful and obedient girls.

For rich women, what they like is young, handsome, loving and honest boys.

So, what about money and material things, we don't have to ask too much.

I never thought of asking you to find a rich man to be your husband. That kind of man is not able to live a stable life at all, nor is it a good match for you.

That kind of man who is staring at money all day long and calculating all day long is absolutely not acceptable!
I just want to let you find a man who is good-looking, good-looking, good-natured, capable of hurting others, and who doesn't go out and mess around. "

"Like my dad?" Chrissy laughed.

"Yes, just like your father." Chris's mother smiled, "Why, look down on your father?"

"Of course not." Chris laughed, "I really like my dad."

"Yeah." Chris's mother sighed, "Your dad, although not very good in career, really has nothing to say to me.

I thought that there should be many men like him, but then I found out that in this society, there are fewer and fewer men like him.

It's like Xiao Hu, don't think that men like him can catch a lot of them, but it's not.

Today's young people, especially men, are mostly selfish and egotistical, and men are generally more materialistic and preoccupied than women. Few of them can really love women.

Now that you can meet Xiao Hu, you can enjoy it secretly. As for his other problems, such as having a daughter and a sick mother, I have analyzed it with you before, but it is really nothing.

To find a husband, the key is to have three views upright, and it will hurt others.

To put it bluntly, we must have virtue!
A virtuous man is a good husband.

And Xiao Hu is a good man with virtue. This kind of man is really a rare product nowadays.

Let me tell you, in fact, a man like Xiao Hu can easily attract those rich and lonely women.

So that Ye Zhenzhen, you must not take it as a joke, and do not think it is impossible.

If the sovereignty is not declared earlier, maybe one day, troubles will happen, let me tell you. "

Chris smiled: "Yes, yes, you have a unique vision, you plan ahead, I will listen to you, okay?"

"That's about the same." Chris's mother nodded.

Just then, a wine red BMW M8 drove over and stopped in front of Chris's BMW MINI.

Soon, the car window came down, revealing Ye Zhen Zhen's figure.

"Hi!" Ye Zhen Zhen smiled and waved to Chris and her mother, "Wait a minute? Sorry, my car stopped a little far away."

"It's okay." Chris said with a smile, "Not long ago, I happened to chat with my mother for a while."

Ye Zhen Zhen nodded with a smile: "Then hurry up and get in the car, I will open the way ahead, you follow me, okay?"

"No problem!" Chris nodded.

Soon, Chris got into the co-pilot, and Chris's mother sat in the back seat.

Seeing that Chris and her mother got into the car, and after Hu Qiang started the car, Ye Zhen Zhen raised the window and drove forward slowly.

Hu Qiang drove to follow, hanging behind Ye Zhen Zhen's car.

At this moment, Hu Qiang has a calm face, because he has already made up his mind and is naturally calm.

how to say.

Anyway, Hu Qiang thinks that troubles like this, the more urgent the more accidents are likely to happen, it's better to deal with them calmly.

To put it bluntly, the source of this kind of thing is actually Chris.

As long as you go back and explain the matter to Chris alone, and stand firm, this kind of misunderstanding is not a problem at all.

So before that, there is no need to panic and panic.

It's better to make mistakes and have a happy meal first to give each other face, which is also very good.

After all, we are colleagues with Chris, so we still have to pay attention to the method and method of doing things, and we can't do it too badly.

Give yourself enough face and serve the old lady well. I believe Chris will understand her when the cards show up in the future.

(End of this chapter)