Hu Qiang's Decision

Chapter 386 Jade can't be cut into a weapon, and a tree can't slip without repair

Soon it was the Saturday rest day. On this day, Hu Qiang slept in as usual, and then went back to see his mother and daughter. By the way, we had a meal together, chatted, and made friends.

After lunch, while his daughter was playing with a tablet in the bedroom and his mother was watching TV in the living room, Hu Qiang took Su Damiao to the courtyard in private, playing with flowers and plants while learning about his mother and daughter's recent situation.

"Hu Tao has become a lot more obedient recently." Su Damiao said with a smile, "The first thing she does when she comes back from school every day is to do her homework first, and then play after finishing her homework. She is not very naughty anymore, but..."

"Just what?" Hu Qiang asked.

Su Damiao smiled: "It's just that Hu Tao doesn't seem to like playing the piano and English tutoring classes very much. She prefers dancing and taekwondo. She has told me privately many times to persuade you to cancel her piano. classes and English tutoring classes."

Hu Qiang shook his head: "This child is really troublesome, and I'm doing this for her own good."

Su Damiao said: "Mr. Hu, I know you are doing it for the good of the children, but most of the children in this age group like dancing, martial arts and other lively activities, and not many really like piano and English lessons.

Especially the piano class is the most boring at the beginning and requires long-term and repeated basic exercises. Only in the middle and late stages, when they get started and have some achievements, will they be attracted to continue.

But generally speaking, you still have to persevere to the end, especially Hu Tao, a child who is very spiritual, learns things quickly, and has very slender fingers. He is very suitable for playing the piano. It would be a pity if he gave up halfway. "

"That's right!" Hu Qiang nodded, "It's okay to give up halfway. After all, not everyone can succeed casually."

Speaking of this, Hu Qiang thought, unless he has a system like me, he will give skill rewards after completing the tasks, skip the long learning process, and go directly to advanced piano performances, but how many people can be as systematic as me? .

In addition, Hu Qiang also understands the cultivation of children's interest classes.

Although many people say that this is to kill the child's nature and prevent the child from doing the right thing at the right age.

In other words, let children have fun, don't enroll them in a bunch of interest classes, let them have their own free time to play, release their nature, so that it is conducive to healthy growth.

At the beginning, Hu Qiang also recognized it, but after he traveled through time and became more knowledgeable, he quickly scoffed at this statement.

Without him, he now understands that the so-called doing the right thing at the right age, letting the child have fun at a very young age and not learn anything, is the real ruin for the child.

To put it bluntly, let children have a happy childhood, either because they are poor or because they are stupid.

The reason is simple. Normally, the best time for a person to learn is childhood.

In childhood, although the child's intelligence has not yet fully developed, this mainly refers to the ability of logical thinking.

However, childhood memory is the strongest, and because it is simple enough, it is the best time to learn memory, language and music skills.

For example, foreign languages, usually the younger the age, the better the learning effect, and the same is true for musical instruments.

In addition to these, there is another reason, and that is the domestic educational environment.

With the current domestic education model, after junior high school, especially after the second year of junior high school, the study pressure will be particularly high, because junior high school will start to diverge, so if you do not study well in junior high school, you will not be admitted to high school, and the university will naturally be Hopeless.

In other words, normally speaking, children only have the most free time and the least stressful time in kindergarten and elementary school.

Once a child enters junior high school, they actually spend most of their time on their studies, leaving little time for hobbies.

This is also the reason why hobbies are mostly started in elementary school or even kindergarten, just to race against time.

For example, foreign languages ​​and musical instruments, it is best to start learning these in elementary school, otherwise you may not have time to learn in the future.

Don't expect to learn anything when you grow up, it's pure nonsense.

Because once you grow up, you will only become busier, and there will be more temptations, and it will be difficult for you to settle down to learn a musical instrument or a foreign language.

Therefore, elementary school is the best time to learn hobbies. This is a summary of the experience of countless people.

It can be said that the so-called stocking allows children to have a happy childhood, which is nothing the poor can do.

As long as you have a little ability, you can't let your children go. Instead, you should restrain your children from an early age and let them develop various good habits, such as good habits of loving learning, good habits of loving labor, good habits of loving cleanliness, and so on.

These habits have to be developed from childhood.

Letting children attend interest classes not only allows them to learn a craft, but also allows them to entertain and teach, and gradually develop various good habits in the process of learning.

All in all, it is absolutely beneficial and harmless to enroll children in interest classes. Of course, it is not enough to go too far, and it is not good to enroll too much. Always give children some time for themselves.

Just like Hutao, Hu Qiang gave Hutao a day of free rest on Saturday, and the whole day on Sunday was filled with various interest classes.

In this way, not only did Walnut have a respite, but also made Saturday a family reunion time.

So normally, Hu Qiang would not work overtime on Saturdays, and most of them would go home on Saturdays to visit their mothers and children, especially children.

It may also be because Hu Qiang has often come back to see Hutao during this period of time, together with Su Damiao's care and Grandma Hutao's care, so Xiao Hutao is now lively and obedient, and will no longer make trouble all day long like in the past up.

"Sister Su."

Thinking of this, Hu Qiang said to Su Damiao.

"Please worry about the child's interest class and her studies.

Jade cannot be cut without being cut, and a tree cannot be straightened without repair.

If she's going to do something wrong, or find fault with her evil spirits, scold her if you want, beat her if you want, don't worry about it.

Children cannot be used to it, otherwise they will be spoiled. "

Su Damiao smiled and nodded: "Yes, I understand, but in fact, you don't have to think of Hu Tao so badly. In fact, Hu Tao is a very good child. As long as you reason with her, she will listen."

Hu Qiang frowned, thought about his relationship with Hu Tao, and suddenly shivered.

Without him, it's just because every time he communicates with Hu Tao, he is either tricked by her with new tricks that she doesn't know who she learned from, or she is made speechless by all kinds of jokes she doesn't know who she learned from.

In short, unless there are many people, Hu Qiang dare not be with Hu Tao in private, for fear of being bullied.

"I don't know who I learned from." Hu Qiang muttered in a low voice.

"Mr. Hu, what are you talking about?" Su Damiao asked.

"It's nothing." Hu Qiang smiled immediately, "By the way, Hu Tao is obsessed with tablets now? Why do you go upstairs and close the door to play with tablets after dinner? Could it be that you are addicted to playing games? That's not okay. !"

Su Damiao said with a smile: "Don't worry, there are no games on her tablet. They are all related to learning, and some are related to music and painting, but..."

"But what?" Hu Qiang asked.

Su Damiao thought for a while, and then said: "However, she seems to have dated a netizen recently, she seems to have a very good relationship, and she often contacts each other.

In private, I also used my mobile phone to connect to her tablet, and wanted to check the chat history between Hu Tao and that netizen. Unfortunately, Hu Tao always finished chatting with the other party while I was busy, and the record would be cleared after the chat, so I still have I don't know what she was talking about with the other party, but I only know that they have a good relationship. "

Hu Qiang frowned: "Netizen? Male or female?"

"Hu Tao said it was a girl." Su Damiao said, "I actually asked her who that netizen was, and she said she was her classmate, who usually talked about studies and what happened in school."

"That's it, then it's all right." Hu Qiang nodded.

After talking about walnuts, Hu Qiang asked about his mother's situation. He heard that his mother should eat and drink recently. She has a good memory and no forgetfulness at all. She doesn't look like Alzheimer's disease at all. Only then did I feel relieved.

Sure enough, the system produced, must be a boutique.

That special drug for Alzheimer's disease is really powerful.

Thinking of this, Hu Qiang coughed and said in a low voice, "Well, that's right, my mother has Alzheimer's disease, it may be a misdiagnosis."

"Ah, that's how it is." Su Damiao nodded, and said with a dazed expression, "I said, I have also taken care of Alzheimer's patients, but my aunt was a little forgetful at the beginning, and the situation later was not like that at all. , It turned out to be a misdiagnosis, which is great."

"Yes, that's great." Hu Qiang smiled dryly.

After that, Hu Qiang said seriously: "Well, in short, thank you for your care these days, and I hope you can continue to maintain it."

"Don't worry, Mr. Hu." Su Damiao said with a smile, "I will definitely do my best."

Hu Qiang nodded: "By the way, speaking of it, didn't you just let you focus on your child's study and relax with my mother in the future, and leave the housework to part-time workers? How did you hear before that you didn't hire part-time workers, but you cleaned it yourself? ? Will this be too tiring?"

"No." Su Damiao said with a smile, "Mr. Hu, the money you gave is enough, and your family is not difficult to take care of. I was a little ashamed at first. If I hired part-time workers again, I would be too shameless." .

Besides, Auntie and Xiao Hutao don't like to have outsiders at home, so I just cleaned it by the way.

In fact, I did not clean it alone. Auntie and Xiao Hutao also helped. All the cleaning was actually done by the three of us together, not by me alone. "

"The three of you clean together?" Hu Qiang asked in surprise, "Is it true?"

"Of course it's true." Su Damiao smiled, "But Xiao Hutao is only responsible for cleaning her own room and the corridor outside the room, and I clean the other places with my aunt.

Especially my aunt, she likes to clean the room very much, and often does it more carefully than me.

I asked my aunt to rest and let me come, but the aunt said that cleaning the room is also exercise, which is good for the body, so I didn't persuade her again. "

"It seems that you get along very well." Hu Qiang said with a smile.

"Yes." Su Damiao looked at Hu Qiang the same way, then turned to look at Hu Qiang's mother who was still smiling and watching TV, "Your family is really nice, really enviable."

Speaking of this, Su Damiao looked back at Hu Qiang carefully, and smiled again: "Of course, it would be even better if you could go home more and spend more time with your family."

Hu Qiang touched his nose, and said a little embarrassedly: "Well, try, try..."

(End of this chapter)