Hu Qiang's Decision

"middle age crisis?"

All the people in the iPartment said in surprise.

"That's right!" Writer Xiaohei nodded, "It's the middle-aged crisis that modern urban men and women fear most!"

Lu Ziqiao frowned and said, "No, of course I understand the mid-life crisis, but Zhang Wei isn't too far behind, right?"

"That's right." Chen Meijia followed, "I believed you before, but now Zhang Wei has a successful career and a good harvest in love, and our friends are still by his side. What reason does he have to go to the middle-aged crisis?" ?”

"That's right!" Hu Yifei also reacted, "Xiao Hei, don't scare me! Tell the truth!"

Writer Xiaohei shook his head: "So, although you are old friends of Zhang Wei for many years, to be honest, your understanding of Zhang Wei's true inner thoughts may not be as good as mine.

Yes, you live under the same roof and have been good friends for many years, and you seem to be the people who know him best.

But your understanding of Zhang Wei is only superficial, and you have no real understanding of his inner world.

Of course, you don’t know much about his inner world, so it’s understandable.

After all, you have grown up and have your own small business and family. It is impossible to be the same as before, hanging out with friends all day long and talking about everything.

And you probably don't think there is anything wrong with Zhang Wei now.

In terms of career, Zhang Wei is now a practicing lawyer and has his own law firm. His career is thriving.

In terms of love, he also has a young, beautiful and all-around super-wow girlfriend who loves him in all kinds of ways.

In terms of friendship, he has always been accompanied by several of your old friends for many years, and he can bear any difficulties together.

From this point of view, he really has a happy life, which belongs to career, love and friendship. There is nothing to worry about.

But actually, if Zhang Wei really lived a happy life, why would he often wake up in the middle of the night?And why after waking up in the middle of the night, I often sigh in front of the mirror alone, and then stay in a daze until dawn?

Do you really know these things? "

After hearing Xiao Hei's words, Hu Yifei, Lu Ziqiao and the others looked at each other for a while, then turned their heads, blinked and said to Xiao Hei: "I don't know that Zhang Wei often wakes up in the middle of the night, and I don't know that he often treats you Looking at the mirror and sighing, is there a problem?
We are just neighbors and good friends, and we don't live in the same room and bed with Zhang Wei. If he didn't tell us this, how would we know he would be like this?
Besides, if he really has something on his mind, he can tell us. If he doesn't tell us, then it doesn't mean the problem is not big. "

Writer Xiao Hei shook his head with a smile: "So, people who live in happiness always think that others are also happy. This is the same as not eating meat."

After sighing, the writer Xiaohei continued: "Actually, let's talk about Zhang Wei. Don't look careless on the surface. It seems that because of unlucky things, he has a strong ability to withstand pressure. He claims to be the most kind man in the love apartment, but he In my heart, I have always been very sensitive and have low self-esteem.

Why, if you think about it, you will know.

When he was in the iPartment, only Zhang Wei was an orphan and had no real family, so his longing for family and friends is beyond your imagination.

Because of this, Zhang Wei knew that his fiancée didn't love him, but loved someone else, but in order to have a family and love, he still endured silently and chose to forgive, as if he didn't know.

He waited until he was dumped on the wedding day and became a big joke before he hid in the love apartment and officially became friends with you.

But in fact, he came to the love apartment just to escape and have a shelter.

Therefore, because you accepted him and took him in when he was at the lowest point in his life, he has always been grateful to you.

It is precisely because of this that even if he has low self-esteem when facing you, he never dares to express it. Instead, he puts on a clown mask and embellishes your lives with humor and jokes.

As the saying goes, the core of comedy is tragedy.

Have you ever thought that in the love apartment, the funniest and funniest person is often the one who has the worst life.

Before Zhang Wei came, Zeng Xiaoxian was the worst antic in the apartment.

But since Zhang Wei came, Zhang Wei has become the worst comic.

Zhang Wei used his own tragic experiences to bring laughter and happiness to everyone in the iPartment.

And how do you do it?
You didn't really realize Zhang Wei's situation, and you didn't really help him fundamentally. You just consumed his pain again and again to fulfill your own happiness. "

"Nonsense!" Zeng Xiaoxian immediately retorted, "How can we consume his pain again and again to fulfill our own happiness? Stop talking nonsense!"

"Exactly!" Hu Yifei followed, "We've been doing our best to help Zhang Wei, okay?"

Writer Xiao Hei sneered at Hu Yifei and curled his lips: "Hu Yifei, do you still remember Zhang Wei's ex-girlfriend got married and invited Zhang Wei to participate, but Zhang Wei didn't want to go, you forced him to go, and you forced him to be a bridesmaid Bar?"

Hu Yifei blinked: "I remember, so what?"

Writer Xiao Hei shook his head: "Obviously Zhang Wei has said many times that he doesn't want to go to that wedding, why do you insist on forcing him to go?"

"I did it for his own good!" Hu Yifei said, "I told him not to run away, to be tough, to face his past bravely, so that he can welcome a new future!"

"But that's just your thoughts and actions, not Zhang Wei's." The writing gangster said, "You think it's good to be tough, but how do you know that Zhang Wei likes this kind of toughness?"

"If you don't face up to the tough question, is it right to be like a turtle?" Hu Yifei frowned, "It's shameful to escape."

Writer's underworld: "It's shameful to escape, but it's useful! At least for Zhang Wei.

Hu Yifei, not everyone is like you.

For you, being positive is your life philosophy.

But for Zhang Wei, proper escape is his best solution.

After all, you are completely different no matter in terms of your own personality or the original living environment, and you cannot simply make one size fits all.

But you always force your own will on Zhang Wei and let Zhang Wei do things according to your code of conduct, which is wrong.

For example, you once forced Zhang Wei to attend his ex-girlfriend's wedding as a bridesmaid. Have you ever thought about Zhang Wei's mood at that time?

No, in other words, you don't care about Zhang Wei's mood at all, you only think about your own mood. "

"So what?" Hu Yifei said with a downcast face, "Zhang Wei runs away when things happen, and I help him correct his shortcomings. Is it my fault?"

Writer Xiao Hei spread his hands together: "Look, this is the problem!
Whether it is you or them, you never think that you are wrong, you always think that what you do is beneficial to Zhang Wei, and you never really ask what Zhang Wei thinks in his heart.

Zhang Wei lives here, even if he is not happy in his heart, but in order to continue to be good friends with you, in order not to lose a few of your good friends, even if he is unwilling, he must endure your will, and continue to make changes for you, continue Be that stingy clown in front of you.

In other words, when we are with you, Zhang Wei actually has to put on a mask, then enter his own personality, and play his own role well.

Only when he is alone in the room can he truly let go of the mask and stop being an actor in life. "

Hu Yifei frowned and said, "You mean, Zhang Wei has known us for so many years and has always acted in front of us? He has never revealed his true thoughts?"

Writer Xiaohei nodded: "Although Zhang Wei gradually entered the play and gradually became more and more like the person he played, in essence, when he gets along with you, he is indeed subconsciously entering the acting state.

Of course, this is not because he has any worries about you, but because of his survival instinct.

After all, if you want to integrate into a group, you must find your own position and personality, otherwise you will be rejected.

This chameleon-like life skill is especially important for Zhang Wei, an orphan born in an orphanage, and it has become an instinct for him.

In fact, let alone Zhang Wei, don’t you all have another side that you don’t know about?

Just like Mika.

If Meijia hadn’t misunderstood that Lu Ziqiao was having an affair with curry sauce when she was pregnant, and suddenly ran away from home and disappeared, who would have known that Meijia had so many pasts, even being in a girl group member? "

Everyone subconsciously looked at Chen Meijia, and then looked at the writing Xiaohei again.

Writing-type Xiao Hei pushed his glasses calmly, and continued to explain: "So, what you see may not be true!
The old friends we usually know may be completely different from what you imagine in private.

Just like Zhang Wei.

Zhang Wei usually looks like a very flamboyant, stingy, honest, kind, talkative, annoying, but unlucky person.

But do you know that Zhang Wei in private is actually not talkative, and he likes to be in a daze, and he also likes fluffy pillows. "

Hu Yifei blinked: "Even so, what does this have to do with the midlife crisis?"

"Of course it has something to do with it!" said the writer-type gangster, "I said earlier, in your eyes, Zhang Wei has a successful career and a happy love, and with you good friends by his side, there shouldn't be anything dissatisfied in life. It should be happy and worry-free.

But do you know, in fact, you yourself are the source of Zhang Wei's biggest troubles. "

"What do you mean?" Hu Yifei asked subconsciously.

The writing-type underworld: "It's very simple, those people who live in the love apartment, until now, all of them are in pairs and happy in love.

For example, you are married to Zeng Xiaoxian, Meijia is married to Ziqiao, Guan Gu is married to Yoyo, and even Zhanbo and Wanyu are reunited in Europe. It is said that they are engaged and will be married soon.

In other words, among the old people in the iPartment, only Zhang Wei and Qin Yumo are currently single. "

"Wait, wait!" Hu Yifei interrupted suddenly, "You said that Yu Mo is still single, and I won't say anything about you, after all, she is very demanding.

But you said that Zhang Wei is still single, isn't that obviously wrong?
Zhang Weike has always had a girlfriend like Dali!

So, where did you put us vigorously? "

"That's exactly another question I want to talk about." Writer Xiao Hei looked at everyone, and then smiled faintly.

"Think about it carefully, everyone, do you really think Zhang Wei and Dali are really suitable for being together, and can they really make it to the end?" (End of this chapter)