I eat melons and watch dramas in the chronicles

Chapter 15 The Goddaughter
Li Lin nodded in a daze, and asked a little puzzled: "Mom, I'm actually a little worried. Our grandparents have a good relationship, and my father and mother also have a good relationship. The village is like the third uncle and the third aunt, although they are noisy. It’s noisy, but the relationship has been very good for so many years.”

"It's just that most of them seem to be making do with it. There are still many men who beat their wives. Mom, you said that the two strangers who were not familiar with each other got married after a few meetings and lived together. There is no blood relationship. If you don’t know each other well, how should you live this day!”

Looking at the frowning and earnest girl, Liu Yuan sighed slightly. In fact, she didn't know that Liu Yuan and her husband grew up together as childhood sweethearts. When she was ten years old, Liu Yuan knew that she would to marry a husband.

My mother-in-law is my nanny, my father-in-law watched me grow up, and my husband is also my nanny brother. To me, my father-in-law and mother-in-law seem to be raising a daughter, while my husband protects me as both a sister and a lover. Husband, to be honest, Liu Yuan didn't resist at all!
This is also true after marriage. Not only the parents-in-law have not changed, but the husband has not changed, and he loves her even more. My situation is different from that of my daughter. This Feng Yingjie looks pretty good now, but everyone knows The face does not know the heart, whether it is a human or a ghost depends on the future!

It's just that you can't say these things to your daughter, so that she won't be afraid. After thinking about it, Liu Yuan looked at Li Lin and said kindly: "There are no absolutes. There are couples who love each other like your grandparents, and there are couples who are like your mother." The childhood sweetheart couples with deep affection like Dad, and even the noisy couples like your third uncle and third aunt who are also deeply affectionate."

"There are also couples who hate each other, and even couples who turn against each other. Don't worry too much, daughter. The relationship between husband and wife is like drinking water. You know that you are a girl. Your husband loves you very much, and you love him seventy percent." , the remaining three points should be reserved for loving yourself, if you don’t love yourself, how can you expect others to love you, you must remember this! "

Li Lin nodded heavily. Her mother is pure and innocent, but she is also really smart. She doesn't understand this, and she must be right after listening to her mother. After thinking about it, she asked: "Mom? Can I understand this way? If you can't put your heart and soul into it, you have to put some thought into it, so that if the man changes his mind in the future, it won't hurt his bones?"

"It can be understood in this way! But there are no absolutes. You have to learn the ability to adapt. The daughter-in-law grew up in the village. Between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sister-in-law, husband and wife, and even between parents and children, there must be Learn to respect each other and learn to be considerate of each other!"

Liu Yuan quickly put all the things in the cupboard, while teaching her daughter in a soft voice: "My daughter must learn to refuse in the future, don't like things that you don't want to do, don't force them, you have to know, People are greedy, if you keep giving in, it will become a natural habit over time, and others will ask for whatever you give in!"

"Afterwards, when you don't want to give in any more, it will be your mistake. Human nature is greedy, so you have to understand what you can do and what you can't do, and what you can do or not do. , You must do what you can, and don't force yourself to cater to others."

Li Lin looked at the busy mother thoughtfully, and after thinking for a while, she said softly, "It seems so complicated, Mom, why do people get married and have children? Isn't it good to live alone?"

"Mother's good girl." Liu Yuan put away the things in his hand, looked at the girl who was a little confused, stepped forward and gently embraced the girl in her arms like when she was a child, and said seriously: "It's not bad to live alone. , but people like to be lively and afraid of being alone.”

"Ninny, mom can still be with you now, but mom can't stay with you forever. When mom is not around in the future, mom hopes that someone will love you, pet you, protect you, and stay with you instead of living here alone. In the world, mothers hope that when the time comes, the husband and wife will be happy, and the children and grandchildren will be around their knees."

Li Lin leaned in her mother's arms relaxedly, smelling the scent of soap locust on her mother's clothes, and said coquettishly: "Mom, this feels like gambling. Winning the gamble is like what mother said can make husband and wife happy, and children and grandchildren will be around their knees. If you lose the bet, it would be scary to think about it!"

"Silly girl, here women can be educated, and men can naturally be educated. You need to be patient in teaching your children, and you must also be patient with your own man. Be soft when you should be soft, and be hard when you should be hard. You must learn to act like a baby and learn Pretending to be wronged and pitiful, men can be taught!"

Liu Yuan, who can hold Li Guodong in the palm of his hand, is not in control of her husband. Although their husband and wife are different from their daughter and Feng Yingjie, Feng Yingjie has clear eyes and clear eyes. He is a gentleman with principles and bottom lines .

Maybe Liu Yuan has nothing to do with villains and reckless people, but for gentlemen or people with good morals, Liu Yuan has his own set of coping methods. For his only daughter, Liu Yuan naturally teaches her everything.

That night, the mother and daughter didn't sleep much. Although it was just an engagement, Liu Yuan always felt that the daughter was no longer part of her family after the engagement. Come home, but it just doesn't feel the same!
Perhaps because of something in his heart, Liu Yuan woke up at dawn, looking at the girl who was sleeping in his arms with a little sweat on her forehead, under the faint light, Liu Yuan wiped Li Lin's face lovingly. After sweating on his forehead, he quietly got up and got out of bed and covered the mosquito net before walking out of the room gently.

The morning light is twilight, and the mist in the mountains not far away seems to be blowing away with the wind. The temperature at dawn is not high, and when the mountain wind blows, there is even a hint of coolness. Liu Yuan is standing at the entrance of the hall On the steps, he took a deep breath, and some cool morning breeze breathed into his lungs, which immediately made Liu Yuan feel refreshed and relaxed from the inside out.

The boy should be married and the girl should be married, and the girl has reached the age of marriage. No matter who she marries or where she will marry, as a mother, she will not be at ease. At present, Feng Yingjie looks good, but she just knows everyone. In my heart, Liu Yuan didn't want her daughter's fate to be handed over to someone else, even if this person was her future son-in-law.

A woman's marriage is indeed like a gamble, but winning or losing depends on people's hearts. Liu Yuan never believes in fate, and she will not let her daughter believe in fate. They say that a woman's marriage is like a second reincarnation, and the first reincarnation cannot choice, then a second reincarnation?

Liu Yuan felt that she couldn't protect her daughter for the rest of her life, but she didn't feel at ease letting others protect her daughter. The only way was to teach her daughter to protect herself!Whether it's physical strength or mental strength, although Liu Yuan can't make her daughter invincible, she can teach her to be strong and self-respecting!

(End of this chapter)