No one can disturb my retirement life in the Red Mansion

"This can be regarded as a new lesson for you. Be confident!" Ou Mengmeng smiled, thought about it, and looked at Tanchun, "Do you know what your biggest problem is? You have low self-esteem! You think you are raised by your aunt Yes, I feel inferior to others, so I strive to be the first in everything. I am afraid that people will say that you were raised by your aunt. It is the same now, you think that your sister’s conditions are not good enough. I want to talk to you."

Tanchun was embarrassed. These days, the old lady seldom said anything out of concubine.Mrs. Wang has been deprived of power again. Now Mrs. Wang and Aunt Zhao are fighting on their own, and rarely take her into consideration.

And Jia Huan was also taken away from Aunt Zhao's house, and several boys were raised together.

She also almost forgot the difference between the mother-in-law and the concubine, and now the old lady suddenly brought up this matter, even though she was only six or seven years old, she still felt that she couldn't bear it.

Yuan Chun stroked Tan Chun's hair lightly. She actually knew that perhaps Tan Chun was the sister who cared most about her at this moment.Others were thinking about the old lady's offensive and defensive battle, but only Tanchun was concerned that this matter was not rooted in the ideas of the adults on both sides, but the future of the parties involved.Yuan Chun smiled and patted her, and said softly.

"If I have a deep-rooted relationship with Mr. Xiong, then at this moment, the old lady and the princess are so quarrelsome and vindictive, and refuse to marry him, I'm afraid I'm going to cry to death. But now, I'm not just sitting here Is it?" Yuan Chun said softly.

"Do you know what self-confidence is?" Ou Mengmeng still looked at Tanchun.

She actually likes Tanchun's boldness, but hates Tanchun's timidity.That feeling of hatred for her own origin made her think that the child was hopeless.

After she came, she put them together and raised them together, and they received the same treatment.And when making jewelry, we no longer pursue the same, but let them choose by themselves at the same price, so as to cultivate their taste and self-confidence.But why, after so long, is she still like this?
"Grandmother!" Yuan Chun hurriedly tried to rescue his sister.

"The last thing people can choose is their background. Are you blaming your father for not giving birth to you or raising you? Now that you have so many sisters, you are the happiest. Why, you have both parents! Aunt Yingchun and Aunt Xichun , Daiyu's mother is gone. Although you hate your biological mother, at least she is still alive. Although she is dull, she loves you very much. Now you would rather she die? But even if she dies, it can't change, You are a concubine." Ou Mengmeng frowned, because she saw Tanchun's angry face.Children don't know how to hide, what they show is their truest side.

Like modern times, divorce of parents is no longer a big deal. In a class, sometimes half of the students have parents who are not together.So some children don't care, and some seem to care too much.And what she has to do is to let them know that their parents' affairs have nothing to do with them.It's all right now, how could she tell these children that it's not unusual for you to have several mothers with one father?
"Grandmother, my sister is worried about me." Yuan Chun hurriedly winked at Qin Keqing who was next to Ou Mengmeng, asking her to stop her.

"I know, but she has a mentality problem. She thinks she has a problem. Does she feel that she is not worthy of being loved?" Ou Mengmeng was about to jump.Tanchun's biggest problem is that she doesn't even love herself, how can she love others?this is too scary.

"Grandmother!" Yuan Chun and Qin Keqing hurriedly held down Ou Mengmeng, fearing that she would act recklessly and her injury was still not healed.

Ou Mengmeng sighed, "Do you know why my sister keeps pressing me to stop talking?"

"Because no one loves us." Tanchun said stubbornly.

"Really? I'm not human!" Ou Mengmeng took a deep breath, "Or, do you think I don't love you?"

"You love Daiyu." Tanchun pursed his lips tightly.

"Tanchun!" Yuanchun is about to jump, now how come she is here, is she going to turn against the old lady?

"I also like big sister." Tanchun said angrily.

"Since you know that I like your big sister, why don't you believe me and the princess will harm her. So, you don't believe in yourself, and you don't believe in me. What do I have that makes you think I'm not worthy of your trust?" Ou Mengmeng said He opened Yuanchun and looked at Tanchun calmly.

Tanchun stopped talking, she was actually a little wronged, she didn't feel what she said, but she attracted so many words from her grandmother that she didn't know what to do.

"Go back and think about it. I brought you by my side and taught you these things again. I didn't want you to be cattle and horses for other people's families. Everything you have learned these days is for yourself."

"Then don't like anyone, just like yourself?" Tanchun blurted out.

"Then learn to like yourself first." Ou Mengmeng beckoned to her.

Tanchun looked up at her, but still went silently, kneeling beside the bed.

"I can put your name under Wang's name, and from now on, you will be born as a descendant. So what if I just help you to write your name? Can you block the mouths of the world? Did you hear someone say, "The maidservant and concubine raised her?" ", do you think that's an allusion to you? Your own demons are immortal, who can save you?" Ou Mengmeng smiled, touched her forehead lightly, and sighed long One sound.Then I looked at other girls, "Love yourself well, I have put so much effort into it, but in the end you don't even love yourself, I will cry to death."

"Actually, grandma is a bit strict." Lin Daiyu tilted her head and said to Ou Mengmeng.

"Isn't it possible?" Ou Mengmeng thought about it, she was really strict, she was strict with the children she raised, let alone these cheap grandsons and granddaughters.But she is used to being strict, and she will not be kind.

"Actually, it can be gentler." Lin Daiyu felt that it was actually Ou Mengmeng's fault just now. She didn't think there was anything wrong with Tanchun asking such a question, but it turned out that the old lady was so strict, which actually made Tanchun a little bit embarrassed.

"I'm an ancestor on this street, so now I don't have the right to lose my temper?" Ou Mengmeng was about to die of anger.

"Don't lose your temper, you'll be hurt!" Yuan Chun pressed her.

"Hoo hoo, hoo hoo, don't be angry, don't be angry." Xiao Xichun also climbed into the bed, and helped hold the old lady together.

"Punish her for accepting the medicine. Don't come back." Ou Mengmeng waved her hand, really pissed off by Lin Daiyu.

"Why should I go to recognize medicine?" Daiyu quit, now no one says she is not the old lady's granddaughter, this is really her own.

"Take it out." Ou Mengmeng waved her hand, ignoring them.

"Grandmother, you haven't said why yet?" Daiyu was so angry that she decided to ask something useful.

"Because the princess is a bad mother-in-law, if your elder sister really marries, our Jia family's reputation will be ruined, and none of you will be able to marry. So I can't agree to the Xiong family. I had some expectations for the Xiong family. Xiong Er The reputation is bad, but the Xiong family has a great scholar, a princess, and a Tanhualang. The conditions are not bad, and let them live separately in the future, life will not be bad. It's a pity!"

I took a nap in the afternoon, I hope I can sleep at night