No one can disturb my retirement life in the Red Mansion

"In a few days, it will be the full moon banquet of the little county head of the Wang family of Huaishan County, which is the home of Zhang Zhen's second sister. You go and have a look. What I told them is that if you want Zhang Zhen to see you, you have to like it yourself. But in reality I want you to go and see the Zhang family. What a man is like doesn’t matter. Who you marry is not a marriage. Since you always have to marry someone, choose the mother-in-law and sister-in-law you like. This is very important. Now you have to do it. Yes, you just choose the mother-in-law you like, do you understand?"

"Why?" Yuanchun didn't expect his grandmother to let him go, but only chose his mother-in-law.

"What does a man mean? You and your mother-in-law and sisters-in-law spend more time together. A mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who can like each other can support each other and live a good life." Ou Mengmeng sighed.

An old man told her this, but she didn't believe it at first. After all, in modern society, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can actually be polite to each other and keep a distance.But at this time, the word "filial piety" is suppressed, and the daughter-in-law is weak.

Like Qingcai, if she had a mother-in-law, she would never be so unlucky, because the concubine actually affected the old lady's control over her son. Unexpectedly, the old marquis later ignored his son and controlled the whole house with the help of his eldest grandson. .

Moreover, modern people have also studied that if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious, the marriage relationship will be much more stable.Many men actually look for wives based on their mother's appearance.And for many mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law who are in tune with each other and have the same views, not only the marriage relationship is stable, but the point is that the daughter-in-law's mood will be much lighter.

"This point of view is a bit fresh!" Yuanchun smiled. The old lady often said that she started as a great-grandson's daughter-in-law. In her words, she actually felt quite resentful towards the first lady.And listening to what the uncle and mother said, the old lady was more ordinary to her daughter-in-law at first. Now she is allowed to choose a mother-in-law and sister-in-law that she likes. It feels very strange.

"Actually, in a family, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are both outsiders. Father and son are one, so what do mother-in-law and daughter-in-law mean? Do you really think that mother-in-law can be the master of the family? That's bullshit. I can blackmail your mother because of your uncle You are really filial to your father, and your grandfather is dead! If your grandfather were alive, I would have no right to speak. So when my friend died, I couldn’t speak for her, and I couldn’t even show her face to that shameless man. .So, you have to choose an ally for yourself! Do you understand?"

"Grandma!" Yuanchun was speechless, he really dared to say anything.

"You and your husband-in-law are destined not to get together because of love. That person is decided by the family based on various considerations. Therefore, there must be something in that family that you like. A mother-in-law who doesn't cause trouble. , sister-in-law, who is not a bad person, is the reason for you to stay here. You can't tell your uncle and brother Chong to poison your husband to death!" Ou Mengmeng smiled and sighed softly.

"My parents are talking about trying to please my husband, but you ask me to please my mother-in-law?" Yuanchun wanted to laugh.

"Don't worry, your husband and your uncle will help you to please him. He can have a good relationship with every boy who may marry our daughter. So what you have to do is to find out who the woman from that family is." Ou Meng A spread of cute hands.

Yuan Chun laughed, and Xiong Er and Zhang Zhen both regarded their uncle as their relatives, and although Zhao Chong said he did not want to marry him, he already regarded Jia She as his biological father.

She also heard Baoyu say that in the school, there are still some young officers and students coming to play together these days.They actually knew that they were out of luck, but because they liked the uncle, they came over to play.

So no matter who marries her, for the sake of her uncle, she will be polite to her.That Zhang Zhenke really came to propose marriage because he liked his uncle.This is similar to the old lady asking her to choose a mother-in-law she likes.

"Naked, come and go without worries. This is a play, Baochai said he likes it. But I don't like it. How can people be naked, come and go without worries? When you are born, you will constantly worry about yourself. You said You don't want to worry about me, how is that possible? I'm not afraid of death, but I'm afraid that my children will be sad and sad. Even if I arrange my own affairs well, I just don't want to embarrass them. But think about it again, what should I do? They are all in embarrassment. What life faces is embarrassment. She says she has no worries, but her heart is cold and empty. In fact, it is more about inferiority and fear. In a few years, wait and see if she will say this again. What a stupid thing to say." Ou Mengmeng shook her head and thought about it, "Why don't you collect some scripts and bring them back and let them read them?"

"Is this okay?" Yuanchun was surprised. You should know that it is rude to show those love drama books to such a young child. If word spreads, the family tradition will be completely ruined.

"Sometimes I feel that Baochai is a little cold-hearted, while Daiyu is a little more sentimental. Those children are really stupid. Now that they have gone through some things, I got the playbook. You and the two nuns will read it first, and then play the tricks. The inappropriateness of the stories in this book should be explained according to the law. Tell them that they are all false. They are just some poor people's imagination and cheating for food. Although this teaching is not necessarily a good thing, it is better than I was deceived by someone with a little tune and a papaya." "Grandma! They said, 'Throw me a papaya, and repay me with a qiongju.' When a bandit repays you, he will always think it's good! Throw me a peach, and repay him with a peach. Qiong Yao. Banditry repays me, and I will always think it is good! Give me a tree and plum, and repay it with Qiongjiu. Bandit repays you, and I will always think it is good!'" Yuanchun was speechless. His good love poems have been circulated for thousands of years, but what is the result?It was said like this.The key point is the last sentence, 'It's not to thank you, cherish our affection and stay together forever. 'Another translation is that things are not important, but the mind is important.

"That's right, if someone gives you a papaya, you also give someone a jade pendant, and tell him that things are small, but etiquette is more important than friendship. How stupid a girl must be to do this? There is also Sima Xiangru, a song "Feng Qiu Huang" ", deceived people to elope, and opened a hotel in front of his father-in-law's house, forcing his father-in-law to give him money. How shameless does this person have to be to do this? So this kind of girl cannot leave our house no matter what. Like Qing Cai, as long as you are selfish, you will not die by yourself. Even if you die, you have to kill the man first! As long as the second generation Hou dies first, that woman is nothing? Force yourself to death and let your baby Suffering is something I absolutely cannot accept.”

"So, uncle and father were really taught badly by you. But aunt is actually strong." Yuanchun was speechless.

"Okay, uncle, do you like Zhao Chong too much?" Yuan Chun helped the old lady back to the house slowly, wiped her body, and gave her some decoction. She told Zhao Chong that as she got older, she wanted to Recovery is difficult.

But when I saw the medicine, I thought of Zhao Chong. Zhao Chong had lived in Rong Mansion for some time, and it was his first time to participate in a family gathering. Although men and women were seated separately and there was a screen in the middle, it slowly introduced him. In the family, identify with him and let everyone know that this is the uncle's child like a parent.

"He's struggling. He likes Zhao Chong, but he doesn't dare to marry your sister to him. He's afraid that if he dies, he won't be able to protect them both. But I think Zhao Chong has a good temper, and the best thing is that he is kind. , cute, but not blindly obedient. In fact, he can experience outside for three years and never see anything. This way, it is actually impossible to be pure. But he can come back happily and maintain a pure heart. This actually wins everyone over. Most of them. So I stopped him." Ou Mengmeng smiled and said, "It's great. Your uncle and father are slowly becoming able to take on more tasks, including Baoyu, who is now getting better and better at fortune telling."

"You taught me well. Before the bad feelings between uncle and father intensified, you allowed them to return to the right path. And Baoyu, too, has really grown up these days." Yuanchun is in a good mood recently, that's it.In fact, the father and younger brother at home do not need to be too useful, but they must have a sense of responsibility. The Baoyu who cried before is now able to stand up and say, "My child, work hard!" 'This is quite remarkable.

Ou Mengmeng looked at the tent roof. She missed her children a little and didn't know what happened to those children.If you don't care about life or death, your children should be very devastated, right?
"Yuan'er, am I too pessimistic? So you follow me, but you actually fail to learn well?"

"what?"

"Someone told me that I taught my children badly. They are actually very strong, but they are also very timid. They only believe in their own people, and they exclude everyone except those they recognize. Is this right?" Ou Mengmeng looked sideways at Yuanchun.

Yuanchun looked sideways at his grandmother, her child?Her child is her father, uncle.But yes, fathers and uncles are actually like this too. They only love the people they want to love.To outsiders, he may be polite, but distant.But think about it, isn’t this right?
"Isn't that right?" Yuanchun asked.

"I fell ill this time, and my dreams were full of children. I'm afraid that if I die, they will collapse. What will they do in the future?" Ou Mengmeng was thinking when she just said that she could come and go naked without any worries. These are her children in the present day.

She had already arranged her funeral, and she couldn't let her children stop in their tracks for her.But she was sick, and Jia She and Jia Zheng stayed by her bedside. Although they were really useless, what were they fighting about at that time?They want to do something for their mother, but they dare not let themselves regret it.

If they were like this, would her children be angry when they saw that she had arranged everything?Because you excluded them?If you make them feel powerless, will they suffer from this feeling of powerlessness?
She was really worried about what would happen if her children, such excellent children, really collapsed.They are too good and too unique.She hadn't thought so much before, but now that she was in another time and space, how helpless her children must be!
"Then get better quickly, let father and uncle become better, and let Lian Er and Baoyu become useful weapons." Yuan Chun gently held Ou Mengmeng's arm.

Ou Mengmeng sighed and closed her eyes.Her children are vividly remembered.

Yesterday, I saw someone saying that happiness can be achieved with absolute status. If you look at the princesses of the Song Dynasty, even if the prince-in-law angers the princess to death, he will not be punished.Princesses of the Ming Dynasty married commoners, while princesses of the Qing Dynasty married Mongolians. Even those who married the sons of ministers, few lived long.What do you think the doctor has the right to do?Well, doesn’t the princess have rights?What does it mean that a lady can only enter the house if she agrees? Think about Wang Xifeng, a second sister You, and how disgraced she looks?So don’t think about time travel. It’s a man’s world, even now.This is a man's world, and there is actually very little that women can do.