No one can disturb my retirement life in the Red Mansion

Before Baochai, she actually knew that she was different from her sisters.It’s because of cousin Bao Qin’s marriage!As soon as they entered Beijing, the old lady told the Xue family to see if Baoqin's betrothed family, Mei Hanlin, had second thoughts. If not, they should forget it early and choose another family.I went to take a look and found that although the Mei family did not break off the engagement at that time, Aunt Xue broke off the engagement directly after moving to the Xue family's old house in Beijing.

In this way, everyone will understand clearly.The Mei family had seen the Xue family living in the Jia family before, but the Jia family was obviously shaking again.Mei Hanlin, a poor official with no foundation, was previously connected to the second wife of the Xue family, but he was just one of the official connections of the Xue family.

After Uncle Xue died, the Mei family began to regret it, but they did not dare to regret it openly. Firstly, they were afraid that the Xue family would have trouble; secondly, because of the relationship between the Xue family, the Jia family, and the Wang family.When I saw that the Xue family moved out of the Jia family and did not live in the Wang family, I stopped worrying.He immediately broke off the kiss.

That Mei Hanlin was only in the seventh rank, so he looked down on the Xue family. Looking at the Jia family, they also put a lot of effort into selecting a bride for Jia Yuan.Is the object good?It’s only the sixth grade.

What's more, Bao Qin is not as good as Bao Chai in terms of status. Bao Chai is the legitimate daughter of the head of the family and the granddaughter of her mother's count. Bao Chai's mother's family is quite capable.Bao Qin didn't matter. The only thing that was better than Baochai was that her brother was better than Baochai's brother.

This is also the reason why Aunt Xue became interested when she heard that the Wang family wanted to choose a bride for Wang Ren.

No matter how bad Wang Ren was, he was still the heir to the Wang family. If he hadn't broken a leg, she wouldn't even dare to think about it.In Aunt Xue's opinion, this is the best marriage possible.But Aunt Xue didn't dare to tell the Wang family.She has no friendship with Wang Ziteng.They went to Beijing to seek refuge, but the Wang family didn't let them in.The old lady of the Jia family said harshly, but she explained the situation and called Wang Ziteng to let them settle down in the capital.Aunt Xue was originally soft-tempered and incompetent. She felt that now, she could only let Xue Baochai marry a good family and support her family.

These days, Aunt Xue was talking nonsense, and Baochai didn't agree.She knew that what her mother said was right, and she had a clear understanding of her origins, but the more this happened, the more painful she became. So when she walked with the old lady, she didn't really want to ask for help, but she In fact, we are in a fog.

"Old lady, am I only worthy of marrying a cripple?" Baochai supported Ou Mengmeng and walked for a while before saying softly.The words are full of sadness.She knew that her mother loved her, and if she hadn't, she wouldn't have bothered to plan for her.However, for her arrogance, she still couldn't accept it.

"It depends on who this cripple is. If Sun Bin or Ge Shuhan likes you, I will support your marriage." Ou Mengmeng shrugged.There is a difference between a cripple and a cripple!
"Old lady!" Baochai laughed, but immediately looked back at the old lady. Now her heart seemed to relax all of a sudden. The old lady seemed to have been giving them strength.

"If a person deceives himself, then God will deceive him; if a person strengthens himself, God will give him to you!" Ou Mengmeng walked slowly, "I disdain red tape most in my life, but I strive to be cautious when it comes to your eldest sister's marriage. Why do you think ?”

"Not confident enough?" Baochai hesitated.

"Yes, when you first arrived in the capital, I refused to keep you, and I told you then that the Jia family was defeated. You have been here for more than half a year, and you should know that Rongfu increases revenue and reduces expenditure, reopens its doors, and be careful to make friends with powerful people. Regrouping is just for the sake of future generations. Now I clearly don’t like it, but I still want them to follow the rules. If the two generations of Dukes of Rongfu were cooking oil in the fire when the Duke was here, what are the rules? We are the rules! But now , but we can only rely on rules to protect ourselves. Use rules to tell the world that there is no choice but the flowers have fallen!" Ou Mengmeng sighed softly, "This is because the situation is compelling."

"So now, what do you want to tell Chai'er?" Baochai didn't think that the old lady was telling him that people have to accept their fate. "Strengthen yourself! You still have two years to make yourself stronger. You have to focus on your unity. You are like playing chess. How will you break out of the cocoon in the next Zhenlong chess game? If one day you can be so strong Even if you catch a beggar on the street, you will always have a strong heart to help him rise to the top. Whoever you marry is actually just a stepping stone for you to move towards a broader road. I say the same to your eldest sister, or to other people. , except for marrying the emperor, no one else is worthy of adding glory to you. You are the glory." Ou Mengmeng grinned.

"Can't you not marry?"

"With this awareness, you will have the potential to make a breakthrough." Ou Mengmeng smiled and patted her back gently, "We can't change our background. If you think your parents are very good, although my brother is stupid, but It's great for your mother and for you. On this point alone, you have already outperformed most people. What do you want to think about now? Cut through the mess, highlight your own advantages, and then do what you are best at, and let others What makes me happiest."

"Actually, you seem to have said this, but you seem not to have said it." Baochai looked at Ou Mengmeng with big eyes.

"This is the realm! Donor, realize it yourself." Ou Mengmeng still smiled.

Baochai also let go of the heavy burden in her heart. The self-suffering and suppressed painful emotions she felt at home seemed to burst out.

"Am I going to move forward bravely whenever I want?" Baochai thought about it.

"No, I said, running a big country is like cooking small dishes. What's the point?"

"stable?!"

"No, it's a win." Ou Mengmeng patted her forehead, "We fry the fish carefully, and we don't want the fish paste to break the pot. The point is that we have to fry the fish. This is the goal and the result! Courage does not mean being reckless. Power. For example, if you say you want to be the queen now, I will ask someone to beat you up, and then ask Wang Ziteng to help you decide on your marriage to Wang Ren. At least you are the head wife of the Wang family, and if you give birth to a son, if Wang Ren is killed, the Wang family You alone control millions of furniture. Do you understand?"

Baochai was startled for a moment, but quickly reacted.Goals and results.Just like she knew that her mother asked her to marry Wang Ren, but the result was that Wang Ren was disabled. With her mind, as long as she gave birth to a son, she would be able to take the Wang family into her own hands. This was happiness that she could see.Of course, this is the happiness that the mother thinks is the happiness recognized by the world.This is a result, a result she can obtain.But if she were from the same family, even a lame person with her background would still be out of reach.The old lady was telling her that goal setting should be achieved through results.The premise is that she can obtain this result, otherwise, the work will be done, the fish will be mushy, and the pot will be broken.The result is a mixed bag.

"It's a bit boring." Baochai moved his neck. (End of chapter)