No one can disturb my retirement life in the Red Mansion

When the Jia family received the box from the Xiong family, they were also shocked. Are you moving? They brought all Jia Xuan's belongings from childhood to adulthood, box after box. There are also account books!

There was no one in Jia Xuan's room, so Jia Fen and Jia Ying collected the things, counted the things, and returned to the west courtyard with the account books.

Ou Mengmeng looked at the account book and nodded, then looked at Jia Ying and Jia Fen: "What do you see?"

"Really, I didn't even mention sending anything valuable. I sent so many things, and I gave my eldest brother a reputation for nothing." Jia Fen was really angry. He even had a tiger head hat. People like them, Who cares about a tiger hat?

"Your point of view is not bad, it can be regarded as a direction." Ou Mengmeng nodded. If it was based on darker thoughts, it would not be wrong to say so. Looked at Jia Ying.

"It's quite good. Brother Xuan is about to get married. It will be very interesting for my nephew to use these things in the future. Besides, it must be particularly meaningful to be collected by the princess." Jia Ying said with a busy smile, By the way, he opened the account book and said, "I'm telling you, the accessories he had from childhood to adulthood looked inconspicuous, but they were all good stuff. Many of them were made in-house. They really had money and no place to buy them. Brother Cong before These gadgets that my son has are not as good as those of big brother Xuan, and my granddaughter also helps him keep them. When he grows up, he will definitely find them fun."

"Did you see, how happy would your eldest brother be if I told you this? What you said only made your eldest brother more upset!" Ou Mengmeng nodded and turned to Jia Fen.

Jia Fen turned her head and looked at Jia Ying. The old lady didn't say what she said was wrong, nor did she say what Jia Ying said was right, but she did say that Jia Ying spoke nicely, which was a bit interesting.

"Originally, everything in the world has pros and cons. You can say the right and the wrong. Just like what I said to your brother, no one talks behind anyone's back, and no one talks behind anyone's back? So there is no right or wrong in anything in the world. , but whether it sounds good or not.

Tell me, if I praise Jia Huan, would you be particularly happy? But if I say that Jia Huan is good at studying but ugly, will you have to hate me in your heart? Therefore, there are some things that need not be said, even to close relatives and flesh and blood. "Ou Mengmeng flipped through the account book casually, nodded, and looked at Jia Fen, "Have you read the account book? "

"Yes, my granddaughter just...well, I think that the Xiong family is like this, but it actually makes it difficult for the eldest brother. These things are given to the eldest brother. The saddest thing is the eldest brother, and our family also follows suit." Jia Fenneng doesn't know. , anything that can be recorded in the account must be a good thing. They have also studied housekeeping for six years. What Jia Ying can see, she can actually see, but she is too angry.

Jia Xuan is already their eldest brother, and now the Xiong family said that the princess was ill and asked him to go back and look at it. After reading it, they sent these things again. Are they afraid that people won't know that you are the biological parents?

If you really love your children, you can only give them some wealth if you can. As a result, even though these things are good things, they cannot be turned into property, and it is impossible for Jia Xuan to live with him. Jia Fen felt that the Xiong family was deliberately trying to cause trouble for the Jia family by playing such a small trick.

"Ying'er is right about this. The county manager's family is quite good, and they don't just leave their children to the servants. If the parents don't care, they will all blame the nanny, the maid, and the servants. They are not so complete. Looking back, my wife thinks she forgot about it, so this thing is gone. So, housekeeper, you must learn from it." Ou Mengmeng ignored her and smiled at Jia Ying.

"My granddaughter is wrong!" Jia Fen hurriedly bowed to the old lady. After losing his temper, he knew that Jia Xuan would not be happy if he heard these words, so he immediately apologized.

"You have a good mind, but your mouth is not good. So, I will give you a homework. Praise the people you see three times every day. You can't repeat the same thing every day." Ou Mengmeng thought about it and looked at Jia Fen.

"Whoever it is?" Jia Fen opened his eyes wide. "Yes, no matter who it is, even if it is a girl, praise her well and make her beautiful." The old lady pursed her lips and smiled.

Jia Fen thought about it. She lowered her head and thought about it. Sure enough, it was really difficult for her to learn to praise others like this. She didn't say quit, but lowered her head and went back to think about how to praise others.

"You are really, this method is quite cunning." Jia Ying accompanied Ou Mengmeng to look at the account books, but she couldn't help but chuckle.

"Look at your second sister-in-law Lian, with her mouth, even the phoenixes in the sky can coax her down. You yourself are the same, you can choose the nice things to say to everyone. This is a skill and an advantage. According to us, this is called providing emotional value. , don’t give people gold and silver, but at least give them some happiness, right?” Ou Mengmeng liked Jia Fen’s attitude, so she didn’t object, but thought of ways to deal with it, just like Jia Ying had just lost her temper. Can you see the Xiong family’s narrow-mindedness? It's just that she is not from the second wife, so she shouldn't say such things. But now, Ou Mengmeng is going to train Jia Fen, see through it without telling him.

"Her temperament is like that, but she is still very nice to outsiders." Jia Ying said hurriedly.

"The more close you are, the worse it is. There will be a day when family ties are worn away. How much affection do you think your father and second uncle can have for your aunt? But because I have nothing to mention, slowly Yao'er dangles in front of them every day, slowly It took me a long time to regain some of the original love between brother and sister. When you get married, who can you rely on? So, while you are still young, try to coax your family members first!" Ou Mengmeng has really seen too many relationships between relatives. I feel that since you are my family member, you should cover my emotions, and I don’t even think about it. Others think the same way. Why can you be so nice to outsiders, but then curse when you get home?

"Yes! My granddaughter will ask Cong'er to teach her later. Brother Cong's mouth can really coax people to death." Jia Ying smiled and nodded.

"Okay, it's good to be able to coax people anyway. I'll call Yao'er back later. She also has that mouth. Oh, and Miao'er! Alas, so I didn't teach you well. Look at you sisters, each one is more annoying than the other. People dislike it." Ou Mengmeng smiled. Although she didn't know if emotional intelligence could be trained, she would give it a try.

Those things were also a great touch for Jia Xuan. He opened a box at random and found a set of tiger-head hats and tiger-head shoes. The hat seemed to be only as big as his fist. Those shoes can be filled with two fingers, so was he ever so small? And he is such a small one, slowly growing up like this. On this day, no one from the Jia family came to disturb him, and he was left alone to stay quietly.

The next day, Miaoyu and Daiyu were brought back, and together with Jia Fen, they were trained by Aunt Tao and Aunt Che. How to talk is an art. Ou Mengmeng feels that these two are really good at living. What does it mean to talk to people in person and to talk to ghosts? This time they can be regarded as living in person.

But I left after listening to one class. I have to say, she is very educated, but she is too lazy to learn! At this point in her life, she has reached the point where she can do whatever she wants. Although when I left, I felt a little sorry for these children, but forget it, let's leave it like that.

I almost forgot to upload it again, I promise to be on time this time.