No one can disturb my retirement life in the Red Mansion

After Yan Bugui rose in level, he became much better at dealing with people than before. For example, I helped people write couplets for free the day before. Harvest peanuts instead. The reason is that I am afraid that people will feel embarrassed.

His main change was in his attitude towards children. He no longer felt that he could teach children, so now he began to distance himself from the children and he was reflecting.

He didn't know if he was brainwashed by "Qin Huairu". As they often say, 'My own child, why bother!' "Qin Huairu" was what she was talking about at that time. She often said this when talking about Banggan and Xiaodang.

Yan Bugui doesn't know how much he's heard now. Sometimes when he doesn't like the children, he just wants to say a few words, and this sentence pops up in his mind. He is not as strict with children as Liu Haizhong. At most, he is with the children. The calculation is clear, but the question is, if it is calculated clearly, what is the point?
Can he really ignore the child? Not to find a job, or not to find a house? Looking back, can he really leave it alone when looking for a wife? Saying that is just hurting your feelings in vain.

If the child does not pay living expenses, can he really not feed the child? So, think about it, if you can't, why bother. 'Since ancient times, there have been many infatuated parents, but who has ever seen filial children and grandchildren? 'So children and grandchildren are the most realistic thing. If you don't fight, you will run away!
Therefore, now he is too lazy to forget it. If he has the time, he might as well study hard and try to work hard to make more money like "Qin Huairu". If he makes as much as her, do he still care about the children turning on and off the lights and eating an extra bite of steamed bread?
He took a step back, and the children seemed less prickly. So they probed each other gently. The eldest son went to work as an apprentice in the factory, and the money was only a few yuan a month. The old couple discussed it for a long time, but they still didn't ask for a penny from their son.

But we also had a detailed talk with the boss. The couple settled the accounts for their son honestly for a long time, and told the boss sincerely about the situation at home. There are three younger brothers and sisters below. You have solved the problem at work, but the next three have not yet been solved. So they don't have to leave the boss alone and can eat and drink at home without having to pay for it, but it is estimated that in the next five years, the family may still not be able to save any money. In this case, he has to make a good plan for himself on how to deal with his income problem, which is related to his own future.

The eldest son originally thought that his parents would ask him to pay for rent and food, but that didn't happen. They let him live and eat at home without having to pay, so he could work hard for his future. The boss immediately thought that his parents had hidden their stinginess, right? They said they were helping themselves save money, but in reality they took away the money they asked for.

As a result, my parents really left after they finished talking. He didn't even mention helping him save money. He couldn't help but ask, "How about you two save it for me?"

The third uncle and the third aunt were stunned for a moment. They really didn't expect their son to say that. In the past, these children were stingy and even their parents were very defensive. Who would have thought that he would actually ask his parents to help him save money.

Yan Bugui almost wanted to cry. Only then did he really understand the meaning of trust. It turns out that before, I didn't really believe that my children would be filial. They only believed that their biological children were not as good as their own wealth. Because they don't believe in their children, their children don't believe in them either. Over time, the couple was actually exhausted to death. They had actually done everything they needed to do, but they still didn't gain the trust of their children.

The old man was a little excited and touched. After thinking about it, he made three suggestions. He could either save money to continue studying like the "Qin Huairu" sisters, so that his future path would become more stable; or he could deposit the money in the bank, Pay off odd savings and force yourself to save money for five years. Anyway, you can live and feed your parents. Even if you save five yuan a month, you will still have three hundred yuan in five years. Marrying a wife is enough; the third is to observe the preferences of the master. , you don’t need to spend too much, but you have to follow what he likes and let him teach you some real skills. If you can become a regular worker for the whole people, then your future life will be stable.

The boss actually listened to these words, and because he did, he even asked "Qin Huairu" specifically. In fact, everyone in the hospital now has a consensus that the most knowledgeable person is "Qin Huairu", so you are right to ask her.

After hearing what the eldest son of the Yan family told Ou Mengmeng, she felt that Yan Bugui was really amazing, and that as parents, they had done their best. Now they confiscate his salary and let him choose his own future, which is also very good. She has seen some parents who, when their children go to work, say they are afraid that their children will spend money recklessly, so they take all the money away and then give their children pocket money on a monthly basis. In fact, this is very stupid. Money in the hands of children is their own hard-earned money. If you let them keep it for themselves, they will live within their means. Even a little reluctant to spend it.

But when they took the money away and received pocket money, they would feel like, "I paid all the money, I spent my own money, and they even had the idea of ​​spending money in retaliation." In fact, they still feel that they are spending their parents' money, and they still have no concept of money.

As for Yan Bugui's three suggestions, Ou Mengmeng really felt that the old man actually had a plan in mind. These three are really excellent. And in this way, the boss of the Yan family is actually under control. For some young people, when they enter the factory, they will always have friends of the same age who have money. Going out to eat and drink is a basic thing. Firstly, it is a waste of time, and secondly, it also spoils the temper.

Asking him to save money to study, or to use his apprenticeship wages to please the master, or to deposit the money in the bank until death, all these will prevent him from spending the money. Without money, there will be fewer friends.

And she personally feels that it is very good to save money to study or learn technology. It is an investment in oneself. Now the country respects knowledge and technology so much. Look at how much honor the second uncle and his technical class have received. This is what knowledge and technology bring;

There is nothing wrong with saving money to get a wife in the future, but do you think it would be easier for you to find a wife if you were a regular worker, or would it be easier if you were an apprentice now? Also, are formal workers and apprentices introduced in different tones?
Therefore, she supports investing in yourself first and making yourself a better person, so that you can have a better future in the future. Ready-made examples are Silly Zhu and Xu Damao. Both of them are representatives of bad learning in the courtyard, but what about now? Both of them have become excellent technical talents and are respected by others. Shazhu will have the wife of a street cadre, which is a representative of self-improvement, and Xu Damao will not be wrong in the future.

Not only did the boss of the Yan family listen to this, but also the other boys who came with him heard this. Only by investing in yourself can you gain greater rewards.

Mr. Yan went back and talked with his father again. He felt that he might not be good at studying, so he should concentrate on learning technology.

Yan Bugui hurriedly asked Liu Haizhong to get in touch and took the child to the master's house. Not to mention kowtow to become a master, this is not popular in the new society, but this is also considered an entry-level disciple, which is different from others.

Boss Yan really spends most of his time at the master's house. I bought wine for the master when I got more than half my salary, and Yanbu was not angry at all. Isn't it better to go with the master than to go with those alley gangsters? (End of chapter)