Jinghua Tianjiao

She also felt uncomfortable when talking about the falling out between Kelsang and her father a few years ago.These years have passed, and the original blame has gradually faded away with time.But Abba still had a knot in his heart. When the matter was brought up again, Abba felt a little aggrieved, "It wasn't me who forced me too hard. Think about it, she graduated from a technical school at that time and didn't have a job. If she didn’t look for it, all the dolls around her would be getting married, and the neighbors who were younger than her were all getting married, so there was nothing wrong with me letting her get married at that time.”

This time it became clear that Kelsang came to Beijing to escape the forced marriage at home.However, in the first year after leaving Qinghai, Kelsang had little contact with his family, and it was not until the second year that he gradually contacted him.Thinking of this, my mother said to my father, "Look, it's been a few years since this happened. Now it's settled that the girl doesn't hold grudges. Don't think about unnecessary things all day long. This time we mainly came to see the girl." , she makes her own decisions about marriage."

"I listen to you, I listen to you." Dad couldn't compete with grandma, so he had no choice but to agree. The two elders rested early to prepare for going to the Great Wall early tomorrow morning.

You can't even say that those who live in the Great Wall are not heroes. This sentence is not taken very seriously in Beijing.But anyone who comes to Beijing from other places believes this.Like everyone who travels to Beijing, the first stop is either to watch the flag-raising or to climb the Great Wall.Gesang took his father and mother to climb the Great Wall. It was the hottest time in Beijing at this time. However, after climbing the Great Wall, I thought there would be wind at the highest point, but now all the wind was blowing was hot.

The ancients said: When you reach the top of the mountain, you can see all the mountains at a glance.Climbing the Great Wall is the most profound experience in this season.The winding Great Wall has no end in sight, and appears under the lush green trees.The off-white bluestone bricks are smooth underfoot in some places, and you may slip if you don't pay attention; in some places they are badly worn, but if you look carefully, you can see the footprints of history.The beacon tower in the distance was full of people, stopping to take photos and shouting loudly. It seemed that at this moment, everything became more open-minded.

Abba and Amma each held up their mobile phones to take photos of each other, and from time to time they would take Gesang along with them.Gesang smiled brightly. It had been a long time since he had been so close to his family.But every time a couple passed by them, Ama would look at them for a long time. Gesang could see the envy and smile on their faces, and she knew what Ama meant.

The mountains in the distance are gradually covered with white mist.Stop and go, resting several times along the way.Abba said with emotion, "Fortunately, there is enough oxygen here. If we were in Qinghai, we would have to be out of breath when we climbed up to such a height."

"That's for sure. The difference between a plateau and a plain is several thousand in altitude alone." Grandma said
I don’t know when the hot wind turned into a cool breeze.The people who came to play were gradually getting tired. Some went back along the way they came, and some simply took the cable car down.Seeing that the faces of his father and mother were exhausted, Kelsang originally wanted them to take the cableway down, but his father refused and said, "How you came up is how you should go down. This is the meaning of climbing the Great Wall." Just like when we travel around mountains and seas, we have to persevere in everything. We can’t say that we stop persevering because we are tired.”

Abba insisted on going on, and Gesang also agreed.The spirit of turning mountains and seas is a matter of perseverance in Qinghai, but as this journey continues, mom and dad rarely speak.Gesang thought to himself that he was probably acting like this because he was really tired, but slowly Gesang noticed that the second elder's face became a little more sad.

When we descended to the middle, my father was walking in front, and my mother said to Gesang, "Gasang, you still need to think carefully about your marriage. You have been in Beijing now, and everything is unstable. I will follow you Dad still hopes that you can be stable. As you know, girls in Qinghai don’t have to work so hard outside. They basically get a trainee position and almost get married. "

This topic was still brought up, and Gesang had already thought of it.Gesang actually thought a lot during this journey. She thought about her life-long events and her marriage. But the reason for all this was not the urging of her father and mother, but the fact that she saw her father and mother. She is really no longer as old as she was when she left. Maybe it’s time to listen to her parents’ words. Gesang was shaken.

"Mom, let me think about it again. But it would be difficult for me to leave Beijing directly. I like the job I am doing now and I can't leave it."

Grandma knew what Gesang meant, and didn’t say anything else. She just nodded slightly and said, “You have been in Beijing for a long time now, and you are used to the life here, and you have a job. If you are looking for a job here, If there is a Gawa (boy), then it will be troublesome to separate the two places and go back and forth."

Gesang thought about what his grandmother said, and now he could only nod in response.

After returning from the Great Wall, I took my father and mother to have a simple meal at the Shaxian snacks at the hotel. Maybe because they were too tired, they didn’t eat much and even talked less. Gesang made plans for tomorrow. , "Mom and Dad, if you are not tired tomorrow, go to the Forbidden City to see it; if you are tired, take a good rest in the hotel." "It's OK, you can just look at the arrangements." ( Qingpu dialect) Abba said that the couple stopped talking about urging the marriage. They already knew what was going on during this trip to the Great Wall.

After leaving the hotel, Gesang did not go home.Instead, she came to Jinghuafang with a lot of worries. She knew that Jinghuafang was not off work at this time. In the past few days, Jinghuafang had also begun to make preparations for the Peking Opera series of silk figures.

When he arrived outside the door, the lights in Jinghuafang were still on.She thought everyone was working overtime, but when she slowly walked in, she saw Du Juan cleaning.

"Sister Juan? You... haven't left yet?"

Du Juan looked back and saw that it was Galsang who was back, "Gesang is here, why are you thinking of coming here at this time? I saw your circle of friends today. Did you accompany your uncle and aunt to climb the Great Wall? How about it? They still have the habit of living in Beijing. ?"

Gesang responded, "Sister Xie Juan is still in the habit of living here. They are very happy today."

"That's good. The studio is mainly doing preparation work these days. It's not time to officially start making silk figures. You don't have to worry about this for now. Just play with your uncle and aunt. It's a rare opportunity for them to come." Du Juan said, "Have you been to the Forbidden City? There's also Prince Gong's Mansion. These places are pretty good."

"I plan to go to the Forbidden City tomorrow." Gesang said. He couldn't hide the tangled things in his heart. Now he came to Sister Juan to talk about this matter. "Sister Juan, I have something to tell you."

"You said."

Love all depends on fate, but if parents want to get involved, Gesang has no choice.After hearing what Galsang was thinking, Du Juan understood in her heart that if things went wrong, maybe Galsang would leave Jinghuafang again?After all, marriage is an important matter ordered by his parents, and Gesang may not be able to avoid it.

Now that Jinghuafang is about to start work, Du Juan is not able to make a decision.Seeing that Du Juan didn't answer for a long time, Gesang said first, "Sister Juan, don't worry. I will finish the work at hand and then consider this matter. I never thought about love in the first place."

Gesang is relieved, but if love really comes, nothing can stop it.

National Gift Silk Maker, a family of three generations of silk artists, emerging young people who cherish the intangible cultural heritage and complain endlessly about the shortcomings of their parents in old Beijing.