Eye of Sin

This question is quite personal.

Tong Chujun's parents were silent for a moment. The two of them looked at each other, but they both chose to be honest. They nodded to acknowledge the speculation that they had not concealed the fact that the couple's relationship had broken down in front of their children.

"The two of us..." Tong Chujun's father looked a little embarrassed, "It was considered a flash marriage back then. It took less than half a year from the time we fell in love to the time we got married. When we were in love, we didn't feel there were any problems. But after we got married, problems gradually emerged. Our personalities were incompatible. , together they are noisy.

At first, I felt that the child was young and didn't understand, so I didn't pay much attention to it. Later...then the feelings became less and less noisy, and the smell of gunpowder became stronger...and I no longer cared about what was happening in front of the child. "

"Originally, we had agreed to wait until our children graduated from junior high school before divorcing." Tong Chujun's mother seemed to be afraid that her ex-husband would take the opportunity to give her eye medicine if she spoke alone about what happened back then, so she hurriedly spoke, "But The child was in the first grade of junior high school at that time. One time we had a quarrel, and she came out and told us to get divorced as soon as possible.

She said she had acquired both of us and was fed up with our family and didn't want to stay any longer.

She told us to divorce as soon as we should, and she wanted to apply to live on campus. If she didn't come home, we would just sign the application for her to live on campus.

We felt at the time that it might not be good for the three of us if things continued like this. No matter how good we were, we couldn't stand up to such quarrels every day.

So the two of us divorced at that time, and the children were jointly raised. Junjun went to live on campus, and her father and I took turns paying for the living expenses and tuition, one month per person.

However, because the children were still young at that time, although the two of us got divorced, neither of us moved our household registrations. We did not move our respective household registrations until the children became adults. "

"So it means that since junior high school, Tong Chujun has lived alone on campus and doesn't have much contact with you?"

"Well, yes," Tong Chujun's mother replied, "I don't know who this child's personality is like. He seems to be inhumane and doesn't get close to anyone.

After we divorced, when it was my turn to pay for living expenses, I thought about how I could not just give money and ignore everything else about the children. "

As she spoke, she glanced pointedly at her ex-husband.

Tong Chujun's father wanted to have a fit, but due to the presence of Ning Shuyi and others, he swallowed his words back.

Seeing that he didn't reply, Tong Chujun's mother looked at him again with some pride: "Every time I pay for living expenses, I prepare the money specially and buy some daily necessities and snacks that girls need. I go to see Junjun and give them She gave money and asked if she had any difficulties in life.

As a result, this child just collected the money every time and threw the things aside without paying much attention to them.

I asked her about the situation, but she didn't want to pay attention to me and kicked me out impatiently. "

Tong Chujun's father couldn't help but sneered beside him. This time it was Tong Chujun's mother's turn to give him a look.

"So over the years, apart from providing living expenses to your daughter, you two have had little contact with and understanding of her in other aspects, right?" Ning Shuyi asked. As an ex-couple, you look at me and I look at you. Although they are a little reluctant to such a straightforward summary, they can only nod in recognition.

"Is Tong Chujun's character just indifferent to you, or is he the same as everyone else?" Ning Shuyi wants to know whether this girl who is highly suspicious of Tong Chujun is because her parents have hurt her feelings, so she has no relationship with them. Harmonious, or really introverted and withdrawn.

"Petit aside the anger, this child has indeed not been a cheerful and outgoing character since he was a child, but compared with him when he is older, he appears to be much better." Tong Chujun's father sighed, "Maybe the two of us should do this. Not bad.

They did not provide a warm family atmosphere for their children. They quarreled and made trouble every day, which affected their personality. The older they got, the less they liked to deal with others, and they did everything by themselves all day long.

Later, when she was in high school, her studies were not very good. After graduating from high school, she was not admitted to any school. At that time, my business had improved a little and I had a lot of money. I actually proposed it to her, and I said, otherwise, dad will pay for it. , let’s spend some money and go to a private school or something.

But she didn't agree, and she spoke as if she had taken a bullet, saying that she relied on her own ability to study if she could pass the exam. She deserved it if she failed, and I didn't need to pay for her to find a school for her.

I actually feel a bit chilled. Although I am not very competent as a father, I sincerely want to ease the relationship with her and make some amends to make our relationship between father and daughter better. But there was nothing I could do about her reaction, I could only let her go! "

"You two are young, so you must not have any children, right?" Tong Chujun's mother looked at Ning Shuyi and Huo Yan, "Especially for women, whether they are mothers or not, it can be seen in their eyes.

So when I say this, you two don’t know if you can understand it.

I think whatever personality a child has, it’s all innate! Even if there weren't those interludes in the middle, it would still develop into what it should be!

When Junjun was a child, yes, her father and I always quarreled, but I didn’t say that I didn’t care about her. I served her delicious food and drinks, and added clothes and shoes when the seasons changed. She was never in need.

But this child has never been close to others since he was a child. He is always neither far nor close, neither cold nor hot.

I used to think that all children were like this. After all, I was just a child like Junjun, so there was no room for comparison.

Later, after remarrying, I gave birth to another child, also a girl. She has been very attached to me since she was a child and is very close to me. When I came home from work one day, she rushed over to me and put her arms around my neck and said, Mom, I miss you!

That child is very coquettish and clingy. I have never experienced that kind of mother-daughter love before.

After that, I realized that personality is something you are born with. If you follow other people’s bad habits, no matter how you treat her the day after tomorrow, she won’t be able to change much! "

Tong Chujun's father snorted coldly: "You keep saying that you are a mother, any mother from a good family is your own daughter, and one whose life or death is uncertain here, she still has the heart to praise the other child in front of others for how coquettish and clingy she is! "

"That's better than you!" Tong Chujun's mother retorted, "I gave birth to a daughter to raise, unlike some people who are shameless! Find a girlfriend who is not a few years older than your own daughter!"

It’s New Year’s Eve the day after tomorrow~Have you started taking a vacation? Still working?