house life

The family affairs of the eldest sister of the Wang family also gave Zhu Yun a new inspiration for married life.

It turns out that marriage in this era is not a life that can be seen at a glance, and when there is no way to go, it may not necessarily be a dead end.

Before, Zhu Yun had always followed the wishes of his family and let them arrange to see each other. In fact, he had always resisted the matter of marriage in his heart.

Now she has a positive attitude towards married life, and when Zhao Yu mentioned the family affairs of each family, she was also full of enthusiasm.

Zhao Yu was a little more worried about her, and said to Zhu Mingli, "Why is this child always worrying?"

Zhu Mingli glanced at her, feeling that she was thinking too much, her daughter was doing everything right, but she was always worried about her daughter.

"Are you not feeling well these days? I think you get angry easily. I will accompany you to the medical clinic tomorrow."

Zhao Yu immediately became angry after hearing Zhao Mingli's words: "My health is very good, and I have nothing to do.

As a father, you don't take your daughter's marriage to heart, but as a mother, I always worry more about things. "

Zhu Mingli sighed: "You don't need to worry about Yun'er's marriage, you haven't heard about the marriage of the two boys from the Shu family, when you saw each other, you always asked for a slightly older woman, and you didn't say you were looking for a younger woman. "

"At their age, they are naturally looking for older women.

I'm curious, has the woman they met with ever been engaged to before? "

"The girls in our town have passed fifteen to see their marriage, and the girls in other towns have passed sixteen, so they don't rush to see each other.

Don't worry about the matter of Yun girl this year, let's look at it next year. "

"It's always been like this in our town, and it's unreasonable in other towns. It's really hard to be a father and mother for keeping our daughter so late."

"There are some women in the city who don't see each other until they are eighteen, and they can still meet good ones."

"Women from people in the city are different from girls in our family. Scholars are willing to marry daughters from people in the city."

As long as the husband and wife mentioned Zhu Yun's matter, they would have different opinions to some extent, and Zhu Mingli generously gave in a step.

Zhao Yu was unhappy in his heart, seeing Zhu Mingli's attitude, he couldn't speak any further.

"This child was born to torment me. Seeing her get better, now she is tormenting me again."

Zhu Mingli sighed: "Okay, there are still a few months, and the Chinese New Year is coming again, you should think about the Chinese New Year."

"My mother and sister-in-law make arrangements for Chinese New Year, so I don't need to think about Chinese New Year now.

I won't tell you about girl Yun, but I want to ask you, is it settled like this about the eldest girl of the Wang family? "

Zhu Mingli nodded, and Zhao Yu sighed: "She is still so young, so she has to live alone in an empty room."

"I heard from her brothers that in the past few years, her man's thoughts have been outside, and her life in her husband's house is difficult. Now that she can live like this, she said that she will no longer have to worry about what men will do to her and her children. .”

"The eldest girl of the Wang family has always been very strong. Without a man, her husband's family and her mother's family are willing to help her. Her life will not be sad."

"Why are there no men anymore? There are still men, but they don't live together anymore."

Zhao Yu looked at Zhu Mingli. Men and women always have their own reasons in some aspects, so their mother-in-law, daughter-in-law and sister-in-law can have a common language.

Zhu Yun changed his attitude towards marriage from the bottom of his heart, but the Zhu family did not worry about her marriage anymore, so she was relieved.

At her current age, she still wants to do more for the family. In the future, her natal family's conditions will be better, and her life in her husband's house will be much more comfortable.

Seeing that Zhu Yun became busy, he went to the city again and again, so all interested people in the town paid attention to what the Zhu family was doing.

As for paper making, there are only two or three companies doing it now, and not many of them do it.

Zhu Yun got busy, she, Shu Ling and Liu Hao still made an appointment to meet under the old banyan tree.

Zhu Yun felt that if he sat under the old banyan tree for a while, his heart would calm down. In this world, probably only the old banyan tree knew her origin and tolerated her in the same way.

When Shu Ling and Liu Hao came, they saw Zhu Yun closing his eyes and listening to the sound of dancing leaves. They listened for a while, but still couldn't calm down.

Zhu Yun opened his eyes and saw them, motioned them to sit down, told her what she had done recently, and asked what Shu Ling and Liu Hao were doing?
Shu Ling smiled and said: "Autumn is coming, and my third sister has a lot of things to do, so I'll follow along and learn."

Zhu Yun listened to her and looked at her with wide eyes: "Your third sister is preparing a dowry, and you are studying with your third sister now?"

"Yeah, now I know that getting married is troublesome. I have discussed it with you. We will prepare our own dowry next year. Don't be like my third sister who is too busy to leave the house now."

Liu Hao said to Zhu Yun: "Sister Yun, you also need to prepare your own dowry. If you need help from me and Linger, we will definitely help."

"No need, I'm not in such a hurry to get married. Besides, when it comes to dowry, you don't have to sew it yourself. You can ask a good embroiderer to help you sew it."

"Hey, that's right. Well, we don't need to prepare a dowry next year. Anyway, when the time comes, the family will help us go to the city to purchase the dowry."

Zhu Yun couldn't understand the two of them: "At first, you just didn't think that you were too busy with time, instead of worrying about getting married in the future?"

"Marrying is the last thing you need to worry about."

Shu Ling directly said to Zhu Yun that when he was old, his family arranged to go and see if others liked him, and then shake his head or nod, how simple it was.

When Zhu Yun heard Shu Ling's words, he felt that they made a lot of sense.

Sure enough, the times are different. There is also a reason why women in this era are easy to marry, because the elders first helped to choose people, and then they have a particularly casual attitude towards marriage.

Shu Ling and Liu Hao were young, and Zhu Yun had many question marks in his heart, and it was inconvenient to ask them, so he could only chat casually with them.

"Ling'er, did your sister-in-law tell you about the eldest sister of the Wang family at home?"

"No. My sister-in-law rarely goes back to her mother's house. She has to take care of Dabaoer and Erbaoer at home."

Zhu Yun nodded understandingly. Wang Zhi's natal family is very close to her husband's, but Wang Zhi is obviously a very sensible and well-behaved person.

The Wang family also performed very well in this respect. They lived in the same town, and the Queen Mother would not go to Shu's house if she had nothing to do.

Liu took a good look at Zhu Yun, and asked curiously, "Sister Yun, don't you know about the eldest sister of the Wang family?"

"Yes, I know, but when I entered the city, what the people in the city said was different from what I knew.

They said that what the uncle of the Wang family met was a goblin, so that the man could disregard his family and only want the goblin wholeheartedly. "