house life

The aunts suddenly fell silent after hearing Shu Ling's words. After they thought about it carefully, they found that Shu Ling's words did make some sense.

On this day, the aunts did not find fault with Xu Yu. Instead, they praised Shu Ling for her pure heart and praised her for being able to train her daughter-in-law.

After the aunts left, Xu Yu took a long breath: "The aunts are so busy all day long. My sister-in-law and I have so much to do today that we really don't have the time to chat with them every day."

Shu Ling sighed: "Mom, if the aunts often come to the house to sit for a while, do Yu'er and I have to be guests?"

Mother Lu asked curiously: "Your guests are here, why don't you come out to accompany them?"

"Whoever is a friend will accompany them. My grandparents' friends are here, and we juniors just come out to say hello, and then we go about our own business."

Mrs. Lu now saw her blind spot. She always thought that Xu Yu was young, but she forgot that Xu Yu was growing up.

Mrs. Lu said to Shu Ling and Xu Yu, "Okay, the clan members who come and go often don't really need you to chat with them all the time."

Shu Ling smiled happily, and Xu Yu jumped up and said, "Mom, that's great, I really don't want to hear the aunts talking about the parents of the east and the west.

There is no good person in their mouth. Even if I treat them well, they will say that I am not good behind the scenes.

I treated them badly, and she directly said that I was not good in front of others. "

Xu Yu looked aggrieved and said to Shu Ling, "Sister-in-law, fortunately you are married and my mother is willing to listen to your opinion."

Shu Ling looked at Xu Yu and laughed: "You didn't tell your mother what you thought. She might think you like to listen to your aunts talking about outside things."

Mrs. Lu quickly nodded: "Yu'er, if you have been impatient to listen to them, you should make it clear to me."

Xu Yu was so angry that she pulled Shu Ling and walked outside: "Sister-in-law, let's go.

I told my mother about this situation before, and she said that since I am young, it would be of great benefit to me to hear more about these human interactions. "

Shu Ling smiled and said, "Yu'er, you are indeed young. Listening to others talk about these things will indeed be of great benefit to us."

"Sister-in-law, tell me what are the great benefits?"

"Only realize the indescribable benefits."

"Hey, sister-in-law, it doesn't make much difference whether you said it or not."

Shu Ling smiled at her: "That's how my mother answered me. Now I vaguely feel the benefits of this place, but I don't know how to explain it to you in detail.

Otherwise, you can go back and talk to your mother for a while. Maybe your mother can explain the benefits of this to you. "

"Humph, I won't go. Once I go, my mother will tell me how nice other people's daughters are."

"Yu'er, mother has a humble temperament, so naturally she won't praise her children's excellence in front of others."

"Sister-in-law, when your nephews and nieces are born, don't tell them that they are inferior to others in every way."

Shu Ling felt that Xu Yu might have misunderstood Lu's meaning, so she advised Xu Yu: "Yu'er, no matter how close I am to you, I can't get close to the relationship between you and your mother and daughter.

The mother-daughter love between you and your mother for so many years will not be blown away by a few words of gossip.

In a few years, you will have a good marriage and you will live in someone else's house, and you will not spend much time with your mother.

If you have any misunderstandings about your mother, you should also listen to your mother's explanation. "

Xu Yu stopped slowly and quickly said to Shu Ling: "Sister-in-law, I remembered. I have something to talk to my mother."

Mrs. Lu was sitting under the eaves, the wind ruffled her hair, and she was feeling a little annoyed now.From Shu Ling, she felt that she had neglected her daughter too much, so that now her daughter and she were not as close as before.

Xu Yu ran into the yard. Mrs. Lu looked at her and became panicked: "Yu'er, what happened?"

"Mom, nothing happened. I just wanted to come over and talk to my mother."

Mrs. Lu looked at Xu Yu and shook her head and said, "You, you said that when you grow up, you can no longer be so startled when doing things in the future."

Xu Yu felt a little guilty. When she ran over, she saw a worried look on Lu's face: "Mom, I will be more prudent in my work in the future."

Lu and Xu Yu sat together and talked, and Xu Yu mentioned Shu Ling's reminder.

"Mom, my sister-in-law is right. I will get married in a few years. I can't wait until a few years later to realize that I missed the time to be close to my mother."

Lu's eyes were red. She never thought that Xu Yu would become sensible so soon.

She looked at Xu Yu and whispered: "The people in the clan are not bad, but our family's life is only slightly better than theirs. If I say that you are good at everything, it will not do you any good."

Xu Yu nodded in confusion: "You think other people's daughters are good?"

"Other people's daughters are not bad, but I despise you in my mouth, but I protect you in my heart."

Xu Yu looked at Mr. Lu with confusion: "Mother, is this what you and father always say, that we should be humble in our dealings?"

Mrs. Lu looked at Xu Yu for a long time: "I never thought that you would think that I dislike you. You are my biological daughter, and I don't dislike you at all.

I think you are a bit petty, but you have a good nature.

When the women of the tribe gossiped in front of you, you showed your face at the time and never gossiped about them behind the scenes. "

"Mom, my sister-in-law and I have told you about their bad qualities.

The sister-in-law said that none of the aunts are the head of the house. They probably like to gossip after they are really bored after finishing their work at home. "

"Pfft, I think they won't dare to gossip about you and your sister-in-law in the future, but they will definitely say that your sister-in-law has a bad temper."

"Mom, I don't think my sister-in-law cares about these things. My sister-in-law said that she is not someone who just sits around and has too many things to do."

Ms. Lu had always felt that Shu Ling was a bit lonely in her dealings, and was worried about her taking over as housekeeper in the future.

Now that she listened to Xu Yu's words, she felt that Shu Ling's temperament was not bad. At least she was an extremely independent person.

Mrs. Lu discussed with Xu Daoyuan, and she said that she also wanted to hand over the family affairs to Shu Ling as soon as possible.

Xu Daoyuan stopped Lu's decision: "There's no rush, there's no rush on these things for the time being.

You can first teach her about housekeeping and give her some unimportant household chores to handle. "

Mrs. Lu shook her head at Xu Daoyuan: "Her mother-in-law is very good at educating children, she doesn't need me to teach her how to manage the house.

I see that she doesn't want to take over the things I'm doing now. She often encourages Yu'er to learn more about management from me. "

"She is very good to Yu'er?"

Xu Daoyuan looked at Mrs. Lu, and when she nodded, he said, "If the clan members say something bad about her, it will be difficult for her new daughter-in-law to say anything. You can't let others bully her..."