Time travel from the red building

Jia Min decided to skip this topic that bothered her, and started another topic: "These days, some people have come forward and revealed their desire to get married. Their words are earnest and sincere. If you hadn't reminded me, I really wouldn't have seen it." There are other plans, there are two former friends in there, and now they are plotting against me, it's really fickle..." She said with emotion.

Yun Qing thought for a while and said: "I just got the news that some people want to win Mrs. Lin through marriage, but it doesn't mean that all those who want to marry your family have ulterior motives. You are right to be cautious, but there is no need , treat everyone as bad guys, after all, Daiyu and Moyu are both good boys, and your family has a very good family background, so it's not unusual for someone to take a fancy to you."

"Why don't I know this truth? It's just that in the current situation, how can we tell the true from the false? It's better to wait until my master returns to Beijing. With him guarding the gate, I can feel more at ease." Jia Min said, "Anyway, the children They're still young, so don't worry."

What he said was true, Yun Qing nodded in agreement, and then heard Jia Min say: "The 21st of the first lunar month is the birthday of Miss Xue's family, and her family even held a small banquet for her. Although there were no big banquet guests, it was very lively. Even Princess Huining specially sent someone to give gifts. I heard that the Xue family is discussing marriage with her. It seems that there is already a family. Now she doesn't go out except to go to school. This time, I will come here at Daiyu's invitation. Quite a surprise."

"Is she fourteen this year? It's indeed the age to discuss marriage." Yun Qing said.

This is probably the butterfly effect caused by Xue Sheng being alive.Anyway, there is no such thing as Xue Baochai's marriage in the original book. Yingchun is married, and she hasn't moved yet, so it's too late, but now that Xue Sheng is alive and has a relationship with King Xian, so Xue Baochai's market is optimistic. It is also a good thing to make a secure marriage earlier.

"Yeah, at the age of fourteen or fifteen, almost everyone is ready to change, but my elder brother is like a normal person, Yingchun is one year older than Baochai, and everyone is talking about marriage. He doesn't worry about it at all. He doesn't care, but my sister-in-law doesn't have to worry about it, the girl's flowering period is only two years, if it is delayed, it will be delayed..." Jia Min sighed.

The last time she went back to her natal home, she got angry with Jia She again. First, Jia She took a fancy to an ancient fan in the shop, because someone competed with him to buy it, and she bought it back for 500 taels. The store is opposite the door, and the shopkeeper in the shop saw it, and saw that it was someone deliberately gouging the price, just to catch someone like Jia She, and the shopkeeper reported it to Jia Min, and Jia Min went to persuade Jia She not to be so profligate. There is no limit, Jia Amnesty was cheated of money, and was taught face-to-face by his younger sister. He couldn't face it, so he showed his face to Jia Min on the spot, and the brother and sister broke up unhappy.

Thinking of this now, Jia Min is still a little angry: "Sometimes, seeing their unsatisfactory appearance, I really want to throw away my hands and ignore everything. Anyway, no one is willing to listen, let them do as they please, but Think about the old lady, everyone in the family can only see the immediate future, no one has a long-term vision, and she has to make up her mind about everything. She is over 70, and she should be able to live in other people's homes, but we still have to let her She's working hard, I'm really... oh!"

Jia Min let out a long sigh, she really didn't know what to do with her mother's family, just let it go, the name is not right, not many people are willing to listen, and offended everyone; don't worry, the house is full of loopholes , let it go, the decline of the family is just around the corner, she really can't stand by and watch, it's really a dilemma.

After thinking about it, she still couldn't let it go, so she could only compete with herself, with her natal family, and take care of it awkwardly, just pretending that she couldn't understand those supercilious eyes and dislike, and took this dislike to the end.

Seeing her so troubled, Yun Qing couldn't help but give her an idea: "How can you, a married woman, decide the rise and fall of the family? You might as well list all the problems you found, and anyone who can think of a solution Write it down, mark the key points that you can’t think of, take it back and discuss it with your mother, call the people in the family who can speak together, and make it clear in person: if they can take care of it, let them take care of it , They don’t want to take care of it, if you have the ability, then negotiate with them that you take care of it, everyone writes it clearly in black and white, you have a certificate in your hand, and it will be easy to handle things in the future.”

"Besides, those juniors in your family can be used by me. If you add some burdens to them, they may not be unable to carry them. On the contrary, if you just blindly protect and pamper them, it will be difficult for them to take on big responsibilities. They should also experience Get up, if you can win the support of these people, you won’t be alone, and they are all from the Jia family, so it’s only natural for them to take care of Jia’s family affairs, let them go ahead, and you will suffer less grudges, isn’t it the best of both worlds?”

According to Yun Qing's opinion, whether it is Jia Amnesty or Jia Zheng, since they can't manage the family well, and they don't want to pay more attention, then they should just leave everything alone, delegate the power to the young people, and stop pointing fingers. Even better, I'm afraid of the kind of people who can't manage themselves well, and others feel that their authority is damaged if they manage it. If they do well, they have good leadership.

From Yun Qing's point of view, both Jia Amnesty and Jia Zheng have this tendency. If the Jia family is really headed by Jia Min, it might not be in decline, but instead it will flourish. However, women in this world don't have the right to speak. The most intelligent and capable of her siblings, but she was always hindered when she wanted to do something, which blinded her great talent for nothing.

After thinking about it, Jia Min felt that Yun Qing's suggestion was very feasible. Besides, she couldn't think of a better way. She just hoped that she could talk to the old lady and brothers so that she would be less tired.

"By the way, the courtiers were allowed to borrow money from the treasury a few years ago, but a lot of them were borrowed, and very few were returned. Many families still owe money to this day. Did your family borrow money at that time? Yes. , it's better to pay it back as soon as possible." Yun Qing said suddenly.

To say that this world is worthy of being based on the background of the Kangxi period. In history, the Kangxi Dynasty allowed private individuals to borrow money from the state treasury. It is obviously very different here. It is surprising that there is such a thing.

Jia Min frowned and thought for a while, then said uncertainly: "I was just married at that time, and vaguely remembered that the master seemed to have borrowed it. The amount should not be large, and it would be easy to repay it. Even if no one mentioned it in civil and military affairs, we were caught off guard. Return it, isn't it good?"

"It's really not good to be number one." Yun Qing nodded, "It was a benevolent government to allow borrowing money back then, and it was not easy for the emperor to ask for it. It depends on when the treasury is short of money. At that time, it was not good. If you open your mouth, it is inevitable that someone will come to be the debt collector, but I don't know who this person will be..."