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Chapter 448 I want to go too

The relationship between the two children is a bit dull, which Fan Jinyou can accept.

But the two are also half-brothers, so there is really no need for confrontation, after all, Chen Xueru does not have the throne for the two to inherit.

To avoid deepening conflicts, it is better for the two to separate.

"Whether the relationship between the two is good or not, Zhijun can't just play with Hou Kui alone. For such an older child, both parents have to go to work, so the child should be sent to Yuhong Class."

"The people who are sent to Yuhong Class are all families who have no one to take care of their children. Some people in our family take care of the children. When the children are older, I will hire a private teacher for the children. Is it necessary to send them?"

The family environment in which I grew up is different, and the difference in educational philosophy is still quite large.

Which one is good and which one is bad is not absolute, but the facts have proved that according to Chen Xueru's thinking, raising two children together is not a good choice.

When people get along with each other, most of the time, they are far away and close, and there may be a little distance between the two brothers. Don't get together every day, and the relationship can be better.

"It is very necessary. The matter of sending Zhijun to the red class is decided in this way. If the effect is not good, how to educate you in the future will be up to you and you will make the decision."

"Fan Jin has you..."

"Listen to me this time. When you forgot about the public-private partnership, you didn't listen to me and let Xu Hui really take the lead. How do you regret it?"

"Don't just tell me, ask the child's opinion, is the child willing to go to Yuhong Class?"

"Zhijun, come here." Fan Jinyou called his son over: "Zhijun, would you like to go to Yuhong Class? There are many children playing with you every day."

"Dad, I'd like to go."

Fan Jinyou was not surprised by this result. Children are lively and active by nature, yearn for new things, and are full of curiosity about the whole world, so it is not suitable for them to be kept at home all the time.

Fan Jin has these two, because Chen Xueru is a strong woman, so she is more independent.

I am not so attached to my mother, and will not cry when I leave my mother.

I don't know if there will be trouble in the Yuhong class, but when I ask now, I will definitely get an affirmative answer.

After hearing Fan Zhijun's answer, Fan Jinyou gave Chen Xueru a hand, and the matter was settled like this.

As for Hou Kui, who was looking at him eagerly, Fan Jinyou was powerless even though his eyes were pitiful, and he really couldn't do anything.

Chen Xueru has no problem with Hou Kui's elite education. Fan Jin has no reason to help Hou Kui refuse something that ordinary children can't ask for.

It's easy to talk about kissing your own son, but it's even more impossible when it's the turn of a cheap son.

Helping Hou Kui to refuse, there is a possibility of wanting to train the child into a waste no matter what.

Even if Chen Xueru doesn't think so, it's inevitable that the neighbors in the neighborhood will think so.

The Chen family has an old tradition of raising children, and they are proficient in everything from piano, chess, calligraphy and painting.

Chen Xueru also kept pace with the times, and did not let Hou Kui learn traditional musical instruments such as guqin, which is considered very enlightened.

Chen Xueru's educational thinking is at least 20 years ahead of the times.

My brother-in-law was trained in this way. Except for his lack of business ability, he is excellent in other aspects.

Whether a person is successful or not cannot be judged simply from his business ability.

There are also many things that are meaningful even if you don't make that much money.

Moreover, the child's ability in business is too strong, which may not be a good thing for Chen Xueru.

An heir who is too capable, and a mother who is unwilling to delegate power.No matter how you look at it, there will be contradictions, and it is not so easy to live in peace.

Fan Zhijun was going to the Yuhong class. A few days ago, Fan Jinyou felt that it would be better to pick him up and drop him off himself.

Even if the child is willing to go to Yuhong Class, but there are no familiar people around him, he has to adapt to a strange environment.

On the first day when I went to send it off, the child behaved well, neither crying nor fussing.

When I went to pick him up in the evening, the child was fine, and he told Fan Jinyou about the games he played with great interest.

But after the three days of novelty passed, I started to be the same as other children.

"Zhijun, don't cry. You are playing with other children in the Yuhong class. Your father and I will pick you up after get off work. If you still cry, I can only send you home and let your little sister take you home. Let me play with Hou Kui."

Then Fan Jinyou saw the child's crying, and stopped abruptly: "Dad, then come and pick me up earlier."

"Are you so unwilling to play with Hou Kui?"

"Dad, come and pick me up early, okay?"

At a young age, he would pretend to be stupid and pretend to be stupefied, answering irrelevant questions, and Fan Jinyou couldn't figure out whether the child was unwilling to be locked up at home or playing with Hou Kui, the relationship should not be so bad.

After half a month has passed and the child has basically adapted, the child has not yet experienced other benefits of being sent to Yuhong Class.

First of all, I have experienced that the child has a lot more attachment to the family.

One of Fan Jin's goals has also seen the effect. The two children get together all day long, and their relationship has improved a lot.

Of course, intimacy is temporary, and after a long time together, there will be trouble again.

After the child got used to it, Fan Jinyou entrusted Xiaoya with picking up and dropping off the child.

"Fan Jinyou, Hou Kui said he also wants to go to Yuhong Class."

"Ah."

"It was you who sent Zhijun to go, and Hou Kui, who is making trouble now, also wants to go, and you have told me several times."

"Yes."

"Fan Jinyou, don't talk like Cai Quanwu, okay? It's enough to meet Cai Quanwu at work every day. Can you tell me the whole story?"

"Whether you want to go or not, it's up to you."

Fan Jinyou's principles have always been very clear, and he does not express his opinion on Hou Kui's affairs, so when Chen Xueru asked, Fan Jinyou had no choice but to incarnate as Cai Quanwu, and just respond.

Fan Jinyou expressed support for Chen Xueru's ideas.

"No, Hou Kui has to learn music and calligraphy every day, so how can he be sent to Yuhong Class to play?"

Asking and answering, Chen Xueru also had a good time, asking Fan Jinyou, it was just Chen Xueru's courtesy to her cheap father.

"You have a point."

"Although the child has mentioned it several times and wants to go, but the child is playful. It is the child who is not sensible, so I need to be a mother to make the decision. The child will naturally thank me when he grows up."

"you're right."

Although Hou Kui will be a little unhappy if he is not allowed to go to the Yuhong class, he will only have a small temper for a while.

Neither Hou Kui nor Fan Zhijun, the two children in the family, could object to Chen Xueru's final decision.

Chen Xueru is not a person who is used to children throwing temper tantrums, and when she gets angry, she can really deal with children.

(End of this chapter)