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"Then learn from Mammy well. Grandmother spent a lot of favors, and the Madam Kong you invited for you is not an ordinary person. Mammy has witnessed three generations of emperors, five empresses, and served countless concubines in the palace. In the city of Bianjing, no number of nobles in the royal palace can invite a nanny, but grandma has invited one for you, so you must cherish it."

Sheng Changbai said to Rulan earnestly, he only hoped that this silly sister could learn more.

Nanny Kong was originally in the palace, and taught the nobles and concubines in the palace the etiquette rules.

These rules and etiquette are not so necessary for Ru Lan who wants to marry.

It's not that Rulan is ignorant of these rules in the official family's family, it's just that she doesn't want to follow them.

But in terms of being a human being, Ru Lan needs to learn too much from Nanny Kong.

Nanny Kong is a more transparent and wise old lady than Mrs. Sheng.

A helpless folk woman, she was cheated by her stepmother when she was young, and sent to the palace to be a maid.

Survived for decades in the dirtiest royal harem in the world.

From a mediocre little palace lady to a respectable female official in the palace, she has been trusted by many concubines for decades.

After getting old, he can get the dignity of going out of the palace to support him.

Throughout the Great Zhou Dynasty, there were not many women who were more intelligent than Nanny Kong.

Political knowledge, rules and etiquette, ingenuity, survival wisdom, Madam Kong are all at the level of the women's ceiling in the Zhou Dynasty.

If it wasn't for Mrs. Sheng when she was young, she would have been raised in the palace for a while.

She formed friendship with Nanny Kong, who was still a young lady-in-waiting. This kind of old lady who is the most knowledgeable and wise in the Great Zhou Dynasty is not something that the Sheng family can invite.

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Ru Lan murmured in response, her attitude seemed okay, whether she could pay attention or not depends on the actual study situation.

"I've seen Mammy. The three younger sisters in the family have made Mammy worry."

After Madam Kong arrived at Sheng's house, Sheng Changbai also visited Madam Kong first.

Nanny Kong, one of the 24 divisions of the six ministers of the inner palace, went out of the palace as Shangfu Gongzheng.

Calculated, it is also appropriate to be a fifth-rank official.

Regardless of Nanny Kong's origin in the powerful and loyal palace of the Great Zhou Dynasty, even this rank is on par with Sheng Hong, so of course it deserves respect.

"Tanhualang, you're being polite. Given my childhood friendship with my grandmother, since she has entrusted her, how can I not do my best to help teach the younger sisters in the family."

Nanny Kong also looked honest and gentle.He speaks like a spring breeze, and his gestures are generous and smooth, modest and dignified.

Let's just say that he spent his whole life in a perverted place like the imperial palace.

She didn't become so harsh and severe like other nuns.

It is very rare to be able to maintain a peaceful and open-minded state of mind.

"I'm sorry for the inconvenience, mammy. During the period of staying in the mansion, if you need anything, please just ask me."

That is to say, Nanny Kong didn't have that much time, otherwise, Sheng Changbai really wanted to chat more with this wise old lady.

When Madam Kong entered the mansion this time, the superficial task was to teach Sanlan, the real task was to teach Sheng Hong, and the hidden task was to advise Mrs. Sheng.

The three generations of the Sheng family all need Madam Kong's guidance.

Sheng Changbai is really not good, he is robbing Madam Kong's time with the three generations in his family who need Nanny Kong's guidance more.

Speaking of which, the reason why Old Madam Sheng invited Nanny Kong was because Ming Lan went to peek at her cousin, and the old lady wanted Ming Lan to be more disciplined and educated.

But Minglan is just a concubine's granddaughter, and the old lady, a grandmother, shouldn't be too partial to a concubine's granddaughter.

If you want to ask the nanny to teach Minglan, Rulan, the granddaughter, is naturally not easy to pass by, so you bring Rulan with you.

Because of her own temperament and being involved with her mother Lin Xishuang, Mo Lan was not favored by the old lady, and she was a granddaughter whom the old lady didn't want to care about.

The old lady asked the nanny to teach her granddaughter, but she didn't bring Molan to play.

But Mo Lan is a delicate egoist, and it is impossible to miss any good things at home.

Ru Lan and Ming Lan may think that Nanny Kong's teaching is a punishment, and they have nothing to look forward to.

But Mo Lan is different. Just being taught by her mother can increase her value in the marriage and love market, Mo Lan will not consider this as punishment.

With the benefit of this bright side, it was enough for the mother and daughter, Molan, to put Molan into Nanny Kong's class with great effort.

The mother and daughter chanted and beat the old lady, Sheng Hong, and Wang Ruofu, and managed to squeeze into Mammy Kong's small classroom.

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In the Great Zhou Dynasty, there were "Four Elegances", such as burning incense, ordering tea, hanging pictures, and arranging flowers.

These four elegance are also called "Four Arts of Life". Through taste, touch, smell and visual taste of daily life, daily life can be elevated to the realm of art.

It is said that Madam Kong is invited to come and teach the three orchid rules, but in fact, if there are only rules, there is no need for such a high-level nanny to teach.

In fact, I still want to let San Lan learn a little bit of the principles of how to behave and deal with people through the process of San Lan learning the rules.

Mother Kong taught the three orchids to master the four arts, which is also a way of entertaining and teaching.

While letting San Lan master this kind of elegant life skills, it also cultivates San Lan's temperament.

From a modern scientific point of view, these activities are also meaningful.

At least these few activities require meditation. If you devote yourself to it, it will be very helpful for how to calm your heart and control your temper.

In the Zhou Dynasty, it was customary to mash agarwood, sandalwood, ambergris and other spices into powder, add honey juice, and make small incense pills like today's pills, and dry them for later use. ".

When burning incense, first put red charcoal in the incense burner, and cover the charcoal with a thin layer of silver or mica, otherwise there will be very smoke, and then throw the prepared incense balls on the silver , which emits aroma through roasting.

What the three orchids need to learn is the ability to appreciate the appropriate intensity of fragrance and the skill to control the heat.

"Ru Lan, Ming Lan, is this the incense burning technique you learned from your mother?" Sheng Changbai said as he watched the two people smoke from the incense.

Just by looking at the materials, one can tell that the price of the incense pills is comparable to gold. It is a waste to ask these two people to burn incense, and they need more practice in the future.

When ordering tea in the Great Zhou Dynasty, they were very particular about the quality of tea powder, water quality, heat, and tea utensils. Needless to say, no matter what time of day tea tasting is, they are all particular about these things.

The characteristic of Dazhou is that first put the finely ground and sieved tea powder into a warmed tea bowl, then pour a small amount of hot water into it to make a paste, and then add water. Until the white soup flowers cover the water surface.

The more soup flowers, the better, and the whiter the better, and it is better to have a high degree of fusion between tea and water, and it is better not to touch the side of the bowl. This is what Sanlan needs to practice.

"The refreshments are not bad, so you two have passed the test."

Ordering tea is something the two have been in contact with since they were young, and it seems that they can barely count on it.

It is impossible for two orchids to draw a landscape painting in a tea bowl like those masters, but if you make do, it can be regarded as drinkable.

Before Sheng Changbai tasted it, Ru Lan and Ming Lan arranged flower arrangements, and the level of hanging paintings, the three Lan just learned flower arrangement when something happened.

Dazhou's flower arrangements, with a clear and sparse style, pursue the beauty of lines, and the connotation is more important than the form. It embodies the life philosophy and moral integrity of the flower arranger, and is called "ideal flower".

To put it simply, in addition to the superficial beauty of flower arrangement, it is also necessary to be able to break out some inner truths.

Rulan and Molan quarreled in class, angering Madam Kong.

Of course, it wasn't the first day that the two of them quarreled in class, but today, the two of them quarreled even more, and the incident was big enough that Nanny Kong thought it was an appropriate time.

Nanny Kong is not an ordinary female teacher hired by the school at home, and she doesn't care about disciplining San Lan.

He is strict in teaching, and dares to punish the three Lan in the family.

Calling Sheng Hong and Wang Ruofu, Lin Haoshuang excused himself, except for the old lady, all the female family members were called.

"Miss Si, you are smart and smart, and you do everything well, but today I want to advise you a few words, don't rely on how smart you are to treat others as fools."

"Miss Wu is so majestic today. Originally, it was just a few words, and it's fine if you expose it, but you are afraid that the matter will not cause a big problem, and you jump up and down, fanning the flames."

"Miss Six, I will tell you a truth today. Brothers and sisters in a family are united in the same spirit, and share prosperity and loss together."

Taking advantage of the fierce quarrel between Ru Lan and Mo Lan today, Mother Kong really explained the truth that she really wanted to teach the three Lan.

Not only did he speak with reason and evidence, but he also wanted to convince the three of them.

Obviously it is the way to teach the nobles in the palace.

"No, if I just let her go, wouldn't it encourage brothers and sisters to stay out of things next time? In the future, what should I do if my siblings have troubles and watch the fire from the other side? I must be punished. Minglan's punishment today is to make a few sisters feel uncomfortable. Understand what a family is!"

When Sheng Hong was about to intercede with the seemingly aggrieved Minglan, Nanny Kong even taught Sheng Hong a lesson.

"Aunt Lin, let me say something to you today. You must know that the most important thing for a person is self-knowledge. You don't know two things today. The first thing to know is that you should know who you are. My master and wife are talking about this, you Should we interrupt so rashly?"

In the end, Nanny Kong didn't let Lin Xiaoshuang go.She is really very wise. After staying in the Sheng family for only ten days, she realized that Lin Xishuang was the source of the Sheng family's troubles.

"Second knowledge, you know you have made mistakes again and again. You said you shouldn't have spoken, but you opened your mouth again. You kept saying that you were ignorant. Since you knew you were ignorant, why did you interrupt the girl's upbringing at will? You obviously don't know anything. Knowing it, but committing everything, isn’t it knowing the law and breaking the law, and offending it even more! Could it be because you have raised brothers and sisters, and you think you are superior to everyone?”

Nanny Kong didn't show any mercy, and directly pointed out that Lin Yeshuang didn't understand the fact that order was superior and inferior, and she was proud of being favored.

He was also reminding Sheng Hong that doting on his concubine and destroying his wife had made the Sheng family lose its rules.

Because Nanny Kong has seen and learned a lot, and has been in the inner palace for decades, she has come into contact with nobles in the palace and important ministers of the auxiliary country.

Sheng Hong wanted to learn more about the inside story of the high school from Nanny Kong, which family had good relations with which family, which family had a rift with which family, which honorable minister, what kind of person he was in the real situation, what kind of person was there? Likes, dislikes, what happened at home.

All kinds of news about these people in power are of course hard to come by.

Sheng Hong, who has been asking Nanny Kong for various information, respects Nanny Kong very much.

Nanny Kong also had an extraordinary influence on Sheng Hong.

Nanny Kong completely rejected Lin Oshuang this time, but Sheng Hong's favor for Lin Oshuang dropped greatly, and she really hated Lin Oshuang to a certain extent.

"Although you are not his own mother, you are his aunt, and you are even more kind to him. You can stand up straight and show off. What are you worried about? If you don't take yourself seriously, He is happy to leave you alone. You should live a more comfortable life, if not for yourself, then for your precious little girl. "

"It's not easy for parents to give birth. We can't waste this life in vain. We can live as we want. One day we have to live well."

After teaching the juniors of the Sheng family, Mother Kong taught the old lady Sheng again.

The old lady Sheng is smart, but the old lady's cleverness has hardly played a role in these years.

Over the years, the old lady has been hiding in the back house of the Sheng family, eating vegetarian food and praying to Buddha, without asking right from wrong.

It is also the back residence of the Sheng family, which is an important reason for this situation.

The son is unfilial, the daughter-in-law ignores it, the head of the family favors his concubine and kills his wife, there is no respect or rules in the house.

If the old lady was willing to take more care of things, it would be impossible for the Sheng family's back house to become like this, and the situation where Sheng Hong doted on his concubine and killed his wife would never have happened.

The old lady wanted Nanny Kong to come to Sheng's house, maybe she wanted to get Nanny Kong to wake up Sheng Hong.

I didn't expect to even mention it myself.

Nanny Kong is definitely old lady Sheng's bosom friend, in order to let old lady Sheng live a smooth old age.

Originally, after leaving the palace, he should go back to his hometown to recuperate, and he had to come to the Sheng family to spend all his time.

It also broke my heart, and after only ten days in the Sheng family, I taught all the three generations of the Sheng family a lesson.

Madam Kong's lessons to the three generations of the Sheng family were profound enough.

Sheng Changbai could clearly feel that the atmosphere at home had changed.

After Mo Lan was exposed by Nanny Kong, her cute and weak image of a little white flower was shattered in front of Sheng Hong. It was not as easy as before to coax Sheng Hong to play.

Ru Lan likes to be at home, playing the prestige of a concubine's concubine, and she has restrained herself a lot from being coquettish and unreasonable.

Minglan has also changed the previous situation of blindly shrinking back and hiding too much, and has learned how to express herself moderately.

Sheng Hong saw some of Lin Haoshuang and Mo Lan clearly, and broke the rules when he doted on his concubine and killed his wife.

It will be the consequences of children, sisters being separated, and brothers fighting against each other. If you are vigilant, it is the greatest gain.

The old lady Sheng also changed her attitude, tried to intervene in more things, and managed the back house of the Sheng family well.

This is a good thing for the old lady's own old age and the future of the Sheng family.

Mother Kong's goal of alerting the Sheng family has been achieved, and she taught the three Lan to hang paintings for two days.

As far as hanging pictures are concerned, the three orchids need to learn the least, which is to hang suitable poems, words, characters, and paintings at the right place and at the right time.

This is closely related to literary accomplishment and cultural appreciation ability, and it is not so easy to achieve it quickly.

After clarifying the joints to Sanlan, Nanny Kong said goodbye and left the Sheng family.

After brushing off her clothes and hiding her identity and fame deeply, Nanny Kong was really unrestrained and unrestrained, and Sheng Changbai clearly saw some chivalry.