Lost in love at the beginning, I backhand her best friend

Chapter 131 Good Wife and Mother Xu Meili

Seeing Xu Meili's message, Wang Zihao didn't reply immediately.

In life, bumps and bumps are inevitable.

But some lessons and costs are too high.

Xu Meili was less childish and short-tempered at the beginning, and the two of them may be able to achieve a positive result this year.

After thinking about it carefully, Wang Zihao is sure and sure, with a monthly income of hundreds of thousands and the ability to be financially independent, if Xu Meili got off the bus two months ago, there is a high probability that the two will get married by the end of this year.

She is a eugenics advocate, and having a baby after the age of 30 is no longer considered eugenics.

Women aged 35 and above are even older women, and their physical fitness and physical strength are far inferior to those of young women.

Therefore, doctors have always advised women to have children before the age of 35, and if conditions permit, not to be an advanced mother.

Xu Meili revealed that she wants to be the mother of three children, and the family is lively.

In this way, if she does not have her first child before the age of 30, there is a high probability that she will be an advanced mother when she has her third child.

Others can make do with it. Xu Meili doesn't want to make do with things like having a baby.

The ex-boyfriend didn't reply to the message for a long time, and Xu Siqian didn't follow up.

In fact, after sending this message, she regretted it a little.

She is the one who says forever, forever, and never being together.

She was also the one who said it was boring, broke up, and no longer in love.

As a result of the trouble now, the two of them are in a dilemma, in a dilemma.

Young people always have to take detours, is it inevitable?
Xu Meili sighed, put down the file, and couldn't calm down, she couldn't enter the working state.

The little man is probably angry with her now and doesn't want to talk to her.

She knows the little man very well, it's not that he doesn't have time.

If it were her, she would be very angry.

While looking out the window, Xu Meili's cell phone rang.

She looked happy, and the little man lost his anger. Did you call her?

But after she looked over, she was a little disappointed.

It's my mother Mo Baoer's call.

"Mom, what's the matter?" After answering the phone, Xu Meili didn't hide her disappointment.

Mo Baoer was taken aback for a moment, and asked: "The work is not going well, or something happened?"

Xu Meili didn't tell Mo Baoer about her relationship, and said: "I'm a little confused. I always feel that I have grown up. What I decide to do today, I think it is correct, but the next day I always want to deny it. I feel that yesterday's me very childish."

"That means your growth rate is very fast, which is a good thing." Mo Baoer laughed.

"It's not a good thing, I kind of hate myself like this." Xu Meili humbly asked Mo Bao'er for advice: "Mom, don't let me go, and give me more advice and opinions from people who have experienced it, such as helping me plan my future. "

Mo Baoer was a little surprised by her daughter's performance today, and it was rare to admit her own shortcomings.

However, Mo Baoer does not intend to give her daughter any advice or advice.

The society is constantly developing, and the way of thinking and values ​​​​of young people are also changing, which Mo Baoer herself sometimes cannot understand.

In this case, it may not be correct for her to provide her daughter with future plans.

"You need to make your own choices, instead of being ordered to do or not to do things, because you are the one who bears the consequences in the end." Mo Baoer said.

"What happens, I will bear it myself. It's fine." Xu Meili was disappointed in herself, she was willing to follow the path of the older generation, and she didn't want to mess up her life.

"Traditional guidance and planning are no longer applicable in today's society." Mo Baoer sighed: "I envy you young people, who have more opportunities and challenges than us."

"What opportunities and challenges are there? I don't think so." Xu Siqian disagreed with her mother.

Mo Baoer said with a smile: "You live in the era of digitalization, informationization and globalization, and you pay more attention to freedom, innovation and individuality. You need to think independently and explore yourself, and find a development direction that suits your interests and potential, rather than being forced to follow the wishes of others or the expectations of society.”

Xu Siqian was depressed, the gap between her and her mother was still so huge.

"During this process, I, someone who has experienced it, can provide you with correct information and opinions, but I cannot directly interfere with your choices. You don't need planning and guidance in the traditional sense, what you need is guidance and inspiration." Mo Baoer Said.

Xu Siqian was thoughtful.

Mo Baoer said: "I can be more open and tolerant to you, and give you enough trust and support for your choices, but I will not limit your choices and decisions, otherwise your potential and creativity will not be stimulated, and you will not be able to develop. Space is limited."

"Then it feels like you still treat me like a sheep-herding way of education, and I continue to toss about on my own?" Xu Siqian was very distressed.

Mo Baoer shook her head: "When I say that, it doesn't mean that you can completely disregard career prospects and market demand based on your own preferences and interests. At least for now, I am very optimistic about your career plan, which can help you understand more clearly. Understand your own situation and goals, and ultimately realize your self-worth."

After a pause, Mo Baoer said: "I like a sentence very much. It says that the whole world is unfolding in front of us, expecting us to create instead of repeating. You are willing to follow your path in the film and television industry, and you don't want to follow me. I'm actually quite happy."

"Are you happy when you lose money?" The cloud in Xu Siqian's heart still lingered.

"Happy can't be called happy, you have lost a lot, so you can only go back to my old way, at least be more stable." Mo Baoer said: "I know you also want to prove your ability, and you don't want to be old."

"Well, thank you mom!" Xu Meili's mood improved a lot.

Mo Baoer's greatest expectation for her is probably that she wants to be happy and get ahead, that's just incidental.

"Stick to the choice you think is right, no matter what others say or do, it is just a small episode for us. In the long life, we are the ones who are at the helm of us." Mo Baoer said.

Xu Meili's eyes brightened: "Then if I marry an ordinary man I like, I don't care what others say?"

Mo Baoer smiled and said: "You don't care what I say, and I don't care how you complain, and I will impose economic sanctions on you. If the man you marry doesn't satisfy me, all the money and property I earn will be left to Xiaoyu in the future." , don't even try to get a share of the pie."

"Xiao Yu won't take it all by herself, she will definitely give me a part." Xu Meili said.

Mo Bao'er shook her head: "Don't look at your current relationship. In the future, when you marry someone and Xiao Yu also gets married, then there will be two families. If he wants to share it with you, can his wife agree? It's like you want to share part of your Distribute the property to Xiaoyu, see if your future husband and children can agree."

Xu Meili pondered, she really couldn't guarantee it.

The mother and daughter were chatting. After 09:30, Xu Meili suddenly got a call.

Seeing that it belonged to a little man, she quickly said to Mo Baoer: "Mom, I have a call, so I won't tell you for now."

(End of this chapter)