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Chapter 17 Education has become an outlet for adults to vent

When Li Kun saw the two teachers coming to the door, he was so embarrassed that he wanted to find a crack in the ground and sneak in.The adolescent child already has a lot of self-esteem. Before his mother made a fuss about going to school, he has not adjusted his mood until now. Now that the teachers see his family's embarrassment, he is suddenly at a loss.Pan Xishi understood Li Kun's mental activities at a glance.

When the middle school teacher visited her home, she had the same mental activity.Grandma and grandpa have good financial conditions, but they have many children and many friends. Since the uncles and aunts were laid off, they often moved to live with their parents, eating and drinking.

Therefore, the relatively large house is always overcrowded, and with the addition of many children, the house is getting more and more damaged, and the sanitation needs to be done all the time, and if you don't pay attention, it will be a mess.

Especially since she slept in the living room later, she didn't have her own living and study space at all. Maybe the teacher couldn't see this at all, but she was really scared in her heart, for fear that her predicament would be discovered by the whole class.

Li Kun obviously does not live in a big family, and it is today after many years, but he does look a bit down and out.His family lived in an old house many years ago. The size of the house was small, and it looked like a one-bedroom and one living room. In fact, this was not a problem. The most important thing was that it was messy, dusty everywhere, and the trash cans in the kitchen and living room were full. Full, exuding a pungent smell.

Pan Xishi saw that Li Kun was in a hurry to clean up with his cane, and hurriedly said, "Don't move, I'll do the cleaning. Your task now is to listen carefully."

Li Kun lowered his head and was embarrassed to look directly at the two teachers. He said in a low voice, "It's all my fault. I caused trouble for the teachers. My mother is now in menopause, and sometimes she can't control her emotions. I will help her." I apologize to you guys."

Shang Yunxuan said: "It's not too much for junior high school teachers to encounter menopausal parents, especially when adolescents encounter menopause. It's so sour to have conflicts and conflicts one after another. You don't need to comfort us, we care about you. child."

Shang Yunxuan seemed to be a little more relaxed because of this sentence, and said blushingly: "I'm not a child anymore. Also, I can just take classes via video in the future. I really don't have to come to my house. I don't think it's very convenient."

"Are you still taking video lessons with your previous grades? Shang Yunxuan deliberately said, "Face-to-face lectures can't be done and you have to teach by correspondence. You should feel sorry for the teachers. Lectures are taught through the computer, and then the students can't understand, and the teacher is even more crazy. . "

While Shang Yunxuan was chatting with the children, Pan Xishi had already swept the floor of the living room, found new garbage bags and replaced the ones in the kitchen and living room, completely eliminating the 'pollution source'.

Moreover, the dining table was 'opened up' and became a place where classes can be held.The family situation of the students now is quite different from what they were then.

When she was in junior high school, the gap between households didn't seem to be as big as it is now. At most, someone has one more bedroom, more high-end furniture, and more beautifully furnished.

But now in the same class, some students live in villas, some students live in low-rent housing, some students live in high-end flats in high-quality residential areas in the core area, and some students are still living in old schools for 40 years.Sometimes the reaction of teachers and classmates to these material conditions in their eyes can also cause a kind of harm to children who are sensitive to puberty.

Shang Yunxuan watched Li Kun's house change like a magic trick, his eyes were full of disbelief.Pan Xishi said to Li Kun: "The kitchen in your house is larger than the teacher's house, and the rest of the layout is similar, so it is easy to clean up. But when the teacher is your age, he can do all kinds of housework. Wait for your legs to recover. I want to help mother share the housework, you know?"

Li Kun nodded, as if thinking about something.Shang Yunxuan suddenly thought of something, and said to Li Kun: "Are your parents going to work on the [-]th? When will they come back?"

"My mother doesn't know when she will come back. My father." Li Kun paused and stammered, "My father often travels on business, so he doesn't have much time at home."

"It's similar to the situation of Shang Yanjia, right?" Pan Xishi asked Li Kun.

Li Kun immediately nodded seriously: "Yes, my father is the same as Shang Yan's father, who is often not at home."

Pan Xishi hurriedly interrupted Shang Yunxuan's question and said: "It's getting late, you start class first, I'll judge the children for today's papers. Please let me know after class."

When he came, Pan Xishi and Shang Yunxuan hurried forward, but when he went back, Pan Xishi stopped him specially.

Shang Yunxuan said to Pan Xishi: "I still have something to do. If Teacher Pan has something to do, just get in the car and talk about it!"

Pan Xishi didn't refuse to get on the bus as fast as she could, and she didn't exchange pleasantries, and said straight to the point: "Mr. Shang, you are very familiar with the children in Class [-], but please don't tell anyone about Li Kun's family situation. May I?"

Shang Yunxuan took a deep breath and said: "Teacher Pan, logically speaking, I am honored to participate in your entry assessment, and you are still a tenant of my house. According to my previous experience in life, we should be destined to each other and should be able to Become a harmonious colleague relationship, and even a good friend. And now I have officially applied to teach mathematics in classes [-], [-], and [-], and we will have more contacts in the future, but you are really the most awkward person I have ever met, yes For the first time in my life, I met people who didn't know how to deal with them."

Pan Xishi didn't have any waves on his face: "Teacher Shang, it doesn't matter what kind of person I am in your mind, what is important is that I think the relationship between Li Kun's parents may not be particularly ideal. And do you I found that the situation in their family is also very strange. In my opinion, even if it is a single-parent family, as long as there is a mother in the family, the sanitary situation will not be what we see, especially if the parents know that the teacher is coming. And you can see that Li Kun's body shape and demeanor don't look like a child with a particularly healthy heart."

Shang Yunxuan frowned and asked: "The child is a little thinner. He doesn't look very confident in his speech, so let's say it too seriously! Besides, I'm just a big mouth in your heart, gossip guy? You go to school and ask if my character is good? I really don’t know where I offended you. In your heart, I seem to be a landmine. I must stay away. I’m afraid my foot will be leveled. !"

Pan Xishi originally had a serious face, but was suddenly amused by this sentence. In her mind, he has always been like a land mine, but she always thought that she was hiding well, so how did he accurately discover him? Woolen cloth?

Seeing Pan Xishi smile, Shang Yunxuan became even angrier, stepped on the gas pedal, and set off on the road angrily.

"I've inquired about it! Everyone said that Teacher Shang Yunxuan has very strong teaching ability. He is a rare excellent teacher in our grade and even in the school. Not only is he a big mouth, but he is also a talker. After thinking about it, I still feel that if I don't remind you , things will become very dangerous." Pan Xishi said honestly.

Shang Yunxuan almost lost his breath, choked to death by the female teacher's words.

Pan Xishi added: "Besides, what I say is not without basis. I am a national second-level psychologist. I am studying a double degree in university, and one of the semesters is mental health. The mood of Li Kun's mother when she went to school that day I also saw that she looks very paranoid and has a strong desire to control, which makes me suspect that Li Kun also bears a lot of pressure in this aspect of family life.

If Li Kun's mother and father divorce, he lives with his mother, in a way a minor child will feel that he has lost his father.Boys without fathers sometimes feel inferior in adolescence. After all, some male classmates in school will bully children without fathers, especially boys. "

After speaking, she motioned for him to stop.

Shang Yunxuan said to her back: "How do you know?"

"I just know it!"

Shang Yunxuan looked at Pan Xishi's leaving figure thoughtfully. He was thinking about what she just said all the way. Just as he was thinking, it suddenly rained heavily. The weather forecast had originally said that it would rain today. He was stunned for a moment. , Turn the car around and go to the place where you just got off to find someone.

But as soon as he looked up, he saw Pan Xishi holding an umbrella and walking towards the subway station calmly. At first, he thought she would be drenched, but he didn't expect that she had been prepared, and seemed to enjoy the feeling of holding an umbrella in the rain.

He felt like he was redundant again!
The results of the previous monthly exams are out.Teachers don't give out their names when handing out their grades, but only their student numbers.But even so, many parents complained that their children's grades were not good, and even a student number would hurt their children's self-esteem.

But in the six years of elementary school, the first and second grades of junior high school can take into account the child's ability to bear, and don't mention the matter of grades. Relying on children to build their own small universe to shape endurance?
Even if you pass through the student days smoothly and find a job in the society, the interviewer will not consider your mood. If you are admitted, you will be admitted, and if you are not admitted, you will not be admitted.Even if you start your own company, it won’t take your feelings into account when it fails to manage well and closes down.

There are also some parents who lurk in the parent group. They usually do not participate in the education matters of the students' study and life. factor.

Shang Xuehai is one of them. After Shang Yan ran away from home last time, he, his wife and his father-in-law and mother-in-law all expressed their views on the surface.I've been holding back my energy to see my son's latest grades.

Over [-] years old, the work pressure of middle-aged men is increasing. The children of several colleagues in Shang Xuehai are studying very well, and an old man is flying all over the world. His son has a way of studying by himself, and he went directly to Xingang, the most famous high school.A colleague's child didn't say much, and went directly to Tsinghua University for the college entrance examination.

When adults encounter difficulties in their careers, watching their children being praised or getting top grades in the parent group can also draw strength and sweep away their fatigue, but look at his son again, he is a debt collector.This also became an outlet for him to vent his pressure.

Ever since he found out that his son Shangyan might not be able to go to high school and go to a vocational school with a high probability, Shang Xuehai has intensified his monitoring of his son's school's parent group, and would ask Pan Shengnan Xingshi for any issues related to his grades.Although the results of this monthly test are only abcd, the d of Shang Yan deeply stimulated Shang Xuehai.

"The last time I ran away from home, I endured him. You educated well, and I let you educate. But look at how long it has been, not only the grades have not improved, the monthly exam is a mess, and my eyes are also myopic. Looking back I See you next time, is it true that a good child has become myopic and a hunchback, and this is your education level?"

(End of this chapter)