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Chapter 30 No.20 Nine: What's wrong with Xiaoxiao?
The next morning, when Li Kun was in class, he was still sleeping on the table.That day happened to be the time when the school charged lunch fees, the standard was 17 yuan per person, and 22 yuan for 375 days.Li Kun chose not to eat lunch at school, but his meal bill was paid by someone, and he didn't need to think about it to know that it was Teacher Pan.

In fact, fourteen or fifteen-year-old children don't know how to deal with these things at all. Face is important, but being able to have lunch with classmates every day at noon seems to be an even more important event.He didn't want to be a different student in school, and he couldn't bear the embarrassment of his classmates knowing that he couldn't even afford lunch.It seems that he really can't refuse when it comes to student lunch.

During the break between classes, Li Kun secretly went to find Pan Xishi.Pan Xishi gave him the IOU first, asked him to sign, and solemnly stated that the money was lent to him, and he would repay it in the future, and promised that this matter would never be known to the second person, even if it was a commercial statement. It's no exception, and it should be said that you especially won't let Shangyan know.

Li Kun heaved a sigh of relief, but still firmly refused: "Teacher Pan, I will not accept any other help from you except for the meal expenses, even borrowing it. Shang Yan told me about your situation, and I can't give you any more money." Trouble."

Pan Xishi wanted to say something, but Li Kun took out a pen, changed the amount on the IOU, signed it, and ran away quickly.

Looking at the IOU, Pan Xishi couldn't help muttering in a low voice: "This is looking down on people! What's wrong with me, I never do things beyond my ability, brat!"

As she was speaking, she suddenly noticed a figure flashing behind her, and she didn't know how long she had been standing there.She took a closer look, who else could it be if it wasn't Shang Yunxuan?

This is the most remote place in the teaching building. Few people would come here in normal times. This place was first contributed by Shangyan.I really can't imagine that this gossip man can even ambush here?Is this really a bit immoral?
Seeing Pan Xishi's rainy expression, Shang Yunxuan immediately said, "I've been thinking about Li Kun, so I saw you walking here with him back and forth, so I followed him."

Pan Xishi said, "Then why didn't I see you at all? Are you a cat? You don't make any sound when you walk?"

"The child has expressed his opinion to such an extent, can I show up? The child's self-esteem has been hurt, and the consequences will be disastrous." Shang Yunxuan said, "Besides, I feel guilty about Li Kun's matter."

Pan Xishi said, "What do you have to feel guilty about?"

Shang Yunxuan is really suffering. He and Pan Xishi have not met Li Kun's mother and son for three consecutive days, but he has just retreated. She solved the problem by herself. If I had known him, I would have persisted with him for another two days. .

Pan Xishi didn't want Monk Yunxuan to continue the topic of Li Kun. She had already promised the child that no second person would know that this man was simply unreliable, and he was the most unstable factor in this matter.

Shang Yunxuan said: "I just know about this matter, and neither you nor Li Kun can do anything about it!"

Pan Xishi looked at Shang Yunxuan, several black lines were drawn all over his head again!

Shang Yunxuan also wants to subsidize Li Kun, because he feels that 1000 yuan will not play a fundamental role in Li Kun's family status. All the energy is spent on studying, and I still have to think of other ways to maintain the lives of mother and child.

Pan Xishi remained silent, what the other party said was correct, but as Li Kun said, she herself was just a substitute teacher, and her life was not easy.

Excluding the daily expenses and renting a house, I don’t have much rich money. Subsidizing the other party with 1000 yuan a month will not affect her life, but if it increases, I’m afraid it will be too much.No wonder Li Kun was worried about her, because the child was telling the truth.

But based on her life experience and her understanding of this child, Li Kun would never accept Shang Yunxuan's funding. Even if she knew that Shang Yunxuan also knew his family's secrets, she might become angry. I didn't even go to school.

Shang Yunxuan had already anticipated Pan Xishi's worry, so he whispered something in her ear.Pan Xishi's brows gradually relaxed, as if he was seriously thinking about the feasibility of his words.

Shang Yunxuan said: "Mr. Pan, Li Kun is your student and also mine. We are all teachers. It is your bounden duty to teach and help children. If you think what I said makes sense , there should be no reason to refuse."

Pan Xishi, like Li Kun, resisted instinctively, knowing that the other party was telling the truth, but he just couldn't accept it.This stylish Yunxuan turned on the phone, took out a donation certificate and handed it to Pan Xishi, then the second one, the third one, and two funding agreements, all of which were reflected in her memory. eye.At this time, Pan Xishi looked at Shang Yunxuan with a complicated expression, but also with a little understanding.

Shang Yunxuan has been making charitable donations for education. Since he graduated, he has donated to hundreds of children in impoverished areas, and now he has given 5000 yuan to two children in impoverished areas for a long time. The subsidy is 3 yuan a year.

Shang Yunxuan raised his head proudly and slightly: "I have been a tutor since I was in college, and even though I am teaching junior high school now, many high school students in the family of relatives and friends I know will also ask me to tutor, so financially I am fully capable of doing these facts. In addition, I have a vacant house under my own name, and the rent is quite high. In fact, I have always wanted to support one or two students who have difficulties for a long time. Now I just have a suitable candidate. Why? Do you have to support children in remote and impoverished areas? Your own students are in difficulties, so it would be more direct to help them in private!"

Looking at Shang Yunxuan, Pan Xishi suddenly felt that he was very different from the gossip guy in his impression.She thought that she should seriously think about what Shang Yunxuan just whispered in her ear.

Especially for a guy like him whose family conditions are very good, his own income is very high, he never worries about money, and he really wants to help others. Helping Li Kun is effortless, but it can really save a family that is on the verge of collapse.

Pan Xishi figured it out and decided to go to Li Kun's house again on the weekend.

On the weekend, Pan Xihong didn't bring Xiaoxiao to her grandma's house. The community property organized a strawberry picking activity in the greenhouse in late autumn. She and Chang Yuan specially took time to play with the children.

"Xiaoxiao just has too few contacts. You see, those grandmas or grandmas mainly take their children downstairs to bask in the sun when the weather is good. Most of the children have several babies, but look at our daughter, every day. Like a puppy in the children's playpen in my mother's hut, otherwise, why would anyone think that Xiaoxiao doesn't look lively?"

Chang Yuan smiled and said: "When you said that my mother can't take care of children, I persuaded you. Now you say that your own mother can't take care of children, so I dare not say a word. If you want me to say, Grandpa's energy is all on Shang Yan, grandma's heart is bad and her energy is limited during the day, it's not easy for the old couple, let's be tolerant!"

Pan Xihong looked at her husband: "Don't pretend to be a good person here. If you say that your mother really didn't post comparisons with my mother! My mother just doesn't want to play with the children, and is too lazy to take the children downstairs to mingle with other children's parents. But your mother Well, if the child has a fever, he will be given cephalosporin directly, or he will cover his sweat with high temperature, and he will not be allowed to take medicine. Not only that, but there is no scientific basis for adding water to the milk powder, and she does not pay attention to hygiene. She puts the food first Chew it in your own mouth before feeding the child. Cover the child like a rice dumpling every day. There is a kind of cold that makes grandma feel cold, there is a kind of hunger that makes grandma feel hungry, and there is a kind of salt that makes grandma always feel bland.”

Chang Yuan felt dizzy for a while: "You were the one who said that grandma didn't leave your heart with the children, so why did it involve my mother. To be fair, my mother has been here since before you gave birth, and she originally wanted to serve you. In the end, you suffered and suffered for more than a year. It’s better to be in a daze, but you got into trouble all over. The old couple went back without saying anything. Why are you still relentless? It’s a bit too much!”

"You are not happy when you mention this about yourself. When can you stand in my position and think about it?"

Chang Yuan said: "Whoever speaks ill of his mother will not be happy as a son!"

Pan Xihong didn't want to mention it either, but some things were engraved in her mind, and she would never forget them in her lifetime.She was just pregnant and knew she had upgraded to become a mother. Whether it was her new role or the upcoming baby, she was full of novelty and anticipation.On the one hand, she was very excited spiritually, and on the other hand, she also began to invest and transform herself, her children, and even the home environment materially.

Pan Xihong downloaded a lot of parenting apps on her mobile phone, many of which sell baby care products and household items related to baby care. Everything was very happy, but since the arrival of her parents-in-law, this happiness has come to an abrupt end up.

Every time the courier delivers baby care products to their homes, their faces are very ugly, and they think it is a waste of money. The app will also send some magazines from time to time. There are monthly and quarterly featured products and promotional discounted products at the door. Later, they were thrown into the trash can by the in-laws. They didn’t even ask her, as if she didn’t Making money is like wasting their son's hard-earned money as a whole, which made her feel depressed all the time.

After the child is born, the difference in the concept of parenting between the two generations becomes more obvious.Pan Xihong has little milk, so she thinks that breast milk and milk formula should be mixed, but her mother-in-law has an old belief that as long as the child sucks hard, the child will not be able to eat enough during the confinement period, and will hardly gain weight.And because the child was in distress all day, Pan Xihong's confinement was not well-cultivated, and her postpartum depression became more and more obvious.

Then, when Xiaoxiao was less than [-] days old, because her father-in-law forgot to close the window due to heavy rain, she got enteritis.But the mother-in-law thinks that the child has diarrhea several times. It is not a big problem. On the contrary, it is a big problem for such a young child to take medicine. In the end, the child's weight does not increase but drops. Pan Xihong thinks it is more difficult to take medicine as prescribed by the doctor for illness. It is still difficult to do projects at school. She hid herself under the covers and cried aggrieved several times.

But later, I don’t know if the mother-in-law was deliberately angry with her daughter-in-law, and she directly took amoxicillin for the child’s high fever. Pan Xihong was so frightened that she asked a classmate who was a doctor for help in the middle of the night, and was severely criticized by the classmate.The classmate said that adults should take amoxicillin with caution, and it cannot be used by small milk babies at all.Also, when it comes to the intellectual development of the child when she was just born, the parents-in-law thought she was crazy more than once. Such a small child should only eat and sleep. Any intellectual development is a waste of time and energy. It is better to use this effort to do more Housework, let her not mess around.Pan Xihong felt that as a doctoral student and a university teacher, she was held down in the mud by her uneducated in-laws every day, and she never had a happy day.

Chang Yuan said: "Pan Xihong, you always think about these unpleasant things. In fact, it is not good for you, your child, or your family. No matter what, the child's grandpa and grandma will never harm you. Granddaughter. At that time, my parents felt that as old people, they had a lot of time and energy and failed to take care of their children wholeheartedly, so that we could go to work wholeheartedly. Isn’t this kind? Otherwise, what would they come to us for all the time?”

Pan Xihong said: "Is it for you to work hard? During the time we lived together, I could clearly see that your mother didn't want you to do a little work. As soon as you entered the house, you could not wait to kill you." Honestly, I wouldn’t even let you get a baby bottle for your child, let alone get you up in the middle of the night to make milk powder for your child.”

Chang Yuan was annoyed every time he heard these things. He felt that these complaints were very inconsistent with his wife's status as a university teacher and her doctoral degree. His wife in his heart should not become like this.

In order to ease the atmosphere, Chang Yuan jokingly said: "I think you get angry when you mention my mother. The main reason is that she doesn't allow us to go out to eat, let alone order takeaway, which affects you as a snack. You are so angry." , let's go to a high-end restaurant to eat delicious food on weekends."

Pan Xihong was really amused: "You can arrange me, I'm not a snack foodie, I'm a snack foodie's mother now!"

Chang Yuan smiled and continued to persuade his daughter-in-law: "The old people have different life philosophy and education methods from the young people, but they don't know everything about life and parenting. Otherwise, how do we grow up? Not only healthy , and even got a Ph.D., and is still teaching and educating people, isn’t denying them the same as denying yourself?”

Pan Xihong said: "Don't tell me the truth, I can educate people better than you. I just can't help it. If there is a way for a woman to be a good mother without delaying her work, she can become a father like a man. , I can still have the energy to work hard in my career. I don’t need the elderly to help me take care of the children, neither my parents-in-law nor my own parents. But take the working environment of our school as an example. Even if I am really ambitious, I can’t use the elderly. It would be even more difficult to live on my own.”

Chang Yuan said, "Isn't there still me?"

Pan Xihong said aggrievedly: "Since I was pregnant, your work has become more and more busy. When Xiaoxiao was born, you will be so busy that you can't even touch the ground."

Chang Yuan said: "Ever since I knew I was going to be a father, I have become more aware of the responsibilities on my shoulders. Both you and I have worked hard on our own to this day. No one can rely on me. I have to take care of my family and give you two mothers and daughters. The burden of a happy life for my son. If you don’t work hard while you are young, the education expenses in the future will be a problem.”

Pan Xihong remained silent. Chang Yuan was right or wrong. After becoming a mother, money was indeed in greater demand for her than before, but she also needed companionship and help!
"My daughter-in-law has worked hard, and my daughter-in-law has been wronged!" Chang Yuan picked up his daughter, "My daughter is even more difficult. Today, our family of three has a meaningful weekend. Mom and Dad go out to play with a smile!"

The family of three walked out of the house happily, and a day passed in a blink of an eye. When she returned home, Pan Xihong's face became more and more gloomy.

Chang Yuan's complexion was not good, but he kept comforting his wife: "Xiaoxiao doesn't like to play with children. Like you said, it may be because there are too few people in contact with and the living environment is too simple. You don't have to react so violently. Xiaoxiao was frightened by you, knowing whether her emotions are always like this, it puts a lot of pressure on the people around her."

(End of this chapter)