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Chapter 57
Pan Xihong is pregnant!

It was like a bomb exploded in Lao Pan's and Chang's houses.

The two elders of the Chang family were ecstatic, and said that they would stay to serve their daughter-in-law. Their pensions were enough for their small family's expenses, and they spared money to continue treating Xiaoxiao.I only hope that Xiaoxiao's illness will be cured by then, and their grandson will be born.At that time, the young couple will have two children, one son and one daughter, happy and happy, thinking about it, they will wake up laughing in their sleep.

Chang Yuan had the same idea as his parents, the second child came at the right time, and after a long period of time, everyone was exhausted by laughing.The news brought dawn to the tired little and extended families alike.

But the Pan family has a different view on their daughter's pregnancy.Pan Xihong's emotional and physical condition has not been very good recently, and she is still running a fever. A smile has already killed half of her daughter's life. If she has another child, will her daughter be able to bear it physically and mentally? ?Besides, she still has to go to work, so she really doesn't want to work for the sake of her children?This is probably not the best policy!

Song Jiahui said: "If you want me to say, this child came at a really bad time. Even if you want a second child, you have to give Xihong a recuperation first. Today I went to the hospital because of a fever, but it was found that she was pregnant. It was so sudden. And didn't you say that you don't want your second child first, so why are you pregnant again?"

Chang's mother said with a smile: "It's God's will that a young couple stay together and have a child.Don't take medicine for fever, just carry it, it won't affect your child.I think Xihong's body is fine, but she eats too little to keep her figure.I have said a long time ago that as a mother, you can't think about your figure in everything! "

Song Jiahui said: "Chang Yuan's mother. Is Xi Hong so thin to lose weight? She is tired of taking care of her children while working."

Mother Chang said with a smile: "Old sister, at that time, which one of us didn't go to work while taking care of the children? Girls nowadays are too delicate."

Song Jiahui said: "I think you treat your son more delicately than you treat Xiaoxiao."

Chang's mother was choked by her in-laws, but she still kept a smile on her face, and only said to her daughter-in-law: "We persuaded you to have another child before, but Xihong refused to agree. Don't be stubborn anymore! You have to understand how we feel about being our hometown."

Always reticent to Chang's father, he also spoke at this time: "As long as Xihong can agree to give birth to this child, our Chang family will be a great hero to the Chang family. We will be responsible for the two children as grandparents. If the expenses are not enough, I will I can accept the re-employment of the unit and earn another salary. Grandpa is going all out."

Chang Yuan hurriedly said: "Mom and Dad, you don't have to worry about financial issues. I am also leading the students to do projects now. We can afford to raise two children by ourselves."

Pan Xihong remained silent, but upon hearing Chang Yuan's words, the corners of her mouth curled up inadvertently.Chang Yuan caught his wife's ridicule and asked directly: "Xihong, tell me what you think! We are all waiting for you to say it, what do you mean?"

"I mean" Pan Xihong looked at the room full of people, cherishing words like gold, "no life!"

Seeing that his parents' faces were not good-looking, Chang Yuan said to his wife: "Don't get angry all the time, okay, just forget about it with me, the elders are here. This is not your own business, and what you say doesn't count. .”

Pan Xihong said: "Chang Yuan, you have two big projects in succession, do you think you can control everything? If you have the ability, you can give birth by yourself. I don't care, but I won't give birth. What can you do?" ?”

Pan Guanlin said: "Xihong, speak well and don't be petty. My parents know that you have been working hard while recovering with a smile. We all know that, and Chang Yuan and your parents-in-law also understand."

Pan Xihong said: "No one knows except my parents. They all think it should be done."

As soon as these words came out, the air froze instantly.

Pan Xihong said: "The people sitting here are all intellectuals. I can see clearly what is true and what is false, and no one can fool anyone. I will just talk about a few problems. If we can have a good solution, this child I’ll just consider giving birth. On the contrary, if I don’t get a satisfactory answer, no matter how much truth is pressed on me, no matter how high-sounding the words are, I will not change my mind, and I will not even consider it.”

Chang's mother's face was extremely ugly, and she said coldly to her daughter-in-law: "Then you speak! In front of your own parents, we will listen carefully."

Pan Xihong said: "First, Chang Yuan promised me at the beginning that he would give Xiaoxiao treatment at all costs, but now, I found out that his so-called all costs were just sacrificing me. Now Chang Yuan even comes to see Xiaoxiao every day. I can’t do it even with a smile. Then when he has two children, what is his position for himself? Xiaoxiao was brought up by my parents and me when I was a child, and now I have another one. It was me and my parents who worked hard.”

"Did grandpa and grandma not want to take Xiaoxiao when I was young? You are too prickly."

Chang Yuan anxiously defended his parents, and Chang's mother stopped her son: "You let Xihong continue."

Pan Xihong said: "Secondly, money is a problem. Xiaoxiao's current medical expenses are subsidized by my parents. My grandparents said they used their pensions to help us, but in fact it is just your family of three in Xingang. Xiaoxiao and I live in my natal family for a long time for daily living expenses, so it can be counted on us no matter what.

And even if grandparents gave us 3 yuan at one time, but when you have a physical examination at the general hospital and non-invasive surgery, because the medical insurance cannot be used in other places, the money is often paid out, and several times of examination plus surgery Add up to about 4 yuan.You still earned 1000 yuan, but my parents didn’t mention the real money in order to help us reduce the burden, and they didn’t drink a goat milk powder that cost more than [-] yuan.They didn't take credit for it either. "

Chang's mother's face was flushed red, and her forehead was sweating because her daughter-in-law said these trivial things to her face.

Pan Xihong said: "So, to raise two children in the future, and Xiaoxiao is such a child who will spend a lot of money. The future expenses will not be as light as imagined. How should we pay? It is best to write it down in black and white."

Chang Yuan said: "You are also a doctoral student and a university teacher. Why are you so fussy like a petty citizen? We are all a family. Calculating these accounts will damage your temperament. You are no different from a housewife."

Pan Xihong continued: "Thirdly, I was not selected for this title. Everyone should see that a smile has changed my career a lot. If I have two children, my career may be completely on the verge of failure." How to calculate these accounts?"

Chang Yuan said: "It's all a family, why do you have to settle accounts for everything? Don't you think you are selfish? You are the mother of the children, you are my wife, and you are the daughter-in-law of the Pan family. Who do you settle with?" Woolen cloth?"

"Selfish?" Pan Xihong smiled, "In my family, the eldest sister has been selfless since she was a child. I am indeed selfish. But I never hide it, at least the outside is the same, so I can accept people like me, and I can't stand superficiality." It’s a trick behind the scenes. I don’t say anything about myself, but you have said all the beautiful things. On the surface, hello, hello, hello, everyone. I and myself are both responsible for the hardships and hardships and money. I don’t want to live in such a miserable life in the future.”

There was an unusually complicated atmosphere in the air, and the illusion of joy and harmony became sharp.

Pan Xihong said: "Fourth, if the second child is born, how long can the grandparents stay to take care of them? The grandmother at home is already 90 years old. In order to supplement our family, you have to go back and accept re-employment. That is to say, taking care of the children in the future will still be a burden. On the head of my parents. In the end, everything is exhausting me and my parents. You have said so much, but none of them have been implemented. "

"Fifth!" Pan Xihong said, her eyes suddenly turned red, "Fifth, if you give birth to a second child, this child, this child will be the same as Xiaoxiao? What will you do then? Divorce me? No, then wouldn’t I have lost my career, my good looks, and I’m no longer young, and I have to take care of two babies like this by myself, and I have to take care of my elderly parents, which will drag down my sister and nephew in the future , you only need to pay child support for one month.

If, Chang Yuan, your career was advancing by leaps and bounds when you were not remarried, maybe the alimony would be happy, but after Chang Yuan remarried, even the alimony would be like a charity.If the child born after your remarriage is healthy, then there will be no place for my child in your heart. If the child born after your remarriage is unhealthy, then you will have no time to take care of my child. "

Chang Yuan broke out completely. He threw the teacup on the ground and said loudly: "Pan Xihong, I have never seen a mother like you who cursed the child in her belly. Why did you put me and my parents together?" Why are you thinking so badly? What are you thinking in your mind? Are you writing novels?"

Pan Xihong said: "Because I am not an uneducated housewife. I have a Ph. D. Standing on the podium to teach and educate people with independent personality and independent discrimination ability, I will not be puaed by others. What happens in the future is up to me. See clearly."

Chang Yuan said: "I feel more and more that you are abnormal. Xiaoxiao has inherited your genes and is a neuropathy."

Pan Guanlin scolded angrily: "Chang Yuan, you are going too far. Whose house is this? Do you still see us two old people coming here to throw glasses and scold my wife? Are you okay at home? Your wife is right The words are harsh, but they are also true in many places. Take your attitude towards Xiaoxiao as an example, you are getting more and more disgusted. We all see it. No matter how many books you read, what is the use? You are calculating, you are all thinking about gains and losses, and you are using it to compare with others, you have read this book into the dog's mind."

At this moment, Chang's father suddenly said to Pan Xihong, "Xihong, can you just let me beg you? Give birth to this child. Our whole family begs you!"

Pan Xihong looked at her father-in-law from a distance, and said decisively: "No! I didn't answer a few questions of mine, and there is no room for discussion on this matter."

Pan Xihong wiped away the tears on her face, turned around and ran back to the house, took out her dazed daughter from the children's fence, and hugged her tightly in her arms.She and Chang Yuan fell in love with each other when they were young, they were talented and beautiful, and they were a couple that envied others wherever they went.To be more precise, Chang Yuan has been pursuing her.

But after giving birth, her figure began to lose shape. She made up for it by working out in time. Her career was hindered, and she tried her best not to fall behind.But Chang Yuan's career is booming, while her own career is stagnant.Knowing that Xiaoxiao had this disease, she was even more frightened, for fear that Chang Yuan's feelings for her would change.

But today, she has worked hard for a long time, but Chang Yuan has become more and more unfamiliar, and her attitude towards herself and Xiaoxiao has become more and more "arrogant".She felt that her life was becoming less and less like her, so any compromising was meaningless, she would rather be the arrogant and selfish Pan Xihong, at least she was happy in her heart.Since they didn't want to give Xiaoxiao any more love at all, then she had no reason to continue spoiling them, so she just talked about everything.

She feels that the marriage has come to the present, and the reality has brought out many unbearable things in her life, such as worrying about her husband's gains and losses, blaming her for his unsightly face, and thinking that she owes her husband because of her daughter's illness. It seemed to be clear in an instant. Since she was ready to take care of her daughter alone, why did she have to compromise?
(End of this chapter)